Where in the world would you find a qt like this? I'm in love . Please no bully.
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>>16726031
Er... there's lots of them. It's just a matter of social skills and hygiene, not being hideously deformed.
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>>16726031
I'm not sure where you are but bullying aside, she's a 6 at best in most of Europe, or Canada.
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>>16726035
I am specifically talking about blonde haired freckled skinny qts . I don't have a problem with women, I just have a problem with finding a girl with those preferences.
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She's a 10 in my books.
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None of my friends are weebs. I am a closet weeb and cosplayer. How do I find fellow weebs near me? Is craigslist a good idea?
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>>16725905
people who self-describe themselves as weebs are disgusting
weeb is a the redditfication of 4chan
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Anime club at your school, craiglist is too potentially dangerous.
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I want to know this too. There are no anime club equivelants for grown adults, so how the hell do you meet other people that share the interest?
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Hey /adv/ my girlfriend wants to get a belly button piercing and I think they are disgusting, she knows this and still wants to get it. How can I convince her not to get one?
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>>16725792
FUCK ME IM SO TRIGGERED RIGHT NOW IM LITERALLY SHAKING THIS IS SO DISGUSTING YOU RAPIST
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>>16725802
that's why I came to 4chan, because that's all people say, I am at peace with it if she gets one, I would just her rather not quite a bit.
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in Brazil atleast, getting belly button piercing is pretty much like getting a lower back tattoo
very common among whores
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I like most of the qualities about my girlfriend.
But some of the shit she believes is fucking retarded.
She believes in ghosts and thinks the moon landing was fakes. She won't even begin to listen to why there is a slight possibility it was real. It actually make me mad inside. She just shrugs it off with a "I can believe what I want" and then tries to show me a shit YouTube video titled "5 reasons the moon landing was faked" and calls it evidence.
It makes my blood boil someone can be that stupid and then I think why am I wasting my time and money on her.
Seriously, am I over reacting?
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>>16725565
No
You got yourself a genuine 'tard
Probably thinks lizardmen did 9/11
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>>16725573
Problem is she has a slamming body.
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>>16725581
Slam her body with a stone cold stunner
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I'm a late bloomer and missed out on a lot of character development in my teens due to depression, abuse resulting in apathy and escape from reality.
How do I catch up? How can I train stuff like conversation, small talk, flirting etc?
I'm unable to keep social contacts around longterm.
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get better taste in anime jabroni
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>>16725473
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F_Acc35SRG4
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>>16725473
I stopped watching anime about three years ago, jabroni
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Is it OK to tell the person you're breaking up with "now you know how I felt when my ex dumped me"
This just happened to me after my gf dumped me. This is wrong on so many levels IMO, and it hurts in so many ways. Especially considering that when her ex dumped her, I was there for her, helping her and comforting her before we even started our relationship. I probably knew how she felt more than any other person in the planet.
Maybe I'm being a huge baby and taking it wrong, but to me this is all sorts of fucked. What does /adv/ think?
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>>16725203
No. She probably has her next man lined up anyway. You'll be the laughingstock of her friends if you try to be petty like that.
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that's an incredibly cruel thing to say if she felt as bad as you do now.
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>>16725267
>that's an incredibly cruel thing to say if she felt as bad as you do now
This is the only response you need to give to her, if you even choose to give her one."
Take the high road, be a better person. It may not feel like it now, but you have to trust that your life will be better off not having someone like that in it.
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How do I get more matches? Am I just ugly?
Which picture should be my profile pic? Advice from femanons would be appreciated
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Don't make every photo a selfie. Show them you have a social life and are active. Get a full body pose in the, but keep your shirt on.
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>>16725002
Do you even know how to take a selfie? I dont talk selfies but i understand basic physics of pictures.
When you take photos with light apposing the front of your face by a different angle, shadows get created which are unattractive. So use light facing your face ( not too much ) to reduce shadows.
Also your poses are kinda cringy, try making a normal smile face, as if you're slightly laughing. Also take a photo in an interesting location, such as outside so you don't look like a guy stuck in his house all day. Keep the hat tho cause it covers ur bad haircut
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>>16725002
Femanon here
Don't make all of your pictures selfies, especially of yourself pulling faces, it just shows you don't go out and do things or have friends
Assuming those two lines are your bio, it makes you look a bit like a try hard.
Also get a full body shot to show you aren't a manlet
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So I'm 21. Average guy in every way. Except I don't really like seeing women in distress. I don't like to see them fight, cry or whatever. I guess my mother had something to with that. I don't really care about other guys because we aren't really supposed to be emotional or all that. But whenever I discuss this stuff online I get called a white knight or with my friends I get called a marshmallow. Some women even get offended at my viewpoint. I just think women are...god, forgive me for this. I know how this'll come out, sort of delicate and need to be protected, you know? What's wrong with that?
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nothing os wrong with that.
fins a gf that likes you to be her strong and protective hero. just don't try to pull this on a "strong independent womyn tat don't need no man".
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Chivalry ain't dead. You're just a very massive faggot.
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You treat them like little kids with no agency, and men like they are just walking dicks without a heart. If you can't see what's wrong with it, try growing up a bit past that stage.
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I find women to be extremely stupid compared to men. For every whenever I see a woman being involved in somethin I just automatically assume a man would do it better in every way. In my life this was confirmed 9/10 times.
Now, I'm not really glad I think this way, but I just can't control it.
When I was thinking about it, I remembered one thing.
Could it be that I consider women dumber more useless than men because I've grown up in a family with an abusive father that always insulted my mother whenever he could?
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Protip: men are dumb.
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>>16724736
I know that men are dumb, but percentage wise I find men that I get to know more intelligent than the women I get to know
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I can tell you as a male engineer that women are surpassing men in STEM these days, easily. The only general problem I have with women are a lot are fast to criticize when there's better ways to solve the problem, and that doesn't really apply to them all.
Has anyone here moved out at a young age? i.e 18?
I'm 18 and have a full time job, I don't have many friends and I don't go out clubbing or drinking at all, I can afford an apartment and think it would force me to grow up and would be beneficial for my gains.
All of my old classmates are going to Uni this year but I dropped out and got a full time job.
What do you think boys?
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>>16724579
If you have enough money to afford an apartment that looks like that you're pretty much set
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Friends that move out pretty much living pay check to paycheck, keeps pestering me to move out because "independence".
Here I am saving 60% of my paycheck and going travelling every 3 months
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do it.
I moved out with 19. it will help you grow up. you will learn how to life on your own. cleaning, cooking, paying bills etc.
you will benefit from it.
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How do i embrace my ugliness? Can I still get the interest of others even if I am not very good looking?
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really wanting some advice to this, i could use some help
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lower your standards
get some confidence
work out
be funny
even a 5/10 gf will seem like a 11/10 when you're in love with her
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I am looking for a really good Cologne something that girls will love and go crazy over, it has to be strong enough that when I walk by you can smell the trail of it without me spraying like 9 times.
Anyone have some really good Cologne suggestions? Right now I am using Chrome and it smells nice but it doesn't have a good linger in the air to it
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Use an aphrodasiac essential oil blend on your pulse points
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i ADORE the smell of terre d'hermes. whoa. it makes my hormones go into overdrive instantly
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>>16724310
It is strong though? Like if someone walked by would you be able to smell it in the air for a couple seconds? Or if you walk in a room you smell it
>wake up at 2 am
>cant go back to sleep
So...what would you do?
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Turn off your computer.
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i usually go to the toilett, get back into bed, try to not move too much and generally calm down again. sometimes i can go back to sleep, sometimes i can't. if i'm still up at 3:30 i get up and do soemthing like reading or some silent clesaning untill i'm ready for bed again.
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Jerk it. More than once if I really can't sleep.
> girl texts to meet
> we met
> warm kiss from her (not mouth, i knoow)
> entertaning conversations
> lots of laugh
> warm hug when leaving from her (no kiss)
> now, i text her to meet
> response: i'm with my friend (and sadly conversation ends.)
what the fuck did i do? what my next step would be? wait, don't wait? be cool? she's nice, i don't want to lose her.
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wait and dont freak out. She obv liked you but you're not the only fuckin person on this planet so dont act crazy and just chill
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Chill the fuck out, bruh
Wait for the next oportunity to go out with her, and keep up doing the right things.
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>>16724067
i know, i have to chill the fuck out. but somehow i'm panicked too much. i guess i really liked her and everything turned into "she's the right one don't lose her" thingy.
still looking my phone to check for an update from her. meh.
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Help. I am the abuser. 2016-01-24 14:15:21 Post No.16724008
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Hello, I'm a female and first time poster. I will first tell you about my situation and give up an email if you want to help more. I appreciate everything anyone can do for me.
Anyway, I have been in a relationship with this man for a year and a half now. We have been through hell and back, both at fault for a lot of problems that happened in the past and well, we live together now. We decided to do so because we were ready to move forward and be happy together. But I have been the worst kind of person since we moved in 5 months ago. I am abusive in many ways. In retrospect, I regret the things that I do and see the logical ways I could have prevented them, however, I lack that self awareness when I'm enraged. I know I have a choice to choose to be abusive or not and I simply seem to always to the former. I love my boyfriend but I have been overly jealous of his friends, manipulative, controlling and aggressive (I've hit him before). I want to change and gain control over myself, choose to not be abusive and to work on my own problems to better the relationship I have with him. I need to be told things that I don't want to hear. I need support and friendship and though I can't directly ask for that here, I can sure be open to anyone willing to help. Here's my email: [email protected]. I appreciate anyone who takes the time to help. I want to save my loved one from this abusive person that I have become.
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Reminder, if the poster was a man he would be going to jail instead of support group meeting
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Yes, I am well aware of that and would take any consequences coming towards me for the things that I've done.
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You've conquered the first step, which is to recognize and admit that you have a problem! Bravo! Many people don't make it that far. If you can't seek counseling I would suggest you visit your local library and peruse the self-help section. There are many books about anger management and self control and abuse, etc, etc. Most books like this, I find, will have 2 or 3 good ideas, and the rest is fluff. So pick up 3 or 4 of them.
One of the biggest keys for me was realizing, in the middle of a tantrum, that I was being unreasonable, and then apologizing and if appropriate, offering a BJ. Most of the time I didn't have to give the BJ, because he'd be so emotionally disoriented at my change of tone, but it does soften the blow some. What you don't want to do, what many bitches do, is in the middle of a tantrum to realize they're wrong, and then double down and become even more irate. That's a bad time.