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How did you get over that girl in your life?

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It is time. Time to write letters.

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What advice would you give to a 23 year old girl who's never been able to get a date but really wants one

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48/male/US
Married about 24 years
six kids with 2 grown
grandchild
I've done well, I have failed. I hope I have learned what not to do.
Offering advice.
Between work and lunch my responses may be a little delayed.

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I was a sheltered kid, abused, builled, never left the house due to that. I never developed any life or social skills.

Everytime I saw someone I wanted to talk to, i never knew what to say, and everytime I saw a woman I liked i couldnt even speak to her as i was never sure if she was taken and if i was wasting my time.

im 24 now, soon to be 25. I saw a very cute girl at the local shop, getting coffe, so was I...I couldnt speak to her, how do i start a conversation with a strange without looking weird? what if shes already taken? how do i not sound like an ass if i attempt to flirt with her, how do i get a girls number without sounding like a creep?

what do i bloody do? I dont know how to talk to people, the only people i ever spoke with was people i worked with, and since lsot that job so I have no idea how to be social outside the workplace.

What do i do...how do i do this?

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Before you post a question, check here to see if it's already been answered
Keep your questions short and sweet for more answers.
And please no derailing arguments.

Avoid asking these common questions:

>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
Some do, some don't. Our answers are not going to help you.

>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Think positive, and get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it.

>I like someone. What do I do?
Ask them out.

>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.

>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.

>Is my body part big/small enough?
>Am I short/tall enough?
Most likely

>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. Stop overthinking it.
Alternative answer: we don't fucking know.

>XYZ happened. Did I fuck it up with this guy/girl?
Maybe, maybe not. We're not in their head, we don't know. No amount of your walls of text will fix that.

>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing

>Would you date a virgin?
As long as they aren't insecure about it. Complexes are a total turn-off.

>Someone has made it abundantly clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No

>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>

>That one guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships
No one wants to cuddle you. Stop asking

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So, I've gone everywhere else on the internet, and all the information I get is bullshit. I decided that 4 chan was going to be my last stop before I get in contact with some professional or something.

For my entire relationship with my current boyfriend, I have never been able to orgasm from penetration. He is my first sexual partner. He lasts anywhere from 20-40 minutes depending. We have had long and short sexual experiences, with many positions. He can make me orgasm from oral (very easily, most of them time), but no matter what we try, I can never cum from vaginal sex. I feel that buildup sometimes, but it never ends with an orgasm. All my friends say they are able to orgasm from the same duration of sex. And before you suggest he has a small penis, it's 6.8in long with a circumference of 5.1in. Same thing for fingering, by the way. Please, any advice would be helpful.

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I was prescribed zoloft but never really take it. I only take it when I feel the need to, and I havent taken it in probably 5 months or so. Yesterday I took a pill and a half of it and it was a terrible day, i felt dizzy nautious and i didnt sleep the entire night. My question is, why has this happened? It never happened before

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What is your opinion on age differences in relationships? (as long as both are legal adults?)

I ask because I've been on a few dates with a guy who is 42 (I'm 19) and I've already received a few bad comments from family members.

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Should I go to USA for college or should stay in Mexico?

Some background:
>Mom gets remarried to an american
>She went to live with him and so did my little sister
>I didn't like the idea very much so I stayed with my dad to finish high school
>I love math and I plan to study Computer or Software Engineering

I feel more comfortable staying. But the USA is a more developed country and it might be better in the long run to move over there.

However, neither my mom or her husband are rich. So I will be attending two years of community college and then transfer to an university.

After all this it boils down to:
>Go to USA and get into community college for 2 years then transfer to an university for 2 years while on a student loan.

>Stay in Mexico and pay for college normally with using loans

I don't know what to do, I've talked about this multiple times with my parents to the point of nausea and I don't really care anymore about what happens

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He's a great guy. He's handsome (to me), intelligent and funny. He has a kind heart and he's exactly the kind of person I want to be the father of my children one day.

The only problem is, the bedroom.

He has a large member, and seems convinced that that's all he needs to get me off. Sex is usually exactly the same. He flips me over, tells me to put my knees on my mattress to reduce creaking, he shoves my shoulders down and adjusts me. He then removes out clothing and just penetrates me. I am of course at this point very dry, but he does it anyway, often hurting me, which I just bear with. He also just uses lube.

I've tried hinting in a million ways that I'd like him to caress me, to kiss my breasts, to finger me or do anything really. I've never received oral, but I give it to him all the time. He says he doesn't like vaginas, and is a 'clean freak' which is why he doesn't want to touch mine...Even though I keep it super clean with a special (outer) pH soap and everything. I shave and epilate religiously, I try every trick I can think of, as far as even sending him links on pleasuring a woman. He just ignores it.

Please help me.

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get it off your chest thread?

i'm so mad right now

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Right now I feel socially incompatible. I never had a friend nor do I want to socialize with the shitty people in this world. As a 25 year old with no social life ever I'm immediately a joke, period.

From the people I work with to the cousins I rarely meet, everyone is fascinated on talking shit and being a critic, immediately pointing out negative flaws in someone and magnifying it for years. I used to think it was because I was in a shitty family. Nope, I get that from everyone. At work women absolutely hate me. I work as an inspector on the line for Ford and since my work load was light, I decided to help out. This one young girl in her Mid 20's, a common shit talker absolutely lit me up, talking about me to all the coworkers that my effort is not wanted and straight up flamed me.

Look /adv/, I don't know why being negative and talking shit about other people is not frowned upon here in society. Almost everyone is triggered to act on it to keep their status in whatever social circle they're in, and in the end I will just be a petty lame nigger in their eyes.

Today at church my pastor touched upon the same subject and it really clicked with me that it is actually acknowledged by other people, especially by a church leader. Many people think negative criticism= the absolute right criticism a person can get.

In the end, I feel like a joke and a failure. I can't adapt to shitty trends in society. I can't accept it and become a shit talking despot either. I am naturally nice(this means a naive dumb nigger to you people) and I just want to live life thinking maybe I'll make friends with someone. A romantic life is laughable.

I really bet you guys wanna throw out overbeaten facts like I am not entitled to people and I am blaming the world for my problems. I'm imprisoning myself and shit like that, but I was already in deep conversations on those over at /r/foreveralone.

Thoughts?

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I know it sounds like a b8 but that's what happened yesterday:

>come back from home after evening shift
>gf was at her friends' now she's back home
>she's lying on couch half asleep watching tv
>I ask her what's up, she says she's fine
>go take a shower, get horny
>go to salon, she's still lying on a couch
>I start kissing and undressing her, doing dirty talk
>she says 'come on' or my name over and over again, swats my hands, doesn't really try to help with undressing
>I'm really horny so I enter and fuck her till I come
>after deal is done she falls asleep (or pretends to idk)
>2 horus later she goes to toiler and starts sobbing
>I can hear her crying so I ask whats wrong
>she starts screaming that i raped her, that she was drunk and I used it etc
>calls me a monster and says we are over and that i ruined her


I honestly don't know what to do at this point. she didn't seem to be drunk ((maybe sleepy or tired but we often have sex like that) and didn't smell like alcohol.She didn't say no even once or tried to really stop me. I don't know what to do. She called her mother and told her I raped her and i know she'll tell all our mutual friends and i am done.

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I want to setup some proxies or something so people wont be able to see what I've looked up and whatnot. For example hackers or something, would I have to use tor ?