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How do I stop having a nihilistic and overly rational mindset?

For example: "Why would I want to do X activity/thing? It is either pointless or there isn't a logical reason to do it, nor does it make sense that it will contribute to fulfilling a goal."

Therefore I believe that I can't simply think things through, I would have to change the way that I think.
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Can you be more specific? What kind of activities?
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>>18013796
Socializing with others

Taking up hobbies in general
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Well first you stop being an edgy fifteen year old.

Life has no inherent purpose which means you are free to do with it as you please. Socializing and having hobbies is fun. You do them for the sake of your own enjoyment, or for the enjoyment of others. That is as logical a justification as you will ever need.

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Are braces worth it? I never had them due to a variety of issues, primarily lymphoma which I am now finally over. I'm going on 19 and I'm wondering if this shit is worth it. I'm not too worried about looking like an idiot with the braces on, but they're really expensive.

Are braces at my age worth it? Anyone have experience with them beyond or near 19-20?
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They're worth it if you have a legitimate health reason. If it's just cosmetics it's never worth it unless your teeth are downright comical. A decade later I STILL have tiny bits of dental glue stuck to my teeth that they could never get off.
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>suffer 2 years and get perfect teeth

>Live rest of your life a scared bitch with fucked teeths.

I got my braces for the 2nd time yesterday. My teeth went back after the first time, this time im getting a surgery after 2 years of wearing them.

TL:DR
Stop being a bitch and get them. It,s now or never.
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if you're insecure about the way your teeth or smile looks I'd say they're definitely worth it

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Moving from Washington to California this year. What do I need to know before moving to a different state?
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>>18013728
go back and stay in Washington....trust me...unless you're deciding on moving inland or in the desert or mountains, I hope you have a stockpile of money to pay for the ridiculous rent here in OC. Just my 0.02
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>>18013728
Stay the FUCK away from the Latinas

They look hot as hell,yes, and that's the reason why some of them even have kids. BUT they're all fucking crazy.

And stay -EXTRA- FUCKING FAR from the women who want to be or say they are MUAs(Make Up Artists) or Cosmetologists.
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>>18013728
Stay back in Washington and never come here. You'll forever be tainted with residual Californian radiation, toxifying every place you go even unintentionally.

California is the chernobyl of the country. It might have the highest minimum wage, a shit ton of places to explore, lots of people, and weed...but it's not worth it when the rent's high, fucking eggs are 4 bucks A DOZEN, people are extremely liberal or just extreme altogether, and this place will wear on you after even a month living here...unless you live in the sanctuaries known as resorts, motels, and shit far away from the regular culture.

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I had a seizureo n Monday night and I'm pretty sure I pulled a muscle. I'm still having trouble raising my elbow very high.

Anybody with experience in pulled muscles, should I see a doctor? I've been told just to relax and let it heal.
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Pulled muscle, yes - you can heal that with rest, warm compresses, and maybe some Bengay.

Strained or ripped muscle, see a doctor. Is it very painful? If it's uncomfortable or even up to a 6 or 7 of 10 on the pain scale, it'll be fine.

Most people have enough common sense to know if they need to see a doctor. You probably are fine, but don't hesitate if you think you're not.
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>>18013718
It hurt when it happened but doesn't really anymore. Just feels very weak.

Can I expect a weeks-long recovery?
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>>18013705
How you know?

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I just wanna begin with saying I get off to fatties, I can't help it and I'm not gonna try.

However, when trying to date one, I'm totally unsure how to approach when said large girl's weight or physique comes into question. I can't say she looks great at her weight because it'll affirm she's fat and I can't say she isn't because that would be a horrible fucking lie

What do
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Feed them. They're fat for a reason.
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>>18013703
Oh I fully intend on doing so, I get off on that too

But that doesn't answer what I should do or say if her physique comes into question from her, I dunno what the right thing to say would be. "I dig fatties so you're hot to me" doesn't sound like a great answer
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>>18013659

just say shes beautiful thats it. if she asksi f she should lose weight, say nah. if she asks if shes fat say 'kinda, nothing wrong with that tho

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Tell something to someone who has the means of killing themselves tonight. I keep thinking about the people that I would leave behind but at the same time I feel like I'm in so much pain right now. I've also read this

>inb4 cracked

http://www.cracked.com/article_15658_the-ten-minute-suicide-guide.html

help
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>>18013638

dont do it?
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Look within at why you feel that way and try to understand that life isn't all or nothing. It's a shitshow that goes great for some, bad for others, and for most people it's both.

My father always says, "things get worse before they get better"
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dont do it, things will get better the only thing suicide will accomplish is making your friends and loved ones feel guilty.. i normally dont comment on stuff like this. today is different not only because its my 38th birthday its different also because my best friend of 25 years ended his own life by hanging himself yesterday morning .. please dont put your friends and family through this... things will get better reach out to people you are close to they will help you.. if you are afraid to talk to them.. call a hotline do anything just dont kill yourself...

I am planning a (1P)LSD trip with a female friend/acquaintance.
It is going to be her first LSD trip and my second trip. We have done moderate amounts of shrooms together in the past. We agreed it was a great time.

I currently have 3 tabs à ~100ug.
>for her i planned 100ug (good beginner dose)
>for myself i am not sure whether to go for 100 or 200ug.
My first LSD trip had been alone with 100ug and quite intense (my set was quite 'messy' at the time). It involved intense crying and awe (insightful trip).

There are two concerns i have concerning dosage:
1) Can i handle 200ug, especially with another person there, also tripping? Having never done 200ug i don't know how strong it would hit.
2) I tend to prefer to keep dosages between trip partners similar to be on the same 'wavelength'. 100ug vs 200ug is quite a difference i read.
Redosing is clearly a waste.
Also:
Is it weird or even 'risky' to be LSD tripping with a girl who has a bf you don't actually know?

>experiences would be really welcome.
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Venue is important on acid. Where you guys planning on tripping? I'd pick somewhere naturey if I were you.

Also, doing anything with members of the opposite sex is risky.
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>>18013621
>assuming 12h trip (my personal exp).
Starting at around 3pm and spend some time in the park. Then spend sundown outside in some fields near my home. Go back to my place once it gets dark with music and see where stuff leads. She is a painter, so she might want to paint and such.
We are probably going to stay 1:1 for the entirely of the trip, no third parties.
IME Acid is quite exhausting and she might stay over (instead of cycling home at 3 am).

>risky
Have any experiences?
When we tripped on shrooms, i had a lingering longing for intimacy. And a confused comedown.
She said the next day that she had felt a bit exposed and vulnerable (generally not only with me).
We both agreed that it was quite a valuable experience though and worth repeating. The chemistry during the trip was great.

I don't know how LSD might replicate/amplify/do to this chemistry.
And how sex may result from this. And how i should approach the topic, should it come up.
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Gonna tell you now dude it's best to avoid even seeing other people when you're on acid, you'll start to think they all know what you're doing and you'll probably be scared. At least from what I've experienced. Also you can always just take another tab once you're an hour or two into the trip and you think you're ready. It's probably best to go for 1 tab if you really have to ask though.

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Were you guys ever able to get back with an Ex after she broke up with you?

This girl, she broke up with me and I love her to death. It seemed more like she really needed a break.

I don't know what to do, what are your experiences guys?
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>>18013572
>It seemed more like she really needed a break.
If that's true, then she'll come back.
If it's not, then get the fuck over it.
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>>18013579
shiiiieeet
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Haha get over it my dude

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sup /adv/, /v/ here.

Being from /v/, I was convinced I was going to remain a permavirgin. I'm not really that attractive, I'm overweight, and I'm pretty sure the only thing I have going for me is my humor.
But now there's this girl I met in some of my classes and we really seem to get along. I knew her last semester and really fell for her, but it wasn't until now that she really started talking with me. Just a while ago she agreed to hang out this weekend with our roommates.

I'm really hoping to start a meaningful relationship with her. Should I not get my hopes up? Or do you realistically think I may have a chance?
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if you pull the lever, you don't kill anyone
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>>18012858
If you don't pull the lever, no one dies and a baby is born.
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>>18012826
Head up high, hopes down low. It may happen, so be prepared. But also don't be too disappointed if it doesn't work out

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I'm probably going to graduate college as a virgin, is this it? Have I failed at social development?

There was one girl who I thought I had a chance with but I've misread signs in an embarrassing way and it's going to be a struggle to even maintain friendship with her and our friend group

I don't think I can meet someone I like and convince them to do sex to me before May, so I'm guessing this is it. Should I just buy an escort this summer?
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The only persons who'll care about you being a virgin is your future girlfriend and your mom if she wants grandkids. You've got friends and an education, you're not a social failure
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Yes you should hire an escort. You don't "buy an escort" unless you're some sort of billionaire. There is no legitimate issue about escorts, of course be safe.
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I know plenty of people who have graduated virgins. It's not a big deal unless you make it one.

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This is going to sound really fucking obnoxious but here goes anyway:

Everything just seems to work out for me and it's killing me. I've spent my entire life putting off responsibility and coasting on intelligence and superficial charm and even when things finally catch up to me there are never any consequences.

Shit, the first time it even happened I was already 21; my grades got repeatedly fucked by 5-absence auto-F rules (I literally never went to any class unless there was a test to take) and I got kicked out of school.

I was immediately given a (shit, data entry) job with my best friend's father and within a week I had gotten in good with the head accountant and been assigned a subset of his duties to lighten his workload. Within 6 months I had enough for a down payment on a condo.

I then (again, no degree, kicked out of school) got a job with an AI startup and became one of maybe 5 people in the world capable of building applications for its framework which led to an extremely cushy software dev job (which I still constantly risk by doing literally nothing all day until a project is coming up and I scramble and half-ass it)

I have never heard anything but praise regarding my work despite always half-assing things and procrastinating like a fiend

I don't feel like I deserve anything I have and I feel like a fraud whose world will come crashing down any minute - yet it never does.

How do I not feel like such a piece of shit; preferably without actually changing to not be a piece of shit
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>>18012737
Actually put effort into your work, then you won't feel like shit when you are praised because it will be well deserved.

If you can't do this, then you deserve to feel like a fraud.
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>>18012737
Use your position to help others, family.
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>>18012737
there is no such thing as justice, so there is no point in feeling one way or another about your luck
alternatively, you can trade your guilt for the knowledge that when something terrible inevitably does happen to you, you will be supremely unprepared to deal with it, having never experienced hardship
alternatively, just donate your undeserved salary to /r9k/ NEETs

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How do I just make lust towards women (or specifically 3D bitches) go the fuck away? I hate young women anyway so I'm wasting my time but my reproductive system always gets the better of my rationality and compels me to chase butches just so I can get my dick inside them. Of course I'm a goddamn nerd so I'm doing it on vain anyway so it proves to just be a distraction from life and when I fail my hatred towards women gets stronger. I don't want to be Elliot Rodgers II.
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>>18012724
See a therapist or cut your balls off
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>>18012724
As >>18012734 said, go see a therapist, it's unhealthy to harbor anger towards such a huge demographic and to be out of touch with your needs.
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>>18012734
>>18012742
Therapists are hacks and a waste of money. They charge hundreds of bucks to just shoot the bull at you and they're not going to change the chemical makeup of my brain or anything. They're essentially emotional prostitutes, and I'm not even that fucked up to begin with. Just annoyed.

I wasn't being literal about the Elliot Rodgers thing. I'm not sociopath.

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Hello there. I am a 19 year old male, and i occasionaly work graveyard shifts at a local gas station, sometimes, during these shifts at early hours of the morning, i become EXTREMELY irritated and angry, out of nowhere. I'm just sitting around like normal and then BAM, i'm seething with rage. I have no idea whats causing this and it never happens at any other time, if i stay up till the same time at home, nothing happens. Only at work. This kind of worries me as i have rarely ever been as angry or irritated as i am during that time. Anyone got any ideas as to what could be causing this?
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>>18011898
Brain tumor.
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>>18011898
Brain tumor.
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>>18011898
brain tumor

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Now he won't talk to me, for the record I didn't cheat but i did confess to the following

>thinking about being gangbanged
>wanting him to ditch condoms and just use pill
>being molested as a early teen
>being way stupider than i let on
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>>18011730
The fact that you said you didnt cheat makes me think that you cheated
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Damn you've got baggage.

Let him chill on it for a bit. It's nothing devastating, but he still has to recoup.
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Talk to your boyfriend. Ask him which of the confession bothers him. Ask him if he wants to talk about it. Ask him how you can make it better.

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Is nofap a meme
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>>18009956
Meme or not, it made my boyfriend vanilla and boring.
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Pretty much. You'll have a tricky time finding people outside the redpill/pua communities suggesting it and that includes the real life chads they have such love and hate for.
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>>18009963
No, your retarded kinks and constant demands made him vanilla and boring.

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