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>>16749340
Why so specific?

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STOP

let's hear your height and weight

Gaming tournaments.

Yeah

Does she know you take dicks up your ass?

>>16749065
yeah to what? Tell, or just be quiet?

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>>16748988

Light

Light, but work on your smile it looks kinda dumb.

Tell him to nut up.

>he doesn't like guns and thinks hunting is inhumane
Either stop dating a woman or have your Dad make him into a man

>>16748328
/thread

(Cont.) OP

>Wake up in the mourning and drive home.
>really cant get this girl off my mind, I don think shes in a relationship right now. maybe i'll just flat out ask her.
>next night i go over Dude 2's house and its just me and him for now.
>he tells me that he think girl really likes me.
>o god... i have to tell her now.
>do drink n' play and when the night is done i offer girl to drive her home.
>she insists but im just like, naw its okay.
>as im driving i tell her i get really uneasy aroun her because im in love and stuff.
>she just tells me to text her as she gets out of the car.
>thought i fucked up, i didnt get her... and i dont even text her because im just too nervous.
>the next night we drink and play truth or dare with myself, girl, and Dudes 2 and 3.
>i get truthed to say how i feel about girl.
>i say i really like her.
>i truth girl same question and get no response.
>(yeah, she totally hates me and im making her feel uncomfortable.) shit.
>night goes on and im tired af so i lay down in dude 2's futon bed thing while dudes 2 and 3 are chillen in the kitchen and girl decides to lay down with me. says shes tired too or something.
>i sort of hug her slowly and awkwardly for a few minutes and she just rolls over, says "im sorry for this", then kisses me for a good 5 - 10 seconds.
>whoag.
>she says sorry again and rolls back over and i comfort her telling her its okay. and things pretty much kick off from there.
>ta-da! have gf now.

>About a month later, Dudes 1 and 4 know about me and girl and want to talk to me.
>Sure, im friends with both of them, why not?
>go over their houses individually and talk to them and they both explain to me how shitty of a person/gf this girl is.
>also find out that shes been on and off both of these guys at the same time for months. even as we speak while im officially her bf.

>>16747956
How did she react?

(Cont.) OP

>ok im dead inside now. have to decide if i want to really try and continue the relationship with her or to just end things now and just explain to her that this was really rushed into or something.
>i work overnights, i actually just started a day after we made relationship official.
>go over dude 2's house to chill with girl for a bit before i leave for work. (Dudes 2 and 3 are pretty much the tie between me and girl because we are still just starting out and dont really know each other to well or whatever).
>I tell her, crying, that i know what she is doing and that im not looking to mess around. my feelings are 100% real and i would like to have a real relationship.
>she says ya and hugs me, we make out, i go to work.
>also find out that she is apparently pushing dudes 1 and 4 away, so, maybe she really does care about me like i do her.

>About 2 months roll by and dude 1 starts talking to girl again.
>he tells me that they are just talking and they are just catching up. and would really like to all be friends yadayada.
>ok, that would be nice.
>we all go on this camping trip to some camp ground (all being me, girl, dudes 1,2, and 3)
>Dude 1 goes to girl and says he wants to talk to her alone, she says to ask me first.
>he never comes to me, so i eventually ask him what the deal was.
>says its nothing, just wants to talk to her and stuff.
>i got a pretty vague idea of whats going on here, so i tell him not unless in front of me.
>girl told me he like, rubbed her back or something while walking by her and i bring that up to him.
>he denies it and pretty much walks away.
>dude 3 tells me that he will go with dude 1 and girl while they talk and i can trust him.
>okay whatever, go for it.
>let them talk and everything is just fine afterwards.
>ask dude 3 what happend and he just said arguing shit.
>ya sounds about right
>ask girl even later on and she says similar only that he tried to kiss her and tell her that he misses her and all this other junk.

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Not really, even stuff like "I don't want to hurt my friends/family" aren't real reasons, you don't get an epilogue when you die, it is just over, so you don't have to care about that

>>16747971
How do I buy things online?

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>>16747976
What do you want to buy?

>>16745906
Yes, white pussy was made for black cock

>>16745906
There's a million ways to reject somebody. Why do you choose this way? You deserve it.

>>16745906
No, you're not racist. Everyone has their own tastes and preferences. He's just butt hurt.

You must be 18 to post here, son.

Talk to her. Communication is the key to a healthy relationship

You really need to give more context, because if she's a normal, friendly person with social skills, she's GOING to have friends both male and female. If you try to find a girl who doesn't have ANY male friends, you're going to find a girl that nobody wants to be friends with.

The only reasonable request you can (and should) make, is that she doesn't spend "alone time" with other men while she's in a relationship. Group activities are fine, but one-on-one hangouts with other men are not.

You should also just be more involved in her social life, get to know her friends and BE FRIENDLY to them. You'll probably be more comfortable if you actually know these people and it's not all so mysterious to you

>>16748762
Just check her hymen every time youre suspicious.

No.

>>16747626
If only, since they'll basically win at life just by existing and that would "nerf" them, but no.

9/10 (average /soc/ rating) guy here.

Yes. Relationships are much more shallow. Some guys will just hang around me so they look cool and get girls. Some guys will treat me like shit when I haven't said a word to them, because they assume I'm "Chad Thundercock" who maliciously steals all their girls. A lot of girls think they're in love with me at first site, so it makes talking with them awkward. They think it isn't weird that they're being super nice to me, because "omg you're just such a nice guy :D".

I'm 20, and the only friends I still have are ones from childhood, or through special circumstance. You can also call it "lonely by choice", but it's not like the people who surround me truely care about me, and if they do it's very had to tell.

You just try inviting out any of the girls you enjoy talking to. You find out which are fun to talk to by trying to talk with them for a bit. The sexual bit will be the last part you find out.

This is a numbers game.

>>16747322
Fun, attractive girls get laid. Deal with it, or go for unattractive girls.

>>16747333
No the ones who arent sleeping around are taken though in committed relationships. But they cant all be.
>>16747332
I talk to a lot of girls. Because they are everywhere. When theres a connection between me and one they turn out to sleep around a lot.

No because they'll eventually get over it/ deal with it.

Don't do it. Become successful (whatever that means to you) and cut them all off

You could get the same effect faking a failed "suicide" attempt than actually killing yourself

Suicide pleb mate.
Only reason I don't commit suicide is the pain it would cause to my beloved oned master race.

>>16744076
It sounds like he needs to go to a therapist to accept and love the way he is. No matter how much you love him, you are not equipped to handle his psychosis. If he does not get help, he may eventually blame you for being the object of his affection that makes him "abnormal" and take it out on you.

He needs professional help-
Be there to support him, but otherwise this is a journey that he needs to take with someone who had been trained

Does he cry during sex?

>>16744076
How was his upbringing? Was he taught that sexuality is something to be repressed? Did he grow up in a heavily traditional religious household that might condemn homosexuality?

He views being gay as a problem and doesn't understand how to accept it and in a way, that makes sense. It's easy to see your sexuality as shameful in a society which used to condemn such a lifestyle. I know that feeling, I'm a bi male so I can sympathize.

He needs to find out how to accept himself and who he is, the best course of action would be what the other anon already suggested, professional help. You could try doing it yourself but that's probably not a good idea given that leading down the wrong path can lead to resentment. Him going through therapy could really do a lot for him and your relationship.

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>>16746493
I want normalfags to leave and take their trivial bullshit with them

Let me get my mind reading hat...and...HOW THE FUCK WOULD THE INTERNET KNOW.

Also, why do you care.

Also also, birth control helps a ton with heavy, painful periods so yes there are legit reasons to take it other than sex. And having heavy periods while traveling sucks very very much, especially if you're doing work in a poor country with minimal sanitation.

Also also also, or maybe she's lying because she doesn't want to be judged by you and your extremely invasive and over the line question.

But WE CANT POSSIBLY HAVE ANY WAY OF KNOWING. Fuck. Try not being a dipshit on the future.

>>16746501

Why am I a normalfag? I just wanted to know if it seems like bs what she's saying

Stop generalizing is a good start.

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Ugly girl here.

Why do guys only care about looks?

How do you misdirect them with personality?

>>16746375
I'm not generalising, it's completely true.

>>16746378
Guys only care if you're fat, but you can fix that easily if you stop eating 3 pizzas a night.

wtf

The fuck is a 4chan nude bet?
Did he agree to it?
Were there more people on the chat?
I am confused

How did the argument go that pissed him off?