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Hello,

This is probably the wrong place to ask but,

Do you guys think a woman who is a scientist/ doctor/lawyer/ etc would consider dating a guy with no college degree (and starting a family with them) IF

1. That guy made more money than they do

2. That guy was smarter or as smart as them?

I've been on dates with girls that are very smart and have high paying jobs, and the topic of 'so where did you go to school' always comes up.

They assume I have a college degree because of the way I speak, the way I dress, the car I drive, and they assume it's Harvard/yale/etc

When I tell them I never went to college, I always get this 'Oh really' or 'Oh' followed by this kind of raised eyebrows look.

And it's like a death sentence for the relationship. It's like they here I have no degree, and they move me from relationship material, to fuckbuddy.

I HATE it.

All I want is a girl that's smart to have kids with so we can have smart kids.

What also pisses me off is after I say I never went to school, their demeanor changes. They use smaller words. They talk down to me.

Like bitch, I make more money than you and I'm smarter than you why are you using monosyllabic words with me?
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>>16751250
You actually started a sentence with the word "but"? Check please. This date is over.
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>>16751254

thanks for your valuable input trip friend
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>>16751250
If he's as smarter or as smart as me and educated enough (even if not formally), yes, I'd date him. Money doesn't even really matter.

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How am I supposed to cope with knowing that I'm completely unattractive and will never experience a gf or friends?

I.E. how do I not kill myself and enjoy life and not feel lonely despite being forced to live alone for however long I choose to live?
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You don't need to be attractive to have friends.
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>>16748991
I can understand the gf thing over not being attractive (and even then that's debatable); but no friends over not being attractive? WTF? Do you want to be friends only with gay guys or what?
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>>16748998
Nobody wants to be friends with a disfigured person who is well outside the range of normal.

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so how tight is a pussy supposed to be ? should I be able to easily put 2 fingers in her without feeling like I'm dilating her pussy too much?
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>>16753578
Depends on the girl. Seems usually two fingers should fit, but three definitely too many
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>>16753578
depends on the girl. the vagina will expand during arousal. if the girl is nervous then she might be tightening up.
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>>16753578
Yes, but slowly, don't ram it in like a fast piston

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So, this summer I got a job (above board) in London as a driver for some Cleaning Service.
I'm from "eastern europe" and speak a couple of languages.

I guess what I want is for some brits to tell me what to look forward to as an immigrant and a few helpful tips on how to socialise would be appreciated.

some general info

> male
> 25
> Military Academy grad
> speak English , Russian
> have a EU recognised diploma in Nationa Security aswell
> looking to settle in England if possible otherwise just there for a summer job to make some bucks
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>>16753502

This is England m8 Socialising is a doddle if you can speak the language. However people like anywhere else don't like it when you're to forward with them. Just be in a good mood and have a sense of humor.

You can strike up conversation anywhere bus stop, restaurant, pub, chip shop, clubs, gyms so.
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>>16753541

Yeah, I noticed that people are pretty relaxed there, when I visited relatives in December. So I probably won't have to worry about not finding friends when I get settled. Thx anon
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>>16753571

also how is the dating game for foreigners? What I mean to ask is, are british girls racist about who they date or is this just the mudslime meme thing going on?

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How should I study? I can't concentrate at all, Even if I manage to force myelf to sit down to study, after half an hour I'm doing something else or my mind starts wandering by itself. I don't know how to stop this. I try but nothing works it just fucking happens, It's going on for a year now. People tell me I need discipline and good habits but how do I acquire that? I can't even start. Any advice? Or links with advice? Or anything? I'm so desperate that I'll even read self-help books I don't know what to do.
(I wish I was like Hermione)
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You could try focus enhancing drugs like Ritalin. Either fake symptoms of ADHD and get it legit or buy some off students.
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>>16752274
>Drugs are a solution to any problem!
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I used to recopy my notes by hand over and over for subjects that merely required memorization.

Overall just keep distractions to a minimum and study in a a different location. Keep trying different things until something works for you.

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Is there any external way to know that a guy will make you orgasm or do you absolutely have to shag them to find out?
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well lmfao do u need clitoral stimulation to orgasm or can you cum from PIV?
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>>16752037
Never gotten off either.
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>>16752033
I can make any girl cum using a simple trick

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So, I am having a dilemma.
Been single a long time, ask some friends to help me out... They set me up with a fat girl. Friends tell me give her a chance so I go on a date with her. I am not attracted to her at all, she exceeds my weight limit. Trying my best to seem interested, but notice I am not very good at acting as she seems to be visably saddened. Ask her what's wrong, she quietly says"nothing"... She looks almost heartbroken, I feel so bad I try harder to seem invested. Rest of dinner goes by, she's very nice, very nerdy and awkward, but very sweet. Drive to the park, sit under a tree and talk, she gets cold so I wrap her shoulders in my jacket. She now is visably flustered... Blushing. Eventually drive her home, walk her to her door, she gives me her number. I tell her goodnight, she leans in slightly... I hesitate... But end up kissing her... I am not the most experienced kisser but can tell she knows close to nothing based on how awkward it was... We make out for a few minutes, she's huffing... Tell her I should go... And walk to my car.

I haven't called her since but my friends keep telling me about how much she likes me and it makes me feel like a shallow dick... Personality wise she's perfect, but physically she disgusts me... Should I give it another go?
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Attraction is important...

What about when she wants sex and you can't get it up?

Better to be honest about it (but not brutal). Let her down gently, say that it's your issue and that you just aren't attracted to her.

Alternatively, tell her that you're gay and that you just didn't want your friends to know.
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>>16751922
there's no physical attraction. you will grow to resent her.

you niggas went on a date. conclusion after the date was that she's cool but not attractive. if the girl being attractive is important then this shit ain't going to work.

it doesn't make you a bad guy cause you don't want to date fat chicks. if they want to attract the sort of men they're aiming for then lose some fucking weight.
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oh my god no. that wouldn't be fair to her. you'd be dating her out of pity. i'd rather get rejected for being a fat cow than get pity date because i was fat. just end it where the two of you have some dignity, fuck lowering your standards.

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I'm pretty sure that I got friendzoned hard on a date tonight and I only realized it after I got home.

This woman I am absolutely in love with told me that she is attracted to me but she likes our friendship too much to take it any further. I told her that nothing has to change, that we can still have fun together but also be in a relationship and she just clammed up for the remaining ten minutes of the ride home.

On my way home I felt good about it, like we had made progress towards being together, but now I'm realizing that she was flat out telling me that it is not going to happen.

Was this as bad as I think it was?
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>>16751672
You don't love her. You're infatuated with her.
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she hasn't put you in the friend zone she's just turned you down.
Your action next decided if your going to friend zone yourself or cope with it in healthy mature way.
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yeah, she tried to let you down easily and you acted like a retard that didn't get the clue.

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My sister just had a child and they have yet to name him. Oddly he has a dragon shaped birthmark on his upper right shoulder blade, which looks pretty cool.

My sister wants to name him something that sounds Dragon-esque, but everything she has said sounds stupid.

Do you have any dragon inspired or dragon-esque names /adv/?
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>>16751613
Draco is the pleb answer.
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The dragon from Peters Dragon was named Elliott
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Obvious answer is obvious:
Arrax
Balerion
Meleys
Syrax

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So, greentext history time
>be me
>been in love with a girl for a long time
>dated her for 2 months like 3 months ago
>today is her birthday
>she invited me and asked if i could make the reservations and everything
>made the reservations, even get some special gifts because or her birthday
>got in contact with the club and managed to get them to put some birthday music and a congratulations message in the course of the night
>picked her and her friends at home and take them there
>in general, got sure it was a great party
>she ignored me a time during the party
>"well, she maybe just wanna talk with her girls"
>some dude she invited came
>she started dancing with him
>she kissed him

I just left the party and fuck, i feel really bad
Just wanna hear anything you have to say
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>>16751493
She sounds like a bitch. Ignore her from now on
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Take this as a lesson, brother. Never work for anyone this hard except yourself. But damn, I'd give you a fist bump irl if it'd help
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>>16751502
Yes, I gonna do that. I almost send her a message about this, but im restraining from it. It just hurt like a bitch

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Guys, I really need help. A friend of mine is being blackmailed.

The gist of it is she had pics of her stolen and now the guy is telling her she needs to pay him and fuck him or he'll publish the photos. She gave me the link he got them from.

I don't know jack about computers, so I don't know if the guy can be tracked or anything.

But how would you guys recommend she goes about this? Should she reply? For obvious reasons, she really doesn't want her photos uploaded. But what is the best way to deal with someone who is blackmailing you? Especially if they are likely from a different country...
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>>16751456
She should do what he asks. If she can't afford it do whatever sexual thing he desires. Or, alternatively tell her to meetup with him and just as she's pulling down his pants stab him with a knife and tell the cops he tried to rape her.
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But seriously, has anyone here ever dealt with something similar?
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>>16751456
You make this too difficult for yourselves.

Two options.

1. Contact the police.

2. Ignore the mother fucker and change the passwords to the shares of the photos or put them some where else.

Now go.

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How do I make money online?
What are some good freelance programming sites? Daddy needs a new CPU.
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>>16751060
bump
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>can program
>can't google for freelance websites

Hmm yeah okay
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>>16751062
bump

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Ask a drunk psychologist anything. I'll probably get drunker as we go so...fair warning.

Unless its dream analysis, I don't know you well enough for that shit.
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>>16750710
Are you as accepting of trans people as you say you are? Like if one comes in to see you, or someone shows up and asks you help getting started with HRT.

Asking as trans girl who feels like therapists never really accept or understand
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>>16750710
Psychology is pseudoscience and you're a hack
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>>16750718
Thats a complicated question. I work with a lot of trans* patients and I've written a lot of letters. If you'd asked me ten years ago I would have said yes without hesitation. In another ten I'll probably be back to there. As for right now...its the thing of the day and I've worked with more than a few people who thought that transitioning would change all their problems only to discover that it was the same shit with a different body.

That said, I'm a big believer in bodily sovereignty. If you want to transition and you're in treatment, I'll tell you whatever reservations I might have and write you a letter. Its not my place to tell you no. HRT changes a lot of lives for the better. Hell, I do two cycles of SARMs a year to perform the hell out of my masculinity, who am I to judge?

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I'm super depressed because every girl I try to pick up rejects and I think it's because of my height which is 5'4. Can a manlet actually get a girl?
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It's not because of your height.
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>>16750668
THIS
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>>16750630
Have you considered approaching the mentally handicapped? They'll appreciate your disability and compassion.

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>Met cute girl online
>have everything in common
>She lives with bad family where her mom buys smokes more then food
>One day I go to her house and bring her home with me, so she doesn't live an awful life anymore
>Have 4 amazing years together
>Help gf get a job at where I work, at Walmart
>Everybody at my job likes her
>Get fired a week later over nothing
>Car breaks down as well
>Struggle to get a new job for 6 mouths
>Girl leaves me for someone at the job
>Say she been cheating on me with someone at work
>She leaves me in a hurry, take her clothes and the PS4
>Wants to come back and take most of the Amiibo collection we got together too, and the Wii U
>She brought most of the fun stuff, while my money goes on bills
>And she said, she'll call the cops on me, if I hurt the guy she with now.

She used to be the sweetness girl I knew, and my only friend, but she said he has out grown me, and thinks she too good for me now.
This happen all last mouth too.

But it doesn't end there
>A week after she left, I got hired for a good paying businesses job
>Found a place to sell my old car, and get one hell of a deal, and got a new Camry

Right when my life was going to shit, I finally got some luck.
>Just got a call from my ex a day ago
>She living with bad people and has a nasty cut on her arm because of them
>She sick, and doesn't eat because the guy she was cheating on me with told her she was only for fun, not a girlfriend to him
>Told her all the good things that's happening to me
>and told her I'm keeping all the amiibo and other shit, and if you come near my house, I'll call the cops.

This is what she looks like from two years ago, she looks worst now, with brown hair, and a bunch of ugly make up.

I still don't know how a few people change her from being this sweet girl to the trash from the street.
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>>16751644
Do you have a question?
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>>16751644
She needed you, she went for you. That's how women think. The other guy was smart, fucked her while you paid for it.

Either you are a man and tell her to fuck off out you're a pussy and take her back.

Or even better, fuck her like he did. Do some booty calls, just go right in and fuck her, then dump that bitch.
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>>16751644
She embraced it.
You fell for the "save me" routine. She never really had it in for you, you were just an opportunity.
Once she had some freedom she made the choices she wanted to make and it fucked her over. (As expected).

But you have to remeber she had no real parents, so she was never taught or shown good decision making. People in those situations have to learn things for themselves and make their own values and morals, they cant get taught.

She ended up coming to the wrong conclusions. Thats all.
A shame, but not worth boo hooing over.

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