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I was thinking about getting a buzzcut (shaving all hair off).
Would it fit my face?
I need a quick yes/no
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>>16807252
Quick question, uhh male or female?
Hi /adv/,
I had a little arguement with my gf and im pretty stumped. We are in a position where we can afford going on a vacation for the first time together. So i got quite exited, and tried to find good places we should visit. So one day,about two weeks ago:
>watch some talk about iran
>this looks pretty sweet
>hear on the news that its politically kind of unstable
>tel gf we should go there before shit hits the fan, so we can see it sort of intact
>she declines
>no way, too dangerous
I was kind of bummed out, but in the end i thought it was propably for the best and that she is sensible. Then yesterday:
>see an ad featuring Paris
>ask her if shes ever been to France
>no
>get excited and tell her we should go there for vacation
>tell her how beautiful paris is
>tell her how beautiful the countryside is
>get hyped
>she says no way
>too dangerous, terrorists might attack us(literally her words)
>seems like a scaredy cat to me
So now i just dont see her like i did before. I always thought she was brave, now she just seems like a coward. Im losing respect for her and it shows. I have no idea how to talk with her abou it since anyway i put it would seem insulting.
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>>16807227
If she's afraid to go to France then she's probably not very smart. I wouldn't worry about offending her because I wouldn't be worried to lose her.
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>>16807277
>HURR just break up with her breh its my go to advice for literally every thread on this board arent i a good and sensible advice giver.
fuck off
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>>16807227
>too dangerous, terrorists might attack us(literally her words)
leave her ignorant ass. Dumbest shit I've heard all week.
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I'm in a weird situation right now:
>Be me
>get rejected a lot of times
>start falling into despair because of this and a couple of other things
>one day while sharpening my knife i cut myself
>feel ecstatic
>try doing it again
>makes me calm down every time
The point is:
Should i seek psychiatric help? A close friend found out about this and wants me to do it. However i see nothing wrong with what i am doing.
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Then get over me. Grow up girl.
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>>16807126
>Should i seek psychiatric help?
yes
or become fingerman for the balkan cocaine mafia
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Even resorting to drugs is better than being a cutfag.
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Is this blood, and if so is it too bright to be worried about? As a side note I have IBS as well as GERD.
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those are onion rings from dairyqueen best as I can ID em
sorry.
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>>16807108
dis nigga shit out a chinese dragon
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Go to a turd doctor, retard.
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> Be me hanging in random chat rooms for fun
> Meet this really funny girl
> We talked for days and fell in love with each other
> I then realized that she's 15 and I'm 20
> ohfuck.jpeg
> Still I don't think of her sexually and my brain somehow finds it disrespectful to think of her in that way
> I told her that I'll ask her hand for marriage after she becomes an adult and she agrees
> her mom is very protective
> her family is poor and she doesn't even have a phone, only an ipad from school
> school decides to block all social media apps
> I woke up yesterday and found that she deleted everything..skype/kik
> I tried logging on the same chatroom but she's not there
Please help me.. I'm so fucking sad and I can't even sleep at night..
Pic unrelated
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>>16807044
you're hung up over a teenage girl
forget her and meet some real people
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Mate. Online "relationships" are not real. Especially online relationships with people that young. For fuck's sake, what is wrong with you? Why would you take it this far? She's literally just doing this for practice talking to boys, and you propose marriage without even meeting her? Get your shit together
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How can I get over being blown off of a date?
Gave no excuses, just completely ignored.
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we need more context
is this a fresh pull or a girl youve been talking to for a while.
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>>16807033
By letting go of the naive notion that people share the same level of courtesy and concern that you do. Seriously, let that go. I know it's what we teach kids and what we reinforce as we grow up, but not everyone practices it. Many of them do not account for their actions. Many do not think about anyone else but themselves. So to keep your sanity, you need to stop assuming others will be as thoughtful as you. Instead, write those people off as soon as they show their true colors, and move on. Don't assume the next person will be like them. But don't assume the next person will be like you, either. Take people on a case by case basis, and never get your hopes up.
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>>16807033
By brushing it off. You don't control the other person. Even if you think the way they rejected you was insensitive or cowardly, you simply can't do anything about it.
>be me
>drivers Ed with m8
>best m8
>teacher is mega Christian fag
>"lord will guide you in the road"
>Kek
>he teaches this acronym
>S.M.O.G
>stop, something something go
>makes me think of smoke
>have this vape
>blow out as I say smog
>me and m8 KEK about it
>find it funny as shit
>sees us kekin
>"anon what's so funny"
>have the vape we used for keks
>"can you teach us more about-"
>huge intake
>"Smogggggg"
>exhales while saying it
>"ANON"
>KEKEKEKE
>"HOW DARE YOU"
>me and m8 are laughing too hard
>goes full Jesus on us
>"REEEEEE JESUS HATES YOU"
>shit like that
>kicks us out of class
>keks on way out
>slows keks
>looks at m8
>"Dude it's $400 to take this again
>what tell mom
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>>16807027
Tell the truth and don't do retarded shit like that again. It's one thing to do something to entertain your friend, but you took it way too far. If she complains about money, offer to pay however much of it you need to
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>>16807027
demand a refund, they didn't provide the service they were paid for.
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>>16807036
I see what you mean
It was just too funny to pass up
I mean we were laughing to the point of not breathing for a good 3 minutes
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Does anyone here have any experience dating anyone from a higher social class?
I'm extremely attracted to a girl who is presumably from a wealthy family and attended first a fee-paying school and then a top college. I was born into a middle class family but was then raised by a single mom after a divorce and attended a shit-tier highschool.
I feel so stupid and pathetic whenever she's near and I think of approaching her. On Friday we passed each other and smiled big goofy smiles as if we'd shared a joke but since then I've just convinced myself she was being polite or something.
I just think if ever she and I decide to marry and have kids, I won't be able to afford the type of schooling and childhood she experienced. Also I'd have to meet her friends and so on and I don't know if that would work out considering I don't know anybody from that kind of social circle or have any experience of the type of things they reference.
Any advice?
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>>16807024
make your life goal to reach her potential
a lowly dishwasher can become a CEO. it's still true. probably more than ever so nowadays than before.
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If you're this insecure about it, don't do it. It's not even fair to her. If you can't see her as an equal and just treat her like a normal person, it's going to be miserable for both of you.
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It won't turn put well. Her family won't accept you. Even if she likes you and goes against her family's wishes, she will get bored or grow to resent you once the novelty has worn off and she realizes she actually enjoyed living a privileged life.
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being me
27
smoking since i was 16
heaving a couple of health problems related
tried to quit a couple of times because every time i don't smoke brain goes in fully uncontrollable mode (must say that even with tobacco is quite uncontrollable, but it helps a lot get the shit done)
So.. is there some alternative, not expensive method of assuming the nicotine you anons have tried?
Did you feel the actual difference staying some period without smoking?
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1) You sound like an edgelord
2) Vaping. I know it's become a fuckboi thing to do but if you're not a shitbrain who uses it like a portable fog machine, they're very effective.
I've never been a super heavy smoker, but I got my roommate to get one and picked up a replacement (I had one forever ago, broke and never fixed it) myself. She's a pack and a half a day, has only had 4 cigarettes in the last week.
They're also way, way cheaper. She's already broke even on the cost she put in from all the cigarettes she hasn't purchased.
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>>16806933
Congrads! You're paying the price your dumb 16 yr/o self thrust upon you. Just like half the country.
There's only 2 options
1. Keep smoking, die a smoker
2. Pray your one of the few with an iron will who can quit cold turkey
Chances are, you're not one of the few and you will die at an early age, a smoker. Sucks being a dumb 16 year old hey?
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>>16806946
this is the most fedora post i've read today
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this girl i like it talking to a guy she likes and for some reason she keeps sending me stuff they talk about or whatever, she just sent me her asking him to be her valentine and it fucking shattered me, is there a way to tell her to fucking stop sending me things like that but still be friends or whatever
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>>16806931
> is there a way to tell her to fucking stop sending me things like that but still be friends or whatever
Yeah say: Stop fucking sending me things like that, but i'd still like to be friends or whatever
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>Please stop sending me that stuff, it makes me uncomfortable
If asked why
>Because I'm still single
If she doesnt back off after that you're interested in a complete chode.
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>>16806936
that sounds like it wont end will
>>16806937
Because im single makes me feel super pity and spiteful
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I hide the fact that I have money from my friends because I am afraid that they'd feel bad about themselves or uncomfortable if they knew.
Am I doing the right think?
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Yes.
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Yes. Talk of money is vulgar.
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As in lying about it or just being frugal?
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How do I stop getting attached and emotionally invested too quickly? 2016-02-14 20:53:33 Post No.16806782
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How do I stop getting attached and emotionally invested too quickly?
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Each time things start with a girl and it doesn't work out after a few meetings or weeks, I take it personally. I've had plenty of relationships in the past but for the last 18 months these short term things are really hurting me. I've been told the it's me not you thing so many times I don't know how to even respond to it any more.
How do I put up some barrier to stop myself getting hurt like this?
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>>16806782
Do you let people into your house the moment you meet them?
Same goes with relationships.
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>>16806782
i used to think getting hurt once (let alone multiple times) would fix the issue but apparently i was wrong
you're hopeless OP
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>>16806786
I don't mean to get attached, I just seem to build a mental or emotional bond very quickly. I end up over thinking things and feeling hurt when it eventually doesn't work out.
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Logged into my girlfriend's Snapchat account while on my own iPhone 6. Didn't uncheck the 'access contacts' thing under the Privacy settings.
Worried that my contacts will have synced. What do?
I've logged out now. I feel terrible about this - she's been fucked over by people before and has trust issues and I just worry that this will push her the edge. What do, /adv/? :(
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>>16806781
well u dun goofd for starters
if you're that hard up about it, you do what any pro does, you dispose of the evidence or better yet, TURN YOURSELF IN and hope the justice system is forgiving. THERE you will learn what HOPE is
we like to party
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>>16806797
How can I 'dispose of the evidence'? :/
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bamp - I'm practically going insane over this
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Super Confused about this girl 2016-02-14 20:46:17 Post No.16806753
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Super Confused about this girl
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>Tried to get my attention last semester
>Always sat next to me in the library (in lawschool)
>Beginning of this semester asked for my number
>Texts me for hours and hours a day
>Invites me over 3 weekends in a row to watch movies at her place
>Invites me out for dinner
>Would plan her weekend by asking what I was doing first
>Bakes me my favorite cookies, buys me starbucks on multiple occasions
>...wow starting to like this girl, we have a lot in common
>Asks at 11 at night if she can come over and hang out
>Try to put my arms around her
>Instantly leaves saying she had to pick her friend up (...)
>Haven't heard from her since
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>>16806753
that bitch is fucking with you. find one you actually like, not just some convenience.
I have got news for you
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>>16806753
How long ago was this?
>>Haven't heard from her since
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>>16806753
>Invites me over 3 weekends in a row to watch movies at her place
If you went and didn't fuck her then you're long since friend zoned.
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hey adv
My ex left me about 3 weeks ago for another guy. She told me she was struggling and just needed to let go.
It hurt like fuck, but maybe it was for the best.
Randomly 3 days ago she messaged me saying she made a mistake. I rushed to her house, she said she loved me, wanted to marry me and just a bunch of other sappy stuff.
So today, I decided to go back over there to make valentines day something nice for her. She backed tracked on everything, told me she still wanted to be with this current guy, but wants me to wait. She promised me she would eventually be with me, but I just had to let her do this.Both of these times she was telling me she still loved me and was kissing me.
I freaked out, contacted the guy and let him know what was going on. He dumped her.
Now she's really mad at me. I told her that the truth had to be known. I'm a really caring and genuine person, so I just couldn't sit idly by. I either was going to help her, help him, or just help myself by telling the new guy. I wanted atleast something good to come out of this mess.
She's telling me now she may never talk to me again. for some reason I'm still so in love with her. She totally doesn't deserve my love, but I'm so fixated on her. I've never had someone whom I wanted to give everything to.
what should i do? should i keep following my heart and try to win her back? or just stay depressed for awhile until I eventually get over this
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You don't even really know this woman. Why do you think that you love her?
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Make like a tree and leaf the birch.
Dont be a sap. You don't need this pine in the Aspen.
I know it feels like you got poplar'd in the hickory, but you'll be oaky.
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Leave her.
Honestly, you never should have came back in the first place.