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>>16830291
I need help, I can't see the taste of cinnamon toast crunch
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Low selfesteem?
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>>16830298
Easy. You need a cereal without flavor like the healthy cheerios and a microscope. Comparing the cheerios and the cinnamon toast crunch will allow you to see the taste of cinnamon toast crunch.
>>16830301
Easy. Make a goal with lots of intermediate steps and stay disciplined. Avoid something that can be broken by outside influences like sleep schedules. I recommend going for a run every day of a certain distance or doing pushups. As time goes on and you stick to your goal, your self esteem will go up.
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Can't get any girls interest that aren't ugly or fatties 2016-02-20 23:30:23 Post No.16828635
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Can't get any girls interest that aren't ugly or fatties
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I'm no 9/10 chad thundercock with a chiseled face and a 6 pack, but I'm not the male equivalent of these sad fucks that seem to be the only ones that are responsive to me either.
I think I'm a 7/10 and with an even better haircut, and losing even more weight and putting on muscle I could reach 8/10 easy
But yet the only girls who seem to be receptive are 5/10s and below
I don't like this, either they are super pretty or they are like a trainwreck to look at dichotomy, where are all the "pretty good" girls?
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well for one thing, you rank people and assign them a number so you're already a shallow douche.
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girls can afford to be picky, so your looks aren't going to seal the deal
you gotta be a person people want to hang out with
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>>16828650
No some of these girls are literally difficult to look at.
>>16828652
It's easy to feel that way when talking to girls in person like I've done a lot, and when talking to them over facebook, but the best way to test to see how they interpret you on a purely physical level is to get on tinder (which I don't even use anymore)
Literally all of my matches were always the 5/10s and below
Never got anything higher
And when I talk to girls on facebook, the ones who are receptive kinda fall into that range, and the ones that are higher, even when I know they are single and they are laughing and seeming to like me, when I ask to go to X place with them sometime soon and they back out
It's weird, I don't know what's going on
Me and my gf want to get an apartment and we want to get something with a roommate for cheap. The problem is I don't want a guy roommate and she doesn't want a girl roommate.
I told her guys are way worse but she won't believe me. Guys are the most likely to get drunk or something and harass a women for sex or God forbid a rape or something. It's just too sketchy. I told her we could just find a fat ugly girl or something like girls don't even really try to fuck guys that badly the most they do is just give you a look across a room but a guy will literally try putting his hands down a girls pants and shit like that
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How about you aim for someone that's nice? I don't buy that view of guys. I also don't buy the idea that girls are much better.
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>>16838983
You're making all men sound like rapists. Chill bro. We understand the reasons, guys are the initiators in chancing things, you don't want a guy flatmate for that reason, but your girlfriend feels the exact same way in terms of a girl trying to seduce you. If you both don't want a third party in the middle of your relationship, you're going to have to either not move out, or move out together with no one else, because this sort of debate doesn't end well for either party, and moving into a house already feeling at unease at such things is going to put a massive strain on your relationship.
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>>16838983
Believe it or not, man, not everybody is that desperate to fuck your girlfriend. No matter how hot she is. If you can find someone with basic intelligence and social skills, he will understand that it's not a great idea to sign a lease on an apartment and then start trying to fuck his female roommate who is attached to his male roommate.
Don't you have any friends? Why does it have to be a total stranger/potential rapist? And why the fuck are BOTH of you so irrationally jealous of hypothetical roommates that don't even exist yet? If cheating is such a huge concern it might not be a great idea to move in together just yet
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You,
Please keep your head up. Everything will be fine. I promise.
Much love,
- Me
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L,
Please stop running in my head
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i'm sorry, i know I'm just gonna fuck us up in the long term anyway so i dont know why you bother. i'm way too much of a mess cause of you, if you knew what was best for you you'd message me now saying 'we shouldnt be friends'. or maybe this is me sabotaging myself. i get moody for seemingly no reason, but its cause i care about you too much. too much for my own good. everything is my fault. i hope you dont feel bad
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I've taken to hitting myself in the legs, it's better than punching a hole in the wall. But now I have bruises.
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Give me a reason to get up in the morning
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So you can buy adderall
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>>16838734
There isn't one.
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Any psyc majors on here 2016-02-23 10:49:19 Post No.16838149
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OK, let me preface this by saying I am aware that the whole self-diagnosis thing is a load of crap, but bear with me.
I am pretty sure that i have paranoid personality disorder. It all began after i had been smoking weed for a few months and then started getting really paranoid whenever i would smoke. But i didn't quit for months, I figured i could push through it and get back to the good highs. Ultimately it was hit or miss, I got a good high the odd time, but mostly it would make me nervous. I would smoke every day, and I had all these paranoid ideations about people plotting to murder me and how everyone i knew was a psychopath, etc. I lived with these feelings for months because i was always trying to get high, and i think eventually the suspicious tendencies jsut got burned into my brain.
Anyway, I looked this shit up on wikipedia and I feel like i match 6/7 of the WHO symptoms.
Just wondering if there are any other paranoids out there who could give me some advice on how to manage it. I'm always worried that my roommate is poisoning my food with tylenol or is going to find some other way to fuck my life up. It's a university dorm so I only have a few more months here, but I can't get any professional help because of other personal reasons. I also can't drink alcohol to manage it because I need to study.
IDK what kind of pictures you guys are into, but here's a high-def shot of taylor swift's face; it's unrelated.
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>>16838149
>I can't get any professional help because of other personal reasons.
Please, elaborate
>I also can't drink alcohol to manage it because I need to study.
You should avoid self-medication, especially with something as potentially destructive as alcohol
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>>16838155
The nature of my field of education and possible career is such that I can't risk being put on any lists or let my name appear as a patient in any database.
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>>16838149
You can't get a personality disorder from smoking weed or something. Personality disorders
"These patterns develop early, are inflexible, and are associated with significant distress or disability"
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This is the only way I can describe it. There's a trigger. Usually I'm set off by something I don't have control over that will upset me deeply. I feel a cold sensation followed by a rush of blood to the veins in my wrists. Do you know that sensation of putting your feet in a hot bath. but they initially feel cold? It's a similar sensation in my veins. The center of of my chest feels pierced with it too. I feel nothing but a hot/cold loathing. My mind feels clear with the intent to hurt others, then it passes after playing out fantasy's in my head. I tend to be an understanding open minded person who can be charitable and loving. On the other hand when I momentarily feel this I feel capable of horrifying actions. Nothing with guns or weapons, but something more primal like jumping on an aggressor blank faced and choking them till the lights go out.
Anyone else out there that feels this? If so how do you handle it? I tend to drink/drugs and meditation hasn't helped.
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>>16838127
Seek professional help
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>>16838133
Yeah, I love spending money talking to someone who can't relate...
I'm asking the anons who feel this
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>>16838164
>Yeah, I love spending money talking to someone who can't relate...
Are you here to get some actual fucking advice or are you here because you want to keep making excuses for being the way you are?
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It's been 4 months and she still didn't contact me back. I'm desperate /adv/.
I tried to get back twice after we broke up, only to be blown off again and again, the last time we talked to each other, she boldly said "I don't want to be with you, i don't feel anything for you."
I couldn't believe it, we shared so many beautiful moments together, of course i wasn't perfect, nobody is but i tried my best, i was loyal, i bought her gifts, i took her to eat on fine places, i was romantic, attentive and i also knew when to give her space, when she said these words my soul was crushed.
When my friends saw me crying they said "Relax man, she just needs some time, she will come back to you"
It's been 4 months already and i feel deep down that she is NOT coming back, i feel like i'll never see her again and she probably doesn't even miss me.
I'm so desperate, i'm in so much pain, she's the one woman in want in my life. I was her first boyfriend, we used to talk about how we would move together one day and eventually become a family, have a dog, have family time every weekend, how did this happen?
This pain is unbearable.
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get over her.
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I think it's pretty clear: She
. Does. Not. Want. To. Be. With. You.
The only thing appropriate is to ask why.
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>>16837838
What happened? Why did you end up breaking up in the first place?
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I'm homeless and I have cancer. What is your advice for me? The anxiety is crippling and I know I'm fucked.
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>>16837699
the sooner you accept the inevitable the sooner you will be happy
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i'm really sorry to hear that. reach out to people. i'm sure there will be someone who can help you get the help you need.
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>>16837699
I would first get a list of all the organizations that exist that help people with cancer. Then I would call them all and tell them your story and ask them what they recommend.
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I have dysfunctional friends and they're all shitting on me/ruining my life and giving me anxie 2016-02-23 05:51:12 Post No.16837402
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I have dysfunctional friends and they're all shitting on me/ruining my life and giving me anxie
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One friend was asking why I was asking another friend for money. I explained to him how I was in class and he kept calling me to come get him when I was busy. He said that this is why people make fun of me, it really frustrated me then he bailed when I asked him to join me in talking with someone (even though it was his call that said it was a good idea) and then asked me to pick him up which I said no to. Today we're in a skype call and I jokingly say how "I'm coolest with XXXX" and he fucking hangs up the call and tells me to go fuck myself saying I don't recognize or appreciate his help even though last week I had to go confront one guy about how they're treating him like shit by myself
I had an argument with the other friend last Friday over $5 of gas money and he was treating me like a doormat. It got really heated and I basically told him to fuck off and then today another friend was telling me he's threatening to call the cops on me and tell this guy I don't like that I'm planning on jumping him if I don't apologize, which I am not going to do.
The list goes on but these are my biggest problems and I'm feeling really down I had a panic attack last week from all this shit it's like I have no control of myself and that they can't handle when things don't go their way. I'll post the conversation of the second guy in a second
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Oh btw I'm the guy on the right. Each color is a person
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>>16837402
You need new friends anon.
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Being molested and stuff 2016-02-23 04:41:12 Post No.16837201
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Other thread got me thinking about some things. I feel like I can't ever talk about this because people will immediately decide that it's the reason I'm trans when it definitely isn't.
But I was molested as a kid, by this high school guy my mom paid to watch us after school. I've never talked about it with anyone and I don't know if it's affected me at all or anything, or if it has to what extent. Can this sort of thing sometimes not be a big deal at all? Or can things like depression, anxiety, and suicide attempts later in life be attributed to this?
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>>16837201
I had one such occurance I was confused and felt trapped but it didn't change me didn't even bother me after a few years.
I have lots of issues if but if anything it only contributed to my distrust as a child everything else was other things
I still talk to the person regularly
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>>16837210
Why do you still talk to them? I couldn't do that. Guess your experience thing was different. I'm just so worried people will think the trans thing and liking men is somehow linked to this that I can't tell anyone about it. Which is not the case at all obviously.
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>>16837221
Close family scared me but they're the only person I trusted and still do to a degree never happened again and never talked about it.
It's a long time ago and I'm not sure what really happened in their mind but for me I felt ashamed but not like they had done wrong
Maybe it doesn't count maybe I misinterpretted it but I remember it and I can't help but think about it it used to make me feel vulnerable but currently my life's quite pleasant.
I guess with you it was almost a stranger and no doubt it was a lot more scary or whatever but if you're unsure whether it still affects you you might as well decide it doesn't
Maybe you should find someone to talk about it with I know this thread is the first time I've talked about it directly and it's ok
Are there any real downsides to cutting yourself save for the social stigma?
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>>16835864
The social stigma IS a "real" downside.
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It doesn't address the cause of the problem and is only at best temporary solution with after affects can actually add to the original problem.
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>>16835869
Well, I can cut myself or keep drinking but this way I don't waste money, lose my stuff all the time, and constantly embarrass myself in front of my family.
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Refers to me as "husband" 2016-02-22 11:28:44 Post No.16834558
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Refers to me as "husband"
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One of my female friends recently admitted to me that she had a crush on me that spanned years, but reportedly ended last year. However, since she told me this a few months ago, she's started jokingly referring to me as her "Bae" and "husband" in our conversations. She's a bit younger than me, and though she's quite attractive, has never had a real relationship. What in the hot hell is going on here?
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I'm only guessing here, but perhaps she told you she stopped feeling that way because she wanted to stay safe in regards to you rejecting her. Like... to check out your reaction in hopes that you'll say you've felt the same way. And now, she's calling you Bae and husband to encourage you to have a go at something.
Sounds totally immature, but she hasn't been in a relationship before..
I know I've done something similar before. I preempted rejection by telling a girl I wasn't into her, when someone had told her that I was. Me = chickenshit back then... :(
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>>16834558
Is she hot?
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>>16834583
Quite. One person who saw her messages irl looked me in the eye and just said "Why the fuck is a girl that good looking going for you?"
Like, I'm not ugly. I've been lifting religiously for years, but the general consensus is that she could do a lot better hahaha.
>>16834578
Idk. Thats what I was kind of assuming, but she's adamant she doesn't "Like" me when people ask her? Who knows.
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Hi there. I'm feeling pretty lonely and I would like to talk to someone. Ask questions and I'll try to respond my best. Will anon talk to me, please?
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>>16837847
i think this belongs on /soc/ but if you sage i dont think it will be a big deal
basic info: age, sex, country
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>>16837853
I know about /soc/, that place is kinda scary. I would ask for advice for the thread to be valid here but I don't want to talk about the reason I'm feeling lonely right now.
Well I'm 24, female, I live somewhere at south of everything. I feel like if I were standing in the south pole right now.
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>>16837867
sage dropped, damn.
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Hey /adv/,
I'm not sure it's the right board to ask about this, in which case I would be grateful for someone to tell me which would be more appropriate.
Anyway, I'm planning to go to London in the beginning of March to visit by myself. I would like to know how to find a place to stay and where to find people who would show me around.
Also, If you have any other advice I will gladly take it
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>>16837771
I work in central London and live in Wimbledon, so I might be able to point you in the right direction. How long are you planning on staying for, and what sort of budget are you looking at?
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>>16837791
I want to stay around 5 days and 100€ (78 pounds according to google) would be my maximum, travel not included.
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>>16837771
More than enough hotels in london m80, the police in london are really helpful if you get lost or some shit, you know your getting closer to something that you can use to find out where you are when the police suddenly all have MP5's on their chests. Also black cab drivers know alot of shut about london so ask them about palces if your in a taxi. Visit harrods, shits awesome yo