I'm 19 years old and living in the south east. I have a bit of debt building up from uni. I don't make enough from the job i have. I'm in between supporting my mother with what little I make and trying to do well in school. A few years ago I found out about sugaring. I don't have many friends so I have no one to tell this to but I'm genuinely afraid. I've come to terms with the idea of selling myself for sex. I don't really care about myself or my virtue or anything. I just want to help myself get out of debt and help my mom pay for her cancer treatments. Any advice would be nice. I'm not sure what to expect going into this but I really wish I could tell someone about it. I'm just nervous about this.
First, Im so sorry you are in the middle of a situation like that. No one should have to be.
I know the idea comes from a place of love and caring for your mother, but my advise to you would be not to do it. Not because of virtues or anything like that, but because it is a very real possibility that something terrible could happen to you if you persue that avenue. You could end up getting hurt, or killed, or kidnapped and sold into the sex trade. Then you wouldnt be able to be there for your mother anymore. You dont want to make your problems worse by going down another bad path. Life is hard, but I would spend as much time with my mother as I could while I still could. Life is a very fleeting thing. We are all just candles in a rain storm. No one ever promised we would make it thorugh
>>16906090
Be careful.
Try to go for the uglier "sugar daddies" unless you want to deal with getting beaten and emotionally abused.
The good looking rich guys who have to pay for a girl to hang around them have serious fucking issues.
>>16906090
How attractive are you? You could perhaps make money doing porn, I imagine it would be safer.
Im probably going to be getting two D's on 4 credit courses this semester. This is my first year in uni, and I want to graduate with a 3.0. Should I power through or just say fuck it and drop the courses?
Power through if you can make it up with extra credit.
>>16906072
Don't worry about it, Trump is going to make it so you can build shippable Trump apartments in Detroit and make good money like in the 60s.
>>16907538
To make that money I need a job
To get a job I'll need an internship, and they have GPA requirements.
I've been using drugs since I was 13. Started drinking, smoking bud, doing pills. When I got older I moved on to coke, then heroin. I've always had a knack for getting myself involved with the wrong people, at the wrong times. I've been in and out of jail because of my problems. In the last year or so I finally admitted to myself I have a problem. I cant seem to stay clean for more than a couple months or so without a relapse, usually its minor. The last time though, I ended up Overdosing and ending up in the hospital. I feel so alone in the world, like no one is like me, like Im floating along in a sea of happy people who dont understand how sad and twisted the world really is. The only relief I get is from using, but even then, it doesnt make me happy anymore, if it ever did. Part of me wants to get clean and stay that way...part of me just wants to the job right and be over with it. If the rest of my life is gonna be as bleak and filled with despair as it has been, then why even try to stay clean. Is it worth it? Does it actually get better?
Yes it does
Study spirituality and decide what makes you happy. I mean real happiness. Then pursue it the way you used to pursue drugs
I was talking to a guy for about two weeks, just being friends. I noticed that he likes me though.
Today, he asked me out on a date and I said yes. Then he asked me if I am interested in a serious relationship.
I thought he meant it like he does not want a serious relationship, and I said "yes, of course. I don't want anything casual if that's what you mean."
So, then I was a little upset and he noticed. So he calls me and says "I didn't mean to say I don't want a serious relationship with you, I want to kiss you and hug you everyday".
So... I just feel weird.
He only knows me for 2 weeks and we didn't even have a first date, only saw each other at uni. So how can he say to me "I wanna kiss you and hug you everyday"? Does he just say anything to get to have sex with me? :/
From what I know of him, he seems like a nice guy, nerdy and smart but hyperactive.
>>16906005
That sounds like he really fucking likes you. I would just wait until he takes you out on dates.
>>16906021
Thanks, that's what I initially thought but for some reason doubted it.
It is true, I will see how he is on the date. To be honest when we talk in real life I feel that he really likes me but when we text he sometimes says weird random things so maybe because of that I didn't understand what he meant.
>>16906034
People do that all the time, like me for instance. I text very very dry. But in person I'm ecstatic, hilarious, and interesting.
Okay so me and this girl talk a lot, after a while I got the guts to ask her out to see a movie, she accepts but I get a text form her later asking who's going. I don't respond for a while and I ask my friend. He acts like an ass so I tell her just me, then she responds saying he said he's going too. Then she tells me she'll take a 40 minute nap and she'll be back (it's fucking 11 o'clock at night, no one takes a nap this late, do they?) btw pic related. Is it to late to back out?
>>16905995
Dude its late. Do you really wanna go with this girl? She seems skeptical. Like you said, who takes naps at this time. Is it important to go to the movies at this time? Were you just trying to get some kind of date going? Give me your intentions and more info about the girls please.
>>16906007
Yeah, she's really cool, well except until now. We talk a lot, it seems like she's always flirting with me. She even looks at me a lot but turns away when I make eye contact. Yeah, I just wanted to go on a date ( also I don't like going to the movies by myself)
>>16906016
Dude find out what's going on. I would try asking her if she still wanted to go. If she doesn't then stop talking to her and wait until you see her again to have a conversation and do you thing. I feel like you really haven't done your part on making her like you.
Do this.
If she wants to go still, go with her and make her feel comfortable with you. Don't try anything, just try to get to know each other and make a great impression man.
If she hasn't responded or replies with a rejection. Don't make it too big of a deal and try to see her again later, the next day or the next and have a conversation other than the whole rejection of the date.
Then attempt to find out more of when she is free and when she has time to have fun and blow off steam. Take her out with just yourself. Make plans and be stoic and act like a guy with a plan and basically someone with a masculine vibe.
I got a cold sore for the first time ever at 28 years old a week and a half ago, I did the whole abreva thing and would pick at the scabs.... I read it was best to pop the ulcers to get the virus out and sterilize it. I did not have a needle so I popped it like a pimple and washed it with hand sanitizer. I also had some odd ingrown hairs there and could not shave so I took a tweezer and pulled out about 10 of them in the area.
I woke up today and my whole top lip was swollen as can be seen in the following photo. The area where the cold is fully numb like it has had a novocaine shot feeling to it all day long.
I am wondering, is it like this cuz of using tweezers instead of shaving and also, Could I have gotten the virus inside the pores and this is why it's swollen.
Probably infected
My GF wants to lose virginity but her hymen is too fucking tight. So she proposed me to date rape drug her so she wouldn't feel a thing.
How I do this in a safe way? Also, where I can get some drug to put her in sleep?
No, I don't want to use alchool.
Choloroform, rag. Done. Also, MAKE HER SIGN A DAMN FORM BEFORE YOU DO THIS. RECORD HER SIGNING IT.
>>16905933
she gonna wake up feeling sore the next day anyway, would not recommend op. tell her to rip it herself.
Are you trying to put your dick up her urethra?
>It's a common mistake....
I want badly to be able to experience life in the present, as it's happening. So far, my life has been dictated by predictions and anxiety that I can sometimes escape from in order to act as I know I really want to, without thinking through every possibility beforehand.
I understand it's not possible to completely rid myself of, but I'd like to escape my mind at will. It ruins my creativity, sense of humor, and confidence.
Meditation is difficult and a bit confusing but I get the gist of it. Does anyone have experience with what I'm talking about and how to achieve it?
Take this
not op, bumping for answers
>>16906533
Could you clarify a bit further what exactly it is you're trying to learn about? I'm willing to give advice, but OP's post left me a bit confounded.
Okay, so a while back my friend introduced me to his Girlfriend and I instantly could tell she was into me. Whenever we saw each other we flirted a little but I always stopped myself because I felt like an asshole. They broke up recently and she's been dropping tons of hints that it was because she wanted me. She's hot as fuck. I don't want to lose my friend but if I pass her up I'll definitely regret it.
Don't do it. Doesn't matter if she's hot. That's just like not cool.
We only regret what we didn't do
Don't break guy-code, bro. You'll regret it. Bro's before hoe's. There will be others and it sounds like she's a slut anyway.
I am freaking out, what do /adv/
>sex w gf(not on birth control)
>condom intact
>cum
>pullout
>condom broken, semen in vag
>inb4 "youre supposed to pullout even w a condom" i was dumb, it feels good man
so then i went to walgreens, got plan b, gave it to her, then started looking it up on the internet (never had to use it before). from what i read it seemed like it mainly prevents pregnancy by stopping ovulation. bad news is she said she was supposed to ovulate like a day or two ago. how fucked am i and what can i do? pls help and sorry for the shitty typing
Get a pregnancy test
>be me, 19
>gf on birth control gets pregnant
>it happens i tell myself
>gf on birth control gets pregnant again
>"wtf!.gif"
>"now we have to get married"
>married getting divorce 10 yrs later
dont get married is she's preggers.
RIP dude, get a test. Keep testing watch her periods. If her periods stop it you get a positive test, prep for:
Option A: abortion
Option B: baby-daddy time
hello /adv/ don't come here often.
i'm so mad becuase i've been a neet for awhile had trouble getting work rejected, rejected, etc. finally some crporate chain hires me. turns out they're only giving me 4hrs for the entire month. i'll postat schedule in thread if it seems unbelievable but trust.
what should i do? also if they're just adding in shifts and it's not a 'set' schedule and tehy'll add more shifts that's fine. but if they're really going to play this hand against me how i can make them pay without getting in too much trouble? should i confront nick the pussy manager who did the scheduling and verbally barrage him in front of customers, or some way to inconvience them well /adv/?
>>16905859
Yeah, go and get fired! That'll sure show him.
My gf commented on her exs pictures on social media while we were waiting to see each other to start dating and were serious about it.
She shares posts from her exs those stupid caption picture funny things. We had problems and I dumped her and she told people to like her status and she'll message you and her ex liked it. Should i just use her for sex?
>>16905854
Have you tried not being 16?
Just avoid the bitch holy shit.
>>16905854
Stop dating literal children.
How do I become a good person, how do I stop being selfish and living solely for myself, and thinking solely of myself,
Being honest this is just human nature. If you want to help with it, try just randomly giving out to people. Force yourself to help them. Can develop a sense of empathy.
>>16905841
Having a pet helps.
Read the Bible.
I met one girl few weeks ago, went out, talking almost everyday via text messages and stuff. Everything went well, I thought I could really be with her.
The thing is that my last few tries of taking her out failed because of different reasons. This made me think it was rejection, but everytime I would get over it she would text me again. The thing is that I am confused and I want to be done with this. How can I stop this fucking around and in short, if we can form a couple or finish this. Of course, I dont know any subtle way of putting this without making me look needy/desperate/cringy etc.
Just get her drunk.
Relationships are pushme-pullyou. When you push her, she pulls away. When you pull away, she pushes you.
>>16905962
further explanation? I dont quite understand
I have a small strip of loose skin under my penis shaft that was left from my circumcision. Should I consult a professional or should I just ice it and cut the fucker?
For the love of god don't cut it yourself. That shit will get infected and look nasty. Consult a professional, they won't turn your dick into a swollen grape.
Just ice it and cut the fucker. Can you imagine how awful and awkward that doctor visit would be? You just wip it out and he'll just laugh and call you gay.