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>>16810702
To love yourself you must first be yourself

-Chad

>>16810702
Realize that society is dumb

>>16810705
>>16810710
You guys really have no clue

Stop the negative thinking, for a start. Then stop the porn and see how you react to the change. It might motivate you to want to meet people.

>>16810697
Then don't. Porn is awesome. You get see the naked bodies of women who are at a level you'll never achieve. You get to experience vicariously what sex with them would be like. Haters gonna hate.

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>>16810697
Sooner or later you just stop caring

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more info:

most of my problems come out of just feeling pressured to perform well. if i'm with a girl and she says something along the lines of "put it inside me" or "fuck me", that's it. I can't do it. I start thinking "ok you have this really hot girl in front of you who wants to be fucked, come on now" and then I can't get hard. i get incredibly nervous and if i somehow manage to get hard, i struggle to get in. if i take too long to get it in, i lose my erection. if i magically manage it, i start to think "ok don't cum too quick, just don't think about the cumshot" and then IMMEDIATELY i have to cum. i am literally designed to not have sex.

>>16810502
eat her out, senpai

>>16810509
this really hasn't solved the issue for me. im great at foreplay, eating the girl out, fingering, etc. i can make a girl cum, but definitely not through fucking. i want to enjoy good SEX, not just good oral. i want to be able to try crazy positions and just fuck until we cum. i don't want to just rely on my fingers reaching the right spot and then going to bed when it's over.

>>16810491

say
>thank you for the concern, but im just starting to see this guy, and were still figuring things out. not just if im compattible with him, or us with each other, but also me with his kids. yes, there comes a point where you gotta commit or ditch, but for now, were still just exploring the possibilities. when the time comes i will keep in mind what you are saying, but its my life, so please stop trying to tell me i shouldnt do something just because you didnt like the results. if you bring it up again, i will shut down the conversation, and that is the endo f that. do we have an understanding?'

shes being aggressive with you, so you gotta be aggressive with her, but stil lvalidate her concerns.

>>16810503
She's normally a totally supportive and great friend. Which is why THIS is so annoying.

I guess what I dislike most of all is "I can do it, but I know you can't." People assume I'm an idiot all the time, and are surprised when I'm not completely incompetent. I don't care about them, but it kind of hurts coming from a good friend.

>>16810520

maybe address that with her and have a good cry over it. explain your history with kids. she might not change her mind but you'll have at least said your piece.

but go in soft in that case. sos he doesnt feel like its an attack

>>16810468

>why do people care about losing their own virginity

cuz its hyped up. american pie culture has more than set in. having sex is good, and shows that you are desirable to some degree. being a virgin means missing out on something your penis wnats almost daily, and it means that no lady would do you.

at least in those anons minds.

>why do people get hostile

usually the threads are created with hostility. for instance the OP may say
"where can i find women who arent fucking whores? i only want a virgin"

this implies that anyone who isn't a virgin is inferior and automatically a slut. a large majority of the time the OP is also not a virgin themselves, but are insisting a virgin, which is weird in itself.

>>16810479
The thing is, this isn't exclusive to /adv/,/r9k/, or /b/. It's all over 4chan.

>>16810504

again, OP is generally hostile / elitist, and again, people live in a culturethat no longer prides virginity. american pie won.

its still the same answer outside of this board.

>>16810414
What's your goal? To lose weight? If so, then yes.

If it's just to generally maintain your weight, then probably not. As long as you're roughly in the right area, you're not going to gain a bunch of weight. Just don't get down on a bunch of fast food or booze or something now that you're not counting.

Unless you're attempting to gain or lose weight, no. It is worthwhile to at least be aware of how much what you're eating is putting in you, but not worthwhile to write it down.

>>16810432
>>16810434
well I started a new, somewhat physical job recently, nothing special, just being on my feet for most of the day and picking up small boxes, but I've been pretty sedetary before.

is that something you'd have to pay attention to or do you just naturally start eating more if you need more energy?

>>16810400

what are you imagining?

>>16810415
tentacle stuff
having a penis and fucking my boyfriend
dudes self-sucking
gay stuff

Like I'd be fine with that stuff if I was able to still orgasm as quickly from the more vanilla stuff. And if it wasn't carrying over into when I was actually having sex

>>16810425

is the imagination carrying over, or the sex itself is being tailored to fit your fetishes?

anywho the best thing you can generally do is just stop masturbating. make sex only about the sex.

>>16810359
Why would anyone want to learn a language for fun? It's a waste of time and learning that language will probably be useless.

>>16810365
>Why would anyone want to learn a language for fun?
>fun
there you go retard

Drop out and learn carpentry

>>16810320
>Weeaboos
Fuck off. Nobody cares about your stupid over imagined drama.

>>16810320
Alright, stop right there. You can spare us the blog post. Call her a cunt and find your own place to live. Preferably a studio apartment. Alternatively, you can just put up with her shit and not hang out with her outside the apartment.

Are you really over 18 years old? A 12 year old could have figured this out.

>>16810320
> a little tangent
>N gets 80 dollars a week allowance from back home.
>She has a "budget" from her gofund me page to finance her film
>ive been living off of a loan refund check since November.

I dont say anything because i feel bad. We start driving down the high way, B,N, and I all made a road trip playlist. Everything seems fine, even tho we had to turn around to get N's extra camera shit, and I scratched the shit out of the bumper taking a u turn. The car ride down is alright, but a little annoying definitely because I forgot to take my adderal. The most annoying part was definitely when she unplugged my phone that had the GPS running to plug her own phone in only to charge it. Then bitched about the car's media thing not being compatible with her phone, leaving me driving totally blind for about 10 minutes till i asked her to plug my shit back in, which she then proceeded to take a portable charger out of her purse. It was honestly beyond baffling.
>Friday night
my friends and I get out of the reg line and meet back up with N and B. N proceeds to tell me about how the cars gonna be fine because she asked her dad to pay for the entire thing, so it's cool she's got the money. Smug ass fucking face. "wow...that's...great". B said my eyes looked dead. I'm pretty upset at this point, because all she ever does anyway is one up me any chance she gets, but now she's rubbing almost 200 dollars that I spent to drive her ass up there in my face. It's a big "FUCK YOU ANON".

>>Saturday
Wake up, there's a fire in the convention hall, everyone is being evacuated. N claims to have sprained her ankle, leaving B to film N's thesis for the day. I'm still not happy about what happened friday. I go around in cosplay, I have an alright day. I dont see N at all and just hang out with my boyfriend the whole time.
>continued again

>>16810277
What if not having a girlfriend is your only problem? Checkmate atheists

co-dependancy.

>>16810282
It's not for me, my friend thinks a gf will fix everything

but the girl he like (who I am also really good friends with) is really unstable

>>16810206
Femdom is best dom

Stop getting off to porn and work on developing your sexuality

>>16810354
"work on developing your sexuality"

What the fuck does that even mean

shit normies say i swear

>>16810203
It means she thinks you're looking lasciviously at your niece.

This is really fucked up for her to say.

>>16810223
I know it's embarasing too..

Do you want to fuck your niece?

I became a Normie through mental illness. Anything is possible. Just try to fit in but don't expect any real validation from it.

>>16810188
You can ACT like a normie through willpower, yes. Perhaps over time you might change a bit inside, but that's not guaranteed.

>>16810200
How did that manage to make you a normie? I used to be a normie, then I got mentally ill, now I'm pretty much a crazy bitch.

I once sandblasted stuff for a couple of hours, but just like little parts. Actually quite cool, because its a work where you can see the progress right in front of you.

If there is some money in it and you don't have anything better, why not do it? Unless you have asthma or something.

>>16810319

It doesn't matter if you have asthma because you need to be wearing fully protective breathing gear no matter what.

>>16810166

Do you have complete protective gear?,micro dust is dangerous

Why does it need a title? Just go have fun.

Don't call it a date, just meet her and have fun. Let things go where they go.

>>16810154
Don't call it anything
Have fun with her