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So here's the situation:
I'm behind on a loan that someone cosigned for me as at the time I was 19. In retrospect I had no business pulling out $2000 in automotive tools at 25% interest. I have tried paying it but I don't make enough to pay it off with other expenses I have. The account is about to go delinquent. HOWEVER My line of work is about to take me overseas and when I sell my car and what not I'll have enough to pay it but would drain my savings.
So do I pay it off? Or do I default and let the cosigner deal with it? We're not friends, an old boss somehow convinced him to cosign. I don't see it as morally right but I have to look out for myself. if I defaulted I'd give the tools back.
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Bitches for your time
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I don't know how to get over the fact i spent my whole life trying to help my parents and ended up in nothing.
During my whole life i have always helped my parents with their problems and always followed every order they would give me because i wanted to be the best son i could be.
Thing is most of my work didn't help on anything because my parents were always on a vicious cycle of infinite problems and bad decisions, which in fact ended up taking away most of my youth and savings.
Now that they are getting a divorce i feel kinda aimless and without purpose in life. I'm almost finishing my degree but it is on something i only did because my parents wanted me to and i'm simply not good at it or like the idea of working with this for the rest of my life.
I don't even like going at my parents place because they always nag about everything, i don't even like to eat with them because there's always something they won't shut up about or ask for help.
I mean,i know they are responsible for their own misery but having spending so much time helping on a lost cause kinda fucks me up. Now i have nothing to look up on life and i don't really know what to do or how to move on life.
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>>18221138
You can try:
Finishing your degree.
Finding cool job.
Finding cool gf.
Moving out with her from your parents.
Make some babies with her.
Be better parent then your parents.
Or read a book and play some videogame like undertale. Your choice.
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>>18221178
Well, assuming this is not simply a bait post.
I'm trying to finish my degree just to say i have one .
My current job is cool but it is not something i plan on doing for teh rest of my life, i can't find better stuff at the moment though.
The for the rest that requires a girlfriend i am literally a 25 years old virgin who never had a relationship with a girl besides work. I spend most of my life working or studying and i never had any time to actually try much. I'm also not a interesting guy at all so that is out of question.
For the last part i already play videogames and read books, but it doesn't help much.
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>>18221215
>bait
We do baits on /adv/ in different style. Baiting op to give you one measly (you) would be terrible bait plan.
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>25 mature guy with cool job and degree with no emotional baggage from cheating whores gfs
Use my post as permission to date op. You are at your peak in dating game. Even if you are fat, your value is probably higher than 18 chad.
Try some online dating or ask your friends friends to set up some date for you. You are old enough to start looking slowly for family thing.
>pro tip
Dont expect that your first girl will be THE ONE. It can happen, but dont break down in case she will be whore or something.
Now go and find happines in your life. It sure wont come itself. Google how to take slut-killing-A-grade tinder photo. Yesbyou can use tinder to find long term partner. All you have to do is start looking.
>start dating a girl with low self esteem who would go out and get fucked by random guys to feel wanted/attractive
>leave her later in the relationship because I want to play the field/ be with a better looking girl
>week goes by and realize I'm not good at that
>beg for her back
>she gives me a chance
>very happy for a month then she dumps me saying things aren't the same
>she continues to go out and fuck random guys while I haven't been with a Girl since
We dated for a year before this all happened. Very hurt by it and can't figure out how to move on. Can't find a girl to fuck or be with and I have no money to have fun right now.
How can I get over her? I feel like she was the best. Cute with short hair, liked same music as me, supported my hobby, freak in the sheets and accepts all my weird kinks and such....don't know if I'll find a girl as hot or hotter then her who will do all this and or possibly more!!!
Also theirs no way me and this girl can get back together. I'd feel gross being with her after she just goes out and does this shit after realizing that being with one guy is safer and better...
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Your SMV is too low, raise it.
Lift, practice conversational skills, go to clubs all the damn time with no expectation of sex. Just go out there to hang out and see what the successful guys are doing. Look as good as you can and feel like superman. The difference between you and her is that you have to work for sex while she just needs to find it.
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>>18221091
I ha started working out. I'm very good at conversation. That analogy is very accurate. It sucks. Also define SMV PLZ? Never liked th club. It's just guys grinding on girls and hoping they like it.
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>>18221082
You deserve the pain you're feeling cause of that double standard belief. You don't want to date her again cause she's whoring around yet you broke up with her because YOU wanted to whore around.
Could someone post a realistic ass that you can get from exercise that doesn't involve plastic surgery or having round hips (I have square hips)
I don't know what's considered a 'good' ass anymore outside of unnatural/very lucky girls with perfectly round and full asses
Also will a good ass make up for deflated saggy tits?
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just b urself
have confidence
u have 2 love yourself before someone else can love u
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>>18221010
NYC
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I want to have a GF but I don't want to "be a man"(In all senses, including both feminist, whore and PUA definitions).
What should I do?
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>>18221001
i dont have gf at 18 and busting ass to be a man step up the game niga no other way around it unless ur rich
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>>18221001
Don't worry, sperglord. I'm sure there is no intelligent person alive who reasonably expects you to act like an adult man.
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I don't even understand the question
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I'm wondering, what is the best method to bring drugs abroad? Like cocaine? Probably a eight ball and a few more bags of .7?
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>>18220988
Forget cocaine.
The best drug is the stuff inside shotgun shells. You can hide in you and pass through the TSA too, just load a couple shells into a gun, stick it down your throat and fire away.
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>>18220988
That is probably the fastest way how to make crime and go to jail at the same time.
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what do you do when you are suicidal/depressed. nothing gives me joy any more. food has no taste. i'm tired all the time. i have no friends
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>>18220983
I usually think about how killing myself would hopefully be detrimental to some people which makes me feel guilty so i push it off another day.
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>>18220983
Force yourself to do things. Just because you have no friends right mow doesnt mean you cant. Go out, be social. Any old things you enjoyed, try doing them again and eventually youll like it again. Dont give up on yourself. Be the person you want to be, not who you think yourself to be.
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Maybe/possibly in the same boat as you, OP.
I'm not exactly hateful or spiteful of the world, I just feel bored of everything.
I also rely on /lit/ for any social contact
Are these red flags?
I'm young, though, maybe these are passings.
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Well /adv/ im a complete loser and i need help talking to this girl. What are some things we can talk about because i cant hold a convorsation. What are your convorsations like?
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>>18220952
dubs decides what I say to this guy
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>>18220952
How about you first learn how to spell conversation?
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>>18220952
Start off by asking simple questions like how her day is going. From there try to make it more interesting.
Your first conversations will be a little awkward, but once you start talking to her over time you'll be able to have a wide variety of conversations.
These things take time.
If it doesn't go well, she wasn't the one in the first place.
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So I've been trying to go to this weekly meetup at my local comic shop the does some kind of role playing thing as a way of learning to socialize and make more friends. Trouble is that I don't know jack squat about these kinds of role playing games and I am simply too much of a chicken shit faggot to ever bother joining.
I haven't had any real friends since high school, which was well over a decade ago, so I am really out of practice on how to socialize. Top of all that I probably have some kind of social phobia (I physically tense up and panic in social situations although I am a lot better when it comes to interacting with co-works and family); which is why I have trying to join this group in the first place.
I don't have a huge interest in table top rpgs but I figure since I am already into comic books, video games, anime etc that role playing rpgs are sort of in the same wheel house and entering into a group such as this would be my best bet at learning to be more social
How do I learn to sop being a chicken shit faggot and join either this group something similar?
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>>18220893
ask them to sit in on the first campaign and join in on the next one
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>>18220893
Explain that you want to learn but you don't know how it works.
RPG players, in my experience, fucking love teaching newbies and telling stories about previous campaigns. They will be excited that you are interested.
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But I am literally too scared to even get close to the table and ask to join.
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Second year/rising third year uni student here. I've tried all the "standard" advice, like joining clubs and talking to people in my classes, but I can't seem to click with anyone. I try to keep up a cheerful, open personality, but it doesn't work. How do I do it?
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You are the weird one. Enjoy.
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Well if you still don't "click" with people despite interacting with them often and being open and friendly there are 2 possible options:
There's something off-putting about you. I don't know what, maybe your looks, maybe you smell, maybe something you tend to say, maybe something related to your personality. If you haven't already you should read "How to win friends and influence people" by Dale Carnagie, it may help you figure out if you're doing something wrong.
Or you're just really fucking boring in your conversations, looks and attitude. You always try to be safe, never say or do anything interesting, funny or edgy and you're easily forgettable. If your conversations tend to be repetitive, tend to gravitate really mundane subjects like the weather, school/work and celebrities this might be your issue. You could also read "The art of seduction" by Robert Greene, it offers some pretty interesting insight in what fascinates, intrigues and charms people (among other things).
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>>18220856
Out of those two options, it's more likely the latter.
Any general tips on how to become interesting or funny? I'm not naturally funny at all.
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can someone talk some sense into me?
Im really paranoid that ww3 is going to start and that ill have to fight, which i dread more than anything.
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Realistically ww3 is not likely, the costs of potential nuclear war is just too high.
If you're in America you won't be drafted. After Vietnam it was noted that the draft was what caused the anti war movement, which ended the military industrial complex's free ride, so the us army was reformed so most non combat jobs like cooking, digging latrines, base building, etc were done by contractors and not soldiers.
This allowed them to have pointless wars like Iraq and Afghanistan without creating huge anti war movements to get in the way of the bottom line.
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>>18220806
there will be no war, there's nobody that could stand against america anyway.
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>>18220806
Why so scared?
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Aight lads. I need some help decryting this.
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No idea what it means
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>>18220786
Would be better if the caption read
>American Sherman tanks loaded onto a lend lease ship (Atlantic ocean 1944, colorized)
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I dont understand this plz
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How do I launder money?
I am washing cars and it gives me around 1k Euros a month.
I live in the Netherlands.
I thought about buying gift cards (from different places) as a solution.
pic unrelated
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>>18220765
Why do you feel the need to launder legally acquired money?
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Cash money?
Bitcoin
Search Local Bitcoin online
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>>18220765
That depends on the rate money is coming in/how much money you have that needs laundering.
Judging by that hourly rate you're a low level-part time employee which makes laundering a lot harder.
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Day 51 abstained from Alcohol after a decade of daily alcohol abuse.
I hate today, it's painful.
My kids are driving me crazy
My work really sucks
I'm pretty sure my wife hates me
I'm ready to hop back in a bottle
Figured I'd like the universe know I'm weak, tired, and ready to be done with this bullshit we call consciousness.
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>>18220762
Go and have a nap. No matter what you have to do right now, the consequences of not doing it won't be as bad as starting to drink again.
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>>18220762
Take a really cold shower
It shocks the system and reminds you that you are able to withstand any discomfort if you set your mind to it.
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>>18220762
Stop thinking.
You've got control over yourself. Assume it
Nobody's controlling you, you control yourself, you only do what you want. What YOU want.
Everything's gonna be fine if you remember this once in a while. Remember that not everything is certain too and you'll become more aware of what surrounds you. Try to contemplate the present too.
I can't seriously image what you're going through but i'm giving my best advice to keep you focused of who you are and what defines you.
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how to get a hair-style like Edward Norton?
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>print out picture
>go to barber
>show him picture
>ask him for a cut like pic related
You now have hair-style like Edward Norton.
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>>18220738
How functionally inept can someone be to not just know >>18221048
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OP here.
>>18221048
thanks, anon.
>>18221053
i thought it has a particular name :(