My girlfriend absolutely refuses to have sex, at all, ever. She said she's ok with me fucking her when she's drunk enough, but by the time she's drunk enough, she's so drunk it's off-putting.
It's been two months and we haven't had sex. What do I do?
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why wont she let you fuck her?
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>>16761578
I don't know. She just says no.
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>>16761581
ask her why and then update
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I have a friend whos a nice guy and has all of the nice guy problems.
He hangs out with me and our friends and is kinda like the little brother of the group.
Heres the problem, he can never get a girl. Like ever. When girls come to hang out with us theyre either sitting in everyones lap but his and stroking our ego. Hes also the shortest at 5'7 when we are all 6' and up.
How do I get him to be attractive to girls.
He used to be fat. Like 240lb at 5'7. I forced him to go to the gym with me and workout and after a year or two hes now 160lb. Now the catch is its still not enough to pull woman. Hes just not a fatass and still looks a little chubby but not FAT.
Then he gets his confidence broken all the time. He will setup to confess to a girl and then they mention they like taller guys, or more muscular guys. Or he'll invite a girl to hang out with us (I told him hed have more success if he combined them with the rest of his life) and they latch on to one of us. So he tries not to bring girls he likes around us. Which means we cant help him. Although we did force him to stop chasing 9.5/10s.
At first I just thought that women were at fault because they just use him as an emotional sponge and then date other guys. Hes the guy they look at and tell us we should be sweet like him, but they go for us and not him.
Now Im thinking however the problem is that he comes off as romantic but asexual if that makes sense. Like he doesnt want to fuck girls. Hes not bitter girls are fucking other guys, hes just salty he cant get a girl. I think woman pick up on that. Like when Im alone with a girl I can tease her into stripping but people treat him like a child who would be scarred at any sign of sexuality.
Is this the real problem with nice guys. That they are TOO nice and it removes any sexual tension that could possibly be created.
Pic related. The type of girl he likes (taller than him RIP)
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>>16760927
the best you can do is keep pushing him at the gym. thats great progress and soon his body will catch up and he'll be lady-bait.
that being said, maybe try and talk to him directly about the way to pursue women., he seems to be a romantic, but girls dont like that til the relationship is already established. until then he should be more flirty and fun.
i think the best way to do it is to make a distinction between specific actions that make him more of an emotional friend and less of a potential partner.
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Its not that hes too nice, which i'm sure hes a polite dude. But he doesnt have any self confidence and also yes, girls can pick up on saltiness and especially the desperation, which a lot of 'nice' guys try to hide with being nice in an effort to get into her pants.
He needs to first have other things in his life besides girls. Does he like to do sports or something? 5"7 is really not a problem. Being a bit chubby isnt that bad. But lack of self worth is. He gets used because he LETS himself get used.
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>>16760927
tell the fatty to aim lower.
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What advice would you give to your younger self? Be honest.
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get some decent clothes and a decent hair cut.
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Don't come to 4chan, you'll never leave.
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you were right that the others were wrong. wish you'd believe yourself more instead of thinking you're crazy.
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How do you know if you're gay or not?
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>>16763151
shove a dick in your mouth and see
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>>16763164
I'm not ok with oral either way.
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Do you find men sexually attractive? Do you find the idea of doing sexual things with men sexually attractive? Can you get off to gay porn or erotica?
And, most importantly, do you like doing sexual things with men?
I literally didn't realize I was bi until I met this guy who I really clicked with, then realized that the gay porn should have been a bit of a hint in the first place.
I was bicurious for a while but this really drove the point home that my same-sex attraction was real and not going away.
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Before you post a question, check here to see if it's already been answered
Keep your questions short and sweet for more answers.
And please no derailing arguments.
Avoid asking these common questions:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
Some do, some don't. Our answers are not going to help you.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Think positive, and get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it.
>I like someone. What do I do?
Ask them out.
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Is my body part big/small enough?
>Am I short/tall enough?
Most likely
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. Stop overthinking it.
Alternative answer: we don't fucking know.
>XYZ happened. Did I fuck it up with this guy/girl?
Maybe, maybe not. We're not in their head, we don't know. No amount of your walls of text will fix that.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing
>Would you date a virgin?
As long as they aren't insecure about it. Complexes are a total turn-off.
>Someone has made it abundantly clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>
>That one guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships
No one wants to cuddle you. Stop asking
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What makes a man handsome to you apart from physical characteristics?
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>>16759753
Handsome literally refers to someone's physical appearance. Having a handsome personality isn't a thing
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>>16759753
Yeah what the other anon said
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>go to bar with friends
>get drunk and hook up with a girl
>wake up, she's gone... Until I go in the kitchen
>she's enormous... And kind of ugly
>instant regret, about to ask her to leave, see big breakfast, decide to eat.
>says she normally doesn't hook up like this
>tell her I gave her the best birthday night.
>suddenly feel guilty, tell her I have to go to work.
>at work, friends make fun of me.
>girl I had a thing for calls me a pig rangler.
>get home
>apartment is clean, note on table with fat girl's number on it.
Why am I considering asking her out...
Should I?
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>>16761847
Ay yo hol up.
Like just how big are we talking about here?
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Hey, if she's the only prospect for you right now, do it if you're not completely repulsed by her.
It's practice, you can get good at fucking that way.
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>>16761860
I don't know How to describe her size... She's much bigger than I would normally go.
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Hi /out/ I need your very best advice for this one
>be hiking easy trail alone
>catch up with this friendly dude
>he's really into /lit/ so we talk for a bit
>his gf shows up near the end of the trail
>she's a really good looking 9/10 /fit/izen and really into /out/
>thisisthegirlofmydreams.png
>she lives somewhat near me
>literally I start having goosebumps
>we all walk together for a bit
>she's really awesome and the guy is quite nice too so we agree hiking and maybe do an overnight in the next weeks
>I add her on facebook
>overnight is on, february 6
>ohboyohboy.mp3
My question is, how do I fuck with their relationship without being too obvious? How do I make them argue and shit during that day?
I know this is a bad thing to do but fuck it, I'm really into her and in love, just like in war, there's no rules. As I said the guy is a /lit/ dude, not the most manly guy out there but still a solid 7/10. Myself I'm a hardcore /out/ist and /sp/erg, also a solid 7/10 physically and I could easly rekt him apart, but he's a cool guy and I don't want to apear to be retarded in front of her.
Anyways ny ideas are very welcome, I'll post results and pics of her after the meeting. Thanks lads.
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yikes... you sound like a super beta faggot dude.
This is not going to work, you'll make an ass of yourself and leave with your tail between your legs full of regret like a bitch.
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>>16761031
Holy shit. Looks like some people missed out on the rules growing up.
Rule #1- don't be "That Guy"
You will become "That Guy who tries to break up a relationship to get with a girl because, dick stiff"
Don't ever be "That Guy"
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>>16761032
>super beta faggot dude.
Protip: I'm not
>This is not going to work
Maybe, but I'll try it anyway
>you'll make an ass of yourself and leave with your tail between your legs full of regret like a bitch.
No, I don't
Now post ideas or gtfo
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I'm almost dating a guy, who is significantly older than me. I have a cute face, am small and have a petite body. How do I prevent him seeing me as a perfect, innocent girl? I don't know how to explain it better, but I don't want him to see me as a Lolita/doll/object
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Then tell him that.
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>>16760139
Pyromania.
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>>16760139
This is a self-correcting issue. If you actually start dating, he'll start knowing you better.
Just keep your eyes peeled and be assertive if you think he might start taking advantage of something.
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My bf has a really small penis. It literally does not bother me, as he can get me off really well from other ways, and I love him to pieces. But he is really sexually dominant and it bothers him he cant just fuck me like he wants.
Are there any pills, surgeries, etc he can look into that actually work? I thought of suggesting a strap-on but I feel like he would be upset at the idea. Plus it might hurt his junk. I don't know
Feel free to lol, I just want some advice.
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>>16757447
penis pumps but they make it harder to maintain erections, its not recommended.
penis size doesnt really factor in you can still jackhammer with a little one
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you know that there's a million guys out there you can fuck who don't have tiny dicks right
i mean yeah i applaud your dedication and all but let evolution take its natural course
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>>16757447
Unless he's literally into cuckoldry, I think he'd be very upset by the idea of a strap on. No idea what kind of pills are out there, but I know certain positions can help.
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Hey advice, not sure if this is the right board or whatever, but what's the cheapest, most effective way to commit suicide? Anybody have a good fool proof way to go meet Jesus?
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Use the helium tank method + calling ambulance if you can get guaranteed 100% pure helium.
If not there's a lot more info we need. Do you care if it's messy? Where do you live? Do you care about burial and shit like that? Do you care about mentally scarring relatives? Do you care about how the media/your acquaintances/friends/family percieve your death (e.g. dying from overdose on cocaine and caring about being labeled a "drug overdose"/accident)?
I need all these specifics, OP.
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if jesus ever actually did live he died a very long time ago so it would be impossible to meet him, especially after you die since you'll no longer be able to meet anyone.
Anyway as to the first part of your question the most effective ways to commit suicide are helium inhalation (which is an inert gas so you don't have to worry about it harming other people) or shooting yourself in the head. If you do go the latter route make sure the gun is pointed towards the back of your head instead of just under your chin. If its too far forward you'll just shoot your face off and have to wait to bleed out instead of being killed (almost) instantly.
Don't bother with pills, you'll just get really sick, and throw them up. No matter how suicidal you are you'll also likely reconsider your suicide attempt while you're lying there in agony for hours which is just human nature.
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>>16759010
I'd like it to be clean. I live with 2 other people so I'd like it to be quiet as well. Nothing stuff related. I just want them to not have to worry about me, and waste time and money on me any more
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Any of you guys dealt with GF's trying to control your video game time?
I'm 30, well paying job and love video games. I go to the gym 5x a week and keep myself busy.
But my GF of 2.5 years is getting on my nerves. She thinks my game time of at most 2 hours at night after work is considered an addiction
I told her that it's my time to unwind and enjoy my "me" time.
She believes that a 30 year old shouldn't play games.
I have been trying to communicate to her that gaming is a hobby for guys, especially for those that grew up playing it as a kid.
She doesn't seem to understand that it is not an addiction, but more of a guy hobby.
How do you win at this? I feel like she is making me choose my relationship over my gaming time that I play with my old time college buddies a few hours a day to wind down and enjoy myself.
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She's being controlling. She needs to accept your hobby is your hobby and it sounds like a harmless one at that. 2 hours is not much especially if you can fit gym time in. She needs to get real.
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thats how it starts op, first its your "me" time, then its when you wake up or go to sleep, and it never fucking stops. you are not the one figthing about this, its her, not you.
if this escalates to things like no sex, make her know that of this behaviour continues you will break up with her
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>>16756456
I even told her that she is, but she is in denial.
She says "it's not normal for a guy to play video games at my age"
I'm just at a loss for words with her logic.
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I took a job that absolutely destroyed me. And unfortunately I think it made me develop a bipolar disorder.
>day 1, pizza delivery place. I come in. I'm dead silent. Apparently this freaks out the hippies who work there.
>girl talks to me, I put up barrier, she tears through it.
>my barrier is gone, the potential for millions of deeply laid mental issues to come bursting out is here...
>I feel like it's safe to talk about it. Tell them a little about myself. Mom burned my house down and my dad left me and I lived in the ghetto my whole life, been shot, raped, have scoliosis and carpal tunnel
>everyone is fucking terrified of me now, because now they know this combined with the fact that I'm 6'4 and have long menacing hair
>start having manic episodes because this period of talking with people is juxtaposed by lonely experiences operating heavy machinery, which is what I'm typically used to and what I signed up for
>it gets pretty heated between me and some of the people
>I start trying to perpetuate the idea that I'm a monster the time when the people started treating me like one.
>it got to the point where I just dumped my stuff outside the store and shouldn't have dealt with it
ugh, I should have took that advice from that other driver to quit day 1.
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>>16759208
.......what..........
you sound like you overshared, and then started acting insane.
I'm not sure it matters where you work, Anon.
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>>16759291
Yeah, I did. I thought it was an ok place to share. Guess that it's never ever really gonna ever be the case.
I only started acting insane though, when my pain started acting up and they were totally unempathetic to it. That FUCKED WITH MY HEAD bad.
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>Telling a sob story at work
What the fuck is wrong with you? They probably thought you were gonna snap and kill someone.
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What to do if boyfriend is giving the silent treatment- for a WEEK? It's just starting to make me VERY resentful. I didn't think he was so childish from the start...
He's done this before but not quite this long, and I'll be the one to say ok listen let's just work things out. This time I've messaged him a few times, and called leaving a message twice...
What's the next step?
I'm absolutely kept in the "dark". No idea what's going on. I don't want to keep messaging/pushing him if he needs time to think over things...
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>>16759031
Dump him. He's an idiot. No one should give the silent treatment after elementary school.
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Last time I called and left a message was last night around 12pm, and now it's about 9pm here. I don't know if I should just let it go and stop trying to contact him, or call him again tonight, or message him through facebook, or what to say when I message him. "holy shit you're being childish and manipulative, fuck it i'm blocking you", or what
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>>16759035
fuck it's so hard though...
Hey adv/. My boyfriend and i have dated for 5 months. And he prefers to hang out with his friends instead of seeing me. When I do hang out with him and his friends I am ignored. Once we went bowling and he paid more attention to this girl more than me. He sat in front of her talking to her and he left me sitting alone. She bought french fries and she offered everyone but me. Since then I did not like her. And I never liked how he talked about our problems with her and message her all the time. Plus he always tells his friends our problems. If I tell him something, he tells them. He told them I did not like them. He usually only wants to see me once a week. That's enough for him, but he likes to see his friends every day. I'm usually the one making plans and asking if he's free. He rarely does that. He says he loves me but it just doesn't feel that way. He also said he would stop seeing the girl i dont like. But today i saw them together hanging out with the rest of his friends at our university. I don't know what to do anymore. Any advice?
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youre easy pussy
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Not sure if you're serious but he doesn't care about you.
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Didn't even finish reading the preview in the catalog, but holy shit this guy doesn't give a fuck about you, find a new one.
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Do schools kill creativity?
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Do you think school kill creativity ?
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>>16756349
I think the problem with schools is that the teachers usually teach their way of doing things, so the students all keep doing the same shit. But if you happen to get good class mates, they might actually help you be more creative.
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>>16756349
I think it's the biggest meme ever made.
Makes me angry
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>>16756349
You should be creative without school.