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Hey, I have something like a date tomorrow, but not really. Actually, it's probably not. We're just learning for exams. Whatever. Hard to explain.
Anyways, I haven't shaved for like three weeks and now I have to decide whether to get rid of all the hair or maybe try out trimming, given that I don't have this kind of opportunity very often (not having to go out so being able to skip the looks-like-shit-because-it's-half-grown-phase).
I don't really like anything that involved the upper lip, so that rules out some styles.
How do you like a chin beard like this one? That's something that I'm actually interested in.
It's not a perfect example of what I want, but it's the closest one that I've been able too Google Image-Search.
Another example, but that's a bit much for my taste, but still: http://profanegermane.files.wordpress.com/2013/01/chin-beard.jpg
Please also state your sex/gender, that would be helpful.
I'm in france, if cultural differences have an impact... or something.
I'm hopinh to get some help. Thanks.
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If you show up to this cleanly shaven and trimmed, shes just gonna assume you have differemt intentions other than "learning for exams"
Just clean up your face a bit, dont worry about all the other shit, unless you both have a mutual attraction, otherwise be polite and respectful and fun while you guys study.
Maybe after a whilenof studying it will lead to hanging out, dates, etc. But if she's not into you like that right now, dont be obviously over-dressed.
Keep it casual and fun Anon, godspeed
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>>16904696
Depends on your face man
This really is a question for /fa/ but I'm bored.
Personally I think the guy you posted looks like a douchebag. But beauty is in the eye of the beholder
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>>16904708
>If you show up to this cleanly shaven and trimmed, shes just gonna assume you have differemt intentions other than "learning for exams"
I don't think so. Most of the time, I'm cleanly shaven, unless I happen to waste time in the morning and notice that I'm way too late, so I have to skip the shaving. It starts becoming noticeable after like 3 days, so I'd say it happens roughly once or twice a month max. Other than that, I'm always cleanly shaven.
So no, I don't think she would assume that. I might be wrong, though. I'm not good with women lol (average /adv/ kissless virgin here).
>unless you both have a mutual attraction
I am interested in her. It most probably isn't mutual, but I still don't want to make it worse, if you know what I mean.
>obviously over-dressed
So, basically, I have two options:
1. Do whatever I usually do (shave)
2. Try the style as described in the OP. For me, not for her.
The thing with 2 is just that I don't want to lower my chances (significantly ?) or just look like a douche in general.
Speaking of which,
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Is that related to the person or can it be reduced to the chin thing that he has going on? Also, are you female? Thanks for your input!
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>Oh yeah, life goes on...long after the thrill of living is gone
This line from a John Mellencamp song has really been resonating with me recently. I feel like the novelty of everything has worn off and life is almost starting to feel like Groundhog Day. I often find myself feeling bored, and then a little guilty, because I want to believe that life is a gift and has so much to offer.
Is there a remedy for this, like more hobbies? Or do I just need to sprinkle Prozac on my Crispix?
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Guess I'll go with the Prozac...
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I know this girl is used to date, who is really sensitive like even a simple joke could offend her.I wanna be able to talk to her without causing a riot with her. what should I do ?
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Look for another girl.
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Can you imagine a relationship with a girl like that? I pity the poor sap who gets roped into her bullshit.
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Uhh… SAUCE?
This sounds like some bait to me. If it's not, tell us the "simple joke" that "offended" her. And why do you care about what a girl you "used to date" thinks anyway?
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So I need to get my father to divorce his evil wife of 8 years. Wondering if I could get any ideas from you guys. Short backstory:
>Live with dad and his wife during adolescence (21 now)
>As years go by his wife starts getting more and more irritable and mean
>she identifies as Christian this whole time too lmao
>basically a mean bitch
>get kicked out later on (that's another story but it was her doing)
FOUR YEARS LATER (present day)
>a few days ago see sister who is living with them still
>she tells how much of a rotten bitch she has become
>is a total asshole to my sister all the time
>has my father by the balls. He can never do anything unless she knows about it or goes with him
>dad obviously hates her but is too whipped to do anything about it
Imagine being SO WHIPPED that you can't do shit and barely speak to your own children because she has her own idea of what life should be like. My father's wife is a manipulative, life-destroying succubus who has ruined my father's soul and is an asshole to my sister. She must be taken out of my familial affairs. My sister told me some pretty sad shit and I honestly carried a lot of anger towards my father, but now that's directed at his bitch wife. I need a plan to get them divorced so my father can find his true self and enjoy life again.
Basically asking for ideas for a plan to get my father to divorce his evil wife. What do you guys think?
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What have you said to your father in regards to all this?
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Several years ago we had an extremely major disagreement which resulted in my getting kicked out. Haven't spoken to or seen him in years. When he's under emotional stress he becomes extremely volatile, not physically but mentally and verbally. Thus, talking to him would prove awkward and regarding this topic would be, I'm sure, very heated on his end. I'm a very calm person so we can clash pretty hard.
I've thought about trying to communicate this to him but every scenario in my head ends pretty bad. But maybe it's worth a shot, I don't know.
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How the fuck do I fix my sleep?
>be NEET
>go to bed most nights at around 4, sometimes much later if it's really bad
>stayed up 24 hours the other day to see if I could fix it but nope, tonight I still can't fall asleep early
>go to the gym every day to try and exhaust myself but nope
>somehow always manage to fall asleep on the sofa in the afternoon if I'm watching TV
>always feel tired and lazy throughout the day
>even if I feel a bit tired and try to go to bed early I just end up stressing myself out and thinking too much
Once again I've just given up trying to sleep after an hour of just laying there, yet I still feel tired.
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You still have a choice. That's the problem.
There are lots of people in this world who have no business making decisions for themselves.
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Had the same problem, the issue being the room is way too quiet.
Have you heard of/tried White Noise or Background Noise players (A Soft Murmur)? They play calming noises like rain, wind, campfire, busy cafe, etc.
It helped me focus on the noise and not some fucking embaressing moments from 8th grade. Im a very big head-thinker, which doesnt help.
Also, turn off TVs, Computers, Phones, and Screens. You will sleep better in complete darkness, as opposed to being 90% of the population and staring at a fucking light all night and complaining.
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I have the same problem, I tried the 24 hour thing three times and always fell asleep during the day after because I'm so sleep deprived, don't lay in bed during the daytime.
Any advice on using it?
Im trying to make beats, i've been looking a tutorials and im so far kinda good with it.
And by kinda im terrible. Any beat makers on 4chan?
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>>16904611
Tutorials listen to music and make songs
Takes years
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I've been thinking about killing myself for a long time.
I'm fucking exhausted. I was born in a small yuropoor country and I've been always taught that to be happy I should make some friends, get a girlfriend, find a good job and create a family.
When I was in highschool I decided that I'll try to be one of the 'alphas'. I went to the parties, drank alcohol, smoked weed and that kind of stuff. I was trying to pretend to be a narcisstic extrovert and it worked.
And now I can't take it anymore. Any traces of my true personality have vanished - I hang out with people I dislike, I have a girlfriend which I don't love (and we'll probably break up when I'll tell her that I have phimosis) and I wear clothes that I wouldn't even look at. I've become a social god, but talking to people started to be more exhausting than my job.
Advice like 'just do what you really want to do' is useless, because I no longer know what I want to do. I'm just tired of everything and just staying at home is just as bad as going to the party and talking to all these masculine dudes and dumb sluts.
I have no hobbies, no passions - I used to love video games, movies, books, skiing, programming and now nothing interests me. I can't force myself to do any of this stuff. I tried new things and none of them interested me.
The truth is that I was always worried what other people think about me. When I started considering suicide my first thought was 'how should I do it to not be rememered as a fag'.
Help.
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>>16904593
Please seek psychiatric help
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Regaining your old self will be hard.I was in simular boots as you. Spend more time with your parents try doing things you liked as a kid it may spark your old self back.
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>>16904598
>do you have any ambitions in your life?
>no i don't
>you'll have to find one
Didn't really work
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>Spend more time with your parents
I'll give it a shot. I haven't seen them in a long time.
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How does one go about embracing their creative side? Like writing, drawing, painting, etc.
My brain feels like a huddled mass of so many ideas and concepts waiting to be put to paper or canvas but I can't seem to sort all of it out into anything coherent. It's all tidbits. I want to be able to pick apart my mind and write something thoughtful, or craft an image expressing my innermost thoughts, but I feel like I have no creativity whatsoever. What can I do to be more creative?
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>>16904586
That's the purpose of art, to transpose the 'huddled mass' of ideas in your mind into a medium that you can use to clarify them. It sounds to me like you're waiting for inspiration, well don't, if what you're creating is shit it's not because you're uninspired, it's because you're not proficient enough in whatever artform you've chosen to properly convey what have in your mind. Instead of asking for advice on how to be more creative, you should be asking for advice on how to improve your craft.
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the best way to go about it is go out their and do shit. Pick up that pen, write down that thought, express your ideas.
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What's a good spooky movie to watch with a girl?
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>>16904577
American Psycho
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>>16904580
Already seen it
I am in a relatively well-paying job that takes 80-90 hours per week and basically is 90% of my life. It has been getting increasingly destabilising emotionally and physically. As a result, I have very few friends and things that make me happy - music, gym and swimming, but in the last few months the work has taken away a large share of that as well. How do I avoid getting miserable or crazy? I feel like I could snap very soon, so would really appreciate your advice.
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Take a vacation if you can, or request a day off or call in sick one day if you can't.
Break up the rhythm. Play hookie and step away from the monotony and mounting pressure, and do the things you want to do.
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People in your situation have to be extraordinarily decisive about planning and making good on their recreational time. Your experiences make sense given the situation but we don't live in a fantasy world where you can just drop this lucrative position to go live out of a van. I also acknowledge that it's not as simple as snapping one's fingers to make a good work-life balance appear. I'm sorry that there's no magic answer in that regard. However there's also no other way to stumble into a solution. It only gets worse from here if you let it. You either get insanely detailed and strategic with how your time is spent or you burn out.
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>>16904575
Fuck you need a vacation. Seriously like at this very moment, preferably far away from your work.
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What is the fastest way of resetting your sleep schedule?
I live a really good life when I go to bed 21 and wake up at 5-6. I live a really shit life otherwise.
And when I do mess up, I have no good way of fixing it.
Since I am not young anymore, i get stupidly tired if I try to stay awake on day 2.
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>>16904559
Turn off all screens at least an hour before you want to go to bed: no tv, no laptop, no desktop, no phone, no tablet, no media player, no handheld console, no smartwatch, nothing. If you're bored read a book or masturbate or something. You might be able to get away with an e-ink tablet, i don't know
then go to bed
then wake up
after 2 weeks you'll be a functioning human being but you still won't be allowed to use screens before bedtime because it'll just fuck you up again
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>>16904594
Silly person
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>>16904594
Pretty much this.
Too many friends/roommates/family I know complain about "Ugh I cant ever sleep, I dont feel tired, etc." while staring at a bright ass screen, sometimes sitting up at 1am.
The basic list I would reccomend is
>No bright lights/screens before 'going to bed'
>use your bed for sleeping only. No eating, gaming, etc. This will make you brain eventually view bed=sleep, and not bed=sleep,eating,hobby,activity
>chamomile tea and warm milk help to feel sleepy
>if you enjoy it, use White Noise or an online Background Noise player
>sleeping naked or as close as possible feels more natural. Fuzzy PJs work too.
>dont sleep in the clothes you wore that day. Ever. Not only stopping back acne and sores, youll feel much cleaner naked or in pajamas
This is just a strict list ive used to stop living a NEET life of sleeping 3am-9pm
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I've done nothing all day and feel drained, my power is waning by the moment
How do I fight the hex that some witch has put on me?
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I've been working all day trying to get a shitty database to load a shitty 158 GB mal-formatted csv file. I also called my bank, and signed a contract for a new apartment in the evening, and im not even sure if it was the broker or the seller who made me buy an overpriced rats nest with money i don't have.
Im tired, but i can't stop my strive for perfection in life. I get drained by all my thoughts.
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>>16904556
Start working out man. You'll find you have more energy. Plus it's enjoyable
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You might try not hanging out with fucking witches all the time, bruh.
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my boyfriend has a very bad home situation: only eats once a day, house infested with cockroaches and rats, and a verbally and sometimes physically abusive father. I just so happen to live across the country from him (yes i have met him irl and spent a lot of time with him) and running away isn't illegal in both of our states. He's considering running away at this point because it's gotten so bad, but he's 17 and won't be 18 for 10 months so my family and I could get in trouble for letting him stay. He's considering stealing money to buy a bus ticket here so he can be safe. Should he and I actually go through with this?
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>>16904553
He's brave enough to run away but not brave enough to make a legal action? Sorry to say that, but running away from anything is a sign of immaturity.
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Let's say hypothetically you are an amateur actor or actress. You are given a chance to be the lead role in a reboot or remake of your favorite television show. After reading the script you realize that this remake will pretty much rape the original. Would you still act in it?
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No.
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>>16904544
Any context why?
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Wife and I have been together for 7 years now (married for 4) and we recently had a miscarriage
>she told me she used the spermicide gel we've used for years
>later realize she lied (haven't and don't plan on confronting her about it)
>ends up missing period
>confirm she's pregnant
>go to 10wk appointment
>blighted ovum (amniotic sac formed but child didn't)
>she miscarriages
>now wants to try again
I've been adamant about NEVER wanting children.
It was literally the topic of conversation when we met for the first time years ago
I feel she betrayed me by lying about not using the gel (we've used it for years and I've always withdrawn, except for the one time she asked me not to which led to the pregnancy)
>I'm 28
>She's 26
Should I just end it now instead of continuing down this road into an unhealthy marriage?
We love each other and have great relationship outside of this issue, no other major argument in 7 years
>tldr: we both stated never wanting children, she's STRONGLY changed her mind after an accidental pregnancy that ended in miscarriage
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How did you find out she lied?
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If you're considering divorce over this then do it. Also learn your lesson and don't marry.
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>>16904533
The applicator was broken so we bought a new tube, I tossed the old one, and then looked at the new one after we had realized it hadn't been used.
She knows I know, plus she told me to not pullout on the calculated conception date