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>>16809439

>Car license

>>16809439
Id bet most of the people on the bus are older than you so no you dont look like an idiot.

Cars are expensive and if youre fine with the bus dont worry bout it.

But for god sake get your license. Not having one, now thats weird.

>>16809439
I got my license and bought my first car when I was 25, almost 26.

I was 23 when I lost my virginity.

You march to the beat of your own drum, OP.

>>16809415

(cont.)

Anyway, after a long time of abusing drugs and alcohol, I finally decided to start making my life better. I managed to quite all the drugs and alcohol, and got myself back into uni. Now, I am in a PhD program, and have finally joined a gym (only to discover how insanely easy it is to stay fit).

However, a couple of days ago, my sister came over and had a bit of a stab at me saying that "You're the sort of person who never lets things go". Normally, I am though, but I cannot bring myself to do that for my family. Eveeryone I know at uni, and my gf, commend me on how well I deal with people doing the wrong things, and how patient I can be. But my sister is right in one sense, I cannot forgive my family.

How can I forgive a woman who spent so many years abusing me so horribly, who never apologised for it, and who openly tells others about the things she did to me as if they were funny? She recollects the tears on my face coming out of the wardrobe with a fucking twinkle in her eye, and I just have to stay silent, holding back my thoughts, lest I end up breaking down and yelling at her/crying and making a fool of myself.

Sometimes the people we are with even have an openly shocked look on their face, and look at me as if to say "i'm sorry". And my sister wonders why she has no friends.

But I cannot help but feel guilty in some regards. Should I just forgive them somehow? Am I the bad person here for not moving past it so we can get along?

I just don't know anymore.

>>16809416
Lol fk dat bich
Be cool
Stay in scool

>>16809419
To further expand on this. Your bitch sister is a sociopath at minimum. Which means everything she says can and should be discarded.

And your family is full of cunts.

Objectively think about it and you should reach am answer. Maybe one you feel is 'wrong' but is most likely the most accurate one

What, did she turn you down when you asked hee out or something? Call you creepy. did she?

>>16809377
She acts like a retard in class and interrupted me when I was talking to spew some gender gap bulllshit. I hate social sciences so much. She's an unbearably stupid tumblerina.

Call a girl fat, imply she's fat, joke about lazy fat chicks, joke about fat sluts.

I made couple of girls cry by simply getting into an argument and subtley mentioning jokes about them being fat.

Why would you text her morning :) like an autistic.

You plan a date every interaction

Also why didn't you call her? Wtf is the point of texting. Also why text her saying "geee golly I had a darn good time with you yesterday heha, we should hang again soon partner"

That's how lame your text was. You firstly call her, let her know who it is, talk then arange your next meet. You came off as if you never interacted with a female before and are excited to see her again. Weaaak

>>16809356
where I live we don't call first, we always text.
Also doesn't explain why she replied first time if she is not interested?

What kind of degree you have?

>>16809264
>Science degree
In what ? Major ? Comp Sci ?

>potential military service
Our military is pretty good. High pay in comparison to others. Could apply to be an officer with that science degree.
Even rifleman is like 50k+ per year to shoot guns and be in the nature.

>>16809264
>3rd month of unemployment since graduating
Not that this helps you, but it's a cautionary tale for others: start focusing on getting a job well before you graduate.

Anyway.

>Too old and too expensive to stack shelves or throw burgers at people
No you're not. If you have bills, do what you need to do to pay them, even if it's bullshit work. You don't have to put it on your resume. I dunno anything about Australia so don't really have much else to offer. I like temp agencies a lot to find part time work.

>>16809077
It's what you make of it. If you're bored and lonely, that's on you. Take more interesting classes, make some effort to make friends

>>16809091

I am. My saving grace is that I know how to talk to people, somewhat. Classes are non negotiable, since they're mostly general classes that count as credits that I actually need.

>make effort to make friends

How? I talk to people, I get acquainted with them and we greet each other every time we come across each other. but that's pretty much it. How do I meet people with a similar mentality? The only group of people I've actually gotten along with are veterans and a few people that come from poor backgrounds, and that's only because they aren't the dimwitted pseudo intellectual college grounds are cursed with.

Having the same experience OP. only that next semester I begin my third year. Made some good connections but have not met someone that I can call on a Saturday night to get some drinks.. Everyone always seems so busy with work or has something going on. Anyone have some advice?

hay brhoe,

leave her be, after relationships things get pretty emotional. give her time and just back the fuck off, if it was meant to be it will be. let her come to you, do you want to be the rebound or the next relationship?

>>16809061
Next relationship obviously

just dont want to see her go and never come back because she might think i lost interest because we aren't talking

>>16809056
You have two options, and neither will give you what you want, at least in the short-term.

If you stay in her life, two things could happen; you push, and she resents you for it, or you do not push, and end up as a friend. You should do neither of these, as it will only bring pain, in the end.

If you distance yourself, and go No Contact, she is able to enjoy being single, but will constantly be thinking of you, and why you have pulled away. This is what you should do, but it is a long-term investment, if it pans out.

She needs time to process her break-up, be single for a minute, and to realize your connection. She has to do this alone, or with friends, and it cannot be rushed.

Play it cool. No Contact, in this instance, is only on you; let her initiate.

>>16808989
Did you tried run the windows repair program?

>>16809006
Haven't tried it yet. Looking into it right now. I should say I'm computer illiterate at the moment. I don't want to completely reset the computer and lose all of my work and collected nonsense from the internet. Thanks.

Reset your Pc to its last working restore point.

http://windows.microsoft.com/en-us/windows-10/windows-10-recovery-options

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>>16808890
Have you tried anal yet?

>>16808890
Go to /soc/ you fucking whore, theyll kik you

take your xanax, bitch

take prolactin or food that increase its production

p.s. Is OP a girl or a trap?

If it is any consolation, small breasts are a miracle of the universe.

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>>16808997
Errr cd atm <_< debating on trying to get on hrt. Guessing the only way to get prolactin is ordering online? Any other tips n_n?

Please don't kill yourself. You don't need to do it. There is very real and lasting hope for recovery from depression, or whatever else you have. Unless you're terminally ill already, killing yourself isn't justifiable.

Don't give up on life, or happiness, or... you know, actual treatment. Please. Depression is an illness like any other, and it's one that can be treated -- it's the most common mental illness and has more treatment options than any other.

Giving up now would be premature. At best.

Here are some links which might actually help you:
How to find a mental health provider: http://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/mental-illness/in-depth/mental-health-providers/art-20045530
How to find a therapist: http://www.webmd.com/anxiety-panic/guide/how-to-find-therapist
Dealing with suicidal thoughts: http://www.helpguide.org/articles/suicide-prevention/suicide-help-dealing-with-your-suicidal-thoughts-and-feelings.htm
A list of suicide hotlines by country: http://www.suicide.org/international-suicide-hotlines.html

I've had severe, treatment-resistant depression for seven years. I've been on 14 medications, seen 8 therapists, and gone through dialectical and cognitive behavioral therapy. I know what it's like to feel like everything is hopeless and to want to kill yourself -- hell, I've tried to kill myself (it's a long story, but basically I lived because I'm terrible at knots.).

Stay alive, at least until you've exhausted all your treatment options. Please?

I've heard of you before. You've tried a lot of treatment. Recently I think you've had electro shock therapy. How did that go?

Back on topic, I want to die because I'm a dirty rotten cheater. Sexting counts as cheating. I'm proof that no matter how good you treat a girl, it'll never be enough and she'll always be unsatisfied. But damn I really am unhappy and unsatisfied in my relationship but I can't break up. I've tried so many times. There is no way out. Plus he doesn't have a backup plan like I do. There's literally no one attractive that lives near him or in his school area

my LDR boyfriend is sick on Vday and what do I do? Go behind his back and talk to a coworker I like because he loves me back and I craved attention and love. Since I have been deprived for the past week and a half

I am scum

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>>16808776
Do you have a fever?

call an ambulance, you might have an infected or burst appendix.

> but I live in Canada and it's at least a eight hour wait
2/7, too obvious, try again.

>>16808759
There's no way to tell from this so stop thinking about it. You'll know soon when she either ignores you or gets back to you.

I mean she said she works until 5:30, not that she had something else going on afterwards

>>16808759
Polite deflection 100%, move on, mate.

>>16808718
btw here's stats on me

Age: 18
Height: 5'9"
Weight: 150 pounds
Hair: Brown
Eyes: Blue
Nationality: American
Ethnicity: British, Irish, Welsh, Swiss
Bonus: I have a driver's license, come from a middle class family, am going to university

>>16808724
Manlet.
Buy a whore and keep the rest of the profits.

>>16808718
Make it look like you put zero effort into your bio. Don't be too desperate.

>>16808584
if there is a 'be nice' option, that is almost always the right option to take.

>>16808603
It would be me sucking it up and going to the concert together, or letting him buy me out of my ticket and taking someone else. (Which would be awhile as he's kinda poor.)

I'm struggling whether to be nice to a person that doesn't deserve it or being a jerk.