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>>16812692
Lol

>>16812700
Fuck off loser

Damn..... Forgot how hard this makes me

>>16812680
Why the fuck do you seek confirmation for your thoughts? Do what the fuck you want, people will judge you regardless. It doesn't MATTER! Stupid bitch...
Go shave your legs, take the hormones, don't be so fucking pretentious and come here asking for advice or sympathy.

>>16812688
Although I wish I had a therapist to tell me "Yes" or "No, you're not trans". I unfortunately don't, or hope to find one (anymore). Just an unbiased look on where I'm at right now and discussion may help. I've been to therapy but all the therapists I've had have only really enabled me. I can't tell if this whole transgender fad is really the new frontier of equality, or just the popularization of a mental sickness.

I go out almost three times a week, but the day always ends on a notion of "What if I'm wrong.." or "This probably isn't me.." I think my mental state may be deteriorating and I'm not sure if it's from repressing, or acknowledging my problems.

>(masculinize even more from my testosterone)

That isn't really a thing

Talk to her make her understand your a horny man beast and unless she never wants to leave a bed or feel her legs again you're gonna beat it

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>>16812644

Every young girl struggles with these feelings of insecurity but it definitely doesn't help that you make her question your trust.

You can't betray her in one hand and then tell her to chill the fuck out with the other.

If you want to fix this you're going to have to put in some serious fucking work; work as in telling her something and then actually following through with your behavior. Your words don't mean shit if she can't trust you.

>>16812650
It was going like this with full trust too, problem is self-esteem. I always male mg best and she trustes me, she knows she can, but sometimes shr feels like not but she's an aware person

>>16812534
Yes

Fuck yeah would hit

>>16812534
I thought you were wearing a fedora because of the blurring

>>16812507
Stop masturbating with a soft penis. Stop masturbating really all together.

>>16812517
won't that make me bust a nut in T minus 3 seconds?

>>16812507
Cut off anything that may fuck with your adrenal levels. Cut off caffeeine. Drinking stinging nettle infusion may help. Not guaranteed to help and work at everyone. Whatever, I suggest you to look into something called GABA. It's sold in tablette form called valerian extract even a few tablets considering they are pure should help you out. 500 mg a day is a good dose

I've been in enough terrible relationships that I just don't want anything to do with them anymore. I'm pretty happy being single. But before I ever dated anyone I felt lonely all the time. It's normal.

>>16812472
So getting into an awful relationship works as some sort of a vaccine?

How bad does it have to get? I've spent a good chunk of time in an unhappy relationship, and I still want a new one. I don't know what it'd take to convince myself they'll all be that bad.

>aren't human beings pack animals?

no, actually.

Stop acting dense... Why are you trying to supress it? If someone told you that he's either a homo or jealous. Just move on with your life.

>>16812460
As I said, I want to get rid of it because it causes more problems than it alleviates.

I've been told I'm terrible at sex, anyway.

So there's that..

>>16812477
It won't solve the problem. Unless you say something pervy at an awkward situation why do you bother to supress it? And you know what? You cant and you better try not to. If you love someone you love someone, it's only natural that "you wanted to know her scent more".

Something is wrong with this situation, either with her or with you. Whichever it is needs to be addressed and not ignored. You probably won't like it, either way, but it is for the best

>>16812366

Well I know I HAVE problems with that (I have A LOT of insecurities overall, not just relationship-wise), and even though about going to a psychologist about it, and always struggle to not let it affect my life too much.

Because of that...I always think twice about what is right to do and what isn't, regardless of my instincts

Unsolicited bump

Do whatever makes you feel better. If they were your friend and you still want to be friends with them, then endure the pain. If it was just some random crush, fuck it. Get away from them.

>>16812320

a bit immature yeah. but you're acting like you really only had the two choices.

by cutting contacti assume you mean deleted her on social media and blocked her and such though.

the correct response is just to back off.f if you see her say hi, but then just go about your business. she'll get hte idea.

>>16812328
So I used to text and talk to her everyday, but now I only respond to texts that she sends and I make it short and dont give it a chance to open up into a deeper conversation. Im not that immature enough to just flat out ignore her but I am going to cut back my conversations with her like 90%

Post face.

>>16812309

iim the kind of person who has to work to look good. honestly its more embarassing being in my 'ugly' ohase in front of friends than it is with strangers.

but for the most part i just say 'i dont need to be attractive' right now, and thats it. im on an acne treatment thats taking forever to kick in, so my face is kinda wrecked because i stopped my old treatment. been ugly for like a month. worse, the new medication dries me out a lot so my skins always peeling right off my fucking face. pretty ugly.

but for the most part i just say 'doesnt matter if im ugly right now' and get back to whatever i needed to do. its funny cuz when im pretty im REALLY fucking vain, but when im ugly i just do everything else i need to do

>>16812313
lol
>>16812317
Jesus, that kinda sounds terrifying. But I'd like to reach that point where I can just accept that I don't have to look good, but something inside keeps making my thoughts irrational.

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Sorry to hear about your situation mate. You could be worst off (pic related) I mean the chance of you even being born is like picking out a blue marble in a seas worth of red marbles. The chance of you being born is impossible but it happened, don't waste a life man. Make a plan to change yourself into a person you like. Talk to your doctor about losing weight without compromising your heart. If you spend just one year working hard, you can spend the rest of you life smooth sailing. Start by getting rid of the facial hair and finding a new hair style. Good luck captain

That's a shitty situation anon...
What do you think it would need for you to be happy? What would your ideal life look like?

I am always surprised when Christian males are virgins. That's literally life on easy mode. Go to church, marry a girl, and you get all the sex you want.

>>16812252

the bible.

>>16812254

Does it actually have depressing stories in it? I don't like the idea of needing a savior or anything like that so I wouldn't be reading it for spiritual guidance (I don't believe in spirituality or god). I would prefer gritty, realistic stories that have no saviors, no happy endings, etc because I believe that sort of reading will help my reevaluate my expectations and become more self-reliant and self-dependent.

>>16812264 (cont)

I could probably just read depressing news stories but I like the idea of reading things specifically designed to be as heart wrenching as possible, whereas news stories try to sugarcoat things a bit

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Gonna take a train up to the location walk in and explain the situation. Can provide website of the actual thing too. Live right by the big apple.

>>16812230
No, good luck I hope it helps.

I wouldn't go though fuck that shit waste of time.

I've heard bipolar disorder can be cured by diet. big pharm just doesn't want you to know it!

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>>16812244
I wish I could help you but I tried my hardest to not be put in a psychiatric hospital either willingly or unwillingly the few times it was an option.
It sounds tired, but I sincerely hope they will help you feel better.
Have you tried calling them to ask ?

>>16812195

>how do i force myself to take a shower.

by forcing yourself to take a shower. there is no other way around it, im not sure why you thought there was. you are literally asking how to have enough will power to sit under running water.

as for how to get other people to make you take a shower, give them that power. get whoever you live with to hold you to it.

>>16812201
I live alone and I go days without showering and it's fucking filthy

I have the same issue, OP. My hair is greasy and the rain from today and my having to go out into town didn't help matters. I'm not really holding a smell - as I've just hopped in the shower to give my body a quick scrub- but that's it... It's like.. I don't want to take a shower at all. I'm not depressed that I know of... But maybe you are? I don't know.

>>16812117
Park in a neighborhood.

>>16812121
Just in front of somebody's house? I don't want to freak them out...

>>16812117
Wear lots of warm clothes, get a warm sleeping bag or a ton of blankets. This is really something you should have been able to figure out yourself.