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>>16792558
I'm thinking she might have just chalked it up to doing something crazy when she was drunk and maybe regretting it. Maybe not. But play it cool from here on out. 1 text is enough. 3 is on the line for desperate. You look best by seeming secure with yourself.

Honestly just understanding that there will be times when someone isn't into you and even vice versa goes a long way in life. If you go out there not concerning yourself with impressing other people and worrying about what they think, you'll act much more honest to who you can be at your best. Make the jokes you feel like even about girls you're interested in, go track down the bill that's taking forever to get delivered to your table, if you want to open a door for a girl just do it and smile and treat it like it was nothing. If you do that they will love you for not being an insecure kid. I mean the same with asking them out after that. Just ask, if they say no just understand it's fine. There's 3.5 billion women on the planet. You're bound to meet someone who will be into you if you just be true to who you want to be. Does that help?

i know this.

friend, drop it like it's an isis affiliate. don't even bother thinking about the whole thing for a second.

>>16792777
the other thing was it's good you followed up. I feel like if you are into someone you should at least make some effort to move it forward. I think were people go wrong is harping on it too much. Sometimes when you go fishing you know within a few casts the fish aren't there and so you move to another location and try again, not casting 100 times in the same spot where nothing is happening. The other thing is that even getting friendzoned can be a positive thing if you take it with the right attitude. Women have girlfriends after all. You just don't want to be the fallback guy for a girl and you don't even get introduced to her friends. That is never a good situation... well sometimes you get the self esteem sex out of it but not in a long term sort of way.

>>16792551
Tell your gf about your problems instead of randoming virgins on a chinese imageboard

>>16792551
No.

>>16792551
Don't be a fucking coward. Talk to your girlfriend about your sex life and what you need in the relationship. If that won't work out, break things off, and THEN go prowling for ass.

If you're 34 and you still unsure how to feel about basic trivial shit like this, I don't know what to say.

>>16792517

post a picture.

age itself means nothing. there are plenty of ugly young people. there are plenty of ugly old people

post a of you right now, a quick shot of yourself, and well tell you whether its insulting or not.

Sounds like they just wanted to randomly card 1 person and you were picked

communicate, like you said talking about what you want improves the sex.

Communicate to her what exactly you want her to do and if she loves you she'll do it

Talk to her about it and give her time. Don't have a mid-high expectation from someone with little experience. In my relationship, I fucking sucked having sex and making out for the first year. I'm her second boyfriend and she's my first, so she probably had someone way better than I at first. Took some time and now the sex is great after getting more comfortable and satisfying our fetishes. Speak to her about your fetishes, anything.

>>16792614
I did but she says she is not comfortable doing what I want and I allways do my best to let her feel that's okay to be nasty in between the sheets but she doesnt really feel comfortable doing so. The last girl I slept with was a total freak. Like slamming her ass in to me and saying things like I need your dick now and cum on me. And when she sucked that D she was sucking like there was no tomorrow. Now when I finally have somebody I want to go steady with I would like the sex to be like this as well. But she puts up this shy face and then stutters out f-f-fuck me tries it once or twice and kinda forgets about it. Now I do really love her but im getting kinda annoyed by it and it is seeping in to our daily lives and I was hoping I could avoid that

B obviously

Easy: the one with the bigger tits.

>>16792491
Girl A because I might actually have a chance with her. Im afraid of people like girl B because I think that they think that im worthless anyway ;_;

try firefighting in cities; overtime, comfortable lifestyle, less bullshit, and generous shift work. being a cop gets a lot of hate nowadays, while a firefighter get nothing but praise.

>>16792516
What's the normal salary for that? I'm also not the most fit person (not fat, skeleton man), so I would have to go though a lot of exercising first I'm sure.

it varies heavily based on cities/towns. google the city you plan for.

If you don't meditate already, do so.

All meditation is, is training your mind to focus. It's simple, easy to learn and very useful.

>>16792482
Thank you!
Should i take a course, or just simply search the web and pick it up from there?

>>16792454
I'm in love with my friend, or at least I think I am, but he often treats me like shit. I try hard to stop being a doormat and cut it but every time I do, I miss him a lot.

I also can't stop eating unhealthy foods because food is my comfort thing, and I'm always sad/stressed/angry etc so I eat like a pig

I told someone to kill themselves last week and yesterday I heard they tried to overdose.

24 neet lonely kissless handheldless virgin no friends no self confidence no motivation to do anything

Maybe you could combine the benefits of both jobs in a field that's technical and presents interesting challenges, such as welding or carpentry.

>>16792427
Not so easy. This new job I got was really hard to get. It is a Union job and I can't just switch to another branch.

Also, welding or carpentry doesn't interest me. Thanks for the advice though.

>>16792434
What line of work is your new job? Just curious

>>16792407
geez another one of these degenerate, deviant 'men'. Go to lgbt senpai, they deal with your kind

You know you aren't a girl right?

It's going to be absolutely awful watching the inevitable waves of regretful transitioners who realize that were never actually transgender

>>16792418
I /wish/ to be a girl but no I dont think I am one ;_;

>>16792364
well you need to give more details. Where do you normally see her? how often do you see her? Where do you know her from?

>>16792375
I normally see her walking around with friends and oncecin a while, alone. I see her almost everyday. I know her from a PE class I used to be in with her, I switched to ROTC though.

I'd also like to know that she met this guy like a year before she met me

>>16792363
I don't think you should it's kinda the same as her spooning with one of her girlfriends, right? Only when y'all are together and she picks him over you I would object

Would she be cool with you doing the same thing with a lesbian friend of yours?

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>>16792345
Girl, please.

I'm dating a guy that I've only known for 2 months and I'm planning on buying him high-quality rum, a card, and some cute sweets, also thinking of baking for him.

GO ALL OUT. Just do it. Don't worry about seeming clingy or obsessive, if you're worried about that shit after half a year then clearly your relationship has issues.

I'm afraid that in comparison to how I forgot to give him a decent gift for Christmas this will feel awkward.

We're both 18 btw.

>>16792345
>>16792360
wtf, that's some clingy shit

in OPs case
>a list of things that make him a great boyfriend
is the most autistic

>>16792320
No. How was it? Tell us your story!

>>16792323
>2 am drunk with my mates
>lost around town
>suddenly we are surrounded by a dozen of hooker
>we all go up to the apartment and fuck one each

that's about it

>>16792341
Fuck yes. Sounds like a good night.

this has to be some kind of shill. i swear to fucking god /adv/ has been run over by carpenter shills and /r9k/ spergs

>>16792315
Either a shill by some kind of national carpentry group or one guy who started something to turn into a meme and possibly doesn't even really do that for a living and just picked it randomly.

>>16792311
My experience with carpentry included lots of drinking on the job and lots more drinking after the job.

Money was pretty good i guess, but don't listen to the carpentry fags who say it will fix all your problems. I've lived the carpentry life dog and it ain't all glamour