Why is it that a lot of forums, websites and even 4chan in some instances get overrun by white knight beta cucks? How can we turn the tide? I already hear their passive aggressive whining enough irl.
I guess this is a good opportunity to ask.
What is a beta? (loser that can't get girlfriends?)
What is a chuck?
As for the White Knighting people love to debate stuff and reflect on moral topics without actually doing anything about them, just talk talk talk talk.
The ride never ends.
>>16821566
A beta is a male who, instead of being alpha and manning up, completely bitches out. Can apply to many situations, but often refers to scenarios with women.
A *cuck or cuckold is the most pathetic form of life.
I'm 30 years old and have a wonderful career that most people would kill for as Director of Marketing/Advertising. Make over $100k per year after bonuses.
I live in one of the most affluent zip codes in America. I literally have nothing to complain about.
Lately though, I have been thinking about quitting my job and getting a job as a welder, machinist, or electrician... anything other than sitting at a fucking desk all day, looking at fucking spreadsheets and data tables. So fucking boring.
I want a job where there is some majestic landscape at my back while I build infrastructure with the breeze on my face.
Grass is always greener. I just feel its already too late to change my career path and start completely over.
Laborer here. You can make good money in a trade job and the exercise is nice, but I think the magic of the outdoors and such will fade for you in time. I've had back issues from the strain since my mid 20s, too. I still say follow your dream.
I'm actually desperately searching for a decent desk job at this point. Your firm hiring?
You do realize that those electricians etc dream of sitting at a fucking desk all day right? Most of us are like this, never satisfied, always wishing for something else.
Not like your life is perfect, I get it, desks jobs suck, but then again all jobs suck if you don't have a passion for them. And usually the passion also dies in time. Still, if your job makes you unhappy you should quit it and try doing whatever you like. But I'd save some money before doing that if I were you. This "it's too late to do it" is just an excuse, maybe unless you want to be a professional athlete or something.
>>16821191
You just gave me a great idea for a reality TV show where people "switch" jobs. Actually money has literally nothing to do with it. Its just, sitting in a 10x15 office 8 hours a day and thinking to yourself, "Is this what life is?".
>>16821194
Yes, I am sure they do. Hence, why the grass is always greener.
How do you tell someone you miss them without seeming clingy or pathetic?
As recently as two years ago, she used to be my best friend. Now she's such a stranger, who I suspect barely tolerates me.
She hasn't returned my texts for weeks. My friends are caught up in their own lives right now, too. I can't even focus on my day-to-day life anymore, because I feel like nobody cares about me.
In my experience this is a catch 22. If you've already been ignored extensively the only way you can get on her level and make meaningful contact is when you are in a situation where you haven't got that hole inside you. Is this just friend or ex or crush?
>>16820774
Crush. She knows. We talked about it a few years ago. She's like a sister to me now.
She recently got a boyfriend, and I recently broke up with my girlfriend. We used to confide everything in each other, but we've been drifting apart and now I feel like this bf has replaced me entirely. I want to tell her about my breakup sadness, which is exactly what I would've done when we were super close, but now I just get radio silence.
I feel pathetic for being so preoccupied by it.
You need to move on bro. She probably doesn't feel like being close to someone with an obvious crush is a good idea now that she has a boyfriend. You need to move on to a different woman as it's clear you still have feelings for this girl and are hung up. Find other people to talk with and expand your social circle. Try online dating. Whatever helps.
So to get to the point, saw a few links to Lesbian porn on my girlfriend's phone (Looking over her shoulder while hugging from behind.) So now I am wondering what is going on. A bit of backstroy
>Girlfriend of 2 1/2 years
>Not very sexual (She is a virgin, 31 yers old, saving sex for marriage, that's ok.)
>I work as a security guard and don't see her that much.
>When We started she stated: "I don't see the point in watching porn, why look at something I can't touch?" I go with that.
>Guessing opinions can change over time.
I have not said anything yet, I know things can change over time but I would think she would mention something, It feels weird knowing how she reacts to sexy time things. I want to wait to bring this up with her, but I am starting to wonder if I should prepare for the worse. I also wonder if anyone else has had a problem like this. Thanks for any and all advice.
she´s 31 and a virgin?? AND you´ve been dating for 2 and half years??
>>16820467
There's nothing significant to it. If she wanted to be with a woman, she'd left you. She probably loves you as much as she always has, but may have felt uncomfortable with letting you know of her sexual fetishes/interests, or that she masturbates to pornography.
Any advice on methods to deal with procrastination? I have to work on a CV and cover letters and I physically and mentally can´t get myself to get it done!
Where can I meet girls?
>>16820102
Outside
>>16820114
Be more specific
>>16820117
outside of your parents basement.
I'm going out on a date with a girl in a wheelchair. What are some handicapped-friendly fun places I can take her?
>>16819864
You can take her to a flight of stairs, walk down them, and ask what's taking her so long.
Dinner
Anime date
When is it time to GTFO of your current relationship?
I'm asking because a lot of shit has happened, and I just don't feel as happy as I used to.
Pic semi-related. It's our cat.
do you feel like the relationship makes you feel like shit and don't see a way to fix any of it?
do you feel like neither of you give a shit anymore?
do you feel like the relationship has not led to you getting closer to life goals and is stagnating?
>>16819856
She's cheated on me a few times before. I feel like crap because I'm overbearing and I do not trust her.
>>16819866
>She's cheated on me a few times before.
She's going to do it again. You're right to not trust her.
Alright, /adv/. I never really come here, but /b/ is unresponsive. I want to go on an adventure. Maybe around Europe or Asia or America or anything. I'm just a little bit stumped on what to do. Suggest shit to me.
I'll heavily consider whoever rolls 17.
>>16819534
Shameful self bump.
>>16819534
Why the fuck would you even ask /b/?
>>16819553
I just normally lurk there. Sometimes they're chill.
tl;dr What's a good job that requires minimal years of study and has potential growth in the future salary wise?
I guess if you're interested in reading my blog, i'm a 22 year old NEET who's been living with his parents and I am now in a situation where if I dont get my shit straight, study and get a job im gonna be thrown out on my ass. I barely have any interests in anything that is actually worth studying, and anything that is ends up being pretty expensive and I have no money. I just need something that will allow me to start making a living, I can grow in, and I can at least sustain a middle class lifestyle in the future.
>>16819407
Good things take time. You can't just do the shortest course available and expect to be making 6 figures within 3 years.
Programming/Web Dev. Good luck teaching yourself on your own though. Not because it's hard, but because it requires extreme perseverance.
>>16819410
I don't want to make 6 figures in 3 years though, I just eant something that I can grow in, will be feasible in the future and i dont have to study a lot for because I dont have the money to spend 6 years in school
girlfriend wants "proof" where im at by sending her pics etc every hour, tried explaining its overkill. she over feel and mad. What the fuck to do.
>>16819296
get the fuck out of there dude
Whatever you do, don't comply.
>>16819296
Tell her to fuck off, pussy.
I'm \considering suicide (no, I'm not in immediate danger, so don't call the police or something). Life just isn't worth it to me. I am dumb, not that attractive, and emotionally ill-equipped to handle the world. These are facts. I get bullied, scapegoated at work, I have no friends, I'm just burnt out and tired of it. I believe that everyone has an innate intelligence that can't be changed. Some people are smarter and others dumber. I am borderline retarded (tested, 80 IQ), I have been since the day I was born, and I'm just fucking done. It's humiliating, soul destroying, and it sucks I'm not ignorant enough to not be aware.
I don't know where I'm going with this, I'm looking for someone to essentially say that it's fine to feel like this and that they would understand if I did it. I've got a bad hand that's just a hassle.
lmao fuck iq tests. ever heard of the theory of multiple intelligences? look it up
>>16819273
If yoy believe you are dumb, how can you be sure that everyone has a set IQ? I have an IQ of 146 (also tested) and I think everyone is born intelligent. Its just a matter of realization and exercise.
>>16819283
Oh. And motivation of course.
I'm a 19 year old guy and I'm really picky about who I'm willing to date so it's going to take me a while before I find someone who fits what I want in a girl and likes me back. At what age does it start to be too old to date younger girls?
>>16818995
You're the kind of guy that shoves curling irons up his ass aren't you
>>16819011
No, but I'm curious where you got an idea like that from.
Being picky is dumb for a guy. And you're going to say "nuh uh" but I'll tell you why anyways.
#1 You barely get to choose who you're attracted to. It doesn't follow through the logic part of your brain. Women can kinda choose if they have a gaggle of boys they drag along, sometimes they can choose the best one for them. But you don't have that opportunity because you're purposely sabotaging your own dating pool for some reason...
#2 Even if you find the "perfect girl" she may not even be attracted to you and you're going to pour your entire soul trying to get her. You'll be crushed and it won't even be her fault; it'll be yours.
You play the numbers game so you /can/ be picky by making opportunities for yourself. By the way you're being picky is just cowardice because you're afraid to make those opportunities.
A question for girls,
you know how men love it when girls moan during sex, but what about men? Is there some sound that men can make that will make girls aroused? I want to know as much as possible about getting girls excited during sex, please.
>>16818990
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rqVIaWEWdMk
Here you go OP
>>16818990
Weird, but I like semi-animalistic grunting. I don't mean sound like a water buffalo, but occasional caveman-esque grunting is hot.
>>16818997
I see, I'll be sure to try these sounds out next time, except instead of a yellow letter K, it'll be a woman's boobs. Solid advice, thanks, okay, forum moderators, you can close this thread
I found out today that I can't get pregnant. I'm scared to tell my husband because I'm afraid he'll leave me, he really wants kids. Is my life over?
You can always adopt.
For the record, if your husband leaves you because you can't have kids, he is a terrible person.
>>16818773
Oh! Have you looked into surrogacy? What about that shit?
>>16818773
he's a terrible person because he would cuck his own biological fulfillment for some phoney new age made up notion of love?
Ok then.
How do you make your orgasms feel better? I've run out of things to try. Also I don't get any tingling sensation and I keep reading about it
Girl btw
>>16818200
Foreplay.
Have a partner, who can:
kiss you, esp. your neck and nips
do oral on you
You're welcome.
>>16818205
Haha if it was that easy I wouldn't be asking for advice
Foreplay doesn't do much for me except get me wet, and I've had oral hundreds of times it feels lie nothing
Does edging work on girls?