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So this guy in school called me a racist fucktard in front of a 35 people class.
We were discussing the refugee crisis and I had said: "I think we should reduce the amount of refugees we take because we already lack jobs and even apartments. I think the refugees would be mostly a burden to us". He stood up and said "that was an incredibly stupid thing to say in this situation, no need to be a racist".
After class I went ahead and talked to him. The conversation went like this:
Me: "Hay I just wanted to ask, what exactly did I do to make you react like that"
Him: "That was just pretty racist what you said"
Me: "How was it racist? What did I say wrong?"
Him: "It's pretty racist to say that all refugees suck and are just a burden to us"
Me: "I definitely didn't say that all refugees suck or are burden, but I said that averagely the refugee end up being more of a burden to us since we don't even have enough jobs or apartments for our own people."
Him: "Dude just don't apologize me, I'm not a refugee"
Me: "I'm not apologizing anyone, I just wanted to ask you how was I a racist. I tried to think of my words from a neutral point of view but I still couldn't see how was I a racist. I think it was pretty unfair that you called me a racist in front of the whole class"
Him: "dude I don't want to talk about this anymore"
The he left
I asked a bunch of people who were in the same class with me, if they thought what I said was racist, and they all said no, and were on my side. I still feel kinda bad, and I don't know if I'm just paranoid, but it feels like I'm getting dirty looks from people.
Was what I said really racist? Should I feel bad or was the guy just being a douche who I should forget about? I just can't get this conflict off my mind and I somehow still feel bad even though I don't feel like I did anything wrong.
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No, now drop it.
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>>16795076
Why do you believe they way you do? If you have a solid belief in what you feel/think then there's no need to apologize. If you can back up your points then, again, no need to apologize.
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Another refugee from /pol, do you get shot down because of your flag?
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So I came out to my friend a couple days ago, thing i s I love him like crazy. He is not gay tho and I have been feeling really insecure and acting out a lot lately.
I can't go to sleep until 4 am when I had a good 11 to ,7 before
I starve myself because I feel fat and then I est tons of food
I treat people like shit and the beg them to come back
It feels like every new day is a new low to me
I have been feeling incredibly sad too
How am I supposed to deal with this? I can't stop thinking about him at all
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Suck him off while he's sleeping desu senpai
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>>16794987
I'm not a rapist ha-ha even tho I would love to cuddle him in bed
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>>16794983
Well tell him. The fact that you like him already ruined the friendship.
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How do I stop being so scared to talk to people and start conversations and
J U S T
D O
I T
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I constantly see cool people in my classes who share similar hobbies and seems chill as heck, but I've been too shy to approach them. I don't want to miss opportunities to make friends and meet new people anymore.
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>>16790009
Give yourself more selfworth and accept that you might get rejected. I have made an attempt to talk to people in my class too, and some people are cool to talk to while others are not. Honestly its all about building up courage and kind of winging it.
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just do it bro
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>>16790508
This
Its not going to be pretty, and it will cringe as all hell at first but youll eventually get better at it.
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Had a friend take her life while on webcam and just wondering why someone would do something like that.
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>>16789974
pic related? where can i see this?
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>>16789996
Yes it's related and it was on periscope
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>>16789974
Screwed in the head and didn't get help in time.
Kids don't have the self awareness to pull themselves out and see that they're lying to themselves and setting themselves up for failure.
Once you start down the negative reinforcement spiral, it can just be a matter of time.
Its like cancer or car accidents. Can happen to anyone. Almost happened to me. It's nobodies fault.
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I'm looking to hook up with a local girl.
I've tried Tinder and Craigslist but no luck so far..
I'm 22 and I'm looking for any girls 18-45 really. Into younger girls and milfs.
How do you find girls who just want to hookup? Should I go to bars or something?
I went out to Sushi the other night and a lot of the Japanese waitresses seemed into me, maybe because I'm white. Should I ask one of them to hang out?
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4chan seems like a poor choice to get good advice on casual sex.
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>>16789986
this
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>>16789986
shit you're right
Which city would be best to run away to with nothing?
>NYC
>la
>Miami
>Houston
>Atlanta
>vegas
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Children run away.
Adults move.
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>>16794940
All of those are shit. Move to Idaho
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Moving to vegas with nothing is suicide.
If your wish is to die in the desert go there.
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I'm meeting up with a girl tomorrow and I don't know what to think. So she comes from a country of my cultural background (first generation) and has told me she can help me with shaking the rust off my language skill (she said all I need is practice). Before we really started talking she liked a few posts my mom put on my wall of when I was a little kid and shit (mid 20's so I guess it's more cute than pathetic). We've talked a few times in person, and a few more online. It sometimes seems like I'm the only one to start conversation (is that normal) but she usually answers. So yesterday I asked her to coffee (in English) and she said she doesn't know if she will be here after school (she is doing a year long program at the university so she probably won't be here next year). So I told her I'm not talking about the future and where she'll be and that I'm just asking for coffee. Well it turns out I'm a fucking retard, she meant she didn't know if she would be on campus. She still agreed to go, was supposed to be today but she had to reschedule for tomorrow. So I'm wondering if she knows that I mean this as like an actual date, and if her rescheduling is her just trying to let me down easy. Supposed to meet tomorrow. Haven't been in the game in a while (got out of a long term relationship recently) and, here's where it gets really fucking sad, you guys (4chan) are the only people I can trust/ask about this and I figure this board is the most appropriate place to ask
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Dates are low stress, no commitment things
You can't get serious until you've gone out a few times together
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>>16789953
So I shouldn't be looking too far into it?
I guess I'm just worried that she doesn't realize it's a date. I mean she could be going under the pretext to help with my language skills. On the other hand, the way I responded to what I initially perceived was her not wanting to get into a relationship because of the possibility of us not being close to each other probably made it pretty clear that I a looking for a date (I said something along the lines of I'm just looking to the present, living day by day and will deal with the future when it comes to pass. Also for context the ex and I had a lot of discussions/arguments about the future so I guess that's why my mind instantly went there). Though it could also be she is too nice to say over text that she doesn't want anything and is instead planning on doing so in person
Also, sorry for being super neurotic, I'm in law school so it comes with the territory. Add to that no one else to bounce these ideas off of/get feed back and my mind starts to spin
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>>16790067
>sorry for being super neurotic, I'm in law school so it comes with the territory
I'm in law school too and I'm just fine. Don't blame external factors for you being fucked up.
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Look at this cat! His name's koko, and he used to live inside. He's been a street cat for about 3 years now but he still comes around for food sometimes.
Now, look at his eyes. I noticed that film of white discharge. It's enough to obscure his vision. Also that blue tint is new. Anyone know about cats can tell me whether or not this is serious? Has the street life finally caught up with mr. koko?
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You do know that cats have inner eyelids? That's the grey bits on the inner corners of the eyes. Not sure about any tint .. Most cameras don't do a good job on cats eyes.
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awwwww, Koko is a cutie! Please, post more pics!!
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I am an older guy. I divourced with my wife a year ago and I am now using online dating sites. I met a woman in her mid-30s for a couple of times. She seems pleasant and perfectly fine, but she told me that in all her life she never had a relationship before. Is this a red flag?
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>>16794880
Yes.
If she is single then she isn't disable.
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Yep, what's her reason?
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>>16794885
She said she never actively looked for anyone and no one ever asked her out.
Is it really that problematic though? She seems like a pleasant lady.
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i need help
i cheated on my girlfriend and i feel like killing myself now
i am extremely depressed and i dont know what to do
please help me someone i hate myself
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>>16794772
she also has a history of cheating so maybe this will make her understand
but lying to her maybe would make it easier
but also much worse for me
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Get a tank of helium and a gas mask OP. It's the only path to redemption.
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If it's absolutely sure it won't be found out, swallow it, learn from it and never do it again. If not, tell her.
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I need more bad advice like this 2016-02-10 07:02:49 Post No.16789934
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I need more bad advice like this
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Does anyone have bad advice for me?
I will wait 1 hour for responses but then I will go to sleep. This infograph is trying to tell me something but I do not get it.
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>>16789934
thats a great info graphic
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>>16789943
THIS IS JUST WHAT I NEEDED , THANK YOU.
IF ANYONE ELSE COULD TOP THIS, I WOULD APPRECIATE IT.
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Do you know anyone who has ever killed themselves over a failed relationship? 2016-02-10 07:02:48 Post No.16789933
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Do you know anyone who has ever killed themselves over a failed relationship?
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I feel pretty damned depressed.
pic related is where I'd go to do the deed. I live about an hour away from the GGB.
I just wake up every morning with this twisted feeling in my stomach. I fuck up in everything but this, I put so much love and effort into this relationship. It didn't work out.
I feel like that's a lame way to go though. Over a lover? I don't know. I'm sorry if this is very unorganized.
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One of my ex's exs did this. He killed himself and every day she would talk about him. His suicide note specifically blamed her for the reason he killed himself. It's shitty and only hurts people.
But if your happiness is worth her misery, do it.
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>>16789933
I know exactly how you feel. I spent 6 years loving someone who loved me, yet I tore it apart and ruined it. I kept losing him but for some reason he came back but continued to slip through my fingers. We can't be together because he doesn't want to forgive me, he hates and loves me. And I just hate myself.
I'm always going to love him. He's the one that I want but can't have. And I've thought about ending my life many times but there's more to life than failed relationships and heartbreak.
You just need to find something to live for, instead of someone.
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Shit man..I have been married 4 years and every time we fought and he threatened divorce and kicked me out, I felt like dying.
I now am in this situation of I need to change and lose hella weight in 6 months or else the papers go through. I try so hard to show I care and we have things in common and supporting him..but apparently my looks are factor here..If I don't change em, he's out.
This literally tears me to pieces inside. Everytime I just think of ending myself because I feel I am failing him and like I am a fuckup. I've been institutionalized for a week after a threat to off myself and yet..I still feel worthless and like bad wife..
Just know OP, you arent the only one who feels this way
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Is it normal to stay hard after orgasm?
When I fap I usually stay hard until second or third orgasm. Two days ago I lost my virginity to a girl who is more experienced and she found it very strange that I did it for about 45 minutes and came three times during that but she said she liked it.
Is this unusual/adv/?
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no maybe you were just super horny. Some people are able to stay hard and continue, be proud of it.
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>>16794754
Haven't you wver experienced pic related?
On a scale of 'Oh well' to 'Kill yourself bitch', how bad is it to break up with someone right before valentines day?
Every passing day is torture. He is all kinds of wrong for me.
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Do it
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just do it, if he's not right for you break up and get it over with
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If he has testicles, he doesn't give a fuck about Valentine's Day.
And there's always another holiday around the corner, the least of which is some fucking stupid flowers and greeting card industry garbage. Okay, fine, Columbus Day is worse, but still.
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I'm not horny for my girl anymore.
She's pretty much my ideal body type. We have kinky sex, we explore, and we have a great time. But, as time goes on, the less I am turned on by her and the less I find her sexy. I can see a girl who is objectively far less attractive than her and I can pop wood.
What the fuck is wrong and how do I fix it. I don't want to end this relationship, but I will have to if this path continues on the way it's going.
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>>16789920
Sounds like you're just not a naturally monogamous person.
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>>16789920
Break up with her, and find less attractive girls to bang, and then look back and think "wtf was I thinking breaking up with her? I'm an idiot." Then proceed to beg to have her back in your life, and then be rejected, and crushed by all the photos she has on facebook with her new boyfriend, who is much smarter, richer, and better looking than you.
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Lol ur dumb.
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>>16789928
I'm monogamous. I haven't ever cheated, but the thought that every woman I'm with will become unattractive to me (has happened every-damn-time) makes me think I'll have to cheat some day if I ever decide to get married.