Does it make me an awful person if I can't respect Christianity and it's beliefs and those who believe them?
I used to believe them, but then I realized that it's a crock of shit. But I respected the beliefs and those who sincerely held to them.
My late girlfriend told me when we met that she was agnostic after I said I was somewhere on the agnostic-athiest spectrum (Not a special snowflake). She then refused to become more intimate with me and when I asked why, she told me that she had lied and that she was a christian. Not just one who went to church for friends and to placate parents for uni money. A believer.
She told me because she thought I wouldn't love her like I did if she told the truth. Almost as if she knows her beliefs are full of shit.
This level of betrayal and deception, added to the amount of things they've done to my country, my friends, my world and my own head is too much. I hate believers, every single one of them is a sinner and a liar.
>>16756431
>I hate believers, every single one of them is a sinner and a liar.
If you don't believe, how can you think anyone is a "sinner", since that only exists in a believers construct?
And if they believe, by definition, they are not lying.
Your argument doesn't make sense.
If you hate people for being less than perfect you will never be happy. God, the Nature of Reality - people are always in a constant understanding of what these thing mean, and what they mean to others and those who existed long before them. There will always be someone further behind and further ahead on the road to understanding and enlightenment. Do not fault them for their current place, as you are not at the end of that road either. Encourage them instead to look deeper yet.
>>16756436
Sin is a crime against yourself. They are sinners to their own faith by definition of humanity.
They are liars because they abuse and misuse their faith and disregard it at their own will.
>talking to girl I only met one time
>we say we like each other and she wants to be official
>we decide to be semi official until we actually hang out again and date
>every time I ask to hang out she says she can't just leave because of her parents
>she randomly has days where she acts like I don't exist
>I always ask her to hang out and shit and she just says her parents said maybe
>it's been 3 weeks
>I feel like she's slowly becoming less interested
>I always tell her shit like we can go to the movies or grab a bite to eat or I can come watch Netflix with her or whatever
>she just keeps saying she can't because of her parents and randomly leads me on and then acts cold and distant again
What's happening? How do I make it official?
>>16756218
>talking to girl I only met one time
>we say we like each other and she wants to be official
NOBODY MARRIES A DUDE(GAL) THEY MET FOR THE FIRST TIME!
But seriously, you are not ready for a relationship with this girl, there is no "official" at all, in any proximity, close to you.
You need to take a step back and evaluate what it is you want. Do you want sex? Then go get a sleezy girl. They do almost anything for attention.
If you want an intellectual relationship, then get a girl thatch at least independent enough to make her own choices.
If you want a wife-material girl, then look far and wide, because you wont see her on the first try, or the second. She will pop up when you least expect it and you will know that she is the one.
AND THIS GIRL CLEARLY DOESN'T WANT ANYTHING TO DO WITH YOU!
If its just built up hornieness, press the /d/ button and watch some freaky hentai. That always gets me going.
When you are done, reevaluate why you want this girl so badly, and then ditch her.
You deserve better.
>>16756225
If she doesn't want me why does she talk to me all the time? I don't just want sex and I don't want anyone else I just want to be with her.
Why should I just stop messaging her and find someone new? I probably can't even find someone new
>>16756227
Because you are desperate for affection.
You cant love someone you only met a handful of times. You need time to evolve your feelings of affection to love.
If she talks to you all the time is because she also looks for that affection, she gets it from you and its enough, for now. But soon it wont be enough, and if she cant even leave her house to meet you, what makes you think your relationship will be any easier?
You need to asses WHY you really want this girl. Not your feelings, not her good looks or personallity, What is the real reason you want to have her?
Its probably to fill a void inside you of loneliness.
And trust me it feels way lonlier being in love with someone who dont (or cant because of various reasons) love you back.
If you are deadset on this girl, take it slow. Dont look desperate. Telling her you wanna meet every 5 seconds is what shows as desperate.
If she acts cold towards you then it could be because she genuenly dont have time for you, or she is just testing how much she can push you around. I really dont know, you have to ask her yourself.
Nr 1. Rule of all Relationships
>COMMUNICATION IS KEY! THE KEY TO A SUCCESSFUL LIFE!
Is it true women are often intensely jealous of each other? Jealous of girls with nicer faces, bigger boobs, hotter boyfriends, better jobs, cool friends and so on? Are you a jealous girl or have you been the victim of one? As a guy Ive never really experienced this so Id like to know what its all about
Really? You've never felt jealousy or envy? You've never looked at another man and felt jealous of his better looks, height, job, career, social standing? Are you Jesus?
>>16755748
Not really, its more like 'shit, I need to hit the gym more' or 'I should start learning about x', its more like I get an impetus to overtake the guy rather than just be angry about it
I guess I was jealous when I was kid, if some guy had a cooler toy than me or whatever, but not for a long time
>>16755748
Anyway, do you have any experiences to share?
Is 4'8" too short for a girl?
You have to be at least 18 to be on 4chan
Nah it's cute, just don't be fat.
>>16755600
There's no height limit for girls.
I feel guilty, cause I don't wanna fuck my girlfriend. Main reasons include:
>about as exciting in bed as a bag of rocks - she only does whatever makes her feel good, and her head sucks... Absolutely zero effort put forth, regardless of the effort I put in
>day to day princess attitude, coupled with temper tantrums. Fully admitted to having princess syndrome and being spoiled. Doesn't want to change.
>Thinks she can get away with anything through her looks. Yet constantly picks at pimples, plays with her nails, picks at her teeth, smokes, and drinks alcohol like the world is drying up.
>Makes me pay for almost everything, and then gets mad when I don't feel I should share it all when I've paid for most of it. Doesn't want to actively look for a full time job (works part time at a bank right now) and lies in bed 4-5 days a week when she's not out practicing salsa.
>speaking of salsa, loves the attention she gets from other dudes. I ain't no cuck - I've reigned in her to some degree, but given the opportunity, she loves going out with a couple friends and dancing socially. I don't like the idea of other dudes dancing with my girl. Turns me off from her.
>poor hygiene - showers every 3 days at most. Yet, she'll spend an hour in front of a mirror getting ready to go out to somewhere as mundane as a grocery store. Couple that with the fact that she rarely cleans the house...
>makes some weird as baby whining voice sometimes when she wants shit that makes me shiver in disgust.
That's just skimming the surface. On the plus side, she cooks well, and is affectionate sometimes. I also think she loves me a lot. I wanna date a woman though... Not a child. Should I call it off? Is $6G in the bank enough to make a run?
I forgot to mention that this chick is almost 27, as am I. Perhaps I'm too mature for my age, or expect too much, but my patience is wearing thin.
... And she's live in. I've tolerated this for over a year.
>>16753917
Drop her ass and slay some early 20s pussy.
Is there cosmetic surgery to turn white? Being black sucks. Apparently they have it in russia idk
>nervous walking in store
>nervous driving in the same lane with police
>lack of confidence all over
I'm black and I fucking love it. You obviously have some deep rooted self loathing or someone called you a nigger and now you're butthurt. Regardless of whether you hate yourself or somebody called you names a nigger like you couldn't afford the surgery anyways, you're stuck this way forever.
>>16753491
please disregard the hate plz, this is what i want and this my preference. you wouldn't complain if a woman gets a larger set of tits
>>16753491
Did you even consider that maybe he/she lives in a much more racist area than you?
Kissless Virgin (21 Years) case. Is it good?
If you are afraid to talk to girls, yes.
But do it more than once.. I'd go to hookers until you're more comfortable with talking with girls.
I think I will leave it then. My problem is not talking to girls
uhh. no. save it for a person who's actually willing to have sex with you because they want to. nothing wrong with being kissless or a virgin.
29 y/o male here. Some time ago I met a girl in a bar, but she told me she was only 16. We drank and smoked together and kissed there, and exchanged numbers. She's pretty, intelligent (for example, she's into quantum physics already), interesting, plays vidya, appreciates good beer, and almost all her friends are older because at her work, school and pretty much everywhere else she goes everyone is at least 2 years older than her. Would it be wrong to get to know her better, and why?
>I met a girl in a bar, but she told me she was only 16.
What's it like living in Brazil?
You're 29, she's 16. You aren't compatible. Stop thinking with your deck, anon.
>>16752271
Or just anywhere outside murica
any ways i can tell physically if this person had a sex change from male to female?
>>16748830
grab their crotch.
are you fucking retarded?
>>16748830
Look at their throat
>>16748832
This is bait.
No letter thread?
i'm sorry we lost touch, who's fault that was i don't know what does it matter. you were the first person to make me feel like something. i hope where ever you are you're happy
>>16743769
Dear X,
I hate it when you tell me I'm a good person
>>16743769
dear anxieties ruining my life,
Kindly go fuck yourself.
How do I make my girlfriend be okay with my smoking habit?
She's known from the get-go that I'm a stoner, she also knows I always smoke when I hang out with friends. Hell I've smoked right in fron of her on several occasions. She always said my habit was "no good" but that she doesn't want to stop me from doing what makes me happy.
Now, out of fucking no where, I'm hanging out with friends and suddenly she's not cool with me smoking. It suddenly became such a big deal she threatened to cut me off from sex if I did smoke with my friends.
I honestly don't even know how to respond to this situation. She's had previous stoner boyfriends. She's even smoked multiple times with them, but always claimed to never like how it made her feel. That's understandable, and I even told her I would never make her do it.
Some things I should point out:
>I don't drink, well I'll have a single beer or a single shot, I never get drunk.
>She drinks here and there and gets drunk every once in a while.
how the fuck should I know
ask her not me
I like how you're trying to paint her as the bad guy, OP
>hurr durr I might be a stoner but at least I don't drink that often lmao
>my gf on the other hand, she drinks a lot. I'm just gonna point this out to let me look like less of a degenerate
>>16755478
Just tell her she knew what she was signing up for, and if she's going to use sex as some pathetic bargaining chip you're just going to dump her. Don't put up with that horse shit.
What are some cool date ideas? Here are mine:
>go karts
>laser light show
>stargazing/picnic
>trip to the ocean/mountains/whatever is nearby
>museum
>concert
>sushi
>coffee date
>record store
>art galleries
>baseball game
If you're in a big city
>walk around downtown small shop hopping
>>16755309
>baseball game
Fucking good one right there.
>>16755315
Seriously. Affordable, perfect length, and passively entertaining.
Plus a ball park hotdog sounds good af right now
I don't know why but I feel like this could be really useful later on. /adv/ how do you treat a knife would? Like I just got jumped by a nigger and he mugged me kind of wound.
>>16755247
Pressure to the wound. If a limb then elevate it.
Pressure to wound (harder, don't stop)
Turnicate (get assistance)
Ambulance (for stitches)
>>16755298
Ambulance can be a friend in his car
Be me
>Canadian 25 year old male
>former house of commons staffer
>BTFO last election
>working in the current provincial Manitoba elections
>gf hates the distance can't stay here after I win
What the fuck kind of work can I do?
I don't want to start at the bottom, but being a Conservative staffer isn't in high demand anymore.
How do i into politics? any "universal" advices?
Should i just present myself on my local and ask them if they need any help?
Nowadays i can't because part time and school, but if i get fired or i drop it ( let's say in one year probs if i don't get a promotion ), should i just give it a shoot?
not canadian/anglo
>>16754976
It depends what your goals are. If you want to be a future candidate you should get elected to your student body/young conservatives and network. If you want to be a staffer/campaign manager then you should get experience in fundraising and working local campaigns, it helps if you have a communications background. Always undersell and over deliver by at least 30% when you're getting started and never be afraid to put yourself out there.
my brother works in politics, he used to work on campaigns, then he became the chief of staff for a state senator, got tired of that and now he works for a sort of quasi marketing firm that's staffed all by politicos so groups who want their product marketed like a political campaign hire his firm, its mostly advocacy groups and public sector unions I think.
Maybe you could look into something like that.
Which of these should i use for my new Tinder profile, keeping it short and simple:
1. "Still trying to catch them all"
2. "If its got four legs and a tail, i'll probably try and pat it"
3."Trying to keep the jimmies unrustled"
All are relevant to my personality, Cheers to any feedback
#3
#1
2 is eh and 3 gives away that you go on this terrible website
#1 most people will understand this reference, and not look down on you because of it