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because taking a step where you can't backtrack is a hard thing to do and takes balls

>>16742053
Sometimes being friends with a girl u like feels better then being with them. I mean they can fuck who ever i don't really care

>>16742053
I never made any moves on the girl I desire for two reasons:

1. Fear of losing her. If she doesn't reciprocate then our friendship will falter. Not having her in my life at all would be devastating. I can handle not having a wonderful life because we're together. I am reasonably sure that she doesn't see me as a romantic prospect and never will. Confirming or disproving this would be too dangerous. I'm risk-averse.

2. My wife wouldn't like it.

>>16741572
it depends on how you view sex.

some people come out of it devastated. they feel dirty and even more pathetic than they did previously. the realization that they actually had to pay for sex comes forward. another contributing factor is that sex, while great, is just sex. this fantasy that having sex will be the end-all solution to all your problems is shattered. it almost feels unfulfilling because you had such high expectations.

or you come out of it smiling. happy that this gigantic weight is off your shoulders and that this milestone in life is finally complete. you have a more realistic perspective on sex and feel less pressure when it comes to romantic/potentially romantic situations.

your interpretation after the act depends on you.

also don't get arrested you faggot.

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>>16741572
Go for it, as long as you don't succumb to any misguided feelings of shame or anything, she looks like a fun time!

Ew. If you wanna get herpes and hpv, and then give it to a future potential gorlfriend go for it

Op pic related btw

>>16739934
What's wrong with Kevin cum inside her you moral.
Ler her go. She finally wants to have a good relationship don't you ever killed her by making her never want one ever again.
You retarded.

>>16739960

How am I retarded?

>>16737930

Of being a woman? Meaning you are one?

>>16737938
yes.

It's just such a stupid handicap to have.

>>16737930
Get off 4chan. The anti-women sentiment here can rub off on anyone, even women.

If this post isn't bait, you are too insecure and racist to handle her. You already know this relationship won't work.

If it helps, "white privilege" isn't a personal attack. It doesn't mean you personally have done anything wrong.

>>16735937
what this anon said

>>16735927
Remind her that her kind get to go to college for free basically just for passing high school. Then turn 360 degrees and walk away.

Dear Hitler,

It wasn't the Jews. It was the Swedes all along. Gas them before they dominate the world.

From the future.

Hi dad,

I hope you're not too disappointed in me. I wanted to be so much like you, and I've failed. I hope someday I can see you again, I wish I could make you proud. If nothing else ever happens in life for me, I just want you to be proud of me

Your son

J

Not being able to speak is killing me..
I'm so sad
But I can't even cry I feel so hollow
I fucking miss you
Fuck

>>16741769
Psychology is pseudoscience

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>>16741773
except it's conducted using scientific means and therefore is science.

Any advice for decent alternative degrees other than something in mathematics or biology?

Just cause your weeaboo ass can't get one, don't mean they're deluded.

She's deluded because you are a pussy faggot stay away from women and keep on sucking dick let the real men have them.

>>16741427
tell her to wash her stank pussy

>>16740836
Take both on the same date.
Tell them they are competing for you.
Point out what you'll be judging them on.

>>16740855
I know one girl a lot more than the other, I am going to date the other to get to know her more but she texts me everyday and says goodnight while the other just falls asleep whenever. I don't know what to judge them on, they are both great.

>>16740870
That just means she's infatuated with you for now. It won't last trust me. She'll expect you to be the one to do it and will go apeshit if you don't.
I'd go with LTR

>>16740330
means she wants you to eat her ass.

>>16740333
How could that be pleasurable for a women at all? She isn't into buttsecks so that's out. Any other ideas?

>>16740336
>How could that be pleasurable for a women at all?
For some women, it's more pleasurable than normal oral. You don't necessarily have to stick anything in there.

>>16739008
Hi, I'm a guy who used to be in your position. Ultimately it didn't work out that way for us (I got butthurt and insecure at not feeling reciprocated attraction and moved on, though we're still best friends).

No, it isn't impossible. She could want someone to have a deeper relationship with, even if it isn't born of physical attraction.

Have you ever talked to her about relationships? Do you know of its something she'd want?

And bigger question, do you know if it's something she'd want WITH YOU? Because, as I learned, normal rules of relationships still basically apply even if a traditional physical courtship and relationship is off the table. You could very well be in the friend zone.

>>16739033
I talked to her about relationships. She seems to avoid this topic, sometimes mentioning how everyone thinks she's gonna get married and have children at some point, but she just haven't met the right guy.
To be quite honest, it's hard to tell. She sure allows me to get close to her more than anyone else, this including hugging and sleeping together, while she is really obsessive about her personal space. We are very close as friends, and i kinda feel like she has some kind of deeper feelings for me, but i can't say for sure.

>>16739077
Ha. That's...very familiar.

If she says she hasn't met the right guy, it means she's open to it. All the doubt in the world cant change that fact.

Honestly, and I mean really honestly, if you guys are close friends, you should be honest with her and tell her how you feel. Get her opinion. Even if it doesn't work out in your preferred way, you guys can talk about it, and your friend will help as much as she can. I mean, that's how you got this far, right? Communication, and trust?

Just don't keep secrets, don't lie about your intentions, and don't back down out of fear. You guys can survive a potentially awkward relationship confession. It''s the doubts and fear that get you.

>>16735106
explain to him how bernie will be an absolute failure of a POTUS because of his unwillingness to compromise and his dog shit understanding of economics.

and the fact that the house and congress are GOP'd as fuck.

well, why do you support donald trump?

>>16735106
tell him how much you like bernie's hair compared to trump's

Just gotta keep telling yourself it isn't worth the trouble starting shit with them.

It's usually quicker and easier just to be nice anyways. Besides, at the end of the day, you can go home and not see them. Unless they're a roommate, and you have my sympathy.

You cuck Robert Pattinson with a random director, das how. True love, ladies and gentleman. Oh wait, just a sec, my stalker needs me.

>>16739791
Its more of a general issue with humanity itself

I don't believe other people should get kindness when they're duplicitous whores out for themselves and to look good

Whats preventing you from just telling him how you feel?

>>16739643
It's embarrassing. What if he says no? I don't think i can face my friends one he says No to me. No doubt if he thought the same.

OP here. Any helps at all?

>>16738960

Sounds gross to me. There's a reason why girls on the opposite of your spectrum are attractive.

None of it makes much difference. It all adds up in the end of course.

That said heels are stupid anyway.

Yes they will hairy legs are off putting hairy pits are gross
Hairless both are sexy
Even if you're really ugly or fat it'd help