I'm an 18 year old who goes to highscool
I know how to speak to people and make good impressions, but I feel like almost everyone I consider a friend sees me as an acquaintance rather then friend.
Almost every time I'm the one saying hello and asking how are you doing and starting conversations. But never back at me
The people that have stuck closer I feel we are starting to slowly drift apart, we were a lot closer but I see my best friend more on his phone, and the lunch times we eat together there is lots of awkward silence
Whenever I give out my phone number it always seems to "loose it" or their "busy".
As more time is pressing on I'm starting to feel more lonely I have a loving family and they are wonderful, but sometimes I want to spend time with friends. You can't talk about everything with family members on stuff you like but don't get
I'm graduating in 4 months and I'm sure the people I know I'm probably never going to see again.
I only see friends at school and attempts to hang out after school have failed.
I don't have any friends online.
I am not suicidal
I am not depressed
I am just a little lonely
Am I at fault here? I don't know, my grades are good I'm going to find a job after school ends, and think about collage.
PS. Almost all my friends are guys I know about 3 girls on friendly terms while all others are on neutral terms.
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I only have like 2 friends
yeah exactly 2 friends.
So don't feel bad, im sure you will find someone.
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I have a similar 'issue' I guess. I'm friendly with a lot of people, have no trouble meeting with new people or talking to people, have lots of acquaintances and am genuinely liked by a lot of people from what I can tell...but I don't have a lot of people I can really call friend. Eventually I realized it was all on me. People would invite me places or offer me openings to join their conversations or interests and I just never took. I tried for a little while to be more proactive but then I realized something else: I really just don't want many friends. I do want friends of course, being lonely sucks...I just realized I'm super stuck up and picky. I guess it's not really a good trait to have but I've sort of come to peace with it. I don't have many friends but I really value the ones I do have.
So I guess my advice, if you want to call it that, is figure out whether you have a lack of friends because there's something about you people don't like or if it's because you're just not inclined to having lots of friends. From there you can figure out a course of action. Either change what's not likable or just accept that you need to find better friends, not more.
The only real downside, in my opinion, to having fewer but better friends is that it's much easier to find yourself in a position where you're being clingy because only one of them is available or maybe none are and you're back to being alone.
But otherwise it's alright as long as you come to it on your own terms, not just because you're a miserable person to be around.
The flip side of this is not just to find better friends but to be a better friend too. Your attention is less divided so make it count more for the people you do care about. They WILL appreciate it.
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A woman must of wrote this
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How do I become a nurse in California. I want to start in community first.
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>>16789371
google 'how to become a nurse' and see waht comes up. from what i gather nursing school is its own separate thing and you may not need community college at all. they might require some basic courses for whatever reason. just google it. ur not hte first person curious.
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nursing is the shit senpai
just be really serious about it, study your ass off in anatomy, physiology, and microbiology. these classes are what you need to get accepted in most cc nursing programs. these classes also weed out the shitters who aren't serious.
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>>16789371
i love garlic dog
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My ex has borderline personality disorder.
I feel very guilty about where I went wrong in our relationship, but sometimes I feel like they would've been upset and unhappy and unstable no matter how well I'd done.
Is that accurate?
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i'm in the same boat, op. could you provide more details? if not that's your call
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>>16793352
No, I think someone else's mental illness is 100% your fault, and you should feel bad.
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>>16793356
They'd just end up mad about shit no matter what.
They'd bring up some issue in the relationship and have outbursts over it and once it'd finally been addressed they'd cycle onto something else.
They'd catastrophize everything. I'd never met someone who would drastically over-think things so intricately and for the sole purpose of making a huge depressing deal out of mole hills.
Their method of arguing boiled down to browbeating me into apologizing even if they were clearly in the wrong.
They would always sense aggression in me no matter how carefully I'd choose my words.
They treated their misdeeds like they were off-limits during an argument but would bring up mine all the time.
They considered me responsible for their life issues (alcoholism, lack of drive, etc) because they felt I wasn't doing enough to contain them.
They cheated on me and felt that I drove them to it by not being able to fix all of the above. The relationship sputtered on for a few more weeks, but that was when it truly died I feel. I could deal with the rest of the stuff and loved them enough to want to keep trying, but when that happened, I couldn't look at them the same, and would always be paranoid of whether they might do it again.
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So /adv/ I just got fired and im un sure on what my next steps are. im 19 so I could go back to school and study something, maybe get a trade. or I could sell all my shit and go traveling get some life experience that might be good. Maybe sell drugs? how would i go about that. Whats your advice whats the next best step to a fulfilling life?
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>>16789359
What job did you get fired from, how long did you have it, and why?
Alright /adv/ kind of going to just blog here.
About a month ago my gf told me her old bf is coming back to visit her. We had dated a couple months, after knowing each other for about 8 years. And it was really the best thing that ever happened to me. It was somewhat long distance, but we saw eachother every weekend. Anyway, she says that she has to figure out her feelings as soon as her ex came back. So she said she needs to the end of the week to figure out who she wants to be with.
I've been terrified for the past three weeks about the choice. We've talked about it a couple times, and she says that she loves me, but she spent three years with the guy and she said she doesn't want to hurt him anymore.
The whole thing started by us getting together when they were still together, so she always felt bad for cheating on him. I felt terrible when it happened too, but when we were together it was really the best thing ever.
I feel like I can't deal with anything right now, and have a senior project as well as a midterm tomorrow.
What do you guys think?
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Right now everything reminds me of her.
And the worst part is, for the past 8 years she was the one I'd tell about these things. And I was the one she would tell about problems too.
I feel like I have nobody left.
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From my experiences if it happened once, it'll happen again. If she truly loved you, she wouldn't distance herself from you to "figure out her feelings," would she?
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If she's telling you that shit then she's already figured it out. If there were any real uncertainty, she wouldn't say jack shit to anyone until she figured out who she was going to tell to fuck off and how best to prepare them for the inevitable letdown, while saying little or nothing about it to the chosen party.
It's already over. And she's not even telling you straight. Fuck her. Be over it by the time she decides to hit you with it.
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hello
please can anyone for the love of god explain to me what this part of my assignment means?
>(200 words, every table or figure counts as 75 words; the 75 words for a table or figure is included in the 200 word requirement; note that using a table of a figure is not mandatory, but if used, it should be mentioned within the main text; a figure caption should be placed below the figure whereas a table caption should be above the table
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The table or figure counts as 75 of your 200 words, and you need to have a caption and mention the table or figure in the main text. I don't understand what's so hard about this.
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I purchased this meme mouse a few months ago and I've been having tracking issues.
I will be playing vidya and every 1 minute to 10 seconds it will stop sending signals I guess through the USB? It will entirely stop for a few seconds and start back up instantly, I play FPS games and this makes it insanely frustrating to try to play. Unplugging and plugging it back in seems to help slow down how often it becomes unresponsive.
Has anyone here experienced anything like this? Should I go ahead and order a better mouse or is this something I could fix?
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>>16789324
reverse the code polarity on your usb drives
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>>16789324
lol. Just get a better mouse..
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>>16789324
I think it might be an issue with the sensor. Did you try to use another USB port? It's it still on warranty? It may be a shit meme mouse, but if you can RMA it and get a free replacement, then why not try?
A girl i really like just invited me to go clubbing with her on Friday. I said yes, but I'm starting to regret it. I've never been clubbing before, I can't dance worth shit, and crowds freak me out a little. should i go? the only reason i'm even considering it is because it's a excuse to hang out with her.
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>>16789320
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uxpDa-c-4Mc dance like this guy you'll be solid
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>>16789330
dear christ that's terrible
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>>16789320
Yes, and tell her you've never been and don't know how to dance.
She invited you. She wants you there, bro. I'm sure she'll be happy to show you how to grind.
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Not sure where else to write this, but I deserve some chastising. So where else would a masochist go other than 4chan.
I spilled my purse all over a guy I'd been hooking up with since May. I've never met anyone like him, not that he's special. But I've never met someone as similarly wired, down to the strangest random quirks he did shit I thought only I did. It isn't the end of the world, but I've never felt such a legitimate attraction to someone for the right reasons. I deleted his contact to spare myself from embarrassing myself further. shit sucks. More specifically: I suck. I guess it was the first guy I went beyond my comfort zone, and the first time I actually pursued someone. Low self esteem yields to dating losers.
I lost a fuck buddy and I'm legitimately saddened. Honestly, I should stick to losers. I'm totally just as akin to them.
He'll never know how much he pulled me from a depressive state, or made me feel like I could attain things I didn't previously think I could. And I'll just look like a total dingis if I shared that with him. Fuck me.
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Yup, fucking up your life on purpose was definitely the right move. You're on a roll now, try taking up meth.
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>>16793079
Does spilled purse mean pissed on or something? Because otherwise you're just a retard and should hang out with him again.
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>>16793107
This.
Did he flat out reject you?
If not, keep hurting yourself with him
My wife went and had our living room painted bright red after I asked her not to. I'm on the razors edge of flipping out because I'm pissed off. I specifically told her that we needed to make decisions like that together, and sitting in a blood colored room is not enjoyable for me. I want to handle this like an adult, but I'm not sure what the best way is to stay cool since we've already discussed it so much.
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>>16793061
Punch that bitch in the face.
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>>16793071
Trying to avoid that. Can't exactly hit my wife for disobeying me in 2016.
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>>16793077
Dump her.
If you're married and living together, then yeah, decisions like that SHOULD be made together.
If she can't handle that, she probably shouldn't be married.
Divorce.
You can't punish your spouse, even if they act like that, because y'know, they're your spouse. At the same time, a lack of negative reinforcement will lead to her thinkin' that either this is totally acceptable behaviour, or that she can get away with it. It'll not only continue, but escalate.
What happens SHE decides to have kids. SHE decides to name them. SHE decides this, that and another thing.
That aint marriage, that's a slave and a master.
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Is this a real official warning from Google or just Spam?
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Spam. If it says its from google but does not say google.com, its spam.
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>>16789292
Its official
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it's spam. you outta know that, google would never send out a warning like that.
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4chan, y u so...you know what? Fuck you.
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Bruh, you look new to 4chan.
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>be me
>19
>been a year out of highschool or so and live with my parents
>had a part time job in highschool, was too difficult to do the job and keep grades up so I did school instead
>got pretty good grades
>graduate with a B+ or so GPA
>have trouble finding work again
>go to a place called worksource, helps you find a job and stuff like that
>join an organization that gives out leads for work, need to jump through a lot of hoops in order to get in
>get around 6 or 7 job interviews
>don't get a job
>was second place for a job in a law office though that was cool
>decide to apply for college
>60 approx percent reject rate
>holyfrickigotin.png
>I'm so happy, all my friends are proud of me
>fast forward a few months and applied scholarships later
>start working for a landlord
>work is labor but it's okay, mostly mowing lawns, removing weeds, brush removal, leaf removal etc.
>stop for a while
>mom gets annoyed at me for not working
>be me preparing for college, studying and practicing to git gud for a head start when I get there
>go into the deep morning doing this, usually go to bed at 4 am or later
>mom tells me to start working again
>tell her to call the guy because I don't have his number
>she says okay
>wait a while
>he does not respond
>wait more
>about to go to bed at around 10 pm or so
>mom said she texted him and will see if he replies
>doesn't
>basically she implied probably nothing going on tomorrow for me to do because he won't respond
>go to bed
>stay up till 4 am again
>go to sleep
>wake up to my phone blaring in my ear
>it's my mom
>uhhhhokay.bmp
>answer
>you have work today anon
>I thought it wasn't going to work out?
>my mom usually goes to work at like 5 am or around those hours
>I literally cannot for the life of me figure out how he responded back to her this early or last night
>be extremely annoyed, only have like 5 or 6 hours of sleep
>tell her no
>she gets pissed at me
>she says I have no life
(1/2)
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Continued
>be really hurt
>mom hasn't said anything like that before in that tone of voice because of how well I did in highschool and how hard I worked to try to meet their expectations of me
>tell her to never say anything like that to me again
>hang up
>try not to cry
>got to get ready for work
>go out into the living room
>sit on the couch
>dad is in the living room too
>notices I'm gloomy
>asks what's wrong
>I fucking lose it and have an emotional breakdown because my own mother said I have no life despite all the hard work I've done to try to make them proud of me
>dad tries to help and talk me through it
>kinda helps
>mom is just going through a really hard time at work and she's really stressed out and stuff, people joking about reducing her pay even though she like a workhorse
>I understand
>mom said she was sorry and that she loves me
>I forgive her and say it's okay as long as she doesn't say that ever again
>she says she didn't say that
>siiiiiiiiiiigh.jpg
>say I'll talk to her later
>(we were talking on the phone)
>hang up
>the words bit into my soul and Im not one to have emotional breakdowns or any of this other stuff, let alone bawl my brains out
>go do work
>it's a lot easier than it usually is for some reason, just clearing brush for today
>working and swinging my axe around like a lumberjack actually really helps get my mind off of it
>work done
>go home
>mom gets me a coffee and brings it by, she has to go to the store or something and pay bills
>fast forward an hour or so
>me sitting on the couch on 4chan
>now
Is there something I can do so that this doesn't happen again? It really broke my heart with what she said but I feel really calm now and stuff that I've forgiven her.
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>>16789293
Your parents sound pretty fucking based and supportive. So your mom said something mean and you overreacted, it doesn't sound like that big a deal really. Seems like you've been stressed out about things and what your mom said kinda brought it all out, now you feel better because you vented. Maybe you need more time for yourself and not just working/studying.
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holy shit. stop being a little bitch. She said something harsh off the cuff and you're acting like you were just disowned. Seriously. This is literally nothing. It means nothing.
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I thing it would be good to go more outside but i have no idea what to do once im outside. I only leave my room to go to university or to go to the supermarket and buy booze and cigarettes.
I have all the things i need here in my room: my pc, my bed, cigarettes and booze. Haven't been to a party since i was 18 (so for 6 years lol) and my contact to females is limited to the prostitutes i visit from time to time. I meet my friends at university for a few hours and thats it.
What do you do when you are outside?
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>>16789247
I just be myself
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is suicide possible with etizolam? etizolam is a benzo.
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it's a benzo.
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apparently its more than a bottle.
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If you can't even handle life in this place, how do you think you are going to be able to handle the desolation of Hell when you kill yourself?