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>>16792281
If you can drive, why not take her to a restaurant?

It's a little bit boring but it could work. I'm in the same boat as you OP but I usually drove her somewhere nice because I cares about her.

But that didn't turn out well so I may as well gave drove into the snow filled ditch and told her to get out.

Do you live in Canada OP?

You swear a lot. Try to face situations in life with a more open mind, and as a real challenge, get through a paragraph without eight "fuckings" and three "shits". It makes you sound like a fucking shit.

>>16792280
get off 4chan, stop swearing, and grow up.

>>16792300
I know, but im really frustrated that i just only realised how idiotic i've been acting. That's how i work, whenever i realise i've been acting dumb i'm gonna hammer myself. Normally i don't swear around people, but for christ's sake, the awakening i've just had makes me wanna punch myself in the face.

>>16792276
>I want to start crossdressing because a friend convinced me to try it

You should jump off a bridge and onto some train tracks with an oncoming train...

>i can sort out money but the thought of buying female clothing in a shop is just shying me away from it

Just ask your friend to convince you to do it, mind-slave.

>How do you guys do it?
I don't.

Take your measurements and order online is the easiest.

Have a female friend who won't judge go with you.

Go with your friend who convinced you to try it.

Have a drink or two and then go shopping.

>>16792276

Unless you go try it on, no one will know it's for you. Men buy clothes for women all the time.

Even still, go ahead. Nobody's going to give a fuck.

If you don't like math, you're not going to enjoy studying economics or doing any work in related fields after you graduate.

You mention psychology and political science, but are you dead set on an academic lifestyle and office job? You're en route to a lifetime in a cubicle, relying on irresponsible coworkers and with a boss who may or may not be competent, never really seeing the fruits of the work you do.

Think about a career in something like carpentry. You're guaranteed a job for life, with great pay available if you're good, and a much more pleasant working environment. As another plus, you get the fulfilment of a job well done, when you see the beautiful wooden things that you've made. Everyone's happy!

Don't spend years doing a major you hate to prepare yourself for a career doing the same exact shit you hate about your major.

Change your major m8. The career prospects aren't any worse for the ones you like.

Why are you even in Econ if you hate it? Parents?

>>16792287

My greatest boon are my communication skills and ability to sell things, or make things exciting. I always thought I'd go into something like sales after I graduate, sales of a very technical good, or something like that.

I mention Political Science because I have taken quite a few courses, and I am extremely adept at it; all of my letters of recommendation come from that department and they are all attributed to my writing and communication skills.

I like Psych because I wait tables. I have read thousands of pages of books on social interaction and body language, and just psych in general OUTSIDE of class, because it genuinely interests me.

I'm no fool, I'm really not. There are not many people who can study as little as me and still do half decent, especally in the econ department. I am also already this far in my education; 130/180 credits.

Truthfully, this all comes down to horrible study habits, laziness, and lack of passion for the subject. I would be wasting my talent not do something that utilizes, well, my brain.

why would u get her a gift on valentines if shes just a friend

that shit is weird

>>16792259
>giving your platonic friend Vdays gift

That's cringy

>>16792267
>>16792272

She's getting me one, so I thought best to return the gesture

>>16792246
How unsmooth are they? Being a little unsmooth should be fine, but if you're really jerky then it's an indication to the testing officer that you're not a competent driver and don't know how to handle the car

Depends on the smoothness. It's hard to explain, but you know how you push your foot down harder when you want to "fully brake"? You need to ease into THAT. Everything else is just deceleration.

A lot of times if you just have a minor problem (brakes not the smoothest) they'll just give you some advice after passing you.

Just drive in circles a bit until you get the hang of vehicle control.

Source: I used to be a really shitty driver.

>>16792264
>>16792250
Its not bad. I guess theres just that little lurch at the end. But I thought that was supposed to be there.

Hepatitis fucks with your liver if I'm not mistaken.

I would avoid, dude. Sorry to say but girls with STDs aren't worth the health problems

risk rate for hepatitis via vaginal sex is low. use a rubber and don't shoot drugs with her.

>>16792203

Casual sex isn't worth the chance. But if it worked out? She'll give you her hep one day almost guaranteed.

Good on her for being honest, and it's sad considering it isn't remotely her fault (assuming she's telling the truth), but sorry, STDs ruin a woman for me. I'd be out, and I recommend you do the same.

If you DO decide to bite the bullet and give the relationship a chance, I'd abstain from sex until you're sure you both are serious about each other.

Yes
Yes
No - if the culture is too different, it doesn't work out. Within Europe/North America should be OK
Stay in touch, visit when possible

>>16792214
Not a promising start
I was thinking Canada or NZ to be honest

>>16792220
Those are both fine, culture-wise.

In fact, you may have a mild problem the opposite way: Canada and NZ generally put more value on being quiet, courteous, and considerate. You need to be careful you're not pissing people off without realising, by violating social norms you're not used to.

>>16792193
Is it a good idea? I don't think so; you desperately cling to past - it would be better for you to realise that she doesn't want you back and move on. Pulling this stunt with a rose and a message you paint yourself as an another desperate, stalkish ex who can't let go.
You already tried to win her back and she refused. Leaving her alone would be more gallant thing than pestering her with teary messages.

>>16792193
no
move the fuck on bro

I understand. I think is a bad ideea too, but a few female friends said that they would like it, so i tought I could give it a try. I understand that is a bad idea and won't do it.
Yes maybe I should move on, but I feel that she may come back, because I know she loves me too. I am no psycho that stalks and shit, I just want to hold on a little longer because I feel I can make everything work again.

I hear carpentry is a pretty sweet gig, Anon.

Go to the anime world and live with Saya obvs

>>16792200
That's exactly what I want, I want to live in my own room, with my dakimakuras and anime merchandise, and I want to have free time to play witth my battlestation, and bronswe imageboards, but I need the money to do so.
and my parents hate me so naturally i'll be kicked out of home soon, too.

youre assuming a whole fucking lot
drugs act different for every single person

Like another anon said, you're assuming a lot. Perhaps some people can handle this routine. I know a person who actually lost weight after getting into drugs. I guess this domino chain you're describing would only pertain to some people.

Like any other drug weed can be used and it can be abused. How it effects people and their lives is highly dependent on how THC effects them personally, the state of their life situation and mindset, and the potency and strain of the pot they're using.

Some users find it reduces their overall anxiety, makes socializing easier, makes them more creative, allows them to see problems and situations in a new light, and indeed more likely to exercise.

Others use the sensation-amplifying effects to exacerbate bad, escapist tendencies they already have; they'll vegetate, play vidya, jerk off all night, and binge on shit food, and browse 4chan.

So there are goods and bads to it, it just depends on who is smoking and why they like to get high.

Does your country offer free checkups? Is it anonymous? The best course of action would be to see a qualified doctor. Anons on 4chan won't be able to give good advice on this.

>>16792156
Where'd you meet the girl?

The punishment of having premarital sex.

>>16792154
just be patient, life will take care of that for you in time

>>16792177
I must be honest, I've been a hypocrite with my emotions all the time. I even shut me out of social networks because I was being a hypocrite there too. I'm tired of pretending to be someone I'm not.

>>16792154
Who cares?

It's true, I do luv cake

I'm not sharing

Let's put it this way -- if there's cake within my line of vision, ima get some that.

I don't trust people who don't eat cake.

If we're talking practically, these terms mean nothing. People can't be divided up so easily.

Core concepts are mostly true but every woman is different. But it is a good start that you are aware of it.

Alpha are strong masculine men that fuck all the women.

Betas are weak nerdy effeminate guys who are attract only the most desperate women, if any at all.

yep they definitely exist