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Hey /adv/, Femanon here, need some help.
Have a male friend, been friends for 4 years, really close. The kind of friend you tell all your secrets to, and who tells you theirs. The two of us have always supported each other and been there for one another.
Yesterday I received a message from him, and then noticed that shortly after I read the message, he blocked my phones, my email, unfriended and ignored me on all social media, ect. He suddenly just cut me out of his life entirely.
I have no idea why. I don't understand, and can't get any real answers from him. I went to his place and banged on his door for an hour straight and he just ignored me.
The last message he sent me read:
" Anonette, I'm sorry to tell you I can't be your friend anymore. Our relationship has become taxing on me, and I'm not capable of being the friend you deserve anymore. I want you to know you've done nothing wrong. You're a wonderful person and I care about you deeply, but I can't continue to be friends with you. For both of us, I think it will be better in the long term if we stop hanging out/talking with each other. I'm sorry if your hurt by this, but it's for the best. I'm sorry I couldn't be a better friend.
Regards,
Anon
"
I don't understand. Why would a man do this? It came out of nowhere, for no reason. Hell the day before we had an amazing time together. I just don't get it.
Help?
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>>16796835
He likes you but he knows he will be friendzoned so he thinks it's better off to cut contact in order to move on.
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Might have been something traumatic that he has no idea how to deal with? I for example cut ties with freaking everything when my depression worsened, because I didn't consider myself to be worthy enough.
But that's just my assumption.
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>>16796839
more than likely this.
OP, did you ever get ANY sign at any point that your male friend might like you more than you like him?
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k guys this is a suicide drugs thread online. which drugs can i order online to kill myself, yours truly op.
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>>16790380
Vitamin D.
Od on the D.
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lets talk about tramadol you guys. if the proper amount that's a lethal dose is taken, would it be painless? how much is a lethal dose?
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>>16790390
Just take the D man, take lots of D.
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MAYBE a date? i dont fucking know
i want to die
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a friend i have been crushing over for a LONG ass time asked if i wanna watch a show with them and i said yes
for almost a year we have been just talking as friend but i feel that recently we have been getting more and more "flirty" i guess is the word
i d'ont know if i'm reading too much into this but i am going to explode with excitement plus IF this is a date it'll be my first
so what im asking is does anybody have any tips on how not to spill all my spaghetti while not seeming cold towards them?
>pic related mfw
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>>16790370
you're kida cute.
go full spaghetti, spaghetti here. if spaghetti is you then be you.
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Escalating flirtation, and they ask you to do something alone with them. That is absolutely a date. I would make subtle moves, and then move in for something that shows you know what's what, like grab their private area and make deep eye contact.
This will work, surely, it is a date and it's what normal people do on dates.
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>>16790438
>grab their private
Holy shit don't do this
pic unrelated, though the subject of my advice is toxic
So I'm at university studying theatre and I'm a huge autist. But that, strangely, is not the problem. There's this gay guy in the class who's even fucking worse. Overweight, sadistic, mildly weeaboo, the kind of guy who takes a sword prop from Romeo and uses it to perform some lightsaber-style dance shit.
And this motherfucker is obsessed with me.
For reference, I'm asexual, but have long, well-maintained hair, and being a slightly-flamboyant theatre student a lot of people assume I'm gay.
Autism McGee is also sadistic, socially inept, and easily triggered. He's a hybrid of /a/ and tumblr.
How do I get him to lose his obsession? And, if possible, how do I save him from his autism? He may be an asshole, but nobody deserves to be as retarded as he is.
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>>16790335
how bout saying
'Listen, Mr. McGee, I'm not gay and i dont want anything to do with you, now fuck off and stop harassing me or else ill kill/hit/file a complain or w/e'
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>have an baddly paid, but stable and comfortable job as cashier in a supermarket
>live alone
>have several dakimakuras of the best girls who keep me company
>decorate my place with animu merchandise, flags, /k/ stuff, picture frames of my waifus, and a lot of other things i find pretty
>watch anime on couch with a warm blanket, chips and soda cola, lights always off
>have a 5/5 battlestation with countless vidya ready to play
>eat and drink greasy junk food - chocolate, cheese, pizza, chocolate with milk, soda, sandwhiches, etc.
>have a very comfortable bed
>have the best reaction pictures and porn on my 4chan folder
>laptop and cellphone to post without having to get on my computer
i think life cannot get any better.
is there anything i'm missing?
i'd like to know what things i should buy to make me even happier.
maybe i should get some AC but that thing's upkeep is too high.
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I would love to be content with the life you have. Those are all my hobbies and passions and I love them, but I often feel that life is "passing me by" and that i'm not doing what my parents would have wanted.
Do you have any desire to find and experience love? I think that's the biggest thing fucking me up right now. It's not even the sex really, just some love and companionship would be nice.
Anyways anon you're living the dream. You have a job that's comfortable and you're surrounded by the things you love and you're happy. I wish you could teach me your ways.
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>>16796695
Becareful.
Dont get too attached.
You've invested your happiness on ephemeral things. Great. You're just like any other person here.
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>>16796729
>ephemeral
What isn't ephemeral?
Sleep lately has been terrifying to me for some reason (since Wednesday last week). Usually I fall asleep and immediately wake up, no dreams/nightmares. My body hurts during sleep but feels alright before and after sleep. Am I being paranoid, is that preventing me from sleeping? I took two small naps earlier today and they drained me emotionally but physically rested. I've gotten 5 hours these past 3 days and the thought of sleeping right now hurts my stomach even though my shoulders feel exhausted.
What do?
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See a doctor. But in the mean time take your mind off things, reading helps me when I have trouble sleeping. Hope this helps.
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hey /adv/.
I really need some advice about this.
To make it really short : I've been really depressed since I was 12. Single mom started driking when I was 10. Father is in prison. Mom manipulated me all my life to always have control over me. I dropped school. I Was studying visual communication to become an artistic director or charadesigner. I dont want to do this anymore.
Actually every jobs seems boring and non challenging for me. And the ones that i would "like" to do needs a lot of studies. I wouldnt mind desu, but i'm 19, it will probably sounds stupid to you but I really find myself too old to restart everything (+I avoided math all my life). I've moved out with my bf about 2 months ago, i'm no longer depressed, i'm fine and thats why i'm considering this.
Army is motivating me to go out of my "comfort zone" (been a neet for 4 years) i'll need to do shit and can't go back to my computer to avoid everything (+others reasons). I've started working out a lot. I dont want it to be my career tho. But i think it can help me get a better life, even tho i'll whitout a doubt find myself more old to do anything else when i'll stop.
tl;dr : no diploma, no job, lost but fine, 19, is army the best choice i have ? Can study for the jobs i want but i find myself too old to do it since I need to restart everything. (+french if that helps, need one diploma to do anything else.)
sry4english + dont mind ask question i didint talk about everything to make it short.
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>>16790319
Yeah buddy doing the same thing.
Been jerking off aimlessly for years and finally decided enough is enough, gonna get fit and join the air force before the end of the year.
Only difference is you have a 6 year head start on me.
Big thing you need to think about is the army needs you to travel a lot. You can do one of two things, leave bf behind and come home to him every few months, or take him with you. Neither are fair to him. He will either miss you terribly or have to abandon his career.
So, I don't think its your best choice. Just get some other job. You're very young and you have some free time left. Support eachother and explore all the options.
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>>16790354
Glad to hear that you're going to make it
I've talked to him about this, he dosent mind coming with me as he dosent mind staying, i'm lucky to have a strong realtionship with him, we know that the distance will hurt but if it's the best choice that I have, he's in. (+our relationship was over the internet and we passed month whitout saying each other because our parents didint want us to meet for stupid reasons) and i think it will be good for him to have some time alone, he will focus on himself, he's focusing too much on me and forget about himself too often.
The jobs that i'm intresting in need lot of mathematics and studies, i'm kinda afraid going back to school and be with younger people than
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>>16790430
me* damn phone
i'll do somme research about what i can do. Thanks for your answer buddy.
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Hey guys, it's my first post on this board.
I have some kind of problem right now.
I am in my first relationship right now. The thing is its a long distance relationship. We have texted each other and called a few times but nothing else.
We have also talked about a few future plans and here comes the problem. We kinda have different opinions about the ideal future.
She said she wants kids someday which is something I don't ever want.
I told her that I do not want children and she seems ok with that. Now I wonder if it's ok or not. I kinda have the feeling that I am waisting her time and she will be sad and unsatisfied with the relationship some day.
I don't want to push her away because I love her but shouldn't she be looking for someone who wants kids?
What should I do?
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>>16790290
Reality check: You are not in a relationship. You have a Pen Pal.
At the very most, you have a friend you've never met. It is FAR too early to be talking about children. It is ridiculous to even imagine you are in love.
Get to know each other as friends. It would be nice if you could actually meet in real life. Maybe then you can begin to think of it as a relationship, and only then do you begin to try to define the future and shape of the relationship.
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The decision of having kids is not something to play around with OP.
>I told her that I do not want children and she seems ok with that
If you plan living the rest of your life with this person then this is a big issue.
If no then its not a big deal.
If you do, we will need to know why you dont want kids.
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>>16790290
What a god awful mess.
What are you like 17? You're gonna change your tune on the kids thing, sooner or later.
This long distance thing is dumb as well. You don't have a relationship, you have a potential relationship. Until you two can see eachother and act on your plans together you can't do a damn thing.
Honestly I don't think you know what you want yet and shouldn't take this seriously until you do.
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Are their any tips or ways on how to lucid dream, I've done it before as a kid but for some reason I want to again but I'm having trouble I've tried a few methods but nothing ever pulls through. So I'm kinda at standstill.
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There are entire books on this. The methods tend to be the same for most of them. Overall lucid dreaming is a skill, and like all skills you can get better with practice.
https://en.wikibooks.org/wiki/Lucid_Dreaming
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>>16790264
Alright, thank you.
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A qt just asked me me to be her bf. A bro of mine told me to say this to her and kiss her immediately afterwards. What do you think? Recommend any improvements?
>Listen Anonette. I love the time we spend together, we always have a great time. However you need to know that I am not the person jumps into relationships; I feel too many people do that and they end up ruining everything. That is the last thing I want to happen to us.
>The main reason I feel this way is because when I commit to a relationship; I go all out. I don't half-ass it; and I dont want to fuck around. Until I feel I could give the commitment our relationship deserves, I just want to continue having a great time together. Okay?
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That is terrible. Rule one is never talk about the relationship.
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>>16796654
>"sure"
>make out
That speech is fucking gay btw.
You full out type of guy huh? Prove it with your actions. Words are most of the time, temporary feel good things that don't actually matter unless tested.
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>>16796654
Don't say lines retard.
What the god awful he'll are you trying to tell this poor girl?
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I'm an organizer with a small union. We have a storefront which we open to the public four days a week. We unionize people who make their living on the street, like buskers, scrappers, pickers, panhandlers, and so on, so none of us have very much money. Because we understand what it's like not to have any place to hang out when you're broke, we make sure our union hall always has an urn of fresh, hot coffee and some snacks available so that people can come in, sit down, relax, and chill without having to pay anything.
We assumed that people would come in and grab a coffee and a snack. Most people do. But we've started getting a growing number of people who come in, shove $10+ worth of snacks in a bag, and leave. One guy brings his whole family in, who fill their pockets. A few days ago, we had two homeless people come in and, over a period of two days, consume $60+ worth of snacks.
I pay for most of it out of my own pocket, since the union can't afford it, and I'm being put in the position of going without food myself to keep the snacks stocked. I don't want to put restrictions on the snacks; if people are desperate, they should be able to grab more than one snack. But it's simply not sustainable to have people walking out with shopping bags full of Twinkies, cookies, and potato chips.
What do we do?
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>>16790243
That's what you get for trying to unionize, leftist scum.
Now remember, there is no such thing as a free lunch. Make it union members only.
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>Twinkies, cookies, and potato chips.
lol
switch to crackers, the cheap kinds. If people are coming just for food I'm not sure if you want them to be apart of your organization.
If supplying food just becomes unsustainable then just stop doing it.
> if people are desperate
If you live in the west like the rest of us then those people are fine. Its absolutely unrealistic to think that those peoples only option for food are the twinkies youre paying for.
overall it sounds like youre getting played, OP
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>>16790269
For the record, I'm a mutualist anarchist, which is generally considered slightly right of centre. This isn't /pol/ and I'm genuinely and magnificently uninterested in your O'Reilly Talking Points view of unions. (PS: You're welcome for weekends, sick days, and not dying of black lung at the age of 35.)
And we're not going to close the union hall to the public. We know what it's like to walk down the street with no money in your pocket and not be able to get a drink when it's hot or warm up out of the cold when it's freezing.
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Is it healthy to you use the whitening strips after after each pack? After I finish the 12 I bought could I just use another 12 to perpetually whiten my teeth? Will it even work?
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>>16790209
Consult a dentist.
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>>16790209
I use the crest 5 minute touch up whitening strips daily. Those are meant for daily use, but I wouldn't use a full whitening kit everyday. Start with the daily strips for 25-30 minutes and once you use that pack start using the 5 minute touch up strips.
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When I was in my young teens there was an older guy who sent me a lot of explicit messages and occasionally pictures. He's now a primary school teacher. I'm now over 18. Can he still get fucked up for the stuff he sent me when I was a minor?
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If there is solid evidence yes.
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>>16796461
Why you gonna be all Tom Petty? You stupid little cunt of a faggot of a bitch of a worthless human being who thinks fucking people over is gratifying.
You mad he's not fucking your boipussy now?
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>>16796464
Text messages on my phone and images solid enough evidence? Lewd messages and stuff that proves that he was having phone sex with me.
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im in collige and my crush said "today you dont smell like onion" and then hugged andsniff me. what did he mean? im embarassed
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>>16790186
how you got in college without spelling college ill never understand. and stop wearing boots.
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>>16790186
it's all ogre now
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It means you smell like onion
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>essay draft due in uni class
>completely forgot about it
>skip the class so I don't have to be the center of negative attention
Do I have autism?
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You dont have autism but you are a pussy for not going to class over negative attention
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>>16790184
You're just irresponsible.
And you don't have the first idea of what autism is. Look it up before you go on tossing the word around wrongly.