so im currently in community college majoring in lib arts: math and sci. planning to transfer iinto a 4 year and change major to something more specific.
However, i ruled out new media tech: web design bc i always thought learning to code was something you could do on your own, and seemed like a waste of money. But recently I talked to a friend who majors in this and asked him about it and he admitted it was true, however, he says the program provides really good internship programs (he's going to intern for google this summer) and connections that one probably wouldn't come by on their own.
what do you think adv?
lib arts: math & sci > transfer to 4 year > change major to comp sci
or
change major to new media tech: web design >transfer to 4 year > change major to comp sci
bump?
It's the same feeling you get when you ask your crush out and her saying she has a boyfriend. You see them hugging, and you thought to yourself it's too late, he beat me to it.
Then go forward a month, you see that they aren't intimate anymore, and that they don't hug. Nows your chance, you say to yourself. I got 3 months left here at school and I shall not waste them.
Now here is the troubling part
I can't even say hi to her. It's like something in my chest just brings me to the most nervous level.
How do I get rid of this feeling? I don't know what's holding me back
Sorry about the grammar issues..
She is a grade below me and people say I played the cold approach very cool. I was super relieved to find out she does in fact have a boyfriend, and I think she wouldnt mind talking to me again
Going to be honest with you here Anon, I had the same problem. You can't get rid of that feeling. You just have to work through it bro. It's hard and it will scare the shit out of you. But the more you confront it, the better you will get at facing it. Go up, take your shot. Remember the worst that can happen is she'll say no. You're not gonna get hurt, and you may have a chance later on. Now go get 'em tiger.
Posted this on /mu/ earlier and got no responses, so maybe you guys can help me out. I've got two saxophones, neither in optimal condition. One is a Bundy probably made in the 90s or so, that I got at a flea market. It's playable, but one of the biggest pads on it needs replaced, and one of the key springs is corroded away. The other one was my great grandfather's, and was made by Conn-Selmer around 1918-1920. It needs almost completely repadded, and the piece that sticks up from the body to move the register key is broken off. Are they worth repairing, and how much would this cost? Pic related.
go to a music shop, ask how much.
Hey, so I have a minor problem which is pussy shit compared to everyone else on /adv/ that's about to kill themselves. This really cute girl who I like invited me to hang out with her and I was super excited until she asked me if my brother would wanna go too. My older, smarter, more attractive brother who she always smiles and laughs at. I just shrugged it off like "oh yeah maybe" but when we got to which day we should hang out I couldn't ignore her request without making my intentions painfully obvious so I asked if she would wanna hang out Friday just me and her or Saturday with my Brother and my other friend. She immediately said Saturday, which made me feel like shit because instead of hanging out with just me she wants to hang out with guys she hasn't talked to in a few months. I don't want to go, but if I don't go she probably won't ever ask to hang out again and if I do go, I'll just sit there as my brother talks to her the entire time, sitting together, flirting, and hugging before we leave. What do?
Hell, let her go by herself. Jump ship and look for another girl.
Something we don't realize as young kids are that there are plenty of fish in the sea. Try again with another girl. This chick is not, and will not be interested in you if your brother doesn't pick up on her. You can only willingly cuck yourself, if you're a pussy and into that sort of thing.
hi, everyone. this post will probably seem more suited for /fit/ but I am somewhat intimidated by the board and I'm hoping to get a reply here. I'm 23/m and am underweight. I'm trying to gain 10 to 20 pounds but I struggle with poor appetite and can only make it to the gym occasionally. other than trying to up my gym gain, is there anything else I can do to help? thank you~
>>16905021
The answer is obvious. Eat more. How many calories do you consume per day?
>>16905042
I'm not sure. I'm finding it difficult to force myself to eat a lot, I dont know why my appetite is nearly nonexistent
Forcefeed your self, seriously eat untill you feel like puking. Eat calories dense foods (preferibly with lots of protein). Drink your calaroies, milk is your friend, di GOMAD (gallon of milk a day)
What are your life goals?
>>16904996
Fuck Japanese girls until they cry then cum on their faces
>>16904996
Make a lot of money and then kill myself.
>>16905019
Hey bra can i get your money when you kill yourself?
/adv/ I live in a place where we get 0 sunlight for more than half of the year. This place is well known for it's largely depressed populace, i've known 12 people who have killed themselves in the past few years. And this lack of light is really getting to me, those sun lights you buy from costco don't work at all, and even physical activity only slightly helps. I'm stuck here for now, what can I possibly do to make this a bit more bearable
>>16904948
to add, I'm very busy working, my job is creative and quite full filling. On my off time, I hangout with friends, read and make music. Yet for some reason this place drains all possible energy. I need some tips
Vitamin DDDDD. 10k iu a day.
>>16904963
does this actually work? I always figured it was pseudoscience or at the most placebo. I'll give it a try thank you
yo, /adv/.
Is there anyway to really work past anxiety, paranoia, and self-loathing? Sometimes I'm alright but sometimes it gets a lot worse than normal and I feel overly sensitive and insecure about stupid shit. Why do I always immediately come to the conclusion in my head "Anon is getting tired of me. I'm a terrible person. Why do I suck so bad?" when there's no logical way to explain why I should ever feel that way?
>>16904912
Alcohol, nig.
It works for me.
I know I'm drunk must nights and my liver is probably dying as we speak, but while drunk, I'm actually happy
>>16904968
Well I mean I already do that. I'm drunk right now. And drinking makes me happier, but I still feel pretty bad.
It's called psychotherapy.
http://www.webmd.com/anxiety-panic/guide/how-to-find-therapist
>is that Rei Anami or a Rei expy?
I'm going to get ice cream with a girl afterschool on Monday. It's my first date and I'm not sure what to say afterwards. Do I ask for her number or just say bye?
>>16904909
Depends on how it goes, if you think it went well then ask her for her number. If it doesnt go well ask her for her number anyways.
Put up the high five. If she doesn't reciprocate, ask her rhetorically if she is going to leave you hanging.
One in the poo, two in the goo. Godspeed.
>Been hooking up with woman steady for a few months.
>Sex is incredible, great chemistry, and similar interests
> Then I fuck up.
> Spend entire night and morning making moves when she's not in the mood.
Can I salvage this situation, amigos? We made plans to chill later in the week, we texted since then, and she hasn't mentioned it, but I'm worried my raging hormones and neediness may have fucked up future chances of sleeping with her.
Am I thinking about this too much? Either way, I plan on never displaying this behavior in the future. I know nothing good can come of it. I just don't know how else I should proceed from here.
AID MY COCK, BROTHERS AND SISTERS!
they ain't in the mood just masturbate.
If you can't help yourself from making moves when she's not in the mood, your sexual energy levels are too high and you need to jack off to get back on her level.
When you're there she'll be more receptive to you, because she'll sense that you're not overflowing with hormones.
You notice yourself you've had a problem. How about apologizing to her? This way you will let her know that you are being considerate.
Been talking to a girl recently and I want to ask her out. Any tips on how to do it in a none creepy fashion?
Will you go on a date me with?
Copy and paste that in a text to her.
>hey so what are you doing on xday night
if nothing
>let's get together I'll pick you up at x time
>>16904853
>hey, are you busy/studying/at uni in the next few days? i was wondering, did you wanna get a pint/coffee/drink/lunch sometime soon? it'd be cool to hang out if you're up for it
choose whichever is the most appropriate. put a :) at the end if you normally use em in conversation. if you've held relatively consistent conversation for a few days, she'll probably say yes. if she says no, gauge whether or not to bother with her again by her response. good luck mate. try to contain your anxiety once you've sent it- you can't influence it, so you might as well get back to what you normally do while you wait for a reply.
How can i hack his guy to the point where his phone cant even turn on?
>>16904800
First, you need to delete your anti-hacking restrictions. System 32 is a preventative program that checks who's checking what files, and how they're being accessed. When it's running, it communicates with the other device's (such as computers, and yes, phones) system 32, and verifies that you're accessing approved files through valid portals. Once you get rid of yours, and start accessing files on another device, their system sends a signal to see who's accessing what, and since there's nothing there to send a signal back, the device thinks that it's the host accessing it.
Careful, it is a two way street. Anyone can come in and access your own files too.
How do i do all that? And can i reverse it to normal?
Holy fuck im stupid lol
>senior formal (prom) coming up
>sit on tables for the majority of the night
>get to choose your tables of ten
>My friends and i plan it all out feels good to have it planned out
>next time i ask they tell me that they joined a different group and have a spot for me
>feel kinda annoyed that they changed everything without telling me but at least there's a spot for me
>mfw last night my friend messages me saying i've been kicked from the table
>All my other friends already have their other tables planned out
>Have no-one else to go with
>Being kicked by my supposed friends really hurts
>this has kinda ruined the whole idea of formal for me
What would you do /adv?
>>16904772
Understand your place in society?
Not an attack on you but understanding your starting position in life.
>>16904772
>formal
>still in high school
It is the formal. Just go sit with other people and mingle with your friends during the night. Sure it sucks that they sort of blind sided you but it isn't really that bad anyway. Nothing in high school honestly matters besides your grades. Everything else is temporary. Besides you will have an after party anyway and you can have a great time with your friends getting shit faced.
>>16904772
This is me
>>16904837
Am I right in assuming you are aussie? Cause in Australia we call it formal as well.
I went hiking during Feb 22nd. After a long period of hiking which involved downhill and uphill movement, there was this "sting" that I felt near my toes and later on I noticed my toes (big toe on both feet) were slightly numb. It's still a bit numb today and there are areas that trigger a feeling similar to hitting your funny bone. Should I get this checked out?
>>16904745
Your boots are too tight, tie them more loosely next time.
Bumping for interest. I bike almost every night I can for an average of 2 hours straight.
I come home, take off the shoes, and get a weird stinging numb sensation on my big toes. I feel it's related to Foot Callouses/Pressure/Shoe Size.
I doubt its anything serious.
If I am a 9-10 on the rating scale and I am male, what are the chances that I could find a SO on the job? I work retail.
>being in a relationship will fix my problems
Here we go
Pro tip: never date a girl you work with. You can never escape them.
>>16904744
What in God's name is that poster about?