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>>16832978
Fag.

>>16832978
Control yourself and stop masturbating.

I used to browse /d/ a lot and I fapped to vore and transformation and shit. Pretty fucking queer shit.

Anyways, like I said, I no longer cared for that shit after I stopped fapping and only looked at normal images. Just try to stop fapping all together.

What is this "homosexual lifestyle" retards keep insisting is a thing? Seriously, there are plenty of gay people who are just like everyone else. I *know* gay people who are just like everyone else, and don't just constantly have casual sex or use meth or whatever else it is they're supposedly doing all day.

Hell, I'm bisexual and don't really give fucks about it. I'm saving myself for marriage, though, because I'm kind of a Jesus freak.

>>16832511
Lol wut. It is sexual harassment. Report him.

>>16832511

first and foremost, send him an email saying

"Dear Anon,

This is Anonnete. you have been touching me innapropriately. Stop. I am not kidding, this is not a joke, this is not teasing, this is not cute. you are violating me. if you do it again, i will defend myself'

next day in class ask him if he got your email. thats it. if he says yes say 'good'. then never talk to him again. if he tries anything, pepperspray.

Fucking tell him dumbass.

Then when he doesn't stop you tell the police/uni/whatever.

The guys flirting with you but you are a retard and he's bad at it. Keep saying nothing about him grabbing your ass and he'll keep assuming you like it.

>>16832454

military father, gone for the first few years. we were in cuba and puerto rico but i didnt have any long term interaction with him til say... 4? when we were in puerto rico.

at the time he seemed cool. dad was always the less lenient parent, so if we needed soemthing we'd generally go to mom. this made dad frustrated, but hed say no for any reason, including laziness. mom went out of her way to say, give us a glass of milk or make us a sandwich. dad would just say 'wait til dinner' or something to that extent.

He was easily angered, but i was generally a good kid so it didnt matter much at the time. id get spanked maybe twice.

we later moved to america and things were pretty smooth sailing until my dad flew off to greece for a year. he didnt have to go, but he and my mom were having marital issues so he left three of us with her.

i didnt resent him for this until my adulthood. the year was rough. my mom was being stalked by a man (not the marital issue, this guy didnt appear until about 4 months into my dads departure) and he was terrorizing us a lot, but because he insisted on taking orders overseas, he couldnt just come back.

eventually we all moved in again, and for the next few years things were nice, but got progressively worse. if my dad had a bad day, he'd take it out on us. for the most part i wanted to do my 'own thing'. i was always rather independent. for the longest time my father would rage that i spent too much time on the computer until i picked up film editing as a hobby. he considered that 'career worthy' and he'd let me stay on the computer all day if i was making a video.

the biggest issue for the bulk of it was he expected you to have all the sensibilities, experiences, responsibilities etc. of a man, but would treat you like a child (which is kind of how most teens are treated, but to a greater extent).

>>16832474
Was your mother stay-at-home, or did she work?

>>16832474

as work became more stressful, so did life with dad. no matter how good a job we did cleaning, hed find a reason to be mad. there came a point where, despite us having a specific list of chores, we'd get in trouble if we didn't just do spring-cleaning tier chores every single day.

during the summer, hed come home during his lunch braek just to see if our chores were done. and if they werent, we'd get in trouble. which is silly cuz in the school year we wouldnt do them til 4 at the earliest, and he doesnt get home til 5 or 6.

then he retired from the military. he wanted to get a civilian security job but ended up being a stock boy at home depot. it got REALLY bad. we were remodeling an entire house at the same time (Grandpa died) and if we did anything wrong, dad would rage. understandable because this was an investment for him, but at the same time, by little brother was 12 and expecting him to know how to paint a wall correctly when he'd never done it before is a bit much. unfortunately even for a 12 year old my brother was seriously bad. he found ways to fuck up the easiest of tasks, and i ended up redoing all his work for him.

older brother inherited a very fancy truck when grandpa died, so he would just drive out of state to hang with friends (he was a legal adult) so i was forced to stay home and work on this house for the last summer. even ifi wanted to go out i couldnt cuz it was in a brand new state and i knew no one.

>xboxfags

Truly the biggest cucks of the gaming world.

If he isn't happy with 99% on his exam, what makes you think he'll be happy with you? Not even trying to be mean here.

Get out of your current relationship and spend a long time alone. Your fiancée deserves better than you.

>>16832161
Well, that's your problem there. You're bored of your current relationship and seek excitement elsewhere. It sounds like your boyfriend has gotten complacent over the years like many other men.

Try talking to your boyfriend about how you feel about the relationship. That, or you could have excitement with your lab partner.

>>16831653
You don't, unless you want to be labelled an asshole.

Depends on who's funeral.

find the corpse and weekend at bernie's it so the funeral gets cancelled

can't have a funeral for someone who's alive

Boys, my boyfriend is struggling with his porn "addiction". When we'd have sex, half the time he has a problem with going soft and having to work himself up again. The worst though, is when he doesn't want to have sex at all, even though he has a regular sex drive when he feels healthy and "away from porn". He shared with me that he's had a problem and how it seems to be a male-only problem where he watches porn, then it escalates into more extreme stuff for him to get off... trannies. Then he's unable to even get an erection and so, avoids sex because it won't work anyway. I told him it's okay if he's bisexual and he can sleep with a trap or whatever, and that it isn't a bad thing to be bisexual... He tells me he is straight and is struggling with this porn thing, and that he reads about a lot of guys having similar sexual dysfunctions... Currently, he is trying to stay off porn, told me to give him a few weeks for his dick to work again.

What do you think about this? How can I help? Do you reckon he is most certainly bisexual for getting off to traps, and sissy caption shit? He also likes dressing up in girly stuff in private, he doesn't do it ever, but he did buy stuff online for himself. I miss sex with him and we broke up to take a break to fix our own problem but we still hang out as if we are together. During our relationship, I thought maybe he was unattracted to me, so I said he could fuck his hot ex, and later traps once I found out and then he started having dick problems.

Girls, how much should a guy talk to you before he becomes clingy?

I went to a first date with someone. She's supposed to let me know when she's free for a second one and it's been a week. No contact from her and no message. I figured she's changed her mind or something and that's fine. I can't shake the feeling that I'm messing it up by not sending her messages to just chat, but at the same time I don't want to start harassing her in the hope that she likes me.

Same happened with another girl who suddenly barely sends anything. She once started a conversation only to reply with single words messages. Nothing from her since. I sent a message around Valentines day to get some news from her and she barely answered. I consider it lost cause but of course I wonder if maybe I should talk to her more.

Basically i'm not losing any sleep over this, and I'm fine. i just don't want to lose on something because I kept my distances for fear of being clingy.

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Ladies,

Did you experience increased libido after starting working out? My wife recently started trying to get into shape, and it seems to me that she's more interested in sex now. Just wondering if there's a corelation.

Well you don't know what's wrong with you, so how are we supposed to know? From what you've said, there's nothing wrong with you - the only problem I can see with you is that you look at least 5 years older than you actually are (which might not actually be a bad thing at all).

Also don't hide your interests, that's retarded if you actually want a relationship with someone.

>>16830277
>attractive
>seems to be smart
>possibly shy

Have you even asked anyone?

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>>16830297
I haven't found anyone who's shown interest.

depends. did the person in question hurt you? do you genuinely think that doing this will make them a better person, despite the pain? ultimately, it's your choice, I would try to talk you out of suicide, but it seems you've already made up your mind. if your life isn't being raped and/or abused regularly, don't do it. just don't. but for the action? also don't. if you're going to die, die satisfied that you didn't hurt someone.

>>16832299
No the person is a little child who is family, they did nothing to me I just sorta chose them since they are the child I am closest to. My life is pretty shitty/going nowhere soo..

Just live on and say fuck em.

Or do it. Cripple them or whatever, they may heal depending on their will power, but more than likely its irreversible for most of our lifetime.

If social anxieties are holding you back from school and employment, you should talk to your doctor about getting treatment to help. I can tell you right now, you can be prescribed a beta-blocker that will remove the heart stopping nervousness and give you the confidence you need to get out there.

Yeah, there's definitely hope. You can start by going to a doctor or therapist. You'll also have to start doing stuff like exposure therapy where you slowly start facing your fears and doing it over and over again. The most important part though is to hold yourself responsible and not sliding back into neetdom. It'll be stupid hard but it'll be a lot less painful than continuing down the path youre on now. Also stop going to places like /r9k/ and surrounding yourself with neet shit

>>16831957
Force yourself to become an adult in a one time, no backsies, life decision. Join the army.

weed

I feel your pain, except alcohol and internet seems like a waste to me as well. Why am I even alive?

>>16831836

what else have you tried? i mean theres lots of 'one off' thigns or special occassiosn you can do. if you cut back on alcohol even the lowest budget people can start to afford them.

instead of spending 24 bucks a month on beer, go out and spend 15 bucks oen night on limitless laser tag.

cut the internet for a few months and put that money towards a sky diving groupon.

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I start therapy with him in 2 weeks. Which will be awkward. He always does this petty shit. Claims he has people spying on me and seeing I'm a horrible mother. Says I let the tv baby sit my daughter. General bullshit to avoid his own issues with parenting. He doesn't know or want to know about our daily lives. He doesn't even know her teachers name. Doesn't want to do homework with her. Hell, I honestly don't even know why he wants to spend time with her on the weekends if she's just being slapped around every time she visits him.

I'm worried about starting therapy. I have a strong feeling he's just going to lie and manipulate and point all this negativity on me. Just to deflect. I don't even know how to handle it. This is why we broke up, this is how he always acts with me. I almost feel like calling it off because it's just going to be a new headache. My husband also thinks it's a no hope situation, but says I should endure it to show courts that her dad is a deadbeat.

So, how do I just emotionally protect myself from the bullshit I'm going to endure by going to parenting therapy with my ex?

why did you have a child with this scumbag?

>>16831230
Because scumbags usually don't act like scumbags until you have kids with one.

I swear I think he is antisocial personality disorder/narcissistic personality disorder. All his behavior is defensive, gas-lighting, manipulative bullshit.

>>16831041
Start fucking other guys.

>>16831050
I've tried. All the guys that I keep meeting are fucking losers that just make me like him more

>>16831050
Are you a guy? From your opinion - is there any situation where this works out?

If you are a guy you have no hope.

>>16830576
you can't, it's called growing up and everyone whines about something. women complain that that they're paid 77 cents on the dollar for what a man makes (this has been proven false doesn't matter), black people whine about slavery (that was a while ago) and white people whine about how the world doesn't care about them (despite having a huge leg up in society)

asians are pretty chill though, but they're a different kinda weird

bottom line everyone feels wronged, nothing will change, life is awesome*

It sucks, but it's life. She may realise truth at some point, but she may not. Sucks, but maybe she'll learn and grow and come out of that phase.

Depends on what you want to get out of it

>>16830557
It can be, but it depends entirely on how you approach it. If your picture is any indication of your intended approach, then I would have to guess that it is probably not.

>>16830557

College is a risk investment.

You are putting yourself in debt with the promise that you will perform well and get out with the skills to acquire a high-paying job.

College is totally worth it if you are going in with the discipline to study, passion for the material you're studying and having to ability to check the demand of the skills you're acquiring on the job market before embarking.

Most of the time though, people go to college because they think its "the next step in life" with no real objective and end up under performing, failing, and acquiring massive debt.

Finally some stories of fiction and also falsehood!

How old is she?

>>16830489
She's 27 I'm 24.