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You can get inserts on amazon that give you 1 - 3 inches of height.

I know that feel, fellow manlet

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>>16907706
FL turns people trans. It all makes sense

>tfw you will mever be Yoshime

I should be there in 30 minutes and Im still undecided

>>16907706
>she
>her

>>16907684

You can pay a ghostwriter for you but it can get expensive if you want a 90-100 mark

>>16907736
where to find a ghost writer?

>>16907747
usually they are in your local campus boards, english department boards, and random people offering to "edit" your essay, where they just write it for you.

There's some professionals online, just google them. If there's like 20 sources, and you have to find your own source, it's more expensive, espcially if there's a lot of required reading.

During the week that followed, we studied together but i acted just like a friend would. Maybe in a cold way. In the next weekend, we spent hours chatting on facebook and she finally said it… She liked me more than like a friend but she didn’t want a relationship. I took it like being friendzone’d. I accepted that. However, the next day, she was acting in a weird way… again. We didn’t really talk all day, but at night, she called me. We talked until 4 or 5 am. She told me that she wanted things to stay the way they were. She even texted me after we talked saying:”I like you a lot”. Goddammit, i’m bad at knowing what other people are feeling but it was particularly hard with her. I continued not knowing how to act towards her so i barely even said hi. Since then, i’ve been studying a lot. It’s stupid… I was really frustrated because i wasn’t able to study for like 4 months. Now, when a girl comes and destroys me emotionally, i can study. That has been making me happy but, at the same time, i’m isolating myself from my really good friends. Me and her haven’t talked much irl or through text but when she texted, i kept the conversation going. 2 days ago, i was the one starting the conversation… I was feeling weird cuz for like 3 or 4 days it was always her talking to me first. During that conversation, she gave me simple answers asked nothing back. Yesterday, she did the same… So, at night, i told her:”When i barely answer your facebook texts, you even text via phone and call me so we talk. When i’m the one saying something, you give me these shitty answers.”. Right now, i’m feeling really crappy… I actually like her… I really like her… fml… i don’t know why i’m making this post... but well… it’s been written.

After i sent that text, we had a fight about never talking again. I wanna text her but i feel like i could just let this be the end.

You're excited by the idea of having sexual activity with a man, but you didn't accept this as part of your identity.

Unless you accept it as part of yourself, you'll keep feeling guilty.

btw, this doesnt mean you're "gay".
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Heterosexual%E2%80%93homosexual_continuum

as people become aroused their disgust response becomes less sensitive. this can explain feelings of shame and disgust that may follow certain sexual experiences.

>>16907672
yeah but idk if its me or just derived from lonely and desperateness

When you say it's more expensive to run, are you including a fair contribution toward a major repair over the next 1-3 years? Those happen. With premium cars, those also tend to be quite pricey.

I think you should look up the cost (parts and labor) of major repairs on this new vehicle and add, say, half of the average cost to your yearly expected costs. Does that still work within your budget? If it doesn't, you'll have seen that you can only afford the car when it's working properly.

>>16907683

My budget long term isn't really an issue. I save up each month to cover any repairs to my vehicle. The car has also had all the major things done to it recently (engine recall, brand new one fitted, new cambelt, etc) so fingers crossed the biggest issue will be tyres and wear and tear.

>>16907659

This question is absolutely useless without details on your current car and the potential car.

A clutch job is $600 on a non-luxury brand, so it shouldn't be a factor in your decision.

An A4 is going to cost 5x to repair than what a civic or whatever costs.

>>16907655
Step one learn how to use the enter key

Step two kill yourself

>forcing me to stay in the call
He can do no such thing. If it happens again: Hang up. Contact the police in his area, if you know his general location. Turn your phone/computer off.

>We have never met irl
>I cant file a restraining order or he will know my last name

What, exactly, does he know about you?

Online relationships should be the exact easiest to end. Block his number, block his accounts, get new accounts on social media if you need to, pretend he never existed.

>>16907655
Filing a police report is good, getting a restraining order is good. Get a handgun and learn to use it, especially if you live in any US state that has a stand your ground law. Don't allow yourself to be victimized or intimidated by him. If he tries to harm you, kill him.

>>16907653

Right now you're high school graduate.
You have no skills, so you're a child.
You have no friends, so you're alone.
You're not fun because your broke, so you're poor.

That's what I think of you, just from the judgements I made from your description, I'm sure you're more nuanced in person.

Thing is, I don't see a problem. What do you perceive as a problem?

>>16907740
I think the life sucks.

I asked the above because I would like to see what people would think of me with that age and all these problems.

>>16907763
Meh...
Living in our times, it sounds almost normal, but I don't let that taint my picture of a person who has his own problems and history.

>I think the life sucks.

Welcome to humanity, Philosphers have identified this problem before philosophy was ever a thing.

you move out

Leave her. You don't deserve a secure and loving relationship.

>>16907647
Thread

break up with her.

meet girls another way. The classes im in average about 5 people per session. None of those students are girls

>join clubs or student associations
>get a part-time job at a place where there are girls
>go to parties
>if you are in dorms, transfer to a co-ed dorm
>if you are in an apartment, next time you move apartments, be that guy who introduces himself to all his neighbours and makes an effort to chat with them every once in a blue moon

Firstly, you've no excuse for failing to bang the few passably attractive women who are in that course. Fields dominated by male students tend also to be dominated by physically and emotionally repulsive male students. Do you despair that there are so few attractive women around? Well the ladies also despair that there are so few attractive men around. You have every opportunity to become the stud in this cohort.

Outside of that, it's up to you to vary the groups to which you're exposed. Study some strange topics which interest you. Make use of your free time in public spaces.

>>16907607
Try online dating.

>>16907639
I have.

>>16907607
In my experience, as you get older, your perception of love changes too damn much.

That "Thing" you felt back then, you may not get to feel it right now. Thats why many people cherish highschool love.

27y old with a GF here, with almost the same feeling as you

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sounds like your gfs mom wants that young dikkk, youknowhatimsayin homie? your mom knows it and she's way jelly son. it's not about you being right or wrong, it's about somebody's mom needing to get Fuckttt

>>16907592
How are your parents gonna know where you spend the night? When I was 18 I used to walk out whenever I wanted, just saying "going to a party, see you tomorrow!"

I'll offer some food for thought.

>My question is am I in the wrong for wanting to spend the night at her house?
No, of course not! You can NEVER be in the wrong for wanting something. Although you can be in the wrong for how you act on it.

>I just think there's a disconnect with the fact that once I move out I can but now I can't.
You're not seeing this from the right angle. This is NOT about what you're able to do - you can do anything you want, you're legally an adult. This is just about your parents perception of it.

My best guess is that, since you're going to college soon, your parents are going through a coping process. They're about to "lose you", as the kid who grew with them.

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>>16907562
Print some of these and leave them laying around the office.

just do passive aggressive things when nobody can see you. use his work email to register accounts with islamist websites. key a swastika onto his car somewhere he won't notice. have an affair with his wife. steal his stapler.

you know, regular shit.

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>>16907597
>just do passive aggressive things
Like telling him he smells funny and needs to take a shower?

>>16907541
>know chick for like two days
>she's already calling you an asshole
>you're already questioning if this is okay

Jesus, if you can't see the answer already, we can't help you.

>>16907541

So you've only been out 2 or 3 times?

Is she trying to friendzone you, or is she showing that she is interested romantically?

I would try to tell her that you are interested, and would like to work towards forming a more intimate relationship with her, but that its a little awkward with her friends around. Tell her you don't mind hanging out all together, but you'd like some alone time too.

Did she go alone for the first date? it seems like a red flag that she would be fine the first date, and then all of a sudden she doesn't trust you to be alone.

"being an asshole" is probably more about how you phrase it than what you want.

I would be pretty pissed if I agreed on a date and they bring someone else along without telling me.

She may have very good reasons to bring her friend along. It's up to you to decide if that's acceptable to you or not. Just don't be an asshole about it.