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My problem is that recently I've been having some weird pain on the left side of my chest, this usually happens at night on days when I eat like a retard.

Just an hour ago I had the strangest pain, felt like someone was squeezing my heart.

Question is, should I go see a doctor?

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>work 5 days a week overnights at a retirement home
>just there incase anyone has a problem
>nobody ever does
>watch anime and play video games from 10PM-6AM in a dark room
>best job ever

or so i thought, i can't fucking do these things anymore. it was okay when i could do schoolwork but i am literally getting so goddamn lonely its killing me.

i'm done with vidya/anime for now, what other hobbies can i pick up? how can i meet people who are up late/in other timezones?

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It seems like I'm the smartest or most ambitious member of every group I'm part of. Every time I relax and let someone else direct, our work turns out mediocre. How the can a group work effectively if only one person is competent or only one person seems to care? I'm fed the fuck up with always being the one that keeps shit together.

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So without going into too much detail, I have a very specific, very unique sexual fetish. Because of this, it's basically impossible to carry out in real life, leaving me dependent on roleplays and cybersex. However because it's so unique, there's no easily found community or fellow enthusiasts to carry out this RP with.

Is there a good way to go about finding a partner for something so unique? I've tried posting on /soc/ but never receive any interested responses. I've considered offering to type someone through paypal, but I'm worried that'll constitute prostitution.

In short, what's a good way to find cybersex/ERP partners who will fulfill a particularly unique fetish?

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Sorry to ask such a stupid question but I have to ask because it's fucking with my head.

My boyfriend doesn't get hard when we make out or when I put his hands on my tits, ass etc. Is this normal? I feel really shitty about it.
It just feels like soft mush down there.
My ex would get hard just when cuddling and my current boyfriend needs heavy foreplay/just before penetration to get hard. There is no precum either. Is it me? I feel like he's not attracted to me.

I don't want to have sex with him anymore either. I feel more aggressive during foreplay than him and he is just going with the flow... It feels... Cold and passionless.

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What it says as the subject.

>24, female
>virgin, but I've used dildos many times
>dildo with condom over it is only thing that goes inside me nowadays
>I don't use my fingers to masturbate nor do I use tampons
>I don't douche
>not on any medications whatsoever
>last time I fapped was several days ago in last week
>A long time ago I got my first Pap smear and they said everything is alright down there
>my period cycle is regular as shit, nothing wrong with it
>vaginal discharge is appearing as normal, as it always has
>no pain

What the fuck is going on? Do I have an infection? Was the condom or dildo not clean enough? How do I stop these bad smells? I wash my actual asshole and my labia folds, so I know the smell is coming from my vag.

There is one thing I know might be the cause of the smells but it's embarassing. Then again this is an anonymous place. If everything is ruled out then I'll assume this is the cause

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I don't know what to do..

So my "ex" (that I've been with for two and a half years) and I still continue to talk and we both have said that we still enjoy talking to each other and that we also still love one another. The problem is, he doesn't want to get back together; I live in Canada and He, in the USA. To him, it's better for us to stay friends or wait it out but I feel like he just expects me to get over him as time passes. He also has a girl friend that he's expressed feelings for to me and I am extremely jealous about it because him and her are so perfect together. Although he says that their relationship is perfect the way it is, and how they'd prefer to just remain friends (and have been for 6 years) I can't help but think hes just telling me these things even though they plan to be room mates (she can easily live with him since she's also in the US). He's also told me that it's irrational to think that getting back together at this point is the right thing to do because I am currently jobless and struggling with emotional problems and some drug abuse. I understand where hes coming from but the fact that he says "If you come here, have $$ and mature a bit we could be together" just really leads me on; I think he just says that to make me feel better... I feel like I'm only pushed to get better for him and not myself which obviously isn't right but hes the only reliable person in my life that I deeply love and value. I want to stay around and be his friend, his company is comforting and I just don't know what to think/do/feel.

Advice? Opinions?

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Is intelligence something you're born with or is it something that can be obtained through handwork and dedication?

Intelligence is kind of broad. I'm not even sure how exactly I'd define it. I suppose the following traits sort of make up my definition of intelligence
>Quick learning
>Natural tendency to get things from the beginning
>Cleverness or quick-wittedness in situations
>Able to understand complex and abstract ideas

Those are sort of general broad traits, more specific ones like advanced understanding of academics like math, science, literature, art, etc.


Is a person simply born with a natural tendency to excel at things? Can it be learned? Is it simply just a series of seemingly arbitrary things presented to a person in a specific order or way that clicks in the person's head that enables the "smartness" to kick in?

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PLEASE READ FULL THING AS THIS IS NOT A BREAK UP QUESTION
>Be me
>Have girlfriend for 2 1/2 years
>Girlfriend out of no where dumps me 3 weeks ago
>I'm still dealing with it, but starting to move on
ONTO REAL STORY
>GF's little sister and I used to talk GoT all the time
>It was a blast
>Tonight's episode... shit was cash
>I want to send her a text to talk about it
>OBVIOUSLY SUPER TABOO
THIS WOULD BE THE TEXT VERBATIM
>"It would be too taboo to talk Game of Thrones with you, wouldn’t it?"
>THIS IS IN NO WAY A SEXUAL ADVANCEMENT
MY ONE RESERVATION
>Want to try and get back with this girl eventually.
>Odds don't seem in my favor though...


MY QUESTIONS FOR YOU
>Based on reservation, how bad of an idea is this?
>What outcome could possibly be conceived from this that would be worse than my current standing with the little sister or my ex?
>IF YOU DON'T LIKE THE TEXT I'M CURRENTLY SENDING, WHAT SHOULD I SAY INSTEAD?

All suggestions are open and welcome.

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Would the government try to hurt an ordinary person?

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So my girlfriend of 2 1/2 years and I had a talk about what if we got married and what would happen. The first thing i asked about was kids.

She said that she hated kids and would never think about having one besides adoption of an already 10 yearold + child. I on the otherhand have always wanted to be a father (specifically for a daughter) and this obviously conflicts with our relationship.
I really love her, i really do. But I just cant see me never having kids and dying alone with her with no one to continue on my family heritage and all that bologna. What do i do? i dont want to leave her but i really do want to have kids as well.

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Anyone here have any advice/success with dealing with anxiety?
I've been having really bad problems on and off for the past 8 weeks and I've pretty much hit the point where I've given up hope. I thought I was improving last week until Thursday. I took a nap and had a pretty disturbing half sleep paralysis, half nightmare and I haven't been able to shake the feeling. Last night I had probably one of the worst anxiety attacks of my life and I've been on edge all day.
Basically I feel as if the walls are always closing in on me and everything looks small and far away. It feels like reality is just something playing in front of my eyes.
I'm not prescribed any meds at the moment but I do have some xanax just in case it gets too unbearable, which it kind of is at the moment.
How long do these episodes last?
Also I got sick(not very sick) last Thursday as well, do you think that could be temporarily hindering any progress?
This basically all started after a month or so of drinking hard, not sleeping much, nor eating much.

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My friend/crush hasn't texted me back in 4 days I would like to talk to people

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I want to fuck as many women as I possibly can. I have a very good base.

>6'3, almost 6'4
>good skin, teeth, hair
>broad shoulders, physically fit, currently trying to put on muscle because I'm very skinny
>electronic and computer engineering student, looking to do a masters in finance, want to end up in financial technology eventually, bottom line is I'm well set up to make a shit ton of money
>will also inherit 6 to 7 properties over the course of the next 20 years

During my teenage years I focused on my career much more than anything else. I was also clinically depressed and I was living with an abusive parent. Now that I'm out this is the goal I want. I don't see any point in life other than fucking as many women as possible and making shit tons of money.

I want to hear every angle, every possible way I can go about fucking women , every manipulation tactic, every seduction tactic, whatever. Up until now I've almost been a ghost socially, mainly on purpose, so it's like I'm starting with a completely blank canvas.

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I'm 20 years old (almost 21) and I only had 1 "gf" in my life (the comas are because I did it for a bet, and in the end she pretty much used me)

Anyways, now I'm trying to look for a nice and stable relationship but I don't know how to keep it
And no, I don't have trouble getting girls, the problem is that I don't know what to do in a relationship (when is it good to give presents, which dates to keep in mind, how to talk or even interact w/o being way too affectionate or too cold and so on)

pls halp