Hey everyone..
My gf just got left me for i wanted to kiss her while we are shopping together inside a mall. I invited her inside to a changing cabin at a clothing store for a kiss. And she replied to me like i treated her like a bitch for inviting her for a kiss in a cabin. And she is not talking to me like 2 weeks.. What to do?
>>17978198
sounds like she's fucking another guy
>>17978198
>What to do?
Learn english
>>17978211
Well she is not with someone atm. And blocked me on every social media platform like fb insta and whatsapp..
Hey guys, need a bit of help. Found this black thing on my thigh, hurts a bit when there's pressure put into it. Also there's a pimple next to it, idk if it's related to it.
it's an ingrown hair ya dumdum
>>17978192
Oh wow lol, I've never had one
>>17978236
You can just lance it. Just sanitize the needle first.
Spoiler: It's gonna hurt like a bitch
I've fucking lost my marbles man.
I've quit 3 perfectly good jobs because everyone was getting on my freakin nerves.
Well the next job I get i'm gonna stick in there forever, no matter what happens. I'll stick in there like a fucking asshole ROCK. I'm going to be immovable, you cunts.
>>17978148
Cool
What have your problems been with them? I mean there's such a thing as job satisfaction and if you're not happy then all power to you for having the balls to up and leave (three times no less), but is there a possibility you're being pedantic?
Work places are always going to be an amalgamation of personalities. There's always going to be clashes. I can't stand some of the people at my work but you stick to the ones who you like and you'll be fine.
Have you ever thought that you were actually the cunt?
I was just about to get to bang, but when it was time to fuck my dick went too soft to penetrate. Any tips?
Go into make out session without adding the pressure of definite sex.
Stop porn and fap for at least 1 week.
Buy Viagra (SRS just do it, just ween off it after successful aex with girl. Think of it as training wheels)
>>17978111
Sounds like performance anxiety. I used to get it alot because in my head i was always thinking 'is my dick too small' 'am i gonna last more than 1 minute' 'am i gonna fuck good' and i turned a simple thing into a battle on my mind.
I got over it by one day just not giving a fuck. I was kinda mad at the girl and didnt care to see her again so i didnt want to impress her. Low and behold i was rock solid. I tapped it good and she had that look in her face like "holyshit". Never soft again after that.
>>17978149
skipping fapping is what im going to do and i don't know where i can buy Viagra though.
She broke my fucking heart.
She called me over to her friends house to fuck, we did, but she didn't finish and she said she was tired.
I went through her phone, and she was hitting up guys, including her ex, all the way up to last night.
I saw everything, her sexting, her tinder, everything.
And she calls me to tell me she loves me. She was the first girl to ever say that to me. The first girl. I took that so seriously, I said track and I meant it 100%.
Fuck I am hurting so badly, all the guys she was texting were big and muscular, I'm skinny and I'm just not attractive to her.
Fuck this is painful guys
I keep replaying the image of her sucking her ex's dick. "When he let's you dick his dick but won't fuck you" FUCK she actually texted that to him.
FUCK FUCK DUCK DUCO DUCKFUCK
>>17978082
>She broke my fucking heart
then you break her spine
>>17978086
I'm such a nice guy, I told her I was with no one else, she dodged the question when I asked her.
Fuck my dick and fingers still smell like her. She texted 3 dudes before me last night and they didn't respond.
This hurts so fucking much. The worst fucking part is that we weren't together. We were talking, she told me she loved me and I fucking believed it.
ay man I just gout out of a 3 year relationship in a similar way.
my girl says she loves me, wants to get married all this bullshit. we live together. the other day I see she texting some dude behind my back trying to hang out with her. and it's funny because he was responding back to a text that wasn't there. meaning my GF is deleting text messages from other dudes to avoid detection.
shit sucks man. i got pissed and she to go to her moms place in L.A. dunno if she will ever be back, dunno if i want her back.
shit sucks man. they will say they love u to your face then move on some other guy when they got the slightest chance.
Are there any places online where I can meet a girl ugly/lonely/desperate enough to date me?
I'm
>24
>kissless virgin
>very ugly
>manlet
>thin, and I take care of myself (only physical redeeming quality)
>pretty much never talked to a girl outside of work or school because autism and insecurity
>only have autistic hobbies (vidya, anime, Dungeons and Dragons)
I figure people like me are destined to die alone, but I keep getting lonelier every year and can't stop wanting companionship.
>>17978055
Here is good. Craigslist.
4chan.
>>17978987
>>17978990
If you're into dudes.
Sub /adv/ I think my girlfriend is cheating on me so here it goes
>her twitter is logged in my phone
>some asshole sent her this picture of a huge stuffed bear and a bag
>saw it
>she deletes it
>asked her what the hell was that
>"its my friend, he bought gifts for the girl he's courting anon"
>okay
>after like 3 mins or so I was logged out of her twitter account on her phone
>told her I was logged out
>she wont give me her twitter account anymore
can anyone help me? Its so shady given the circumstances
Make more observations, don't assume from one piece of evidence. This could also mean she has a strong privacy moral. Observe more and deduce with certainty. Don't be an idiot by assuming shit.
Well, if you find said bear in her possession, you have reason to suspect. But until then, you got nothin.
>>17978041
well why would she show it to me in the first place then?
>>17978038
this guy, shes been hanging out with her since childhood man, one time she wont reply to my messages for hours then I found out that shes with that dick
I'm a bisexual girl, but I've never had any luck with either gender. I'm reasonably attractive, so if I wanted it casual sex would be no issue, but I don't want that. I want a relationship.
Do no decent men exist? Do no decent women exist? I've had 3 relationships, all of which were abysmal failures (one cheated on me, the only girl was quite abusive and the other one was a compulsive liar).
I'm really depressed at the moment. Will I ever find love?
>>17978005
>I'm really depressed at the moment. Will I ever find love?
no
the problem is you not people. You get what you give.
>>17978005
>I'm a bisexual girl
uuuh
tits?
>>17978013
Well, I try to be as kind to people as I can be, I fall in love, I've been told I'm good in bed, I try to think of others before myself etc. I'm a good friend, according to all my friends. It's just the romance thing.
So I am thinking of moving out, I'm 32, and still live at home, and it would be nice to be on my own and be peaceful also to go on dates, have a place to bring girls too, or hell be able to leave for a date and not have to let anyone know where I am going.
Anyways I make $31,900 a year before taxes.
My bi-weekly check is $826 about after everything gets taken out (401k, medical, dental, taxes) so could I live by myself in an apartment? Studio or 1 bedroom this would be in Bucks County, PA, thinking of around Levittown.
My car is paid off, so I just pay insurance, cell phone is $35, gas is like $20 a week and then other few things,
>>17977997
You can afford a car but not a place to live? Fucking America
Yes you can move out get yourself a studio apartment and grow the fuck up
>>17977997
I just did what you should have done instead of coming here - googled "rentals bucks county pa" and found that 1 br apartments range from about $700 upwards. That would make your rent close to 40% of your take-home income, which is high, but do-able.
Now grow up and do the rest of the work yourself.
>>17977997
Can you get a second part time job? That will be unpleasant.
I'm 35 and make about $40,000k a year before taxes and live in an area that seems similar in price to yours and ugh. It sucks.
Any advice on how to approach girls who are with friends?
>>17977871
Interested in this too, especially how to not anger the girls I didn't hit on.
>>17977871
>>17977886
Don't. If you have to ask how, you are already doomed to fail. Only the Chaddest of Chads can make it out of that situation with their spaghetti still in their pockets
Don't. We're with our friends for a reason, and it's not to find a hookup or a date. Don't interrupt female bonding time.
So I turned 18 recently, last October and I tried using dating apps because I'm a little socially awkward, I felt this was the easiest way to meet someone like me. But after a couple months of getting minimal replies/ likes with all of them ending after 1 or 2 responses I've started to question my perception of myself.
This is why I came here. I wanted to know what you guys/gals think of me, and how I might improve myself to seem more appealing.
Also general face rate and improvements thread.
Took pic last night after I came back from a get together with some friends. Also as you might be able to tell I don't take pictures of myself very often, so sorry if picture is cringy.
>>17977868
>I've started to question my perception of myself. This is why I came here.
That's how you can tell right off the bat that there is something wrong with you
>>17977868
You already know the answer, if you dont like taking a picture of yourself you already know your asthetics are shit.
1 kn0 u I hope u g3t rekt anally
I got a toe infection weeks ago, the nail detached from the cuticle. Now it's better and no longer in pain but it looks like this. Its been 3 weeks - will the nail ever reattach? What do?
>>17977849
>What do?
reall?
GO TO THE FUCKING DOCTOR
>>17977854
Wrong! Correct answer is to wear a high visibility vest
>>17977849
I once dropped a book on my big toe nail right at the cuticle. Gradually over a week the underside of the nail bruised deep blue/black and eventually the nail itslef fell off and i had only a healing yellow bruised toe.
It took a very long time to fully grow back in, half a year i think.
Hi /adv/, I have strange problems with identity. It annoys me when I see people using something insignificant to represent themselves ("I'm a Yankees fan" or "As a pipe smoker.."), but at the same time, I feel like I'm an incredibly bland person who has no idea how to present himself. I feel these things may annoy me because I have no identity of my own or that I'm not proud of anything I have to offer.
What do I do?
>>17977842
Set aside the thought of not having anything to offer, how do you identify yourself?
>>17977842
Identify yourself as an autist OP
>>17977842
What exactly are you asking from us, hobby suggestions?
We can't tell you what to be interested in.
I have always struggled with visioning something in my mind from the very beginning tilll the end. Evrything is blurry and I can't see faces; movements are slow ,something like I try to see someone running but I can't see the process only where it stopped running And it's like that with everything.Everything that I do comes somehow instinctively and when trying to tell myself what i did or what i want to do , i just can't finish a sentance withouth blocking and having black inside my mind. Whenever someone is explaining something to me , I have to retell everything after it has been said until my mind process it all (even simple things) and when trying to see what I remember it's like I don't even know what has been talked about the entire time. I talked to a psychologist about it and before going , I tried to put everything in order so she can undestand what i'm struggling with but everything came out wrong , picturing myself as a lazy person who's not trying enough in anything. This affects everything. Help.
And why would anyone give a flying fuck.
>>17977824
Same here. Instead I got the superior "understands multistep and complex mathematical calculations" mind gene. Mathematics will make you a lot more money than art will
>>17977945
But is there a problem? Do you know what's going on?
What do I do if I have no friends? Everywhere I go people just use me for my stuff and as a punching bag. I'm a passifist so I don't really like to start problems but holy shit I just want friends. Even if I do find friends to chill with then one of their friends end up being dicks.
Despite all this I'm still pretty extroverted. I like to go out to parties hang out with groups of people and meet people. I just feel like I have to get in fights everywhere I go because of everyone fucking with me and to make it all worse I live in a small town so I can't even meet new groups of friends.
>>17977740
>tfw OP fell for the need "friends" meme
>>17977753
I feel like a loser piece of shit without any and I need to get out of the house or I go crazy and my anxiety flares up
Also if I get a gf they always have a riveting social life and tons of friends and stories. I have none
>>17977740
"passifist"
lol dead af senpai
when people give you shit fire back homie, sometimes I come up with insults about people just in case they try and say some bitch shit about me