I started over-eating and throwing up because of some issues.
How do I protect my teeth because I've heard this habit is bad for them?
>>16747891
Stop throwing up would be a good start. Make sure to wash your mouth every time you finish other wise your stomach acid will peel your teeth enamel. Brushing or mouthwash even water works too.
make sure to throw up as fast after eating as possible. this way the food isn't "broken down" that much already. wash with water. don't brush your teeth or use mouthwash. that would be a combination that's too harsh.
chew some gum containing xylit instead.
make sure you drink loads of warm water with your food. it wil help to get everything up again fast and less painfully.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bulimia_nervosa
How do I deal w/ a snoring girlfriend? I've been dating her for a few months and I can't sleep next to her because she snores like a mother fucker.
I generally don't like sharing my bed, my gf of 7 years and I had seperate bedrooms and that was just fine. The fact that I am 1.97m/95kg (6'6"/210lbs in burgers) possibly accounts for that as well.
I've tried to explain that to her several times and she just can't accept it. She insists on sharing the bed and the fact that I would not share my bed in my past relationship makes her feel alienated. She thinks I'm exaggerating and behaving like a pussy, or a weirdo. I keep telling her to visit a doctor, but she doesn't want to (no universal health care in my country, insurance doesn't cover shit).
I simply can't do it, it is impossible for me to fall asleep while she's next to me, sawing at 115dB. Ear plugs don't help either, as it's a very low frequency noise, fuck, it sometimes even makes her shitty IKEA bed resonate. More often than not, I leave the bed to sleep on the couch, sometimes I don't even bother seeing her in the evening, simply to ease my sleep deprivation.
This shit is taking a heavy toll on our young relationship. Is there anything I can do? Has any of you anons been in such a situation before?
pic unrelated.
My Gf would snore like a motherfucker when she hit deep sleep. Moving her would stop it for a while so I would lightly rub her or nudge her so she shifted around the bed.
>>16747619
Additionally she never snored when she was stressed so it was comforting....until she stopped snoring for the 3rd year of our relationship and guess whT she was cheating on me.
Try recording her while she sleeps, and showing her the full extend to which she snores.
If you have a good relationship with her family, you could ask them what they think about it. They would definitely understand her snoring problem, and could tell her to see a doctor.
A girl I like added me on facebook a week ago.
Literally very time I have logged in she is online. I log in briefly multiple times a day.
I have even woken up in the middle of the night and opened Facebook and she has been online.
Is it normal for me to be kind of weirded out by this?
every* time I have logged in
She has Facebook and or Facebook Messenger running on her phone. No, it's not normal to be weirded out by this. Stop that.
shes online all the time most likely because her account is always signed in/available somewhere.
also you sound real weird guy but thats ok
so I'm having trouble with my marriage. my husband never wants to spend time with me. eve she I try to make thing special, cook his favorite food, dress up sexy for him, anything I can think of he still just isn't interested. he'd rather be on the computer. I don't feel like he loves me. so I guess should I just give up and get a divorce or should I stick it out for our kids? just having a very hard time with this. I feel so sad and isolated all the time
>>16746806
When you ask him what'[s going on, what does he say?
>>16746817
he doesn't really talk to me much. he would just talk about something else like what he's playing or maybe say hell only be on it for a while then put his head phones back on.
>>16746826
first step I would focus on trying to communicate with him about what's going on, etc. Maybe go see a counselor together who can moderate.
If you clearly communicate to him over long periods of time that you want/need to talk to him and that you have concerns about the relationship and he ignores you... then I would recommend hiring a divorce lawyer. You can't waste your whole life "for the sake of your kids." Your kids are important but so is your mental and emotional well being. You can't be a good mother to your children in a toxic relationship that sucks your soul out ya know?
Fight for your marriage. Communicate with him until you're blue in the face. Hire a counselor. Do whatever you can. But if he's checked out, he's checked out and you have to then switch gears into crisis mode.
How do I get a girlfriend with big boobies?
D-cup preferred but will go bigger as long as she isn't fat
>>16746757
Pay for them.
>>16746780
Ahhhhh no. Naturals only
I hit my boyfriend and he choked me and had sex with me while i was angry at him... is this normal? i hit him cause i was drunk and angry at him for something he did before, not cheating cause he knows better but anyway, he held my arms against the wall and told me to stop... i just laughed then when he let me go i jumped on him when he turned his back, and yes i was still mad,
and then he put his hand around my neck and i was pretty scared...and he pulled my pats doen and screwed me, i was still mad but i was like i said scared after he almost choked me, i know this is "rape" but i dont think it was, just wondering why he did that...seems like an inappropriate time to want sex.
> i know this is "rape"
No it ain't.
You smacked your man. He asserted his dominance.
You were put in your place.
Would you rather he have smacked you upside the head instead? That he treat you like a man and break your fucking jaw?
>>16746699
>just wondering why he did that
Because he could.
>>16746699
there is no wrong time for sex in a mans brain. it's not rape because in a relationship there is implied consent unless you say otherwise
So I have been dating his girl for about 2 months, and she seemed to really like me, and I have pretty heavy feels for her. The last couple of days she was acting weird, not replying to texts or opening my snapchats. I see her put one up on her story so I know she has her phone. The story she put up had a guy in it. Me being as cynicalways then as ever started to expect the worst, but capped it because she genuinely seemed to like me. Now, today she texts me that an old flame has moved back and she still likes me, a lot, as she says. But she also has feelings for him still and "doesn't know whats going to happen between them". What do I do? I feel very upset about this, and what I want to say is "spend some time with him, and let me know what you want after you do. Because it is either me or him. I won't compete for attraction." But I am afraid that she won't pick me. Better than picking me out of pity I suppose. I just can't help but blame myself. If I was not inadequate then she would not even be torn.
It's not your fault anon, she sounds kind of like a bitch.
>>16746288
She is not though, she isn't usually awesome. I just don't get it. She says she is "confused"
>>16746277
It sounds like you are going great to say the right thing. Let it be known that she can't just fuck with you and that you will put your foot down. Test if she likes you. If n she chose the other guy then young guys were probably not going to work out anyways.
how i it even possible to get a fucking girlfriend?
>>16745545
Just wait and see. Or go out and get one!
Get your act together, THEN look for a girlfriend. Don't put the cart before the horse.
It's possible because people have the capacity to stop filling their thoughts with fictions and falsehoods. It's a really straightforward process when you're honest with yourself. Should you date someone who offered you none of the things you want? Well no girl is going to date you under those circumstances either. Should you date someone whose looks don't arouse you? Well no girl is going to date an uggo either.
I understand the claim that people shouldn't change for the sake of impressing others, and that's true. Let's be real though: if women didn't exist, you'd still have the opportunity to do good things for your own sake. It turns out that becoming that sort of person is incredibly admirable. You'll still get to enjoy all of those good qualities for yourself and the affection of women as well.
Don't be shit. It's really that simple. I don't mean being good at games either. I mean legitimately being an amazing human being. Hercules, God-king, world famous mother fucker. At least that's what you aim for. It's clearly possible to land a girlfriend with far less but that would fall squarely into being a certain guy in order to impress certain people. The only legitimate route is the one with awesomeness.
I am almost done with my degree and will finally be able to move out of my parent's after graduation. Where should I go?
I want to live in a place that meets 3 criteria:
>climate must be warm year-round
>it must be politically left or moderate
>it must NOT be heavily populated by undesirables (ie. Hispanics)
>>16746936
Austin, TX. Come with money.
>>16746936
Dont be a fucking racist for one.
>>16746936
central valley CA
If you have a baby of the gender you don't want is it legal for a doctor to perform a sex change on the baby if the parents wish it.
Let's say that there is this couple and they both desperately want a boy but the wife finds out she is pregnant with a girl. Can a doctor legally surgically sexually reassign the girl as a boy, and then put the girl on estrogen blockers and give him testosterone growing up to make her into a boy?
>>16745761
I think it would be interesting to sexually reassign a baby to see how fluid gender is.
>>16745761
Sure, I'll do it for you. 100 bucks.
Highly and morally illegal. They did this to David reimer before there were laws for this thing and he never identified as female, had a strained relationship with his parents, and eventually he killed himself.
How does /adv/ feel about the names Cassiopeia or Montserrat for a girl. I want my daughter to have a unique name but a rugged name.
>>16745724
Awful. They are people, not hipster accessories of your personality.
I wish you many miscarriages.
>>16745724
Cassiopeia fine, Montserrat sounds like a fancy type of a turd
>>16745724
Awful.
Don't name your daughter something "rugged". What the fuck is wrong with you.
If you want something unique, go for something elegant like Anastasia
I'm scared of intimacy.
My gift was knowing my calling since childhood; my burden is finding a reason to give a fuck anymore.
I have a massive crush on one of my coworkers, which fucking sucks. I don't want this, at all. I've had the perfect boyfriend for four years now and this has never happened to me before. It's not even like I would choose my coworker over my boyfriend in any circumstance, I mean they're both nice and cool enough dudes but my boyfriend is perfect for me. It's just that with me working full time hours and only being able to see my boyfriend on sporadic days off, I see my coworker more than my boyfriend... I almost want to walk up to him at work and tell him I have a crush and demand that he reject me in the cruelest way possible so I can get over it. My boyfriend would be fucking destroyed if he ever knew about this. Why am I such a goddamn terrible person?
I wish I had somewhere to horde like when I was young. It was so relaxing picking through garbage to subsist on. I've considered going back to college for a degree in waste management, but I think being around hundreds of thousands of tons of garbage a day could be extremely dangerous.
How do I get over being flat-chested? Why is biology so cruel?
>>16745788
Find guys like me that like flat-chested girls
>>16745788
Enjoy it. I wish I was flat chested. Even after surgery I'm going to have ugly scars
>>16745791
I thought you were gay. Fucking shitposter.
Femanon here. Please explain, why do men send unsolicited dick pics? Are the men who do this aware that it's always unwanted?
seconding this. talked to my girl friends about this once, nobody enjoys it but men seem to believe so for some reason?
>>16745630
because they're stupid and desperate and think that because they are then you must be too, anad that you'll be so amazed by a picture of their dick that you can't help but ride throw caution to the wind and hop right on it.
tl;dr - they're morons
Maleanon, we're in the same boat, you and I. Maybe the dongsnappers think they can earn a hookup out of it?
Would you meet someone you met on 4chan in real life? If no, then why not?
I have multiple times. My advice is to be patient, cautious and attentive to your gut feelings. Be especially careful with how much personal information you give even after meeting. There's nothing wrong with introducing yourself with a middle name or nickname, for example. Remember that this is 4chan. Horrid things have happened here.
>>16745546
I plan on it 4chan is reddit lite these days anyway
>>16745546
Idk, depends how I met them and what our conversations were like. Why, OP? You got a specific scenario in mind? Tell us a story, honey.