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26 kv here.
Just wondering how anons approaching wizard status kept their mind off not being laid.
Especially when every girl looks like they're a suicide girl or from boohoo commercials. It's not even bias, it's like they forced out all the average/ugly girls out of my area in the last 10 years.
I've just been playing grindy games for days. But then I need to go outside to get shit from the shops and there's that thirst again.
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>>18094278
>Especially when every girl looks like they're a suicide girl or from boohoo commercials
Yeah, I don't believe that.
>It's not even bias, it's like they forced out all the average/ugly girls out of my area in the last 10 years.
Maybe your standards dropped in the last 10 years.
But to answer your question, we keep our minds off by having shit going on in our lives. We don't think about girls 24/7.
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>>18094278
>Especially when every girl looks like they're a suicide girl or from boohoo commercials
That's testosterone. The more that hormone urges you to reproduce, the more your standards are lowered and girls (fat ones, less than perfect ones, older ones) become interesting to mate with.
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>>18094283
>Maybe your standards dropped in the last 10 years.
The place I live is going through gentrification and is flooded with hipsters and trendy people.
>>18094283
>But to answer your question, we keep our minds off by having shit going on in our lives. We don't think about girls 24/7.
What's the point of being condenscending?
Hi /adv/
I'm here to ask about breaking out the chains of NEEThood.
I'm sure that general topic is extremely common here, but more specifically I was wondering about what types of options are available to someone like me. I have almost nothing to my name at 22, no high school degree or any college, no license, haven't stayed on top of medications. In general I have created a mountain of shit to deal with that gets more impossible to look out and try to fix with each passing day.
I want to know if anyone else has dealt with something like this and how. The worse off you were when you started the more helpful the story is. I would really do anything if I could just stop this cycle, I am not above any type of using welfare or government money or any other resource like that if it would just help me stop being an incapable human being for the rest of my life.
I would say my ultimate goal at the moment is to be able to afford a quiet house by myself, and to have a steady life where I can go to college and find something to work towards for my future security, whilst maintaining at least a bit of my precious free time.
I should say that I do plan on getting a job with this, definitely not saying I wanna live off government money or anything, just saying where I am right now, I feel like I need anything that I can get my hands on.
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first try to determine what is/are your passions in life. What productive field you feel best about. Then look for possible jobs in that field. It is ok to experiment and try to pick up something, learn from the internet/books and see if you like it- design, web, programming, accounting- some examples of fields ypu can actually learn yourself for a while and if you get to like it - work part time job take a loan and get a degree in the field
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Get a job you pathetic neet.
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>>18094366
>first try to determine what is/are your passions in life
I would say nnoooo to this. I feel like the pressure I felt to do the "right" thing is what made me NEET. I've been in a similar place as OP. I remember wanting to know what I was doing /wrong/ so I could be /right/. I wanted to "break the cycle"
But this is where I was wrong. The key to life maybe isn't finding out what's perfect to do, but doing something. Just get any job, there are surely warehouse jobs you can try. UPS hired me with nothing to my name. It's not great, but it's structure. Find other areas of your life to practice discipline. Meet different people. Maybe try making a budget; see where you're spending your time and money and experiment and do it differently. The only way through life is the constant will to shake things up. The desire to do the right thing perpetuates neethood. It's not virtue, it's naivety.
Maybe this is relatable at least.
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Should one act on their fetishes?
Obviously "fetishes" is broad enough that the answer is probably yes and no, but under which circumstances yes and which no?
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>>18094255
If it hurts others, then no. If it's between two consenting adults that know what's going on, then yes.
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>>18094256
In this case, I'm in the clear. But is there anything to be said simply for not being degenerate? Or for not pursuing a relationship (probably fwb type) mostly for a specific type of sex?
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>>18094265
Can you be more specific? What are we talking about here?
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I work in a female-only environment. 100% of my coworkers are girls or women, younger or older, what have you. I realized long ago how volatile the relationships at the workplace are. How every word and action is interpretable and how everything is taken out of context. Today it hit me what a different person am I at work, where I control every word I say and gesture I make and how much of the stuff that I do is actual acting. That's not the issue though, the issue is in real life I'm a wholly different person and I can't seem to put up an act. I may be subconsciously tired from work but I want to be like that in real life too, like when I meet X person to act a certain way, in Y situation act another way.
At work it all kinda came naturally but I'm still sort of a goof outside.
Guess what I want to ask is, how do I put up an act like I do at work? How do I detach myself in real life too? I want to be able to fucking act the best possible way according to every circumstance and control my actions and emotions.
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>>18094200
>I want to be able to fucking act the best possible way according to every circumstance and control my actions and emotions.
Dude, realistic expectations. You will mess up, that's gonna happen. Let's bring it down a notch before going on.
Why do you want to put on a persona even outside work? What's wrong with being yourself in your free time?
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Because myself is a pretty goofy person but not in the good way. More like acting stupid and not in tune with the social norms, not according to the social cues presented to me. At work there's a certain correct way to conduct myself as "perfect" so I act accordingly, and everyone brings praise to me, while I actually fake every aspect of it.
I want to be able to be like that in reality as well. Not like me, not like anyone in particular, just the best in every situation.
For example, if I was to notice an unintentional mistake at work, everyone else would tell the person while I'd repair it and not say anything if it helps the team, but completely demolish someone else for a smaller mistake if that would somehow benefit me. I don't really want to be perfect for any circumstances, but make every circumstance benefit me, even the bad and humiliating things.
Basically I want to make a tool out of everything in real life as I do at work.
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>>18094248
>but make every circumstance benefit me, even the bad and humiliating things.
Again, not gonna happen. Shit will happen and things will go wrong. If your goal is to always come on top, then start looking for a new goal. That one is impossible.
If a girl says that she is looking for someone who isn't going to hold her back what exactly does she mean by that? And how could I show her that I would not do so? Any advice?
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>>18094191
Ask her! How would we know what she exactly meant?
If I had to guess, I'd say - someone who isn't going to ask her to sacrifice her well being or her dreams, someone who wouldn't ask her too many compromises, someone who is supportive and wants to help her develop as a person.
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>>18094191
How you met her? Where? How long have you known each other?
I need to know to tell you what to show her.
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>>18094204
The problem is that we are sharing a flat together with 5 other people so things are a bit complicated. Some would say that I am in her friendzone if something like that even exists...
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I have 2 Percocets
7.5 mg each
What should I know before I take them
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>>18094179
That take drugs is degenerate
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Jesus loves you.
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>>18094180
Typical /pol/ tard calling things degenerate because people won't do anything with you
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I have a loose body in my wrist (Piece of bone floating around), maybe from a fracture 10 years ago, I donno. It's 3mm wide. It doesn't hurt at all. Do I need to get surgery to remove it or can I ignore it?
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Why cant you ask a doctor this?
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>>18094157
I asked if it mattered and she gave me an "eh, I guess not". I want a second opinion without spending money. I'm pretty poor.
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nice alien tracker chip
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So far Ive never enjoyed sex, not even oral
Is it because all the sex ive had has been casual? Will I enjoy it with someone Im in love with?
Am I getting any of the health benefits of sex even though I dont enjoy it?
25 year old girl btw
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>>18094106
Could ya be gay?
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>>18094108
Nah, Im attracted to guys
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>>18094106
No clue. We can't possibly make any educated guesses about the entirety of your sex life with absolutely no backstory or information to base our opinions on.
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>talking to girl online
>really like her and get excited when she comes online
>think about her throughout my day
>a few years pass
>still talking to her and thinking about her
>travel to her country and meet her
>things go good
>after meeting her we slowly lose touch
>I continue to thinking about her nonstop
>5 years pass, still thinking about her nonstop(haven't talked at all to her)
>can't form any real relationships with other women because they just can't compare
>dream about her still
Am I in love with this girl?
No matter what I do I can't shake her from my mind, to me she's perfection.
What is wrong with me?
She probably even forgot I exist but I still can't stop thinking about her.
What do I do?
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>>18094060
You're just obsessed.
The fact she hasn't made much effort tells you everything
Suck it up
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>>18094068
obsessed and love are not one and the same?
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>>18094073
Love is two way
Obsession is one
You're not doing yourself any good lingering in this headspace. Don't you think some other girl may want to appreciate you as well?
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I'm a teacher. A few days ago, I ran into a former student of mine. It's been maybe 3 to 4 years since she left school. She told me she regretted taking part in my classes, since I hadn't stood up to her bully.
In the class I was teaching, there was a girl who bullied her. She came to ask me for help, but I ignored it, because I thought it wasn't that big a deal and that she was just joking.
I now feel like she has hated me for all these years and always will. How do I cope?
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>>18093973
Hey Teach, you're an instructor first and foremost.
If she had gone to the counselor's office then things would have worked out.
Teachers don't need to deal with bullying, but hopefully you learn from that and tell them to see the counselor if it happens in the future.
Also are you a girl or a boy.
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It's not your responsibility to stand up to bullies. It's the person being victimized. Your former student sounds like a whiny cunt with a victim complex and now I want to bully her too for being so stupid.
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>>18093973
You are not a therapist, you should word your way out if this in the same manner as you do here.
Seriously i had teachers who would say things like you'll never make it anywhere and i didn't give a shit, i never tried to blame a teacher for my own problems either. Probably just a student who wasn't raised well and ended up being salty at others
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Whose fault was this?
This car infront of me and I were driving at a moderate 40-50kms an hour, we are right at the intersection and she doesn't slow down.
The light turns yellow and and at the same time slams her breaks, I break hard too knowing I can't avoid this I swerve to the right and get a fender bender. A really small one, her car came out unscathed. We went to a collision reporting centre to report it and thats it. We exchanged information and have everything but her phone number. Auto insurance is mandatory where I live and if she files a claim my insurance will skyrocket. She didin't seem mad, I didin't have the chance to talk to her and it doesn't look like she's filed a claim yet because I'm sure she knows she would get 50% of the blame.
So in this scenario if she does file a claim, who gets 100% of the blame?
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99.8% her. At that speed and being right at the lights 3 or 4 cars could pass before the light turns red. However, it also depends on how close you were driving behind her. The book says you need to keep at least 3 to 4 seconds of room between each car to be able to break and come to a stop without hitting anyone even if the person in front of you is a paranoid jackass and breaks at the first sight of a yellow light. It all comes down to the report.
Look into a dashcam by the way, just in case this sort of thing happens again so you have the proof.
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>>18093898
Where I live, 100% you.
When you drive behind someone, you're responsible for keeping a certain distance from the car in front of you, which allows you to stop in case they brake suddenly. In case you don't, it's 100% your fault.
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>>18093898
By law - this isn't a case-by-case decision, but written into the law - it is ALWAYS the car in back's fault. You are presumed to have been driving too fast or too close if you couldn't avoid the accident.
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I'm having a strange problem with a friend.
I've known them for a few years now online only, but we seem to chat a lot, almost every day. She tells me things about her day as well as personal problems sometimes.
The problem is, she once sent me a few pictures of "herself" since I was curious about her. She even blocked out her face and I had no problem with it.
Later on I found out those pictures were actually some other random girl who seemed to have been posted a lot.
I may have some trust issues from my life experiences, and this seriously is hurting me, I thought she would trust me enough to show me pictures of herself, but she actually showed me pictures of a random girl with her face blocked.
A little more context here is necessary too, the girl she sent me shares her name, and from what I've been lead to believe, even shares the same birthday (this is seriously hurting thinking she even gave me a fake birthday).
So there's a good amount of similarities I guess that she would have used that girl. But from what I've gathered it's definitely not really her.
Do you think I should stop worrying about this? She's told me a lot of personal stuff already (which contradicts the fake persona she used) and I feel like she might even feel bad.
Should I simply never bring it up and wait for her to come out with it? She might feel like she dug herself too deep to say the truth now.
But in the end, I would rather prefer the truth, I just don't want to ruin the friendship.
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>>18093887
If you haven't seen pics of her body chances are she's ashamed of what lies beneath.
SHE COULD BE THE WHALE
AWOOGA NIGGA
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>>18093919
At this point in our friendship I really don't care about her body, she calls herself thick, I know she's not gonna be skinny as fuck since she eats snacks late nights. She's also told me her height and weight and well she's average really in terms of numbers.
What I don't want is her to continue lying about things like this. If she's lying about her appearance, what else could she lie about? It's really heartbreaking and wish I could find out what are truths and what are lies.
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>>18093936
Tell her you seriously want to talk to her, tell her what you just said.
She probably wants to imoress you and you not loosing interest, so the most important thing is telling her that you like her for who she is and everything else does not matter. Make sure you make her understand how valueable writing with her for you is.
Watch your words friend, easy to hit the wrong nail there.
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Let's say, hypothetically, one were to want to get closer to a female streamer. Yeah motha fuckas, you already know what I'm on about. How does one go from being someone in chat to being someone that she could possibly see herself with? I bring this up because time and time again I see kids in chat just going bananas over female streamers and it's obvious they want to get somewhere with her.
How would they do this? I've ran all the scenarios in my head and in my minds eye, I just don't know, the chances of going from 0 to hero are virtually nil. How would said anon approach the situation? I can't assume that he would just DM her, because that seems to be a saturated attempt.
I think the best scenario would be to simply be active in chat, and hope for the best. Straight up Hail-fucking-Mary hopes and dreams.
And yeah fuck it I may or may not have moderate interest in the matter. I'm also mildly autistic, so isn't this to be expected?
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>>18093884
I don't normally bump but ladies and gentlemen I really would love to hear your thoughts on the matter.
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>>18093884
Find out her "buiseness only e-mail" first.
Chances are it's her private e-mail.
Research what's behind that e-mail, might be social network accounts unknown to public.
Make sure when you contact her you don't seem like a super creep because this is a bold move, go ahead and ask her to video chat with you cause you prepared a lot of questions. Make her laugh and don't fuck it up.
This is very vague but shit this is a one hell of a challenge.
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>>18093964
My dudes, I really appreciate your words. I have no intention of pursing any female streamer (my niggas the autism is strong), but the idea, the concept of it is absolutely insane. I'm envisioning this great wall, and this man having to MacGyver his ass over said wall could quite honestly be a movie in and of itself.
>>18093962
I'm not gonna brotha that sounds inherently creep as fuck hahaha! Entertaining, definitely! Like you said that is a bold ass move, would love to see how that would play out.
>>18093964
Awesome first-hand advise, I dig it. The whisper thing I could definitely do. I see more success, if not the only success, using your method. You'd really have to have interpersonal contact via whispers, email like the previous anon said etc.
I'm assuming one could
>chat
>whisper
>skype
>???
>uknowhatitis.avi
Simply escalating online communication up until face to face contact.
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Is it noble or a sin if I saw a hot girls nice butt in jeans and went home to masturbate but I stopped myself and said "No, I won't do it anymore"?
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Neither. It's just kind of stupid all around.
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>>18093881
How so?
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>>18093883
masturbation is not a sin and not fapping to a girl you want to fuck isnt noble
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I want to make use of my youth, charm and boyish good looks to lure in the rare cougar. I think I've got the look and the charisma to at least get some free food drink and milf pussy. I'm a broke 20 y/o student so best case senario i become some old ladies bitch for cash. Help me on my quest.
Any experience? Tips or suggestions?
((cole sprouce because I've been told I look like him))
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>How do I find a sugar momma
In your dreams
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the type of women who likes these setups are
>ugly
>fat
>single mom
>have no money
sometimes all of the above
only women are allowed to leech sadly
you will have to apply manipulation or commit fraud to get their wealth
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>>18093869
Lol good luck these days only worthless 'men' aim to find sugar momma's.
One example is an ugly micropenis Malaysian chink who sounds just like goofy floundering around like a retard in a professional workplace trying to leech off of women. The situation was so pathetically retarded.