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I don't know if i'm at the right place for this but let's say it's just a fucked up situation that borderline sounds like the plot of an obscure suspense/thrille movie. But it's NOT

I'll try to make it a summary:
>be 24
>been living on my own since i was 18
>HS education, but i've always spent ungodly amount of times researching/reading/watching stuffs to enrich my mind
>had a shitty childhood
>bro always went out of his own way to fuck with me, defame me behind my back, snitch on me acting like he didn't do shit
>abusive alcoholic father who used to beat me up all the time over nothing
>ff to 14 y/o
>parents split up: dad in hospital(pneumonia that turned out to be terminal cancer) and mom lives with her new bf
>new bf is a 2 faced hypocritical fanatic religious fuck with a stale sense of humour
>hits me randomly for no fucking reasons while my mom is away
>flee from there and file an injunction against step father

Cont.
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>>16820853
Are you complaining or bragging?
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>>16820853
>bro came over where i was living to tell the whole story to the person i was living at their places
>tells me my mom sent him to tell me to remove my injunction
>refuse
>days later i get sent in a reception centre
>while i'm there, some bitch that was at my element school when i was younger got sent there
>made me a shitty reputation
>2 years later i get sent in a foster home
>same bitch magically ends up in the same foster home as me
>at first(before she came in), everybody was super cool with me
>everyone was annoying the fuck out of me desu
>when said bitch(her name's Caroline) came in, shit changed
>everybody tried to get me kicked out of there for no fucking reasons
>got sent in a supervised appartment(i'm 16 and a half by now)
>by that time i had made a "good" circle of "friends"
>skipping a shitload of details from there to today, in hindsight i was being stalked the whole time
>quit talking to almost everyone
>moved several times
>quit a shitload of jobs for being stalked repeatedly
>got even kicked out of a handfuls for going to HR
>don't even have FB anymore
>i have the reputation of being a compulsive liar, a homosexual, a religious fanatic(in the realm of christianity/catholicism), psychopath, mentally ill schizophrenic, etc...
When none of the above is true
>currently living at a lady's house
>her brother(who died last year) helped me out a LOT in life
>but he was also related to one of the people i thought that was my friend who's been pushing the stalking to a fucking higher level
>as much as he helped me ALOT, he did alot of ill willed shits thru manipulation
>the daughter of the lady i live at her place is a 28 y/o chubby control freak bitch with daddy issues who has been playing mindgames and manipulate(sad attempts actually)
>has been trying to get me kicked out of here countless times
>she also babysitted the other guy i mentionned who's been pushing stalking me to higher levels, so they know each other VERY well

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>>16820917
>the lady i live at her place actually likes me
>we had arguments countless times over her stupid daughter stalking and manipulating me and she goes into fits of rage EVERY. FUCKING. TIME
>i actually have a good relationship with her minus the psychotic bitch daughter who intentionally go out of her way to fuck with me

Anyways there's lots of skipped infos because i wanted to make it as brief as possible

Wtf am i supposed to do? I cannot go on living like this longer because I'll legitimate end up killing someone soon

So much rage and uncertainty inside of me it's literally eating me inside out

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So what exactly is wrong with cheating. Im trying not to but I dont see the reason for doing so anymore.
Honestly I dont see the big deal. People say youre free to do what you want as long as you arent hurting anyone, so why is this any different?
Honestly a friend from college moved to where Im at and she is honestly hotter than my gf and wants to mess around. But she isnt going to stay for too long so we were thinking of just messing around. I mean honestly I wouldnt leave my gf for her, but I dont see why I cant have both.
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>>16819430
I guess that depends OP, would you be fine if your girlfriend messed around with a big black dude? If so, then by all means enjoy an open relationship where both of you can have carefree sex
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>>16819439
Of course Id hate that. But if I never found out Im not being hurt. So whats the problem.
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>>16819439

Most people against cheating have some ignorant argument, like this.

To be honest, OP, nothing in life matters, There is no moral right or wrong, just your personal code for living. The way I see it is as long as you spread love and not hate, that is have a mistress for the excitement, not to hurt your girlfriend, how can anyone say what you're doing is wrong?

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Can't find one.
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I sometimes wish I had cancer so that things would be easier and people would be nice to me.
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Fuck you.

I started a fucking company with you. I gave you my orthodics when I realized you didn't have any, crippling myself in the process so you could have an easier time.

I go out of my way to make your life easier; I prop open doors so you can get through with your wheelchair, I carry your wheelchair downstairs whenever you ask even though we both know neither of us should be lifting shit with EDS. I bend over backwards for you.

I gave you my heart. You're the first woman I really loved in ~5 years. You helped me get over my ex. I gave you my virginity, for crying out loud.

And STILL you choose to spend your time with someone who's only given you a hard clitoris and your first lesbian experience. There have been so many nights when you come to me, "Matthew, she did this! Matthew, she did that!" and I have to comfort you and stroke your hair and remind you she's crazy. You came to me for comfort when you had to take her into the hospital, and you got me to cover for you when she made you her emergency caretaker--at the cost of actually getting shit done around the company, which I had to clean up.

I'm sick and fucking tired of being taken for granted. Keep this up and I'm not always going to be around, because you're being a straight-up bitch and I'm not going to tolerate it.
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>>16811676
I don't wish for it for that reason, the death part of it is enough for me. Why would you want the gratitude of some fake fuckers who love you only due to your illness? Also, as if cancer isn't incredibly uncomfortable, so easier is not even in that equation, sorry.

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If a 17 year old is caught with CP (like of little kids ) do you think he should get in trouble or be punished?
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Yes. Why wouldn't I?
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Legit CP or 3D/hentai?
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>>16818876
But the guy is only 17.

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alright, so I was with this friend and his friend who's a girl and blah blah blah doesn't matter

so a few days after that happened, I was with my friend again and asked about the girl, and, context aside, he said at the end of the conversation:
>yeah dude she was all "at one point I was just ripping on him and then he gave it back to me", like I said, you're on her side, you're on the same team, that's what she wants

okay, weird thing to try and figure out, out of everything else, I know, but the phrase 'at one point', grammatically speaking, what sort of past relation does that imply?

in other words, did they speak to each other just at a certain point when we were all hanging out, just when I was away from them (I went to the store a few times), or would it have to have been them together like the day after talking about me?

It's a bigger picture thing, what all of this amounts to, and it's not really relevant to ask her, but if they were talking about me like the day after we were all together, that would be significant, as opposed to it having just been said as some remark while I was gone when we were together.

what do you guys think?
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>>16818336
to ask here**

also
>together like the day after, talking about me?
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wut
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>>16818344
it's pretty clear what I'm asking, get some reading comprehension

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I really should know this by now but no. Another girl seems to be into me but I don't know if I like girls?
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>>16817040
If you are friends with them. And you get aroused by them physically or emotionally. You can call it love.
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>>16817040
You'll feel it deep down in your pants

And maybe in your heart.
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>>16817046
She's pretty amazing. Cooks like a pro and is nice and sweet. And I feel emotionally aroused by her for sure. Is this sexual attraction?

I dated a girl for a while in high school but it was definitely not love or anything. Also was a big mistake...

Usually I like guys. I hope this can work.

>>16817052
It's hard to feel much of anything these days. My heart's scarred and battle-torn :(

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Before you post a question, check here to see if it's already been answered
Keep your questions short and sweet for more answers.
And please no derailing arguments.

Avoid asking these common questions:

>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
Some do, some don't. Our answers are not going to help you.

>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Think positive, and get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it.

>I like someone. What do I do?
Ask them out.

>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.

>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.

>Is my body part big/small enough?
>Am I short/tall enough?
Most likely

>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. Stop overthinking it.
Alternative answer: we don't fucking know.

>XYZ happened. Did I fuck it up with this guy/girl?
Maybe, maybe not. We're not in their head, we don't know. No amount of your walls of text will fix that.

>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing

>Would you date a virgin?
As long as they aren't insecure about it. Complexes are a total turn-off.

>Someone has made it abundantly clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No

>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>

>That one guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships
No one wants to cuddle you. Stop asking

Old Thread: >>16810834
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>>16815162

Should I try and get back with my old girlfriend?

I ended things with her 4 years ago. I broke up with her as she was giving me a birthday present... Yeah pretty bad. But I'm sure I could fix it.

Is going back to where you've been always bad, or not?
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>>16815240
Why'd you break up with her?
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>>16815245
Cuz she looked like anons mom.

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Im trying to tell my friend to basically stop dressing like a ho but shes drugged up on libertarian nonsense.
Im trying to explain to her that shes only perpetuating the objectification of women and that her taste in clothing is a product of the society that objectifies women. But she doesnt get it.
Last time we were talking about this she said that she should be able to wear whatever she wanted and be respected which is just not true.
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Uhh maybe stop trying to control your friend and just let her wear whatever she wants? She should be able to wear whatever she wants.
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hahahahhahah oh fuck sjw crack me up
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>>16817352
>Last time we were talking about this she said that she should be able to wear whatever she wanted and be respected which is just not true.

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I've been having some bad anger issues lately, drinking a lot, etc. I'm in the military, though, and we have chaplains/padres.

Should I see the one at my local unit, or is it a trap? I feel like going to someone and saying "I'm having problems at home" is just gonna fast-track me to being fired from the only job I can get. But being angry literally all the time between shifts is very tiring, and I'm running out of unbroken things in my house to smash in fits of rage.
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what makes you so angry?
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>>16816477
Get the help you need. You owe it to yourself and your unit.
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>>16816480
that literally nothing I do doesn't get me bullied in some sense when I reveal it or discuss it with others, and that even on my own time doing things completely by myself, they fail pretty much 100% of the time. I cannot think of the last project I undertook that went well -- even cooking rice yesterday, some got burned and stuck to the pot. At the bar over the night, I met people and was largely brushed off or got ignored or whatever. And even being all upset, thinking I was by myself in my apartment to smash stuff up and be terrible, it turned out that my roommate was around the whole time! I think he might even have some bitch over. I don't know.

I am mad pretty much 100% of the time between shifts, and even at work, I'm on edge because I'm constantly being shit on for the length of my hair or how shiny my boots are or some other stupid thing, and I can't even take pride in my work because I don't really *do* anything.

I'm looking for a dance school. Is this school going to have predominantly black students?

http://www.houstondancestudio.com/
http://www.yelp.com/biz/the-movement-lab-houston
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>>16816398
Why do you care?
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>>16816405
maybe I don't want to be the only non-black person in class
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this question is so bizarre, that I came to the conclusion that it is an advertisement, then I modified my conclusion by reminding myself of the other questions that get posted here.

Then I changed my mind again, because this one is really obvious.

Pissing of 4chan is litterally one of the last things a business wants to do.

I suggest a rethink on this strategy.

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I got caught browsing some fucked up shit on this site just about ten minutes ago by my mom. I am 18 btw. She's really pissed cuz she has never seen me watch anything worse than a sex scene in a rated r movie. I am in my room right now waiting for her to finish talking with my dad about what she just saw and I am afraid what's gonna happen next?

Any advice on how to get out of this deep shit?
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>>16816210

realize it's not deep shit lol
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>>16816210
What did she see. Pls dont tell me it was trap shit.
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i know porn is not reality, it's not harming anyone, I'm sorry mom, I've always secretly wanted to fuck your tight asshole while dad watches

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What can I personally do to make America great again? Besides voting for Trump that is.
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>>16816105
consume and invest more.
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>>16816105
Not for for trump
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>>16816105
Don't vote for trump.

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So I tried and failed and now I have ugly ass slices on my left arm. They're healing but there's no way they won't leave me with scars. I don't want this known. Does anyone know of a way to cover scars with burns or something? I need a permanent solution that isn't a tattoo.
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Scar removal? If you find out be sure to tell the rest of the world.

How ugly? Just embrace them imo, they'll just be a story one day about when you had some trouble in your past. nbd really.
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See a damned psychiatrist over your obvious mental health problems.

How to find a mental health provider: http://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/mental-illness/in-depth/mental-health-providers/art-20045530
How to find a therapist: http://www.webmd.com/anxiety-panic/guide/how-to-find-therapist
Dealing with suicidal thoughts: http://www.helpguide.org/articles/suicide-prevention/suicide-help-dealing-with-your-suicidal-thoughts-and-feelings.htm
List of suicide hotlines by country (put one in your phone, since apparently you might need it): http://www.suicide.org/international-suicide-hotlines.html

Suicide attempts are serious things. They indicate that you need to get help. So get it.

You could end up a happy, healthy individual, instead of, you know... miserable. Or dead.
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The burns will itch forever. They have ways of covering up scars, including ordinary makeup, tattoos, plastic surgery, and sleeves.

Plus, people are inobservant.

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So I used to talk to this girl. We were kind of a thing and she seemed really into me. After a few months of texting every day, we just stop talking. Turns out a few weeks she just moves out of nowhere and is with another guy.

Apparently they broke up recently and she's back in town. I still kind of have feelings for her.

I want to text her but I'm worried it'll be to weird. Should I just leave it be and move on, or should I bite the bullet and text her? I just don't want to look like a pathetic creep.

tl;dr: talking to a girl, leaves one day with new bf, broke up and back in town, should I text or move on?
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Having feelings for a girl that broke your heart are wrong feelings.

Only good for a poke, not a relationship.
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>she chose that guy over you and it ended quickly

She doesn't sound very smart.
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Girl sounds like a bitch OP and I'd cut your losses and stay away, buy hey your call. You miss 100% of the shots you don't take.

I need to vent to someone, is there any online type deal where I can just bitch to someone? I can't deal with bottling my feelings anymore.

Im not suicidal or hung up on a girl, I just want to let some shit out y'know?
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>>16815770
You found the right board

Just post it here
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>>16815770
Fuckinghate.com
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>>16815775
Well, I don't really need advice. I want to just vent, but at the same time I kinda want acknowledgement from a person. If I post here I feel it'll just silently die with no response.

>>16815793
Will check out, thanks.

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