Hey /adv/, I just got out of a relationship, I regret what happened between us and I wish I could have her back but I know at this point that I'll have to move on. There's this girl in my German class, I've never talked to her before, I've never had an excuse to do so. She seems kind of shy and I am too, and she's cute. How can I approach her? What things should I say to her? What's the best way to make sure I'm not nervous and seem confident when I first talk to her? pic unrelated but kinda looks like her
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Next time when there's a conversation exercise or group project happening in class, choose her as a partner and try and get to know her a bit better. You can start some small talk in German. If she seems to enjoy conversing with you, and you feel the spark is mutual, why not ask her out...
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>>16908210
Ask her for homework or similar shit. If she is interested in you, you should have a nice talk. Just try bro
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Should I just flat out ask this recruiter what the pay and benefits are for the position she's harassing me about?
Recruiters hit me up all the time because I'm good at a job most people find boring and shitty. They're always, "OMG I SEE U HAVE A GIRL.... I mean job... BUT DO U WANNA LEAVE HER... I mean leave it??" (It's like I'm dating these fucking people).
The things is... I don't mind leaving my current job, but it's entirely dependent on whether or not they'll A) pay me more or B) give me a shit-ton more benefits than I currently have.
I'm not interested - at all - unless this is the case because what I do is basically the same no matter where I am. So it really does come down to $$. I couldn't give less of a fuck about the "work environment" and "work life balance" because I work fine with everyone and I'm not trying to have "a life" I'm trying to have fucking money in this US economic shit hole we're in. So I REALLY don't give a flying fuck about the "opportunity" unless it pays. And there's nothing I detest more than wasting my time floating around interviewing with jobs I won't take.
But everyone and their mother tells me "Oh no don't do that, that's not how business is conducted." Why the fuck not? i thought business was supposed to be about making money, not massaging feelings.
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Yeah, asking about pay and benefits is perfectly normal. Just politely ask, and if it isn't a better offer tell them you make more in your current situation, and unless they can offer more you aren't interested. I don't know who told you this is bad behavior, but tell them I hate them.
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>>16908225
> but tell them I hate them.
Hahaha awesome, thanks man.
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>>16908198
I'm curious OP, what is it you do?
drank about 2 1/2 cups of lean why do i feel nothing have 2 cups remaining
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>>16908192
>drank about 2 1/2 cups of lean why do i feel nothing
That'll be your kidneys shutting down. Ever seen the part on the bottle where is says "DO NOT EXCEED THE STATED DOSE"? Yeah. They weren't kidding. Best you find yourself an urgent care clininc.
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Goodbye OP
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well what do you mean by "cups", like are you mixing it with something and that = cups?
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How to start an online liberal arts undergrad? 2016-03-12 20:55:41 Post No.16908164
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How to start an online liberal arts undergrad?
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tl;dr soldier looking for a legit online bachelors in liberal arts achievable in 2 years
I'm on a career path for linguistics, and I'm in the military. I am working fervently to get a bachelors degree (already got an associates), which I want to achieve in ~2 years, the end of my contract, so I can immediately start working on my graduate degree after I get out. I have been told by my advisor that it is possible, but he works at a glacial pace, so I want to start looking on my own to make things faster. Due to where I am and how I work, it'll be impossible for me to attend a brick-and-mortar institution, so I am opting to take online courses (my advisor recommended that I take a liberal arts undergrad in foreign affairs or language with a minor in computers). Does anybody know how to get the ball rolling in a timely manner on these courses? Anyone here have any advice for this path or counsel against the path I am thinking of taking? Thanks in advance for any input I can get.
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Hey /adv/
I'm an American living in Italy, and I have to go into work for a couple hours tonight around 12am-1am to do this stupid time change thing.
I don't have anything else to do and I was wondering /adv/'s opinion: Is it 'too' lame to go to a stripclub on my own afterward? I mean, I've got nothing else to do, and the clubs are open til like 4-5am, so plenty of time to swing by.
The stripclubs here are way different than in America, FYI. There's a lot more one on one and conversation. No one goes up to stage to give money to the dancer, and the dancers are never dancing as wildly and extreme as American dancers. Most of them just sit around until someone approaches them, then they talk for a while, maybe get a dance. The girls are beautiful (less tattoos/scars, always thinner), but not anywhere near as sexual as American strippers, until you get the dance - then they get way more sexual than I was expecting.
I don't really even want a dance. I just wanna have a few beers, see some tits, relax, then go home. I honestly don't really want to do the talking part - I just wanna have a few beers, see some tits, relax, then go home - but it's sort of expected that you sit and talk with a girl if you go to a stripclub here.
So what does /adv/ think? Is it worth doing without friends, or should I do something else? Like what, what else is there to do?
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My advice is to learn to make decisions on your own.
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Lol, excellent advice, desu.
Thing is, I'm just on the fence. I could do nothing, stay home, and be boring (but save money), or I could go see some titties (but spend money). For the first time in my life I have over $20k, and I've kind of got into a habit of enjoying having the money more than doing anything on the weekends and spending it. Was just wondering what others thought.
Genuinely good advice though.
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>>16908153
... MMMM well are you getting fucked outside of the strip club..?
Because if you're getting fucked already, why waste money on tits? Tits aren't that interesting, most of them look shitty, and the ones that look good almost all look approximately the same just different sizes. That'd be like looking at different sized Air Jordans all day... it's still just a fucking sneaker.
I'd save my money unless you're going there to get something worth it. You can't flirt with pretty women all day usually, so if you were going to *flirt* and get danced on...then maybe. But going to just look at tits? I feel like you can do that on your computer at home.
Do the italian strippers sleep with men ever? VIP rooms?
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I've always been mildly depressed and apathetic, but I've managed to function normally and live a pretty fulfilling life with quite a few friends. Lately I've felt so deeply unmotivated that I can't be bothered to socialise, and when I do, I can't even be bothered to contribute to the conversation. My social circle has nearly completely whittled down because of it. Normally I've felt some sort of enthusiasm for being liked and am known as the goofy jokester, but of late people have been asking me why I'm acting so different. I don't know what's going on. I feel like part of my soul has died. Will I ever get it back?
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>>16908139
See a therapist. Similar thing happened to me and seeing a shrink and having someone to pour everything out helped with controlling my emotions. And exercising.
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>>16908152
I'm doing CBT and hitting the gym 6 days a week. I guess it might be better to hash things out with someone rather than CBT
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>>16908139
Anhedonia (loss of interest in pleasurable activities) is a symptom of depression.
CBT, specifically Behavioral Activation is a great treatment for depression.
If you can't be bothered with that, try this:
Pick up st. john's wort standardized dose at any walgreens and follow the directions. Also make it a point to talk to people anyway especially when you don't feel like it.
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Hello /adv/, autism here. I have a question.
So I've been seeing a girl, we have agreed that she will stay at my place tomorrow night, we're dating but never had sex yet. I assume this will happen tomorrow, then she will be staying overnight. She said she will be bringing her pyjamas.
Anyways, I normally sleep naked. would this be an issue? Should I wear briefs in bed or?
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>>16908119
Boxers and a T-shirt.
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>>16908119
Boxers and a loose shirt.
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Just boxers should be fine.
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Need advice on my website. 2016-03-12 20:41:56 Post No.16908108
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Need advice on my website.
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Hey, I need advice on my website.
It is a platform on which you can either begin a new story or continue an existing one.
Every time you write to a story, you have only 5 minutes.
So the idea is about collaboratively writing stories.
You can visit the website on nessir.com, a few 4chan users already tried it, some liked, other never used it after register.
Here is the longest story ever written yet: http://nessir.com/viewer.php?textid=3
I want to know how should I develop the idea further, and would you use it, why not? And if you think it's a fail from the beginning, just tell me so I don't lose any more of my time and effort on it.
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seems a bit broken, the buttons go off the screen on my 1336x768 monitor
otherwise good idea
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>>16908504
[Op here]: This is a very early version of it, I am working on a very modern design for it.
It will be better in a few weaks.
Good to know you like the idea, I will definitely further develop the product than.
Im afraid of taking risks. My whole life ive been afraid. Now i realize that i need to change. I just dont know to start. Im going for a business degree but love art. Im sn atheist but go to church every sunday. I feel like this comes from efforts of becoming myself being crushed by parents as a teenager. I compare myself to others and always think about what they think and am afraid to be disliked and seen as stupid. Ive been try to change but i dont know how to start. Ive become afraid to be myself. Ples help
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>>16908090
Listen, taking risks are great sometimes but you have to use logic before doing them. Take for starters your business degree.
>Are you failing your classes?
>Do you hate your classes?
>Are you actually decent at art, and what medium?
>Does your medium allow you to earn money through other means than commissions? If you're decent with digital you could potentially go into graphic design.
>Is it even possible for you to switch your degree right now without too many consequences?
If you're an atheist don't go to church m8. But it sounds more like you're agnostic than atheist if you've kept going every Sunday. There's also nothing wrong with comparing yourself with other people. but unless you work for them/with them, are friends with them, or love them, their opinion doesn't really matter.
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>>16908090
>Im afraid of taking risks. My whole life ive been afraid.
The only way to change is to throw yourself into new situations that force you to adapt. One way to acquire a risk-taking mindset is to try doing some dangerous activities like mountain climbing, skydiving, hang gliding, visit dangerous neighborhoods, bicycling in heavy traffic, etc.
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>>16908090
Your problem is that you have no confidence.
Make that your aim, to gain confidence.
If youre male, boosting testosterone is a subconscious way of boosting confidence.
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So i knew a girl years ago, who worked at walmart in upstate new york. She's probably a 4/10 by most people's standards, but we talked a ton years ago and gamed together. Talked off and on for a few years, and i had my first erotic (very mild though) experience with her (long distance/online i mean).
i still think about her sometimes, and can't help but wonder if there are more pics of her (or even nudes?) out there. Is there a way to find some or get help finding some? when we stopped talking she had been a bitch, so i really don't want to look her up/get in contact with her again... I currently live in canada... Any help would be appreciated!
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bump :S
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sent ;)
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>>16908083
You are mental.
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Hey everyone,
Im new here and just came to see if anyone could relate/solve my problem. so here it goes
I have recently been getting depressed at night. when Im alone or out with friends i just start getting really quiet and don't want to talk with anyone and just sit there. I dont really think its a problem with something in my life because im doing everything i love and im sorrounded by the best people and everythings positive. but i just seem to get really depressed at night because i think of this girl that i really like and i think shes perfect but i can't get a clear message if she likes me or not. What do you think is wrong with me?
Thank you for helping in advance
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>>16908073
Maybe it has something to do with this:
>but i just seem to get really depressed at night because i think of this girl that i really like and i think shes perfect but i can't get a clear message if she likes me or not
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>>16908077
what should i do with her?
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>>16908084
Stop thinking she is perfect, nobody is. Thats one option, other option go talk to her ask her out or if you really got the balls tell her what you think about her en ask what she thinks about you.
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You and your partner of two years break up.
You miss each other and want to get back together.
After a month apart, you call each other up, decide the breakup was a mistake and that you should get back together.
Your partner admits they hooked up with someone during your time apart. They honestly had no feelings for the person and no further interest in staying in contact with them.
Would this upset you? Would it affect your decision to get back together?
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>>16908048
If she thought you weren't going to get back together, then na. Everybody says the best way to get over someone is to get under someone new. Even though it's shitty advice, people are willing to try shitty advice to try and get over breaking up with someone they cared about
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>>16908055
Let's say they didn't expect to get back together, at least not any time soon, but they hoped for it eventually.
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>>16908048
lol
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I'm looking to purchase an old model 60GB PS3 off Craigslist with controller.
What is an appropriate price to offer? Is it safe to buy off of Craigslist generally, if it is in your hometown?
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$70?
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In the last month Im extremely bored... I dont have motivation to do anything... What to do?
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>>16907981
Relax, your body and mind needs it. If you don't, depression is ahead. If you do your motivation will come back by itself.
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I wanna be more social and meet more people . I love outdoors and yoga are there clubs or online groups that schedule events I can join?
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>>16907980
Try googling it my friend. We can't tell you what is and isn't in your area unless we live there.