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Started talking to my ex girlfriend again. We were deeply in love, but distance and mental hurdles drove us apart (primarily me from her). We recently caught up, the attraction was there, the good times were there, but she started talking to someone two or three months ago. She doesn't refer to him as a boyfriend, only as "the person I'm talking to."
We've both worked on ourselves and it seems we're better for each other than ever before thanks to time apart.
I've made some romantic gestures, she appreciated them but is nervous and afraid of getting hurt again (debating playing it safe with this new guy)
I love her /adv/
What do I do now?
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>>16905546
a) she's fucking the new guy (this isn't really debatable unless you have a REALLY good reason to think she's not). Have been in your situation and have seen others' situations where the girl has literally used these exact words.
b) tell her you want to get back together, that you've made some changes, and that if she's willing to give the two of you a chance, you will show her those changes. If she says no, walk.
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How did you two start talking again?
Did you simply call her?
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>>16905611
Reached out wanting to catch up, she came over. We've hung out one more time since.
Trying to give her space at the moment because she's admitted she needs to make a decision.
>be me, ugly, non talented.
>girl that's actually hot admits she would date me if she wasn't dating someone else
>we tell each other that we love one the other each night, talk everyday
>find out she's moving, stopped talking to me all of the sudden
>really miss her, not sure what I'm gonna do without her
>only chance for a relationship I have and probably will have for quite some time
>not sure if she's ignoring or if she just hasn't been able to talk cause moving
>she's been close to breaking up with her BF
>been really suicidal lately, haven't told her because I didn't want to worry her
Do I have a chance, or do I need to start moving on?
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Move on. And never tell a girl you're depressed or suicidal. They'll lose all respect for you.
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Tell her you're suicidal. Tell her that being with her romantically is the only way you can envision being able to go on without ending your life.
If she doesn't cave, go to her new place with a knife, and slam on her door until she comes out and sees its you. Take out your knife and drag it across your bare chest, deep enough to draw plenty of blood but superficial enough not to do any real harm
Tell her you need her and that you'll do something crazy if she doesn't let you in
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>>16905562
I'm trying to get into a relationship, not a mental institution... Thanks for the effort though.
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You know how people micro dose lsd to treat mental illness.
If I take a shot of alcohol I don't feel as depressed (ya I know alcohol is a depressant), and function fine. I was on SSRI's for a year and a half with no drugs or alcohol whatsoever. What do you think /adv/?
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Why don't you just microdose lsd?
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>>16905544
1) muhhh social anxiety
2) I don't trust illegal lsd cooks.
3) I have no hookup to lsd.
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>>16905550
I'd advise against alcoholism, which is where this line of treatment will eventually get you. Nothing wrong with one drink but it's a slippery slope
How do you clean your retainer without damaging it but actually removing white spots and cleaning it in a careful way?
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I dunno man, we mostly talk about girls and depression on here.
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>>16905492
Gotta be 18 to post here.
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Ultrasonic cleaners + some cleaner like retainer brite
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College dropout here. How do I become as self-dependent as possible quickly?
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>>16905455
1. Be good at something
2. Find a way to get people to pay you to do it
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>>16905455
Learn a trade
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learn a trade, specialize in kitchens or bathroom fitting or be a pipe fitter. more money.
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What should I do about these 2 situations? 2016-03-12 04:01:27 Post No.16905449
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two examples of chicks I've met recently:
1) met these two girls while walking my dog. they're a bit younger. saw them later that same day riding my bike back from town, decided to ask for number. the cuter one of the two is lolsorandumb and her friend is literally a huge coal burner slut who told me a story about getting gang banged in the city by essentially strangers for free alcohol (all black), and throwing up on them. Weird chicks, but the first one is adorable with that butt.
I've chilled with them twice but they're so weird, cant figure them out. they seem almost asexual with how focused they are on gossiping, ADHD-level conversation shifting, and their self proclaimed proclivity for fucking with people. The slutty one is kind of a cockblock, she's one of those chicks that has to make you feel awkward for every other sentence, even when the other girl is laughing and generally finding no fault with what you say, you could chalk this all up to them being young but come on they cant be this unaware...
2) saw girl skateboarding in street today, walking back from gym. she was really good, so when I passed her house, she was sitting on her steps. i said you're really good, she got up, came over to me, got her number. something was off about her, but she was a qt nonetheless.
texted her later today, pic related happened. its weird that she texts so distantly too, in person, within five minutes of meeting her she was like 'i have fb too btw' insisting I also add her on that
How do I get around these two kinds of women? I'm so at a loss. this is all i have to work with. the last chick i had before this was a really skinny short haired chick who i was hooking up with and bought weed from once, who randomly stopped really talking to me and was clearly doing shit with other dudes. we weren't exclusive, but I was starting to get the feels and thought she was in the same zone. so...women.
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Fuck you.
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I met this girl and the professional skater - he really is - the other night, actually. I liked them a lot.
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Is something wrong with me?
I know none of you here are doctors but that's not what I'm really for here anyways. All my life I've had memory problems and headaches, the headaches have recently gone away though. However, the memory is still getting worse, the long term memory to be exact. Mostly everything before the 9th grade (5 years ago) is muddled but can be partially remembered either by pictures or by deja-vu in a conversation, but everything past middle school and before is long gone. Step parents, things such as last and middle names and birthdays of the people I live in the same house with and have lived with for many years disappear as well, went to a doctor and he said it was "normal"
But, the real reason I'm here is because of how I feel now. Recently I've just felt, empty, I guess you could say. I can go to work and things just seem hazy, and I return home and go on my computer and everything is forgotten. I have even "woken up" randomly as if I wasn't lucid for a period of time. I don't find joy in anything and nothing seems to entertain me anymore. I used to be a pretty avid gamer but I don't even find video games interesting anymore. I've had a girlfriend and a boyfriend but now I don't even pursue relationships nor want one simply because it seems boring.
Everything just seems blank and empty, is this really normal or is my doctor a retard? Either way, I don't have the money to move out of where I live and find a good doctor nor get medication for whatever I may have so I'm screwed in that sense
I don't think it's depression, because I have no suicidal tendencies and think it's retarded, and I don't self harm either or am into that whole goth thing, so it makes no sense to me.
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Yeah, I've felt the same way for a long time. Long enough to realize I am depressed. I'm not saying you are but the similarities seem prevalent. You could just simply be bored with life. And yeah, thats normal. Try and seek out things that are new to you. They will be interesting at first but that will die soon. You are the one who has to keep interested and invested in it for it to give something back. I'm not quite there yet either, but this is my motto for now
To find, you must seek.
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Forgetting shit like that is normal for some of us. I'm like that.
It might be depression. Not enjoying thing as you used to, feeling empty, is indicative. Other stuff you mentioned may play into it. As far as I know, inclination towards suicide begins later in the stages, if at all. You might wanna check out with a mental health professional.
Also make sure you're getting adequate sleep, taking care of yourself, etc.
It's also important how long this has been going on.
Long one. I'm in college but I'd rather be working. Only reason I'm here is because my parents want me to be, but I feel bad about dropping out. That's what my plan is at the end of the semester. I'd rather find work and save up fully before coming back. Money is always a concern, no matter what. Right now I only have enough to last until the end of May.
Little backstory as to why I feel bad about leaving, but better if I do.
>Depressed, now 21 year old virgin
>Couldn't get laid with prostitute
>Realised my emotions are fucking with my ability to fuck
>In a frat, so there's lots of drinking and smoking
>This does not help and adds fuel to my past suicidal thoughts
>Third time was the charm
>Shot myself through the left lung, missed my heart
>Only one bullet so I had to bleed out or suffocate
>about 5 minutes from death, I change my mind
>call an ambulance, wake up next day I'm fine
>Fast forward to getting back in school
>In dorms for now
>only 3 classes for recovery
>I've now failed all of them
>I know the statistics that I might try again
>I want to try in school, I promised my parents I'd give it the ol' college try
>I just want to work
>Primarily in the marijuana industry, against my parents wishes
>No not because I want to get high all the time
>I only do it once every two weeks, with edibles of course
>Though they can't say much since it's so soon after my suicide attempt
>I will drop out, there's no point in staying in, I guess I just wanted to get his off my chest
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You're supposed to shoot your head not your chest retard. Jesus Christ how much of an idiot are you?
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>>16905516
I chose the chest because I wanted to bleed out. And yeah, obviously I'm not book smart.
Is it just me or do girls not reply in a timely manner? I normally reply within thirty minutes, but it's often hours until they reply to me. Am I just a fucking loser?
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>>16905431
Yes you are.
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>>16905434
Oh. I don't know what to do then
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>>16905441
show off ur muscles in ur fb picture and shave off ur hair theyll msg u like crazy
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What do you do when your gf does A LOT for you like brings you food, drives you around, lends you money ect. But doesn't give you an inch of freedom? Everything you do she has to be present. Doesn't trust you as far as she can throw you even though you've never given her a reason not to and is extemely emotionly unatable.. What do you guys think about that situation? Stay in the relationship or break it off?
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Break it off. A relationship that doesn't grant you freedom is not a relationship, it is slavery.
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Is this even a question? Why be with someone who is emotionally unstable?
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You do realize what you just said right?
Let me help you out. You said you're incredibly dependent on your girlfriend. She does a lot for you. This is wrong for two reasons. One you already see for yourself in the fact that she is constantly around you. She's pretty much granted that since you depend on her so much. Two you just shouldn't be too dependent on anyone. It's a horribly dumb thing to do in life. Back to why she's around you constantly. You can't tell her no because you haven't told her no in regards to anything.
You should break it off. Learn to be a little independent. You don't deserve freedom if you're just mooching off someone. Look at it this way. When you lived with your parents. Did you get much freedom. Most likely no because they provided everything for you.
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What should I do about unwanted erections in public? I work a pretty strenuous job with very little breaks, so often times whenever I find the urge to use the bathroom, I need to hold it until there's an opportunity to find a restroom. The problem, as most you guys know, is that with all that pressure and blood rushing to my 'area', it'll cause an erection that can be difficult to hide. So, what can I do to prevent or conceal this? I wear boxers that are a bit too small for me, should I switch to ones that fit my size better? Or maybe briefs would provide more support and hold things together better? I rarely even get the privacy to tuck it into my waistband, and taking more frequent bathroom breaks is out of the question, as I legitimately do take them as many times as I can get.
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http://www.ohjoysextoy.com/bonerhiding/
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>>16905435
That's pretty funny, but not very helpful in my situation.
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Tense the big muscles in your body, like your legs and your pecs/lats. They'll sap blood from downstairs.
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Working at Walgreens VS. working at Walmart / Dollar General / CVS 2016-03-12 03:51:32 Post No.16905418
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Which takes the cake?
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>>16905418
I had a friend that worked at dollar general and she said it was the worst work experience she ever had
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CVS is alright
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I feel like Walmart has such a bad reputation maybe that one is a bad idea.
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I've been trying to lay off the weed and beer for the past week and I've been having intense anxiety and restlessness. Just took a sip of beer and it all dissipated. Am I officially an alcoholic?
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No
Just pace yourself
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Maybe just stop one of them first. Substitute with weed is probably healthier if your drinking is heavy. Then you can quit that later.
Or just deal with it, quicker if you can handle it. Just don't go drinking AND smoking if you give up.
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How do I approach tasks with motivation and a can-do attitude, when I've been a failure for years?
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don't stop
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>>16905638
believin', hold on to that feelin...
In any case OP, if you have an inferiority complex, then you'll just be drifting through life with no purpose whatsoever. If you're as lucky as I was, you'll find something very niche to attach yourself to and you can revel in the fact that you're good at something. I really don't think there's much else that can cure raw pessimism. So don't stop, basically.
I've been talking to female friend I've liked for awhile now(3 months), but she been giving me the short and late response treatment for over a month now. When I ask her what's wrong, she just usually says it's nothing and changes the subject. What do I do so it can go back to way it originally was???
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>>16905377
3 months and you didn't ask her out?
come ON
she's know you want that latina pussy and you couldn't even man up enough to go for it
you make me feel like a fucking chad
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> What do I do so it can go back to way it originally was???
you don't
it's like childhood, once it's gone you can't go back
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>>16905383
Probably should have mentioned that I know via her friends that SHE had thought about the idea of being more than friends, but cherished the friendship more I guess because she didn't want to lose me :/