>living abroad
>want to break up with gf
>she's the kind who starts crying and stops talking if given any bad news
Would it be too bad for me to send a "I think we should break up" text out of the blue? She can tell I lost interest and has been insecure about it, and I've been anxious about being in a relationship I don't want to be in, so I'm trying to figure out a way to settle this already.
>>18598802
Breaking up over text is considered rude in some circles, but if you don't respect your gf or fear that a real time conversion could get ugly then it's fine.
>>18598802
>counting in a single text message
If you dont give a shit about her then break up over text. Just call her and tell her you want to break up.
Plan out what you want to say and write it down. Its just easier if you arent used to dealing with emotional people.
>>18598802
>she's the kind who starts crying and stops talking if given any bad news
Not someone worth being with in the first place if every little pebble in the road of life sends them careening out of control, and honestly, it won't matter how you deliver the news since apparently she's gonna flip her shit any way.
Text her. Be honest, but to the point. Gets the job done and avoids all the unnecessary levels of drama she's likely to bring to the situation.