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I am stress out my boyfriend by being insecure. I can tell he is gradually becoming less fulfilled because I make him less and less happy and more and more stressed, and he doesn't like that. Should I break up with him to let him find happiness with someone else faster, or should I continue trying to change my insecurity?
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>>18074732
*stressing out
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>>18074732
Please help because I am torn
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>>18074732
What exactly do you do that stresses him out?
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Hi /adv/
I'm most likely gonna have sex in 2 hours. We're both 21, she's not a virgin.
1.should I tell her before?
2.how do I suck least?
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>>18074607
1. fuck her right in the pussy
2.????
3.¿¿¿¿¿
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>>18074614
Thank you.
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>>18074617
ok fine you deserve some advice...
You probably should tell her I mean are you guys you hooking up or is it some kind of SO to you?
Second, use a condom or those gels you put on your dick to be less sensitive.
Give more context famalam
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How to nofap if no gf? A DILEMMA 2017-02-23 02:59:24 Post No.18074596
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How to nofap if no gf? A DILEMMA
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I've been trying nofap several times now – the urge always was TOO strong after 12-18 days. Im then lying in my bed awake all night, perma boner, perma fantasizing about sex. I can keep this for 2-3 nights, but it's getting so redicolous that I can't hold it, have to fap. I'm not porn addicted; I don't care about porn; of course I watch it, but I can easily keep it away – but nofap? How is that possible without having sex than with a rl woman?
tl;dr:
problem: I have no gf, I'm perma virgin and never had one.
solution: nofap
result: INEXECUTABLE cause after 12-18 days I'm so horny that I only have two options:
1.: fap, with or without porn doesn't matter, I just can't hold it
2.: hooker, maybe for a BJ only
What do?
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Just reduce, no need to cut completely. Masturbating is healthy, it's like anything - it's bad in excess. Just cut down a bit till you're only jerking it 1-3 times a week and I think that's fine
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>>18074596
Nofap is not full abstinense. You can do it a couple times a week. Just don't do it thrice a day.
Also, nofap won't get you a gf.
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>Also, nofap won't get you a gf.
Well, the time I nofap, I strongly feel a difference in self esteem and how I think woman recognize me – which has a huge impact on how I interact with them (look at them (normally not possible), smile at them, or EVEN talk to them).
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The story is sexually graphic so heads up
>go on date months ago with girl from work, pretty hot with huge ass
>we talk dirty and share our fetishes and how she wants a dom sub relationship that's master slave almost
>never done that before but whatever
>don't hang out with her again until like 5 months later. She invites me over for drinks
>start making out, she wants the bdsm thing and we agree to a safety word
>I get super horny and I'm pushing to wanting to eat her out or get a blow job and she says no wait for next time but she's calling me master and that I'm her slave and shit so I play along and say no you will because I'm your master etc etc
>she says no but then I ask her if she wants to use the safe word as I am kissing her and she says no so I continue then being pushy
>she agrees to just letting me cum on her back to "mark my territory" for next time
>tells me it was one of the hottest nights of her life even though we did not fuck or even do oral
>says she's really excited for next time and wants to fully fuck this time since she will feel ready
>wake up to a test this morning saying she feels like i took advantage of her
I'm freaking out guys, I don't want this chick pulling the I said yes but then regretted it and is actual sexual assault the next day card and have her ruin my life. Wtf should I do? I'll never hit her up again after that text but I assure on everything that I asked her if she wanted to use the safety word when I was being pushy and she said no. Hell I never even touched her or saw her naked cept her ass for a second.
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>>18074560
Do you have any texts from her about the "Master Slave" thing and all that shit?
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>>18074560
Sorry OP, but this advice is for everyone else reading the thread: Don't jump into kinky shit with strangers unless someone else can vouch for them. Extra "no" if you've never done it yourself. Double "no" if the other person has never done it.
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>>18074560
This is why you make a contract.
As well, get a talk with her / her explaining to you why she feels that way; In the conversation get her to admit the way it went, and secretly record everything in your pocket.
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So there's this guy i've been liking secretly for 3 months and he's really quiet but likes to start conversations with me and yet he doesn't even look at other girls.. anyway last week i just met his mom and the next day she suddenly said to my mom that we should go to their house and have dinner tonight.
I think he may like me? What other reason would his mom call us over for dinner when she doesn't even know my family!?
Apparently, she told my mom that her husband wanted to know my dad because they have similar professions
Should i go with my parents to their house? what does she really meant by calling us over?
sorry im autistic
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>>18074505
You better go. If anything you have a chance to be around him more so stop over thinking it.
My guess he has been talking about you at home.
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>>18074505
Shit, I'll admit, that's kinda weird, I mean most people just meet their family, not invite their WHOLE family, but hey maybe they are foreign and they are into that.
He may certainly have a thing for you, I would say bring up the subject matter of maybe going to the park or arcade and see if you can get the two of you secluded where you can talk about your feelings and some place where they can't be any miscommunication or misunderstandings. Always be upfront, but not intimidating.
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thanks... i'll go :D
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How do you become an interesting person? Through hobbies? What realistic hobbies should a 25 year old KHHV neet have?
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discuss lego videos with fellow autists, my good man
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Why not start by getting a job.
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>>18074494
There isn't a "should have". Just having a job and a project for the future should give you something to talk about.
Do what you like and you'll meet like-minded people.
My only skills are being fluent in 3 languages, how do I somehow turn this into a career?
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Where do you come from ?
What are the three language you can speak fluently ?
How old are you ?
Did you travel ?
Did you already work ?
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>>18074454
What languages
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>>18074454
Translator job
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Hello all, i don't know if it's the right place to ask this, but i fear my thread would be quickly prunned on /v or /vg.
I'm a french student and i'm currently looking for an internship. And i'm failing finding one. The thing is when i don't struggle finding an internship opportunity, i have nothing else to do. I have a lot of free time on my hands. And this lonelyness, the failures stacking (employers always end declining my application), begin to hit me hard.
I need to empty my head. And so, I was wondering if it would be worth it if i played wow again.
The problem is, last time i played was 2 years ago, and at this time i loved raiding. I was wondering if it was possible to catch up, max a character 110 and then raid seriously with a guild. How many time would it take ? (i have lvl 100 characters).
If you think it's fucked for me, then maybe i will do something else like hitting the gym or jogging.
Apart that, what piece of advice could you give to a young student who struggle finding a job/internship, and begins to lose hope ?
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>>18074447
i don't think playing wow will help you with your problems. what might actually happen is that you just delay your application process, because you found something else to spend time on and regret it afterwards.
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>>18074447
Takes about 2 full days of play to level to 110. Getting geared enough to raid depends on how lucky you are and whether or not you have friends to help you, or if you can find a raid group that's willing to take a little time to get you up to speed.
I wouldn't look at wow to be a solution to any of your problems, and in fact getting immersed in it to forget about your troubles can be a problem. For me, wow is a little problematic, but a lot of my social life is there and it keeps me from getting in trouble in other ways.
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I'd honestly do a different MMO. It will be a more balanced experience where you'll start from the ground up instead of being in a world that's simultaneously familiar and confusing and running around in circles trying to understand what the new norms are.
Or yeah desu just go to the gym.
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I was horrible with women back in 2013. 2017-02-23 12:25:15 Post No.18074446
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I was horrible with women back in 2013.
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I sound like such a fucking pussy to this badass motherfucker lol. Ranch with them tits lolz.
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Anyone?
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>>18074446
Go to bed Anthony.
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I ain't anthony
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Basically I was talking to this girl for about 4-5 months and then one day we start arguing because I felt she didn't care any more and she said she didn't want anything anymore,then month and a half later she starts talking to a guy again from before us who threatened her for nudes and shit... Can somebody work this out or am I the only one that thinks this shits dumb?? Then she calls me controlling when I start getting concerned....????? I'm not crazy am I for fuck sake
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There's something in certain people's head where they can't say no to a certain person, although you might have been great for her, her subconscious was giving her reasons to argue with you so she could go back to him, you can't do anything about this and you shouldn't, just let her mess up and get hurt again cause it's not your problem, stupid fighting for a girl that doesn't even know in her own head who's right for her
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>>18074415
lol
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>>18074419
Ikr
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Masturbation Addiction 2017-02-23 11:29:52 Post No.18074395
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So I got a MASSIVE masturbation addiction. Been fapping since age 12 and have jerked it at LEAST 5 times a day for 18 years. I tried everything short of cutting my dick off, i stopped watching porn, watched enough not to need it. Stopped using lube, I used a different methood. Got 6 freinds with benifits so casual sex will sate it, but even with almost daily sex (which only lasted one week it was a clusterfuck of a schedual) i still masturbated about 7 times a day. One day, I forced myself to not fap, cracked a quart of tequila to keep myself entertained and woke up with an empty bottle, a cum covered right hand, 17 tabs of porn and a browser history so bad and long i bought a new hard drive and locked the shards of my old one buried 6 feet under in my yard (really short sighted, had to buy another copy of windows) and I've relapsed into my porn addiction, gained (or really just realized) an alcahol addiction and am up to 10 faps a day. What do I do.
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I thought my one fap a day was an addiction
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Grow a spine? Some willpower will take you a long way in life. Learn how to say no and not buckle 20 minutes later.
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>>18074404
I was more asking if i should do something.
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What's a good job to pay bills with while trying to make it as an artist?
I recently left my last job in engineering, after several years of doing this I have no intention of getting another job in engineering since it requires me to devote a lot of my time in and out of work to absorbing and learning new practices. Constantly being immersed in that didn't leave time to work on art long enough for it to take off as my full-time job. My ideal is to make $2400 a month without having to invest more than 40 hours a week, I can work most jobs with technical requirements because of my background.
I'm considering working as a pizza deliveryman since it pays modestly well for the time involved, allows me to listen to e-books on the job for learning, and won't mentally drain me when I go home to work on art. It also gets me out of the house (unlike online jobs). Working as a bar-back also seems pretty nice.
Others recommended transcribing (not very stable since it's on-call), dogwalking (I will be too exhausted when I go home to work on art), house-sitting (more difficult to find work since I am male), waiting tables (extremely stressful and need to be on feet for entire day), or customer support call-centers (does not pay very well).
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Teaching - if your state allows "visiting artists" without teaching qualifications
Consulting - some tech companies would rather pay you $100 an hour for short-term projects than have you an employee with health plan, pension, etc.
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>Teaching - if your state allows "visiting artists" without teaching qualifications
I forgot to mention I also considered tutoring (or working as a teaching assistant at a nearby college) for drawing. However, job availability for that is very inconsistent.
>Consulting - some tech companies would rather pay you $100 an hour for short-term projects than have you an employee with health plan, pension, etc.
What is the actual work that you do when you are "consulting"? Are you actually just working as an engineer but on a very disposable short-term project?
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>engineering to pizza delivery
what the hell dude.
do consulting or teaching or something, don't be stupid.
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Hello my friends,
So there is that grill that seems pretty into me. She always ask if I am going to hang out with her and the others (we have mutual friends). We chat and all.
Yesterday I took her to the pub with me. When I wanted to buy her a beer she said she will buy something for herself (is it how women want to be independent nowadays?). We had fun and talked about us, our plans and other more fun stuff. However i do not really know how to accelerate stuff, I asked her if she wants to repeat such hang out, and she was like "yeah sure!" (I hope she does not treat it as "friendly" hang outs) I was thinking that after the next meet up I will invite her to mines, where I prepare some food and watch some movies. What do you think? What do you think about overall situation? Is it too soon to invite her to my place?
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Bump,
any opinions guys?
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>>18074343
I never let a guy buy me drinks so they don't feel like I owe them something.
Ask if she wants to go on a date? Don't just say "do you wanna hang out?"
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>>18074483
yep. Ask her out on a date and not to your house.
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Advice for a guy with a 3 inch penis? (pic kinda related)
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>>18074260
Have you considered being gay? This guy can be your first partner >>18074214
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>>18074260
how old are you. just gonna repost this
dont let it get to you man. When I was in high school I was terrified I had a tiny dick. Like I figured Id be lucky if I were even 5 inches. Too afraid to measure so I just let it get to. then in college I started getting laid and a girl measured me and it was over 7. Point is it doesnt matter until you get sexually active and then it only matters if the girl who matters cares. Not this general stigma of small penis is bad. I let it cripple me when I wasnt even small. Small penis shame is way too big in our society.
If its any consulation, I dont know if its because i started having sex, or just a penis growth spurt, but around 21-22 my dick gained another inch so Im a little over 8" bone pressed now. So remember you could still gain an inch or 2 by the time you can drink.
Also lastly, anything under 3.5 inches is considered a medical condition called micropenis and if you are 3 inches bonepressed go to the doctors now. While youre still in puberty and growing they have a much better chance of fixing micropenis with hormones vs when youre older and your body doesnt want to change anymore. I know its embarrassing to tell your parents you have to go to the doctor for your small dick, but swallow your pride now because the older you get, the less likely your micropenis can be fixed.
Oh I know I said Im done but how do guys with micropenises fap. Like I have to hold my dick with both hands and the head sticks out. When you have a micropenis doesnt your hand cover your entire dick. Like including the head. isnt that uncomfortable to stroke. Or like if its super thin its like you hand is caving in on itself. I always imagined it being super awkward.
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1. I've heard of a technique called jelqing that seems most legit
2. Remember that you don't need a gf or anything, getting laid is a scam.
3. There is a niche porn market for you
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How can a 25 year old virgin like me with a 5 inch dick gain more confidence?
I'm not that bad looking I guess...
I have a decent job, a decent car, but I live with my parents.
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>>18074205
Hey bud, it's not the end of the world.
>me
>19 y/o unifag, 5.5 inch cock
>5'7" manlet, so my 5.5 inch cock is ehhh-okay I guess
>self-aware, pretty autistic, 6/10
>only had sex once..... at 19 y/o
Cock size does't matter at all imo. Just think about it. Your partner won't see your cock until the clothes are off, and you two are in the bedroom about to have sex. If you are still insecure, then I recommend sticking to amateur porn. Most of those guys have regular sized cocks, 5-7in.
>career, car
>live with parents
Idk about living with parents desu.
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join the military. Easy pussy magnet.
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>>18074231
wat