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>>18094653
Are you the western denko guy version.
Get a grip and a hint ffs.
>never talk to me again
Definitely has a hard crush on you

>>18094653
I don't even understand what you wrote.
I don't get what were you talking about.
You told her you didn't like her and this cleaned the air?

>>18094653

Shes a tsundere. Write her a very simple apology note. Its not talking and she can calm down.

>>18094594

to do what?

>>18094594
When you become mature enough to accept temporary inconvenience for greater happiness, you'll find motivation. Otherwise you'll be trapped in minor comforts forever.

Don't depend on motivation as a crutch to get you to do things. You just have to make yourself do things whether you want to or not.

EVENTUALLY though after doing that long enough, you will start to see results which will naturally fuel your motivation to keep going and obtain more results. The trick is sticking to it and making it past this slogging period where you're putting in tons of effort and not seeing anything for it.

There's saying that goes like “Inspiration is for amateurs. The rest of us just show up and get to work.”

>>18094471
Catatonic? Extreme fear? Agoraphobia?

Maybe you don't have a "disorder" maybe you just had something happen to you or did something that you haven't yet accepted/resolved. I was that way for months bc of drugs and didn't connect the dots until months later and when I quit drugs and started taking care of myself more it went away and then I just had general social anxiety which is completely normal which went away after a little bit of hangout out

>>18094471
Hikikomori comest to mind. You know, that's the way they call those japanese people who never leave their rooms running away from societal pressures and human interaction? Look it up

That's called severe clinical depression.

People get the symptoms of depression completely wrong - a depressed person might *never* feel "sad", sadness isn't a direct part of it. Depressed does not mean "very sad".

What depression actually is is a lack of neurotransmitters decreasing feelings such as reward and motivation, enough so that you might feel alright once you actually do something you want to do, bit the fight to convince yourself of doing it is nearly insurmountable.

Depression is a lack of drive.
And it looks like you're depressed.
The solution is to see your doctor.

I wish I was hairy like that, my arm looks like a girl's.

>>18094440
You're pretty hairy, but hairy guys are hot.

Jesus Christ you're the whitest ape I've ever seen.

What a faggot

>>18094410
Switch between using your mouth and hands if you think you're going to spooge.

Cut or uncut?

If uncut, leave glans exposed to build up resistance

Also edging during masturbation

STOP JACKING THE FUCK OFF

>>18094395
Don't keep redosing, stay under 250 mg, wait a looong time before doing it again. Keep it something you do on rare occasions or be prepared to lose the magic.

If you completely overdo it, be prepared to become severely depressed.

The comedown is terrible anyways

>>18094402
I've never had a bad comedown other than just wanting more, and I've done it followed by railing some coke (don't recommend.) In fact I always have a nice little afterglow, but I guess YMMV.

>>18094395
Stay hydrated and have fun. It will be hard not to have fun anyway. Stay away from cigarettes, I don't even smoke but when I'm rolling I'll fiend for well anything like that.

>>18094492
Never had a bad comedown either but man, cigarettes on molly are just the best thing on earth.

Well, I can't blame you. Women are horribly fickle and cancel dates because they simply don't feel like it.

She sounds like a bitch who probably will never have "time" for your date anyways. That is if you're not Chad, in which case she would have just asked you to come over to fuck her.

>>18094401
You must be popular with the ladies

>>18094401
Well she did offer that instead of going out we just get some takeout and watch anime and play vidya at her place so she can keep an eye on him, but I'm kinda old fashioned about dates I suppose. It seems too casual for a first date. Trashy I guess?

>>18094330

Are you sure this is going to be an orgy? Don't build up expectation like this. It sounds like 4 friends hanghing out, relax.

>>18094350
Doubt it, he invited me purely because there was an extra girl. And theyre super whores.

If he invited you it's either because he's expecting you to be worthy and play the game or to make fun of you. Otherwise, if you fail, learn from the mistake and change yourself to not feel the shame a second time. eat up good food and get fit. ( doesn't mean you need to have 8 packs )

>>18094257
dude just dump her

no pussy is worth that bullshit

>>18094257
If you accept this behaviour it's going to be a pain for the rest of your lives, better open her eyes soon before it's too late.
She has to understand that she needs to be more rational and not act on her emotions aswell as show respect for you.

If i own a puppy and the puppy is waayyy happier when my friend is around, i will not kick the puppy and leave it on it's own, that's fucked up since you are supposed to be even more important than a fucking puppy.

>>18094269
It's hard and I don't really know if I want that. I just want some time alone in my man cave to rest from all this. I'm too much invested in this. Both time-wise, emotionally and financially.
>>18094276
You are right, but right now I just feel angry. That example is really bad, man. You can't compare this situation to having a puppy. Nobody owns anyone and nobody was ahppy to see someone else more as well.

4chan.org

anyone

>>18094192
Read a book or watch a movie.

Look outside yourself for two seconds and stop caring about your made-up problems. Dozens of people in the world died while you were typing that post, and this is what you find important.

>>18094199
Yes because that is his world, why should it matter what African children eat today to him, you, and I? It's our world, it's over when we die so we make the best of it. No sex is his problem and he wanted advice, sure /adv/ gets 200 threads saying the same thing, but his problem is valid.

>>18094113
Have sex

>>18094199
This is the shittiest logic in the world.

>>18093880
You must be ugly. Yes your girl will be autistic because you'll never have sons.

>>18093890
I think my comment might have hit too close to home and offended you. That wasn't exactly advice.

>>18093902
Criticism must be harder to swallow than your own shit fuck off ugly bitch.

>>18093841
It seems like he supported you while you were fixing yourself. Why can't you do the same?
Deep understanding on society and the world around us isn't something you're born with. Make him read, teach him things, give him the instruments to improve himself. Talk to him.
And try to not be a bitch while you do it.

>>18093865
Look, I'm not an idiot. I get this. I tried.
I feel like he supported me so he could continue to fuck me more than anything else.
I've given it my all. So many times, I have tried to engage him in deep conversation. I ask him about his childhood, but he provides me with only the mundane details. He yells at me for interrupting him while watching ghetto pleb videos on Facebook (text on the top and all.)
He says "there's nothing to discuss," though I've been sober for several months and have a lot to discuss.
He preferred me fucked because I was complacent.
I want to leave, if that means making him realize relationships require emotional engagement to succeed then fine. Ideally he'd come back.
I just can't stay sober and live like this at the same time

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>>18093841
>Now that my mind is clear he's emotionally retarded. I don't want to give up
So, you're basically here for confirmation bias in order to continue your intellectually void relationship. Gotcha!

Ya never thought about that your needs come before others? That the point of a relationship is that your and your partner's desires complement each other? No? Good luck having a miserable life then.

I have basically the same story except she got pregnant.

Stay strong anon, we will survive this ;_;

>>18093714
OP here.

Wow, I don't know what to say. Sorry to hear that man.

>>18093708
Can empathize, OP. Kudos to you to just end it after knowing it will not works. Most trapped in the limbo thinking they could make it work and suffer the lifetime.

This too shall pass. May this build you a foundation for a more better future.

Embarrassment is a relic of humanity's roots in tribes of no more than 100 people where acting too far out of social norms potentially reduced your chances of mating. That's why you'll for instance remember some thing you did a decade ago and feel extreme regret even though it doesn't matter at all and everyone else forgot about it long ago.

Just live your life how you want and do what you want, there's no reason to feel embarrassment about anything.

Do you feel bad about being a virgin because you want more intimacy in your life? That's a reason to seek out companionship, a prostitute won't help you there.

Can you read minds?

>>18092070
>Do you feel bad about being a virgin because you want more intimacy in your life?
Sort of, you're right about there. Had I known my gf will die in the next 2 years then we wouldn't have waited.