>"not interested in fuckboys"
what does this even mean?
>>16812088
Means they arent intrested in associating with pussy ass dudes thay cant hold their own. At least thats what it means to me. I use to hear the term get used by Jamaicans WAY back. If you got called that by a chick then she thinks very low of you and any chances you thought you may have had has been demolished along with your balls. Sorry.
>>16812088
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=fuck+boy&defid=7906533
You're supposed to say, "Well meme'd milady!"
She will be texting me and she is the type to respond within 10 seconds to a minute. We will be in conversation and she'll be flirting with me then suddenly start replying late, with one worded replies such as "Lol" "Same" "Okay" "Nice" She does this on a daily basis, and frequently sends me mixed signals. Any idea why she does this? What kind of games is she playing?
she just wants attention
Probably this
>>16812063
Post some screenshots of this happening, what you were talking about before/after, etc.
Maybe she gets busy with real life
How do I quit coffee? I've done tons of drugs, but it seems to be the hardest one to quit because of the energy smoothing effect / productivity benefits. Loving the taste doesn't help either ._.
>>16811942
Add sperm to every cup
>>16811942
you can try swiching it slowly for black tea
>>16811942
get rid of it. no more coffee in the house. if your partner enjoys coffee or roommate or whatever, simply ask them to monitor you so you dont drink it. let them be your acountabilibuddy.
at work, get your closest employee to be your 'sponsor' ask them to not let you drink any coffee.
there is still the chance of buying it on the fly on the way to work, but thats where having an ounce of self control comes in. if you can't handle that, give up.
How do you know when you've truly moved on and are ready to try love again, and how do you start down that path?
>>16811848
>how do you know
ask yourself "have i moved on?"
if the answer isn't yes, than its no.
>ready to love again
this isnt something you should think about unless there is someone specific to love.
>and how do you start down that path
i dont believe in doing anything more than 'putting yourself out there'. sure you dont meet people as often, but you tend to meet people you actually connect with, not people you force yourself to meet.
I think I'm about to experience this.
girl I deeply care about has been doing careless things that have been pushing me away. I just can't handle this anymore and I think I'm going to end this. Just thinking about it HURTS so fucking bad.
How do you move on? Like once I end this. What do I do? before I met her I was really depressed all of the time. Not looking for anyone or love but was just bored and depressed. But she picked me up emotionally. And really was mentally healthy for me. she put my head on the right track and was just amazing to me. now that's over. But what the fuck do I do now? I'm just working my job. With no motivation for anything
>>16811848
Important people in your life will always have an effect on you, but you move on by going out and having fun and meeting people, both friends and love interests.
ill make this quick as possible
>hang out with girl
>find out said girl has boyfriend because of facebook
>confront her
>she says shes not dating him. i know shes lying. go with it cuz i want the sex
>have sex with girl
>make another date to meet up and have sex again
>girl goes on to stands me up, she never shows
>tfw
>turns out she did that same exact thing to her boyfriend
>boyfriend is no longer dating her as of today
now in hindsight i probably should of told this girl to fuck off and told her boyfriend immediately. but up until a week ago i was a virgin (until i fucked her) and i thought i could of made her my GF. so i didn't.
but now im butt hurt and i really want to tell her boyfriend that his girlfriend is a hoe and not to feel bad, and that hes lucky not to have her. BUT the dude JUST broke up with her. and i dot want to make him feel even shittier by telling him she cheated on him. i also don't think its morally right because its not like i didn't know and im just a guilty as she is.
im just mad right now and i don't know if i should ever tell him or just let him remain ignorant. so if you were this dude would you want to know? should i tell him?
Congrats
>>16811840
thanks im emotionally fucked right now and hating all women, wishing i could of lost my virginity to someone else... but thanks.
you win some you lose some...
My mother, who was recently diagnosed with breast cancer, is starting chemotherapy soon. I shaved my head a few days ago in support. She loved it.
I know it's not as bad since I am a man, but I feel like people treat me differently because of my new appearance. My coworkers have teased me, since only a few friends know my motivations. Strangers seem less friendly. It's probably all in my head, but I feel like a significantly less attractive person because of all this. It really makes me hurt more for what my mother will have to endure.
Should I keep my head skinned until my mother is done with treatment, guys?
Before picture. I feel like a vain scumbag for asking this, but my emotions feel awkward.
Nah bro I'm glad you shaved your head, white pride world wide!
You look better with less hair.
I like my guys clean cut personally.
I need some /adv/ bigtime.
I’m dead inside right now you guys.
Things ended this weekend between me and my girlfriend of the last five years. I met her when I was 22 and I’m 27 now. Things were fantastic, not even one year ago she loved me like there was no tomorrow and I did as well. And there was never one day where we didn’t let each other know that. Around December maybe even late November I noticed she started changing. She became colder, more distant, wanted to spend less time together and just stayed in her home playing wow and going to work.
At first I was okay with it but she began to ignore me, and after we’d talk and I’d say I love you she wouldn’t say it back anymore, after a few weeks of this I finally called her out on it and she confessed to me that she actually started to lose her romantic feelings towards me and it hit me like a ton of bricks.
Mostly because I was and still am deeply in love with her. She said I was the perfect boyfriend but just didn’t love me like she once did. While part of her did and she didn’t want to lose me, she no longer has romantic feelings for me anymore. I never treated her wrong, I never hurt her, I was always attentive and loving and lived and died for her smile.
I asked her to be truthful, if there was anyone else but there’s not. All she does now is go to work and play WoW with her guild friends.
It’s devastated me though, since she told me she lost those feelings I became a mess. I’ve tried to forget her, tried to move on, but I can’t. I think about her, the last five years we had and it makes me mad that she didn’t try to fight for them, or for us. I realize you can’t force people to love you but damn I didn’t do anything wrong and I genuinely loved her and thought she was the one. I even wanted to marry her.
I don’t know what to do. I’m shattered and broken hearted mess. The light has gone out of my life and I don’t see any hope. How can I move on? What can I do? How do I get better? Please tell me I’m at my most lowest.
I'm normally such a stoic dude, but I've become an emotional mess over this woman. I've tried to keep my mind occupied by doing other things but it gets so much worse at night. I can't stop thinking about her. And when I dream, she's there. I draw, I work out till exhaustion but it doesn't help.
I can't eat, I can't sleep well and it's really bad.
How do you get over it? What helps? what can I do? Anyone that has ever experience heartbreak over the girl they thought was the one please help me.
Hi OP, I've been in your shoes, only I'm a girl. We were together for over five years when he told me he no longer loved me. It hurt just the way you described it, and there was never any sense or purpose to it. I also looked for answers and reasons why he fell out of love, but honestly not everything has a reason - sometimes, shit just happens and you can't control how people feel, no matter how strongly you feel for them. You need to have the foresight I didn't have and break it off with her now, because trying to hold onto love when love isn't there is the worst feeling in the world. It's going to hurt like Hell, but please trust me that it's much better than the mistake I made where I kept trying to hold on to something that just wasn't there anymore. There's never any sense in heartache, it's just something you have to learn to accept, and you can't accept it when you're clinging to a dream that doesn't exist anymore. She is no longer the woman you fell in love with. The woman you love is the one that loves you back; she is not this anymore, and you need to let go before it eats you alive. If your experience is anything like mine, you will gradually accept it and move on. It gets easier day by day, but it never really goes away completely, but that's okay too because eventually it doesn't hurt, it's just something that's there. Please reach out to your friends. Anytime you feel alone or want to reach out to her, reach out to your friends instead, because she will only be a cold reminder of what you lost. The first few months are the worst. It took me almost two years to completely get over the aftermath, but I promise it is worth it and a lot better than the alternative.
The best thing you can do is talk to your friends. Even when you feel shitty, please just talk to someone. You need your own support group right now separate from her. Get out of the house, go to some meetups, and try some new things.
How do you talk about more embarrassing fetishes with your partner and get them to do it? I've got a lactation fetish and last time i admitted that my partner called me a creep and left.
>>16811696
Were you two close dating for a while or did you come up with that 1 week after dating them?
>>16811696
Whatsa lactation fetish? Booby suckin?
You're aware that women can only lactate after they've had their first child, right?
>meet a guy
>started as friends
>ended as fwb
>he said it was about time to ask me to be his gf, but he was waiting for a special date
>i've been waiting for over 6 months
>>16811690
Why don't YOU ask him? You sound ambivalent about it though, so I'd say dump him.
it was a delay tactic to avoid answering the question. Obviously.
The question of whether you should dump him depends on whether or not you were only in the FWB in order to get to relationship status
>>16811703
actually, i planned to ask him, but he have made pretty clear that he wants to be the one that ask it
1.) I IN NO WAY WANT TO SMOKE THOSE CANCER STICKS
2.) what cigarette brand is the least harmful and how safe is vaping when compared to a traditional cigarette, I'm doing a health project for school, tried looking it up didn't get anything conclusive, wondering if there are any medically inclined folk on here.
Here's your answers. Although you'll still have to find them somewhere else. I doubt your teacher will accept 4chan as a legit source.
All cigarettes are extremely harmful. Lower tar and nicotine (two of the worst poisons) help. Brands that don't add chemicals might be a bit better, but with so many poisons involved the difference is small.
Vaping is safer, although still very nasty. Of course it leaves the most dangerous poison but removes most others. How big a difference this makes is still open for debate. The main advantage of vaping is elimination of 2nd hand smoke, so it can safely be used around others.
Nicotine isn't any more poisonous then caffeine. Stop trying to sound smart
>>16812029
>>16812029
Nicotine is far worse than caffeine.
Caffeine can worsen conditions such as glaucoma or (obviously) diabetes, but a quick google search only says caffeine is 'possibly unsafe' when taken directly, I.E. in pill form.
How to regularly "shoot" sperm instead of having it just dribble out? I have done it a couple times but it's extremely rare and I don't know how it happened. Please help I actually feel embarrassed about this.
>>16811475
Kegels, edging, stop masturbating.
>>16811475
This is stupid. Your stupid. Theres so many better things you could be spending time on, go learn a new language instead.
>>16811511
>Your stupid
Irony. Also what the fuck is the problem with this? I'm just asking for advice on something I'm not experienced with.
>>16811505
I read about kegels they never really helped just made me have premature ejac problems. Maybe i'm doing it wrong or something?
I need to get as far as the East Coast as possible. I just want to start a new life on my own, somewhere far away. Someone on /x/ suggested Montana or something similar, but I don't know. I live in NC currently and I need to get out of here.
I don't have a lot of money being a college student, but as soon as I graduate, I have to go. Any job will suffice as long as it pays enough to keep me alive with a place to sleep, food on my table and enough to get a drink every now and then.
Please, help me out. I can tell you my story if you want, but I really need help.
>>16811448
K whats your story.
>>16811448
Well, try to get a part time job and save everything you have for now.
>>16811448
Just live in the triangle you faggot
I genuinely have no idea. I graduated from college last May, and then If I was interested in someone we could just have a study date in the library or in one of the dorms' lounges. Now that I'm out and working my time is taken up by work, gym, cooking, and eating. By the time I've got some free time its 9pm.
A while ago I tried 'casual dating sites' like social sex dot com (yes, yes I know). That, believe it or not, didn't work. Just today, I made an account on PoF, but within a minute of making a profile two people already wanted to meet up, one of whom was behind a paywall. This indicates to me that every dating site is straight bullshit. The only one that might work might be tinder, but I don't have social media and I don't take pictures of myself all the time like everyone else seems to do.
I genuinely want to be intimate with someone, both physically and emotionally, but now that I'm out of college I have no idea what to do.
If I don't change anything my life will be an excruciatingly lonely one. I just don't know where to start.
Try chatroullete to get your communication skills up. That's a start.
>>16811446
I graduated May 2013 and I still don't know. I have no social life but I figured out how to get dates from OkCupid, POF, and Tinder easily enough. But more often than not it's just a waste of time and money. Even if you do get laid it's usually an empty and meaninglessness experience. Nothing like having a group of close knit friends like in college. I'm getting close to the point where I'm considering completely quitting dating because it's usually such a disappointment and waste of time.
>>16811450
I feel like I might as well just yolo swag on tinder then. My abs are pretty nice but I have brown skin
pic unrelated
How do I cope with sexual shit that's happened in my past as a child? When I was 4 my parents divorced, I lived with my dad and stayed with my mom for short periods every now and then. During one such time when I was 8-9 I was in bed with my mom (usually slept in bed with her and watched cartoons.) She asked me to take off my shorts because she wanted to try something. It wasn't unusual for her to be in the bathroom while I was bathing or me just being naked around the house in general, so I did. Then she started rubbing my penis and I asked what she was doing. She said it feels good to some guys and wanted to see if it did for me too. Nothing really happened, didn't get a boner or anything, was mostly confused, she quit after a while and asked how it felt and i told her "ok i guess" or something along those lines. One time I was in the bath i had a random boner for no reason and she asked if she could try that thing again and i complied. It actually did feel good this time and it eventually felt like i had an overwhelming urge to pee. She told me i was in the bath so it was ok, and that's how I experienced my first orgasm. I asked her what it was and she told me it just meant I was a healthy young boy. Since it felt good and i was just a naive little kid I'd ask her to do it again pretty often, and she usually did. I told my cousins and friends about it and we started doing it to each other too. We told different girls we knew about it, and they wanted us to do it to them, which is how we found out girls don't actually have dicks. It only lasted around a year with my male and female friends, a little longer with cousins of both genders, and until my teens with my mother. Then i started to realize just how weird it actually was, and the embarrassment crushed me. Of course, my cousins never mention it, and neither do I; I'm sure we both hope the other forgot. My mom never mentions it either, but I feel like it's stunted my relationship with her.
>>16811357
I don't really know how this has affected me, but I know it definitely has and I don't know how to handle it; I can't afford to see professional help right now. I feel like having any sort of relationship with another human being has become extremely difficult because I have severe trust issues.
Is this possibly real?
I find it hard to believe.
Really uncomfortable topic. I took baths with my mom until I was like 9. After my parents divorced at 12 she would start asking me to sleep in her bed and take baths with her again. Fortunately I said no, but it really creeped me out. Women have no morals.
I've been fapping to drawings and photos of traps, femboys and (2D) futa since I was 16, I'm 21 now, yet I also fap to women for the most part.
How can I tell if I'm not gay or bi?
>>16811342
Go try to kiss a man
You'll find out really quick
>>16811353
but I have no man to kiss
You fap to dicks and vaginas alike. You're bi.