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How do i day game at school?

I go to community college and my major is nothing but dudes..
Fat, hairy, stinky, sweaty NEET dudes. But there are a TON of beautiful girls walking around the building.. I should have been a male nurse or something. Anyways, i want to find and get to know one of these campus qts, but i'm too shy. I have a decent track record of getting dates with qts on tinder, but it never went beyond 2 dates with any of them, probably because i acted too beta. But i THINK i'm attractive enough, based on the girls i was able to get the interest of.
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>>18168554

I'm just sitting here watching them all go by.
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A. Join shitty groups, clubs, whatever.
B. (A. related) Do sports where you meet grills: Gym, Tennis, Golf, Volleyball, Batminton, Martial Arts.
C. Get into studygroups which somehow fit your subject, yet where you meet qts. Or tutor grills in a group who need your help with whatever you do in your subject. Group is important. Isolate afte you have made a decision and analyzed interest.
D. Do a nice party between 30 and 50 people. Engineer the composition to a 50%m/50%w, rather more grills. Invite people you know well, people you know less well and the hot bitches you don't know but who know those people you slightly know.
E. If you fail at these and your desperation hinders you at succeeding in your studies you need to change major.
F. Become sleak at organizing poker, then invite dudes and grills. Poker pretty well unites the genders. Try socially engineering like in (D) just small scale; harder to do.
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>>18168554
>Jr college
>NEET dudes

You're a special type of retarded

I met this girl at work. The first time she talked to me there were some other employees near her and they told her to stop flirting. I thought this meant she liked me but it was pretty insignificant so I didn't think much of it.
A few days later she sat by me at a meeting and acted really shy. The person next to me even asked if she was my girlfriend or if she just liked me.
Then she wanted me to talk to her in the break room, this is the first time we actually sat and hung out for a bit. I get her number and we text a bit. I hate to speculate on emoji and also I hate emoji but she sends me a lot of winking and blushing ones when we text.
We hang out a few times outside of work at parks and just talk but a few days ago she sent me pictures of some girl and said her friend needs a date to prom and wanted me to take her. I said no since I didn't even want to go to my own prom. After a few more times of me saying no she continues to ask and I just ignore her for the rest of the night.
It upset me because even though I haven't told her I like her i'm pretty sure she knows and it felt like she was saying "I don't like you like that but here's my friend". She already has a date for prom and I don't want to go with her friend and see the girl I actually like with someone else.
Upon thinking about it more I considered maybe she already had the date before she knew me and wants me to take her friend as a way to include me without bailing on her date? I reluctantly agreed to take her friend since it clearly meant so much to her but i'm concerned that she doesn't like me the way I like her.
If I liked someone I wouldn't try to set them up with my friends and "adorable" feels like a way of saying "you're cute but I don't like you like that". Do you think there's a chance she likes me? How can I elucidate the way I feel without freaking her out by being too direct? I feel like i'm in middle school and I hate it.
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>>18168456
You should be firm with your decision and no means no, don't compromise.

If you do that, chances that she'll look you as a potential partner, but now it's too late, if you bail out or trying to chase her she'll be repulsed and think you're a pushover.
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She wants you to take her less fortunate friend because her prior engagement. If she didn't like you she wouldn't have included you at all.
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>>18168498
She found someone else to take her friend but I said if it didn't work out I would go. Should I tell her I like her? I don't want to if she doesn't feel the same way but I also don't want to be the kind of guy who asks her friends. If she doesn't like me back I might cut contact as shitty as it sounds. Idk if I could just be friends with her when I feel like this.

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How do I avoid or manage sweat and smell in my crotch area? I wash almost every other day but I sit 8hrs a day and it feels like my pants start to smell after a while.
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>>18168428

Christ, fine, I'll say it

1) wash daily

2) Use a loofa and scrub.
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>>18168428
shave
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>>18168428
Manscape, even taint

Use a shower pomf as previously suggested

Switch to boxers, or to boxer briefs given what you already wear.

Spray and disinfect your chair

Could be a problem with your washer/dryer

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Hey guys, I would like to have your take on a situation.

My now ex-girlfriend and I broke up yesterday after 9 months. Right after I woke up in the morning she started talking to me that she is overwhelmed with her life and that she needs time for herself and that she isn't satisfied with the relationship anymore. It was indeed a relationship of habit, there wasn't much love and passion left and we both are pretty stubborn so there were also quite some fights where she would throw fits of anger at me. I even caught myself thinking "when does this finally end".

Considering that, I agreed that we should end it so we parted ways on good terms. She then started to get offended and even angry because she noticed I was content and asked why Im not even trying to save the relationship.

She then started crying saying that she loves me and that she is afraid that it is a mistake. She was in immense pain. The next day she is texting me, saying it hurts a lot and it feels more and more like a mistake.

Now I feel responsible and want to ease her pain - should I do anything, like keeping casual contact or should I stop texting her for her own sake?

What do you think of the situation?

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Well, what do YOU want annon? Right now you're saying the only reason you'd want to get back together is out of guilt.

If you're set on not getting back together then you need to set that boundary really clearly and distance yourself if she can't accept that. She should take some accountability for herself, she needs to make up her mind or this is going to be a tedious on and off thing.
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>>18168363
>woman wants to keep relationship, says to you she dont and expects you to fight for her to keep her
>woman say A, think B, expect C

Decide yourself, we cant see into your heart op.
>>18168462 do this.

I would break up, but that is just me.
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Relationships end, it's natural. It sounds like this one had serious problems and you guys decided to end it before things really got ugly. That seems sensible to me. From the way you've described it though it sounds like she initiated the break up then got mad when you were OK with moving on. If that's true then it's a definite red flag of emotional manipulation and you've really made the right call splitting, especially if she was physically abusive as well.

I'd say go full no contact.

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What should I do whenever my friends nag me about not fucking my virgin girlfriend of 10 months? It gets annoying really fast. My girlfriend and I have old fashioned values and well probaly only have sex if marraige is a possibility. I dont share my friends cavalier attitudes towarda sex.
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>>18168340
Tell them you appreciate the concern but you have your own thing going on.

Also, sauce.
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Tell em to fuck off

Why are you even here
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>>18168340
Tell them to fuck off. Stand up for yourself and your beliefs. Be a man.

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In which US city/state should I get a summer job as foreigner so I can maximise my chances of getting pussy?
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>>18168176

Florida, specifically the orlando region
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>>18168176
Noplace, because your visa specifically forbids working.
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>>18168176

>wanting American girls

You're making a mistake, son.

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So me and my friend are going to prom together and i think he likes me but im not for sure and i think i like him but at the same time i dont. All my friends ship us saying it'd be cute but im just not sure. What should i do?
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Hes not unattractive or anything id just like to get to know him better.
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This site is only for 18+
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>>18168086
Rekt

I'm dating this girl who out of a lot of angles isn't very attractive, and I can find myself thinking that I want someone who looks different. But there are som angles and some moments where she to me is the most beautiful creature in the entire world and that nothing comes close to matching her looks. When I feel like this I feel like I don't deserve her because she is so beautiful.

Has anyone else experienced the same?
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There's a Seinfeld episode about this.
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>>18168133
Not OP but what episode, exactly?
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>>18168006
I guess you love her, anon.

what do I say now?

and try to ignore how awkward this convo is
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>>18167910
sorry im confused did you say you were a virgin or was it the other person?
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>>18167914
the other person thank goodness
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>>18167934
Say I can change that

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Hey guys. I'm kinda in a struggle atm. So my girl and I have been planning on moving to another country to study and work. And live there and we both currently live with our parents. Now. We've spoke about this alot. She really hates the current city we live in and currently has a job. She's told me she wants to move to a different state or city quite a few timea now. And today she told me she found a job where she wpuld work at a hotel and have everything paid for her (rent food basically everythinf. And still get paid. Kinda like those disney world study and work student job thing.) . I told he we could go but id probably have to find a place and ect if they dont let me live in her home and itd be with roommates.) She told me that she still wants to go to said country as well. I told her sure but if we go with her hotel job first. Moving to the other country would be delayed by A LOT. And then she tells me she needs to think about all of her decisions and she needs to think about everything and now she feels we're moving too fast but maybe she's wrong. Now I'm just thinking what did I do wrong. At first I was against leaving to the other city and state and now that I'm okay with it she wants to think about doing anything now. We've spoke about leaving to the other country for a few months now. So this is just shocking cause yesterday she was really excited to leave and now she's having second thoughts about everything. What should I do? She's now acting like she doesn't want to go. And said she didn't say she would come to said country because of me but because she's been wanting to go to study for the longest time. Since she knew she wanted to study university. I'm 100% sure this is the girl I want to marry and live with for the rest of my life. And she comes out with stuff like this. It just. I hurts really bad. I didn't expect this at all today. We've lived together for a while. We've spoke about getting married and everything. So I dont know what to do now.
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She hasn't said anything since she told me she needed time to think. It's been 3 hours since then and no answer. What should I think guys? She hasn't been connected on social media since then. Did my relationship just take a deep drop south? This is my first actual serious relationship. The first one where I asked the girl to be my girlfriend. I'm pretty attractive. Have girls come up to me ask for my number. Past relationships were just me saying yes out of sympathy for the girl I was dating and I would just ignore them or tell them it was an open relationship and be with other girls or be with friends till we would break up. Now I feel like it's karma coming at me for doing those things. I feel that since I would sympathy date other girls. I'm gonna get screwed over. She knows of this. She knows everything about me and vice versa. We're both in love but this just freaks me out. Since it is my first real relationship. One I actually fought for. And I don't want to see it just end because of a short discussion. I don't know guys. I really need help here.
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Going to bump then try to go to bed.
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Guys please...

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how do i get over a heart break?

i mean i've almost accepted that she's never coming back, but i can't seem to quite get there

i just want peace
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>>18167081
fuck and kill
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meds.

fucking meds.

do it.
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>>18167081
Take it one day at a time.

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Everything I keep thinking will help me meet new people doesn't. And I hate being so bored and lonely. How the hell do you meet new people? Everyone is either too busy or stops talking to me.
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>>18166589
First: how old are you? Depending on your age and where you live, there are plenty of places to go and clubs/organizations to join where you meet alot of people with similar interests.
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>>18166934
I'm 23
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>>18166589
Are you in school? If so, meeting new people is easy as fuck.

Take it from me, a friendless loser with social anxiety not three months ago. Well, I still have the anxiety, but its manageable now.

I made an effort this semester to make friends. And I figured out that the way you make friends in university is almost exactly the same as the way you make friends in grade school: just go up to people you think are cool and be like, "wanna be friends?" You'll trade numbers and then set some time to grab a drink. Seriously, my entire life, I've never had anything to do on a Saturday night. In the last few months, I've actually gone out with people and been a normal person.

You ever hear of the Couch-to-5K? Well, this is the r9k-to-normie programme. Get on it, buddy.

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So I notice that people get me angry. I call people out for their stupid shit all the time because I hate the fact they think they can get away with it. Sometimes i keep my mouth shut but just get randomly angry. Like at work today this girl I work with shes round and fat like a meatball, kinda gross honestly and she thinks she can just do whatever. She comes in like 30 minutes late and is like "Yea im just so hungover today" and everyone ignored her and she said it like 4 times until someones like oh ok cool. Then she started to act like she was still a little drunk and just did nothing. I was getting pissed but kept it in. Or there are people at work who dont know how to talk. Like grown adults talking and its just so annoying to listen to and I cant leave since im working near them. I need to learn how to control getting pissed when people say or do stupid shit, its not a good quality to call people out and getting into fights over it but sometimes I cant help it.
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>I call people out for their stupid shit all the time
>and everyone ignored her and she said it like 4 times until someones like oh ok cool. Then she started to act like she was still a little drunk and just did nothing. I was getting pissed but kept it in.

yeahokpal
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>>18172865
The people I call out are the ones I know a little more then some random work girl. Its mainly people I know act stupid or try to make excuses for them acting out. Like this kid I know is a huge asshole to people, contridicts himself, says all this shit then blames it on his anxiety or something stupid. Most people are like oh ok I understand, but ive known this kid since highschool and hes faking it as a defense. He used to be alot worse and is pretending to be normal now to fit in since hes mad fake.
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>>18172875
>pretending to be normal to fit in

dont you think he could be trying to atleast better himself, even if not for the right reasons? it doesnt sound like you get angry at slight hiccups, more like you build up anger towards people who act in shitty ways

dont let it build up anon thats a bad religion

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What's a job I can do from home? I only need to earn 14,000 USD a year, maybe a little less.
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Prostitute
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Camwhore
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If I knew I wouldn't still be working at mcdonalds, would I?

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I fucked another dudes girl, and they have a kid. I loved her and wanted her to break up with him, but instead she literally begged me to fuck her, and then i did. Then, she tossed me aside completely.

I feel hurt for being abandoned, but don't feel guilty for fucking this dude's girl.

Should i give this dude proof that i fucked her so he doesn't marry her or have more kids, or should i just leave it alone? If i tell him, it's because of the way she treated me, not because of how she treated him.
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>>18172605
Telling him would be funnier
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>>18172605

>Should i give this dude proof that i fucked her so he doesn't marry her or have more kids, or should i just leave it alone? If i tell him, it's because of the way she treated me, not because of how she treated him.

No, you should keep your nose out of it. Regardless of your feelings there is a child involved; a child whose emotional well being and entire future depends on their parents being together and getting along, regardless of what betrayals they have going on behind the scenes.

Going out of your way to destroy this kid's family and split their parents up over your petty jealousy would make you a truly vile, reprehensible piece of shit.
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>>18172630
i was about to write the same, leave it alone dude. Nothing good will come out of this.

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