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>>18169482

Can't answer this but i'm hoping someone will. I'm feeling a sudden longing for the comfort of a woman again after a pretty long period of being alone and content. Not so content with it anymore. I want to download tinder again but it kind of wrecked me last year when i fell for one of my matches. I know you're not supposed to do that with tinder.

>>18169482
>how do I not fuck this up
Be someone else that isn't an anime autist sperg

>>18169482
It's Tinder.
Have some drinks, bring some rubber.
Small talk by asking her about uni, what she does at uni, be interested in her but not like you are trying to make friends. If she doesn't invite you back to her place ask her if she wants to head somewhere else?
Ill leave the rest to you, but clean up your pad just in case.

>>18169480
Be a carpenter.

From what I know is it is difficult and also a good career. As with everything, be better than others and you will have a job.

>>18169480
>welding
No
>underwater welding
Hell yes

Chances are you will die from something else before the effects of climate change. How do you deal with that?

>>18169473
Climate change is an economic problem. If you have access to a computer to go to 4 chan you aren't in direct threat of it.

This would be fairly easy to understand if you weren't retarded.

>>18169473
>inb4 mad /pol/
It's not something that sits at the front of my mind desu, but yeah, it's objectively frightening - sounds straight outta Revelations.
I think it'll be ok though. WSG gets more profitable every year while coal gets its guts stomped in.

>>18169301
You should focus on specific cities/towns over states, but it all really depends on your preferences.

New England and The West is generally more expensive than the rest of the country, but you won't be able to tell which states you've preferred unless you've been to most of them and lived in America most of your life. What exactly are you looking for?

Don't come to Colorado, we don't want anymore people.

>>18169301
Fuck off, we're full.

Pt. 2:

Obviously I am just some kid out of school but there should be several ways to achieve immortality. Mind uploading, or regenerating cells which usually aren't regenerable are what I have in mind. Ultimately I see a need to fully understand how the Brain works, for mind uploading; Or I see a need to master the DNA and Stem Cell Regeneration in a way that we haven't seen before (to not understand how the brain works but to keep it young end evolving). Possibly and most likely both is requiered. I imagine that having a actively regenrating braing will also mean that the affected subject changes it's personality. Therefore I doubt someone undergoing this kind of brain regenerative treatment would stay the same, yet that is supposed to be guaranteed to some extent.

Now next to medicine and biochemistry I started considering to study Artificial Intelligence, I would learn about how the brain and thinking works from a mathematical and modelled standpoint. Luckily I can study AI at a top tier public university. I was thinking about studying AI until I am eligible to study Medicine in Germany. I don't want to end up as an eternal student, and maybe I will hate AI or Medicine but in my opinion Biochemistry is too much basics and lab work (which I love but it doesn't help me understand the problem of immortality). I am aware that to achieve this goal of mine I will join my forces with many amazing scientists who have been working on this for years. (e.G.: https://www.calicolabs.com/)

Pt. 3:

I think that adding a bit about my parents is relevant. Mom is an alternative practicioner, Dad owns an outpatient care company, Stepdad is a Surgeon. They are all self employed in the medical field. A few years ago I was considering to take over my dads company once he decides to reitre, to improve the national health system from within. But I scrapped that, yet I like the idea of founding a small company with people I know and trust. In the life science sector found a working company is pretty difficult, I presume, but I shouldn't think about this now. I am heavily influenced by my mom and really she is the one who wants me to be a doctor, even though she would also support me with anything else if I had made up a proper opinion. My parents are fine with me being at home even though I am not very productive right now, because I have confirmed them that I will study AI in summer, or do the thing in Austria. Of course I will start something in summer but truth is I am still very doubtful.

I am scared of death, maybe this doesn't let me see clearly what I truly want and who I truly am. I have asked myself what I would spend my time with if I was immortal, to try and look into myself. But I find too many answers, I can imagine studying and learning everything. But I wouldn't have any impact, I would just be observing the world change. And I wonder if being an eternal observer isn't shit and instead living a short life with some small impact is more worthy to be lived. I'd choose both.

Pt. 4: Now the final question is: What to study out of these options. Which order, which subjects and why? Studying for a long time probably isn't a smart move for work in the fields of chemistry, age really matters there. But I think that with an approach through AI and Medicine or Neurobiology (if I can find a BSc like that, I should be able to) it would be different. If I founded an own company I of course wouldn't be that dependant either. Research can be done at Universities or Companies etc.

I haven't talked much about the economical aspect but it deserves more attention than I have given it. Studying in Europe is mostly payed by taxes and doesn't have to be directly paid. Thanks to my parents I am not forced to work while studying, but with an increasing age earning own money becomes significantly more important, family kids etc.. This may not be so relevant to the immediate question but finding something that brings me some money while studying would be wise, maybe streaming or something along those lines would work, I don't know about time intensity here. I don't want to lose focus.
Thank you for reading. Please take your time to answer.

>>18169167
How close are you to completing a degree?

>>18169182
2 semesters in, 3.3 GPA (mostly easy classes), withdrew from 2 classes first semester and currently failing one this semester.

Why did you drop out of those two classes. Why are you currently failing?

>>18169067
Go to >>/g/ for this

Avast or sophos is free. Go with those.

>>18169067
>Paying $ for AV
The best AV is not to be a retard

>>18169050

No, it's fine. Protecting yourself and your mental health is a perfectly acceptable reason to break up if the relationship brings you more misery than joy.

If they're depressed because of something that has recently happened to them, then yeah that's kinda fucked up but if you don't like them enough to stick through it then you're wasting their time as well as your own.

If it's a lifetime thing and you're not willing to put in the effort to make it through, don't force it out of guilt. You don't owe anyone anything.

>>18169050
No its not wrong. You need to be happy

>>18169044
Well. Be attractive physically. That's a huge one. Dress sexy but not slutty. Don't be gross even if you're just sitting at home.

Then - Flirt. Compliment him, be enthusiastic about being around him, be nice to him. Be physical without trying to get to sex: cuddle, kiss, be nice.

Do you know of a reason for the decrease in sex drive? You say he wasn't always like this. How long have you been together? Men with low T can have frequent sex at the beginning of a relationship but will return to normal as time passes

>>18169057

About 15 months. Reason is related to mood and hopefully on the mend. I'm trying not to draw too much attention to the fact that I'm crawling up the walls thinking about him fucking me...more going for the subtle signs that I really want him.

I don't want to put pressure on him to fuck me but I do want him to feel more like he wants to.

>>18169019

We are not your personal army. As far as we know, you made the note to harrass someone. So, no, we won't help.

Cool, just thought I'd ask.

>>18168938
Before you enroll on gender studies look up at job market in your area / where you want to live and search if any job even exists for that. And be very critical at if you could lend that job if you had such education. You can even ask potential employer what do they think about such education.

Age doesnt matter much, all you need is DEDICATION. 23 is older but not so old.

>>18168938
If you don't study theoretical physics or pure maths, smart people will look down on you (at least I know I would). Just food for thought

>>18168938
What do you want to do with your degree?

>>18168930

its interesting how our culture has become more homophobic than it was ten years ago, but our porn has become more homo erotic.

whereas ten years ago our porn was mostly lesbian stuff and a strong focus on not showing men in them as much as possible

>>18168930
Who cares? Just tell one of the girls u no is a hoe that you're still a virgin, then join the fun. Do it with a few of those hoes and watch the insecurity melt away.

>but i want relationshit

There will be tons of time for that. You don't even know yet if you actually want a relationship, or if you just told yourself that to justify your exclusion from modern sex culture. So go find out, you got this.

>>18168930
Average number of partners for a woman is around 4-5.
Most of my friends didn't have more than 2 or 3 partners.

>>18168792

It's possible, but it's silly.

It's like saying, "I want to communicate with my friends, but I don't want to use the telephone. I'm going to complicate this by sending them letters, or driving over to their house."

>>18168800
>friends
What if I don't have any.
Will having facebook help make them?

>>18168792
Just join local clubs. Like Toastmasters, climbing, or martial arts.
Or you know, use Whatsapp like normies.

Having a fetish is not but having a gangbang without the person is surely not ok.

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>>18168617
No as in i always dream about being fully led by a gang but i love my partner

If you have absolutely no sense of self-control, then yes.

You likely fap in one position and one position only; sitting upright. It teaches your body that stimulation otherwise isn't as natural or normal.

>>18168599
I found for myself that I started escalating the speed and intensity of sex too fast. I too would lose hardness whilst pounding the shit out of my gf full force, and i didn't know why. Made it really hard to cum, too, which my poor gf thought was her fault.

When I took things more slowly and built up the intensity more slowly, things got a lot better

>>18168605
To prove or disprove this statement: try reverse cowgirl while playing Mario 3 with controllers. If it works, then that's just how OP was meant to be thanks to countless years of conditioning.

Download megapacks of emulators and roms, then live happily ever after as couchsexuals.