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I recently got a girlfriend, but i dont feel like we are a couple, my gf says she never had a boyfriend before she is 19 and im 21 (she is my first girlfriend).
The first time i confessed to her she said she didnt have time to talk about that stuff and never gave me an answer so i stoped talking to her because i assumed that she didnt like me back... two weeks later she texts me that she didnt want to talk because she didnt know how to express her feelings but she didnt wanted to say it saying she didnt have time. So we met one day after the text ... we talked, we kissed we huged it was a really cute moment.. after that she looks indiferent like she dont care about me, so we met 2 weeks later and i asked her to be my girlfriend and she said yes.
Nothing have change since we are a couple, we went on a date to the cinema, and she sometimes ignores when i tell her to have a good day on the morning and stuff like that.

I dont know if she doesnt love me or it's just incredible shy.
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>>17317126
>i asked her to be my girlfriend and she said yes.

ayy lmao

Dunno OP your entire situation sounds cringy.
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>>17317129
Dude its his first gf , what do you expect? Him to magicly have relationship experience?
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>>17317129
That's pretty normal on the first relationship

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i have information on a major car company committing insurance fraud on multiple occasions. ive photographed all of it and want to know what i can do with this information. i am currently and employee there and what to black mail the company. its a major car manufacturer like nissan toyota honda or ford, im not telling you guys which one yet.

how should i go about this so i can either get free merch or theyll pay me to not make it public, because theyre literally fucking over the customers.
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>>17317106
Don't come into work Monday. You're fired.
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>>1731710
>Go straight to the head of the company
>explain what the company is doing wrong
>act all innocent like you are just trying to look out for the company
>don't let them know you have copies
>keep a flash drive locked up somewhere with the evidence

Don't threaten them. They are a giant corporation with power and influence. Would it be easier to buy your silence, or pay someone to plant evidence on you for a murder?
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Hopefully a copy is handed to someone else that you trust, just in case something happens to you.

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Got into a group of friends for 15 (know half for almost 10 years, know other half for around 2 years), today is my friends birthday party, everyone got openly invited in whatsapp group, everyone keeps asking everyone else if they're coming except me.

>everyone keeps asking everyone else if they're coming except me
This pretty much sums up my relationship with my friends, I never get called, and no one gives a fuck whether I come or don't come. If I go, maybe someone will make a witty remark about me being here behind my back, maybe not. If I want to hang out, I basically have to chat up with X friend, and he'll tell me that X, Y and W will be hanging out at night.

I have to admit, I'm annoying and impertinent when I'm drunk, and I often get drunk, being quite honest I have to admit that most likely, they got sick of my shit. Is it just time to stop speaking to them?

To be honest, even before getting drunk, they didn't really care about me either. Also, I can't really relate to them, they're normies and chads while I'm just the meme autistic friend.
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>>17317082
They are not your real friends.
Don't cut all contact but stop caring.
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>>17317082
I've been in the same boat.

Time for you to find new friends, but stay on good terms with your old ones. Don't turn them into enemies or anything.
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>>17317082
As long as you are having fun and they have not actively told you to go away who gives a damn.

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I have a roommate who is terrible at paying anything on time. He isn't on the lease but was told to put himself on the lease upon moving in and also around the month of February when it came to my attention he never did so. This however now means he is technically a sub tenant at this point, which under lease terms isn't allowed. I got fed up with him about a month or 6weeks ago and told him that I wanted him to move out in 7 days after he again was late to pay me back money he owed and that I'd pay him back his part of rent for the remainder of the month that he wouldn't be staying. I never formally nor officially said I'm evicting you. I told him verbatim, "You have seven days to move out, I already spoke to a lawyer, you have seven days." This isn't how a typical eviction must occur, and he is aware of that because he never left and also spoke to a lawyer. This all leads up to my question, today he said he will not be paying me back anything at all, the lease ends July 11. I have the funds to pay for everything however I do still want his money and justice. How well would the case hold up in small claims court? I have texts of all the times he said he was late to pay, as justification for why I wanted him to move out should he claim he doesn't need to pay a cent since I tried to "illegally evict" even though no formal eviction process was ever started. I really hate this guy.
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Take his ass to court and in the meantime make living there super uncomfortable. Walk around naked, watch titanic and shit on the floors.
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I do plan on changing wifi password
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>>17317102
>>17317083
But with that though since he is a sub tenant I do have to practice safe LL guidelines, I'm just pissed at how shitty of a person he is and how well the case could hold in Small Claims Court

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How to not be a introverted faggot
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unfortunately you don't have a lot of control over that

I read that if you're forced to be in social situations every day for a prolonged period of time, such as taking on a new job, your brain wiring will change and adapt so you're not exhausted every day, however once you leave that job or cease socializing in that capacity, you will quickly revert to your former introverted self.

Genetic & binding, from my research.
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>>17317045
Practice, exposure and imprinting. It's probably the hardest thing a person can do. I went from an extreme extrovert to an introvert. And even I find it near impossible to go back
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>>17317059
I can relate to this. It's almost like how muscles work.

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Am I being used?

I was (am?) married, and fell in love with someone who was a friend of about...4 years. Without really realizing it, we were perfect for each other, but both happened to be in relationships, and both got married to different people 1 year ago.

I had to move for work, and so over the last 2 months, as I've been getting to leave, she confessed that she is terrified that I would be gone. She confessed that I'm her rock and that she needs me. That snowballed and we ended up having an affair. Anyway, the love I felt for her has been all-consuming. I absolutely adore her. She wanted me to leave my wife for her so I did...and then she didn't leave her husband. And now I moved for work, alone, and she can't decide what she's going to do.

She says that she needs time to figure out what she wants to do, and that she's "pretty sure" she's going to choose me, but what the hell? She says I'm the man she loves, she says that she's never wanted anyone at much as me, she says that she's in love with me and wants to support me always...

Am I being fucked with or what? She's having trouble deciding between someone she calls her soul mate (me), with whom she is always very happy (her mother saw a photo I had taken of her and said that she had never looked so happy), has fantastic sex, and connects with superbly (many shared interests, finishing each other's sentences, very affectionate; we're almost like twins) and her husband, who doesn't trust her (he found out about the affair, but isn't leaving her) and with whom she has sex about once a month, and hates it. Oh, and she's not in love with him, and thinks he's "dead weight."

What. The. Fuck.
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>>17317040
Do you really need us to answer this for you? She told you to leave your wife. You did. She didn't leave her husband. It's pretty cut and dried dude, there's nothing there for you.
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She played you, pure and simple.
I doubt she will leave him, but hey who knows right? I'm sure that amazing wife of yours didn't see it coming either.
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>>17317050
I settled on my wife so I don't regret leaving her. I still feel like shit being alone and somewhere new where I don't know anyone.

My friend claims that she is trying "really hard" to choose me, but that she'll do it on "her terms." When I try to cut things off, she starts crying on the phone and begs me, telling me that she needs me and loves me so much. When I tell her that she needs to leave her husband for me, she gets upset and says she's working on it...

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What does it mean when you're close to a girl and she opens up about personal issues and constantly talks about her ex?
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she's not interested in you romantically but values you as a good friend, and probably would accept & humor your venting as well
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It means that even if you gf her she'll dump as soon as her ex wants a quickie.

Was he her first?
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>>17317048

>was he her first

Don't think so

>>17317042

Figured as much, tfw but I suppose it's nice just being close

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Why do women always say they want to travel? What is it they are hoping to experience or find that is going to make them happy? And how do I learn to enjoy travel so that women will stop leaving me?
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selfies

making their peers envious for a week
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they don't like to travel its like that guy above me said its about statues and showing off to her social circle of fake friends. Iv done a lot of traveling for special events like the world cup shit that im genuinely interested in and i always come across people who are faking there enthusiasm and taking selfies every 2 seconds dressed up in the stereotypical outfits you always see women post on FB. Its like they visit popular areas to take a selfie without actually acknowledging and appreciating where and what they are doing... its fucking weird and pathetic.
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>>17317036
As a guy when I say I enjoy travel, what I mean is I literally enjoy the aspect of boarding a vehicle - or even just getting up and walking - somewhere, just for the sake of going and observing. Anything special going on is just a bonus. I don't need it to be somewhere terribly far away, even a nice town that's only an hour away by car can be fun and interesting, though it's not to say I haven't boarded a plane or sailed off to far away places either.

I'm not sure why women like it so much so I'll let femanons chime in. There's so many people that enjoy doing it that it's kind of a vague thing to write about yourself on a dating profile, but it's whatever I guess. One speculation I've heard is that when a woman says "travel" it's code for "getting dicked by foreign men". No idea how true that is, if at all.

I cant make my mind up on what course i should do at university, throughout my education i tend to be pretty flexible with my interests and strengths being good at a lot of things, i had no certainty what I wanted to become , it was difficult deciding even what gcses i wanted to do and it affected me greatly at a levels due to not having the certainty of what it is i want to do after college i ended up not giving a shit in the last year, also had to do with pretty tough stuff and living circumstances i had to deal with in that year regarding family issues which have always bothered me and think has really affected my mentality permanently . at this point I know that I can put the work in if im passionate about something, im studing science btec course atm which can be accepted by quite few universitys in various courses , ones that stick out for me are - economics with finance, computer science (softwares systems development) , marketing, software engineering, business economics with accounting, Has anyone or is studying any of these, have any advice? Any a waste of time ?
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Choose a degree that would actually benefit you in a career
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>>17317011
its difficult not knowing if ill like a career because its all in the future i wont know till i actually try it and the fear of it being a waste of time thinking this could be shit not get a job and wish i done something else.

am i over thinking this? Is this where you should listen to your gut? how did you know what career you wanted to do and did you change your mind often?
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If you don't have any direction try to get a part time job or regular job in a field you think you might like. See how you feel about it, and then pursue education in it.

I've only had sex with two women in my life and with both of them I didn't really feel any sensation. I felt wamth and wetness but nothing pleasurable (maybe a little bit of pleasure if she was on top).

I am circumcised so that might have something to do with it? What else could be causing it
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>>17316975
Buy a fleshlight and stop death gripping
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>>17316980
>stop death gripping
this
porn also makes it worse for me at least.
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>>17316980
to elaborate, I had the same issue and it completely fixed my problem in about two weeks, plus it's more enjoyable.

This is the one I have, works great and is easy to maintain.

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I have a crush on my boss that is a woman 5 years older than me. I won't act on it but should I express my feelings just to try and get over it? Every day I work with her feels like torture. I have a gf and love her but these feelings are pissing me off
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If you're not gonna keep that job much longer then go for it, But if you plan on staying there then i suggest you dont say anything and crush on her from a distance. Business before pleasure. Dont wanna mess up your money flow. Focus on work and your relationship
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>>17316983
The problem is she drops hints all over and it's driving me crazy. Idk if she's just flirting for attention or if she's really into me
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>>17316986
Here is an idea. Fucking ask her outside of work.

Not like it matters tho. You will still be employed by her and you still have a gf

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I have lots of books that have been sitting on the shelves in my basement for years now. I want to get rid of them.

Do you guys know of any major American charities that I could give my books to? Alternatively, do you know if libraries take book donations?

Also, some of them are college textbooks, many of which have been made obsolete by new editions put out by their publishing companies. What should I do with those? I don't have the heart to throw them out, but they're taking up way too much space in my house.
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>>17316941
You can give them to me, I love books!
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>>17316941
It's good to clean house. Pack them all up in small boxes so that they are easy to sort and see what they are. Got to the nearest used bookstore, see what they'll take for cash or for store credit. Take the rest to a thrift shop, you'll be donating them to charity.

Get a clean start. Yes, books should be treated with respect. But you can't just hang onto them forever, that's menally ill.
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The really popular chain, Half Price Books, will take any books you give them and pay you for it. As for actual charities, you can just search that up since there's so many.

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How do I get a MILF fuckbuddy? I'm borderline autistic, so make the steps as clear as possible.
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>>17316906
The fact that you think there are actual steps like a cheat code, shows how autistic and out of touch with reality you are.

This is beyond your understanding.
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cunt
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>>17316919
this

I'm trying to stop being an anxious beta fag and I've had a crush on this girl who is way above my league for a while now.

I haven't blatantly told her I like her but I've asked her out but she threw excuses around so I know she's not into me.

Thing is, I just can't get her out of my mind and it's been affecting me but since she's part of the group I hang out with, she's always around.

At the end of the day, I just want to be in a good mental state so I'm asking any people with experience, do I tell her I'm into her when I know she's not into me, will that help somehow? Should I just not say anything while I just focus on some other chick?


What would make me feel best afterwards?
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>>17316901
Let me tell you this: if you don't have any hope then don't tell her. If you still hope she'll somehow say yes, then try it. It is really important that you know you have tried everything and that it is not your fault.
Pro tip: don't ger shitfaced and then tell her, that is the worst thing you can do
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Forgot to ask, what are her exuses? Is there a chance that they are legit?
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>>17316924
I asked her a couple of times to do different things.

Once I asked her to go to a local pub, she said she was full into work so she couldn't make it. I thought, perhaps she does have lots of work or she doesn't like pubs, so I told her to casually grab a beer and go sit on the beach just to chill. She said couldn't cause of work.

Then a couple of weeks or so later, she called me up to watch a movie which got me excited, but she brought her male friend too who is a totally obnoxious fag.

So I honestly got fed up with her shit but she's still on my mind.

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My sister is a coalburner. I don't like how she's become a race traitor and committing white genocide. What should I do to break their relationship up?
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>>17316895
lol
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>>17316895
Talk to her. Just like you told us. I'm sure she'll understand what's going through your head.
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There's nothing you can do. She's already lost.

Sorry, brother.

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