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>>16790907
>> I'll be going into STEM

And another one bites the dust.

>>16790912
Probably, but it's the only subject area which I can even tolerate. I'd definitely kill myself if I tried to do anything else.

>>16790920
You seem set on college, but with no idea beyond that - suggesting that attending university is a matter of inertia for you as the "logical" thing to do after high school.

If you're not enthused by studying in any particular context, you're unlikely to find that field's work life any more appealing, so you're setting yourself up for a lifetime of unfulfilment punching the clock in a job you hate.

Try thinking about other career options. These days white collar workers face high stress, not great pay considering the hours worked, and the permanent threat of outsourcing. If you develop skills in a physical trade such as carpentry or woodwork, you'll probably end up making more money in a much less stressful and more congenial workplace environment, in a sector where employers are desperate to find workers and job security is sure to remain high for the whole of your career.

>>16790897
Forgot to ask

WHAT
DO

I'm sure the whole raping and anger issues are just her past and probably just a phase. Shes's over it already so don't be a dick.

:^)

>recently revealed she's raped her ex's sister out of anger over their breakup

This is a serious allegation. She actually told your cousin that she raped someone and he's asking you what to do? Report her.

>shes near perfect so a part of me doesn't want to tell him to report her ass

She's hot, so you're reluctant to deal with her rape allegation? Are you 15? You and your cousin sound like fucking idiots. She confessed to a revenge rape! Why would you want anything to do with her?

>>16798632
You can't.

Dump her. Find someone more like you. Fuck. Marry. Breed. Divorce. Bankruptcy. Die.

>>16798632
If a girl has lots of guy friends and no girl friends, it means she's not girlfriend material.

There's a serious problem if the only people who want to talk to you are people who also want to fuck you. It means her personality is shit and she enjoys the attention and will likely cheat.

If she's hounding you over this, just dump her ass already.

>>16798632
There is no way to reasonably discuss this issue with a woman. She wants you secured while she has backups in case the relationship goes sour. Either you keep your female friends on the low or you break up with her and find someone who is willing to let you have those friends.

>>16790896
Talk to him about it.

Why the fuck hasn't he worked for eight years? What has he been doing?

>>16790896
If your partner is a lazy ass it is up to you. Support him financially or dump him.

he has been looking for work apparently but i feel like hes always applying for jobs he knows he can't get and when i try to suggest a job he should apply for he says im treating him like a baby and that he looks for enough jobs as it. i mean i think hes kinda depressed from getting rejections from jobs at the same time.

You don't.

Without a search warrant they won't enter his home - especially thinking that some report you send online will get them to do so is just childish OP.

> inb4 "BUT SWATING HAPPENS ALL THE TIME"

>>16790893
"John Smith, wanted on a warrant from Illinois for grand larceny, lives at 123 Second Street in Smallville."

>>16790893
You can swat them, just don't get caught.

yeah i have that once every couple of times with my gf, even though i double check there is always this irrational shit creepin up my mind, but then her period comes and it's all gone. just wait it out OP

>>16790858
the feels ANON, every time i get rid of how irrational it is, it just creeps right back up. this is gonna be one hell of a wait but it looks like i dont have a choice...thx anon

>>16790844
Your concerns stem from you mindset that your genetics are shit and you don't want to pass them on.

First look for a hobby. (think sport or instrument, whatever suits you best), join clubs, go out, whatever you think you could fill the time with. also get off 4chan this place makes you rot.

>>16797826
kill ur self.

Don't do it. That's a massive dick move, and nobody cares unless they're trashy subhumans.

>>16797836
This. Don't sink that low for a couple hundred bucks

>>16790824

How likely are you to get another job should you quit? If you do quit, how much of an impact will the lack of reliable income have on your life?

>>16790824
> how likely are you going to find another job should you quit
I have no idea
>If you do quit, how much of an impact will the lack of reliable income have on your life?
it'll impact me hard, but I still live at home so there's kind of a safety net.

>>16790837

I'd say you should start looking for a new job while you're still employed and then bail at the first chance you get. If somebody does find out and make enough of a big deal to get you fired (unlikely), you'll still have a place to live, at least.

I'm assuming there's no chance for you to get moved to a diferent department\workplace at your current job.

>>16797790
what, 24 yr. olds getting exhausted after 1 round?
Bodies -> doesnt depend on age, but on how they care take of themselves.
Health issues at the age of 24 - 29 ... What?

What?
What?

Give me a break. You mean 24 year old men are already over the hill?

A 29 year old is
> "riddled with a bunch of health issues which honestly made me feel like i'm dating grandpas"

a 30 year can't even fucking be a grandfather

>>16797790

it depends on their own experience level. the younger they are, the more naive, the more they fall in love and take things seriously. others who have been broken a lot tend to be more fling worthy.

ultimately you cant guarantee anything, even if they are long haul, no relationsihp is really permanent.

if you meet a cute 18 year old hang out and see what happens. keep in mind they dont have stable lifestyles tho

>>16790803
It sounds like you're both degenerates who don't know what relationships are for.

You're supposed to be bound by marriage and child, not just wanting to have sex and feel lovey dovey.

>9gag

kill yourself

Cont.

At first i did not really care. I wasn't jealous for years and I trusted her. But this shit became to frequent and i started to feel paranoid. I was afraid of loosing her. Partiing was never really her thing. She went with her friends once in a while, but this was new.
I was gone for a weekend and I knew she was partiing again. When I came home I checked the photos from the location, where she was and i became furious. It's not that she was dancing on these with other man, but she was having fun behaving slutty with her friends. I destroyed all our alcohol at home and told her, that she needs to quit doing this, because i can't take it anymore. She was mad, that i was so paranoid and didn't trust her. I told, that it is not about that i trust her or i don't, it's about, that i wi not tolerate it, because it will have very bad consequences, if i do.
After a couple of days things got better. We were very passionate. Had a lot of sex and she clearly enjoyed it way more, than before.
Again I was gone for a weekend, because of business and, when i came home she confessed to have been partiing again. She showed remorse and told, that it was stupid of her and i belived her and to my surprise reacted very calmly.

This is two monhts ago. Sex became less frequently again, because she is learning all the time for her finals. She was partiing once again on a birthday. She told me about it and i was fine with it, because a birthday is a valid reason to do so. But my paranoia, that she does not wantto be with me anymore got worse and, when she yesterday told me, that she is goiing to party on friday whith her cuntfriend again i went full sperg. Telling her, that i fucking hate that bitch.

I hate beeing a whiny faggot. I've never been one and i hate, that my gf or the fear of loosing her makes me one. I feel like i have to finish this to keep a shred of self respect. Do i?
I can't imagine a better future than growing old with her, but at this point i think she can..

>>16790818
I understand your concern and me and her both want to have children, when the time has come. We live as we are married. Living together for seven years. We know both our families and always went for the full game. But you're right in the thing, that she seems to gotten more degenerate, which i hate to see.

>>16790794
Doesnt matter if you don't match with people at work about your and their hobbies.
Stick with the job, just find company that you can relate with, or this will drive you mad over time.

>>16790794
Try taking up a profession that gives you the fulfilment, camaraderie, and pleasant working environment you crave, such as carpentry.

>>16790792
There ARE other girls in the world, you know.You don't have to limit yourself to the ones who live in your house.

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Cont..... For the benefits. It gets a little awkward but she says she will think about it. Few months pass we start to get really close she starts to say I love u alot more When I see her or call her. Hugs me and kisses me alot longer and more. I throw her 18th bday at my house. We have alot of fun. She decides not to join military because of weed lol. I'm not mad. But now I actually want to be in a relationship with her. I started going over to there apartment alot just so I could see her. I'm pretty sure she figured it out, like everytime I leave to get food or some shit she always comes with me.But as for her family I think there catching on or have already caught on. Since I asked her to marry me I have not talked about it but I really want to. I've had countless times to do so and haven't because I'm a bitch. Literally considered killing myself because of how much this shits weighs on my conscious. My dilemma is wondering if I should ask her out or completely forget about her and find another? For those who say yes please explain why. Those who say no the same. BTW the adults in our family are completely unaware and think we just see each other as cousins. Also any adv on how I should open up the convo would be great.

>>16790797
My mom tells me the same shit but I can't because I haven't found any that give me the same feeling

You need to look at getting a decent job and finding a place NOW. Think about apprenticing in a skilled trade such as carpentry.

And sell the Xbox, there's no power sockets on the street anyway.

why are you in one of the most expensive places in the world and asking why you're homeless lol

>>16797690
Stupid ass, I was born here and I didn't ask why I was homeless you stupid fuck.

>>16790785
I just open multiple tabs. Pretty easy to do.