I just overdosed with 20 pills and now I don't want to die, I'm also scared to tell someone. what do I do?
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20 pills of aspirin ?
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12 pills of Benadryl and 8 of some allergy medicine I don't know the name
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>>16833286
20 pills of yoguretto
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Girlfriend cheated, wat do? 2016-02-22 05:17:44 Post No.16833601
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The girl I've been with for 3 years cheated on me 2 weeks ago. Long story short, she was drunk and fucked this guy. She waited until I saw her in person to tell me. This girl has always bent over backwards for me, always given her 100% in everything. I know her and can tell she regrets what happened and is totally devastated. I have no idea what to do. Forgive her cause she was drunk? Cut it off? I'm in deep love with her, I was planning to propose before I deployed. Wat do?
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It's not up to us whether you forgive her, it's up to you.
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I know, just seeing what other people would do. It's tough man.
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Before you make a decision consider did she really cheat because of a random drunk slip up or was there something wrong with the relationship that caused this... then decide which one would be the worse situation. If its a slip up it means her will is weak... if its something else then its fixable but at the same time she should have helped fix it before cheating.
Both reasons are shitty but the reason why should matter to you in deciding if its worth forgiving her.
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I'll keep this as brief as possible. I'm 23/f and the guy I'm referring to is 31/m.
We've known eachother for about 5 months and the past few weeks have been spending a day out of each weekend with eachother. This past weekend after we spent the day together, 4:30am creeped up on us. We were at his house and he asked me if I just wanted to stay over. So, I stayed. First time ever that I've spent the night with a guy without SOMETHING sexual happening. I was honestly disappointed, as I've grown to have a bit of a "thing" for this guy.
I know he's extremely caught up on his last relationship, as he's confided in me about it (and they've been apart for years). But I'm starting to have doubts about myself. I wasn't necessarily "rejected", but I feel as if that's the case. Or that this is strictly platonic and I'm just setting myself up for disappointment. No kissing, cuddling, etc. We discussed sex with other people right before falling asleep. I know it was on both our minds. We're both not "prude" by any means, but have discussed how we wouldn't just sleep with anyone without feelings involved anymore.
My questions are as follows: How weird of a situation is this? Has this ever happened to you and what was the end result? What the heck?! Was he too scared to put the moves on, or did he just have no interest? How would you proceed?
Thanks in advance for any sincere insight.
TL;DR; : Spent night with guy, nothing sexual happened...why not?
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I did this to a girl once. I just wasn't interested in her that way.
There's no way for us to know really, but it's possible he was just anxious. Could he have not got physical signals from you?
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I think he might not be interested in you like that at the moment.
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In all fairness, we were both stoned. I don't think I was giving off any physical signals. I didn't want to cross the line...I usually leave that up to the guy. I'm pretty "unsure" of myself. I tried not to come on strong.
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so i need a little help...
heres some background
>start messaging cute af curvy redhead on OKCupid
>seems receptive likes to smoke weed and play vidya so i use that as my crowbar
>make her lol and haha consistently
>ask for her phone # but gets shot down
> brush it off keep trying and finally after she says no once again i leave her MY number and tell her its her move
>two days later she hits me up and we start texting furiously (3 weeks to get #)
>she is super cool and has a nice heart and is my kind of weird
>she's into hard rock, metal and serial killers (really into serial killers)
>i ask her if i am wasting my time on her and if we could get to know each other or move on
>she thinks im cool and digs that im not weirded out by her interests and says im reallly handsome so thats a green light in my book
>we talk about ourselves and find out that she has a REALLY troubled past and has a bad case of death anxiety
>she is afraid of pretty much everybody and has trouble even going to 7/11 across the street without getting panic attacks
>either way she is very sweet and very very beautiful all around
>she is digging me too and we set a date for valentine's and she gladly accepts
>turns out she's never been on a date before
>almost a week passes by and she cancels on me the day before
>i was bummed and so was she but apparently she had to work all day i swallow my urge to ask her if shes just afraid, whatever
>i tell her i was going to a cafe on wed. she says she was going to be busy and doesnt reschedule and seems uninterested so i thought she was just a time-waster so i delete her from everything and forget about her for a few days
>two days later she hits me up and sounds really bummed and says she understands if im not interested in waiting around for her
>tell her im definately interested
so question is
how can i convince her to trust me if she wont see me in person or talk on the phone? what do /adv/?
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>smokes weed
>her "hard to get" is under a month of effort
>into serial killers
>has a trouble past/daddy issues
Anon I get that she's hot or whatever but I'm warning you right now if you get involved with her you're going to experience a shitstorm.
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>>16832069
This, she's obviously a mental case. Stop wasting your time
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>>16832086
oh i guess i should say that im not normal either haha im weird as fuck and i do love weed too
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My girlfriend us fat. She's gained 25 pounds since we've started dating and it doesn't look like she's going to lose weight any time soon. I've tried encouraging her whenever I notice her lose a few pounds but she says I'm shallow if I'm only attracted to her when she's losing weight. I've tried monitoring her diet and seeing where she eats so many damn calories but she said I was being condescending and judgemental.
I don't know what to do. We've been together 5 years and I've lost attraction towards her. There are other girls with model -type bodies trying to get with me and I don't know how long I can hold out.
My gf hasn't weighed herself since about October because she's afraid of the scale. She says it makes her feel bad. How can I get her to look good again?
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I've tried getting her to go to the gym with me but she says she feels like everyone is judging. She very self conscious about her body and it hurts her self esteem. She's always complaining about being fat but I don't see her put any effort into changing it. When she does, its usually some retarded diet plan that takes way too much effort and she inevitably fails. It's like she's either putting no effort , or way too much and expects instantaneous results.
I've given up on monitoring her and trying to encourage her, but since then she's gained 5 more pounds. She's says I still judge her silently and sees the way I look at her. Says I'm shallow for wanting her to be thin and not ffinding her attractive in her current state.
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Want a plan? Here we go.
1. Start working out yourself, do this for like a week before step 2. If you already work out just go to step 2.
2. Ask her to join you, if she does, do fat burning shit and problem solved. If not, (or if she does but then quits) then step 3.
3. Show an interest in health & fitness (drink grass n' shit, then talk about it) and begin to worry about hers. (DO NOT back down from this stance, it is your trump card to call her fat without getting hit with #body-shaming).
4. She has two options now, she can healthy up to meet your standards, or she will bunker down in fat shaming and refuse to meet your new standards.
5. It's your move. By now she has either shaped up, or you have a perfectly crafted reason to leave her for a sexier, healthier lady. Simply, she doesn't meet your standards and you left due to being unfulfilled.
All results are a win
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If she doesn't care about herself, how do you expect her to care about you?
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I always get cum everywhere. I've read masturbating in the bathroom helps, but I like to do it in front of my computer. I also read about using tissues, but I like to use both hands, so I can't really catch anything with tissue when I orgasm. Any help, /adv/?
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Computer? Get a fucking smartphone you caveman. Then you can fap anywhere.
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Can't you sorta aim? Like, put a tissue on your chest or whatever.
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The screen is too small though.
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I think I've fallen in love with my husband's best friend and I have no idea what I should do. I love my husband very much, and we've been happily married for 7 years. We have a beautiful little girl together. Money isn't an issue at all -- We don't have any debts in the world, and can afford to travel on a fairly regular basis. We get along well and never fight. We both have great respect for one another. Our sex life is great and he fulfills me perfectly.
No matter which angle I look at it from, my life is very happy and easy right now -- Very content and fulfilled.. But I love my husband's best friend. I can't get him out of my mind, so I try to avoid seeing or being with him at all when I can. I haven't told anyone about this, and I'm not sure how much more effort I can put into keeping distance between myself and our friend without making my husband think I don't like him.
Even the slightest thought of hurting my husband or robbing my daughter of a happy, normal life fills me with profound sadness. Please give me your thoughts..
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>without making my husband think I don't like him.
sounds like the only issue to me
and one which would be perfectly suited to discussing in
marriage counseling
dun dun duuuun
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The gut reaction of a random mid/late 20 year old male that doesn't know shit about being married:
You're too "content and happy" right now. Sounds like you're basically having what's the equivalent of a mid-life crisis right now where everything's been going too smoothly, and your immediate reaction is that it's driving you crazy so you want to act out.
The more you try and struggle against this shit and try to force yourself to do the "right" thing, the more it validates those feelings of rebellion and makes you want to act on them.
My advice, stop flipping out about this shit. Let it go.
So what, you're attracted to another dude for now. It happens. Don't make it such a big deal. You know you love your husband. Phases happen. Don't dramatize this shit like a teen until you convince your self you're madly in love.
Who knows though. Maybe i'm full of shit. Best of luck
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>>16834402
The gut reaction of a random mid/late 30 year old male that doesn't know shit about being married: I strongly agree with you.
except I still suggest marriage counseling instead of letting it go.
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Why does fiction seem more real to me versus actual real life?
Is it because it relates to what I wish I was rather than what I actually am?
So I voluntarily or involuntarily decide to treat fiction as my pseudo reality?
Am I just running from reality? Does this mean i'm weak?
If so, what can I do?
The obvious answer is to fully accept my current situation and self, then work on myself from there.
Re-evaluate my life, find what I really need and make solid goals based on my new understanding.
Though, is that really the best course of action? Don't I know exactly what to do already?
Does anyone else feel like they have this kind of thought process?
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You just need to learn how to storytell your life better.
OP IT IS YOUR DESTINY!
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it depends what you mean by 'more real'.
how is it effecting your life?
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>>16834212
in the writing world, we always say that fiction has to be truer than life, because people will question it.
if you publish something as nonfiction, people just assume it happened.
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women have like this army of dudes in her storage just chomping at the bit to date her? Any given girl that is decent that is. Not even talking about the 10/10 or whatever but even girls who are like.. 4/10's(i really hate rating people) but you get my drift.
How can anyone even compete? I don't feel like I could be a better choice than any of those other dudes.
This makes me really uncomfortable on dates because I have no confidence and feel like there are so many dudes after this girl that I can't possibly compete!
I just feel like shit. I know women don't mean to do it but they really do have a way of making dudes feel like shit.
It even makes me feel like shit when a girl doesn't text me back but I text her back like almost instantly.
What can I do to improve confidence?
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Fake the confidence and learn to sell yourself based on your good qualities.
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If a girl is willing to go on a date with you then she has atleast a little interest in you which is probably more than a lot of other guys
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this is... inaccurate. Women go on many dates. Most of which are crap which is how she even ended up with the armory of beta orbiters in the first place. Basically, if its a meh date, she can shelf you and wait for something better. If nothing better comes along any time soon, she can throw you a bone and string you for a bit.
Its a fucked world.
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>the only reason you broke up with your girlfriend is because you couldn't be/didn't want to be monogamous, wanted to sleep with other girls
>thinking about what sort of girls you'd like to pursue, come up with list of attributes
>describes your ex perfectly
Why is monogamy the assumed relationship structure? Why is it so reviled to have a long-term, committed relationship in the "casual dating" environment? Love should begin at friendship, not sexual exclusivity.
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That's where you have a fucked up thiking. Love starts with friendship. But romantic love starts with sexual exlusivenes. Don't try to hamster your way out if this. Everything else is polyamorous tumblrina shit.
You think you can have the cake and eat it too? Think again? Something worth having is going to have a prize. Your decision, if you are willing to pay it or not.
Sex is crazy intimate. Sharing that with somebody else than your bf/gf shows that you are immature, have no boundaries, have issues, have HUGE intimacy and bonding issues. Lots of people are like that, so don't worry. I strongly advice you to get over this. It's awkward and cringey af and it will leave you lonely and miserable
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>But romantic love starts with sexual exlusivenes
No it doesn't.
>Sharing that with somebody else than your bf/gf shows that you are immature, have no boundaries, have issues, have HUGE intimacy and bonding issues
Uh, how's that? There are still defined and respected boundaries, it only shows you don't have SOCIETY'S boundaries, but since that's exactly what I'm questioning here, that makes this the equivalent of "Because that's what everyone does."
That's not an answer to the question.
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Monogamy isn't just cultural, it's very much a part of our biology. 75% of the world's nations today are monogamous. All of them have an array of extremely different cultures and people, but they all chose monogamy.
Most people want monogamy.
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Can I Hire A Lawyer To Represent Someone Else Against My Own Interest? 2016-02-22 06:25:14 Post No.16833808
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I'm in a weird situation. I need to pay someone for damage I did to their property. We discussed a reasonable amount I need to pay but the person I'm paying wants this under contract. Furthermore, if I hire a lawyer to have it done, he wants me to pay for his lawyer as well. I can't afford two so I was thinking about paying his lawyer to write up the contract. Does that mean he represents both of us? That doesn't seem possible.
The way I imagine it, if I pay for his lawyer, I'm not only paying for him to draft a contract but to do so without needing to represent me. It seems a little humiliating to pay someone to write a contract that benefits someone else at my expense.
Is it legal for me to pay for the other guy's lawyer? Is this normal or should I be embarrassed?
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Law student here. Lawyers can represent two clients in the same matter, and often do. This normally does involve both of you signing informed consent about this, including acknowledging that you have or have declined to get independent legal advice. There are some matters where it goes against the profession's code for a lawyer to represent two people in the same matter though, where they won't be able to fulfil their obligations and loyalty to both clients. From what you've said, if the matter is merely drafting up the contract then it should be fine, but it does sound like a bit of a grey area and the lawyer may decline to represent you as well to protect themselves.
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The person I'm paying wants me to hire a lawyer for him specifically. He was pretty clear. This is because he wants the contract reviewed in his interest because things got complicated.
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You can't hire a lawyer for him, he'd have to approach the lawyer and retain them himself. If he wants you to pay his fees for his lawyer then that's something he's going to have to discuss with his lawyer. Between the two lawyers, they'd draft a contract, but this does seem to be the sort of thing that would be best done by one lawyer, at least practically speaking. The other guy certainly is entitled to independent legal advice once a draft contract is drawn up. If you don't want to pay his lawyer, then that's something you'd have to discuss with your own lawyer. Does that answer your question?
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I'd rather be alone than with someone I'm incompatible with 2016-02-22 06:15:25 Post No.16833779
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I'd give anything to find my life partner right now.
I'd also rather be alone right now than with someone I'm not happy with/incompatible with.
I'm not a special snowflake, but I tend to like women that are.
Most of the traits I like in women are uncommon, and some are incredibly rare.
>Switch
>Bi
>Large size
>Weeb
>Intelligent/Nerd
>Likes /sci/, /his/, /lit/
>Likes intellectualism
>Atheist
All of those which really make or break it for me are uncommon or rare among women and really apply to men.
The places I've been told to look are Unis/Libraries/Places of higher learning, and Anime Cons. And I will do the latter, but as for the former, it's embarrassing because I'm a depressed and capable but lazy piece of shit who doesn't push himself to get good grades. So I'm at a CC with the semester off at the moment.
The CC is basically filled with stupid submissive women as well as all flavors of LGT that I don't want.
I'm aware that it's ok to want what I want, and I don't think I'd change it if I could.
But the point is, I don't know if I'll find the person I'm looking for. And so, I don't know if I want to try much more or give up now.
I'm trying because I don't know what else to do.
Any /adv/? Do I give up, any general comments?
thx
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nigga I just want the snake girl from Monster Musume. You think you got it rough?
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>>16833781
>just a plain old girl on top of a snake's body
>doesn't even have hips or anything like the snake girls in XCOM
get better taste, start fapping to proper furries
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>>16833791
monster girls are not furries you idiot. furries arent even that good anymore unless you dig really deep. this is why you dont have a gf OP, you think you know everything, but you FUCKIN DONT
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So /adv/, I fell like I'm pretty much done with life. Not in a "overwheling sadness and suicidal" way but just having no more interest in being here. Like when you finish a game, there's no need to keep playing; you've seen and done everything there is to do. I fell like I've seen and learned enough to be finished. Anything here out would just be killing time till the end.
Any suggestions to kill the time. Aside from this lousy place. I though maybe charity work, but I don't really have applicable skills.
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Play videogames, learn something else, masturbate I guess.
I mean, thats pretty much how everybody elses feels when we dont have nothing to do.
I guess the solution is to do stuff.
So go do some stuff anon.
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How old are you OP? I'll be 21 in 2 days and I have that feeling. I just want to clock out with the happy memories I have now. I want to die with my mind at least somewhat intact. I can really only see my life getting worse from here on out.
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>21
>I can really only see my life getting worse from here on out.
What a fucking retard.
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Help me /adv/
I'm addicted to groping my female room-mate while she sleeps, since she's a heavy sleeper. I tried it once and got hooked since then, do it almost every night now. And I feel disgusted every time I'm done fapping. Not only do I feel disgusted but I know I'm risking a lot if she ever wakes up during the act.
But everytime the night falls I can't resist my instinct and if she's off covers sleeping in tight shorts I can't help but want to cop a feel.
What can I do? should I cut my balls off? I don't want to get v&
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Just...stop? It doesn't sound that hard to quit. Release your sexual frustrations elsewhere.
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stop doing it, idiot
if you ever get caught doing this, or there's enough evidence to suggest you've been doing this (or more, because it's only a matter of time before you try to hit it), you'll get some serious jail time
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just stop. no strategies, except maybe bust to some regular non-rapey porn whenever you get the urge.
stop though
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So...I share an office with someone. She has it days, I have it evenings and weekends. We split the rent. She found a gun in the desk and freaked the fuck out. Should I cut her out of the lease, try to smooth it over, just fucking bail cause its an llc and move my clients elsewhere?
Its pretty much legal if that matters.
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Why'd you have a gun in the office?
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>>16833063
Well, it was first there because I got an impromptu call from a friend to hit a bar and its not a great idea to go drinking while armed. Then I left it there because I work late and some of my clients are fairly sketchy.
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>>16833073
That didn't answer the question completely. Why do you have a gun at work? What kind of clients do you have?