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>been with gf for just over 24 months
>lately she's been treating me horribly
> makes belittling comments and tries to control every situation
>lately she's been distant
>even today at work I heard her talking shit about me
>didn't even say bye to me when she was leaving but didn't everyone else
What is her go? I've told her already that if she dosent want the relationship to continue then we should stop but then acts sarcastic and manipulates the whole situation so it's hard to even speak to her, what should I even do? Is she cheating?
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you're not masculine enough so she's forced to compensate
ying and yang motherfucker
you're practically having her drown her natural femininity and she despises you for making her go through that
stop asking her dumb ass fucking questions and take charge.
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Not necessarily. Have you asked her what is up? Like, sat down and had an adult conversation? It sounds more like you did something wrong or your relationship is stagnating.
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>>17352621
Translate that into taking her on dates again and being more romantic.
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Buzzing in my right ear, like the kind of sound you hear when you turn off an old TV. There is wax in my ears, since i wear headphones a lot. The buzzing never stops, i miss the silence. This has been happening for like 3-4 weeks. Help?
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>>17352594
Take a q-tip and dip it in some hydrogen peroxide. Gently insert this into your ear canal while turning it. Don't dry your ear after doing this, the hydrogen peroxide dissolves ear wax. Doing this can really dry out your ear though so I don't recommend doing this very often.
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>>17352603
Tbh i could go to my doctor and get it washed out
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>>17352603
Sound like a great way to fuck up your ears. Go to an ear doctor instead.
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Not sure how to feel about something my girlfriend did today.
She pulled a gun on someone. It was pretty justified, it was dark and he was hassling us, got kinda edgy and grabbed her left forearm, she told him to let go, and tried to pull away, and before I could actually get a hold of the guy, she tells me to shut up and get back, sure enough, she has a pistol out.
I'm weirded out that she never told me she owned a gun for self defense?
Background: we've been together 6 years, we're engaged. We've been living together in an apartment for about a year, but lived near each other in the dorms before that. She is outdoorsy and shot competitively (rifle) in college, and hunts somewhat regularly. So I don't have a problem with her having a handgun, nor is is super unexpected. But I can't believe she didn't tell me about it when she got it? She is usually really excited to show me new shotguns/other equipment, even though I don't really know much about them. We also are really open/honest, she's usually honest to a fault really. I haven't really talked to her about it except to say it was badass and hot (true), and to ask where the fuck she was keeping it since she isn't the purse type (she has sewn a holster for it inside her favorite coat fucking apparently, she even put nylon straps UNDER the liner so it doesn't pull on her coat, wtf).
I just don't know how to feel about it. Why didn't she tell me? Should I be mad? Idfk.
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>>17352570
you should leave her she didn´t tell you about the gun and that´s a major trust issue.
pepper spray is ok, so is tazer but do you really wanna hang around with a person that can commit a murder anytime she wants to? she already pulled a gun on random stranger and cant be reasoned with.
get her a shrink or get out
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>>17352578
idk man, a crazy guy grabbed her and was threatening her. You can commit murder with a kitchen knife, anyone can do it any time.
lol I am a shrink, I know I'm close to the situation but she seems fine.
I guess I'm kinda worried she's afraid of me and that's why she didn't say anything? I've never hit her or even really said anything mean to her, I'm a really level guy (see: shrink).
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>>17352570
What's the surprise here? She's clearly no stranger around firearms and she was using one in a situation that could have turned messy.
I guess the best step would be to talk about her carrying. She seems like she's mature enough for it, but it's reasonable for you to be surprised by her suddenly pulling a piece out.
That being said, she was trying to protect you. I think that's the most important bit here.
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I'm tired of living because other people want me to. Best way to an hero?
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giving up on other people is actually a good first step in not being suicidal since it's usually putting up with shit people that's making you miserable in the first place
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>>17352550
I feel like I barely interact with anyone, even my family, but I dont think I'm putting up with anyone's shit. What do you mean?
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Sleeping pills overdose with a lot of booze.
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Would I be psycho to try to contact her again? 2016-07-13 09:53:56 Post No.17352547
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Would I be psycho to try to contact her again?
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About a year and a half ago.
>Dated on and off for 8 months
>First four months went great. Cloud Nine.
>She admitted to having feelings for me, but told me she's just really shy, which I could tell that from miles away how shy she is.
>Didn't do anything past hugging her. Wanted to kiss her so many times, but didn't feel right when she still was visibly awkward around hugging me. I'm still the only guy she's even been on a date with.
>She started getting too busy. Her school workload picked up. She captained a team at school, and parents helicoptered around her life to make sure she maintained straight A's (To which she's told me stresses her to tears)
>At the time, like a dickhead I thought she was just beginning to lose interest and told her that if she's lost interest to just tell me, no hard feelings.
>"Anon, I've really began to have feelings for you, but I've got (Busy schedule) so much to do, I just don't have time. I know it sounds like I'm stringing you along and that's not fair to you, I'm so so sorry."
>Talk her into giving it a shot regardless. Fuck it. I like her.
>Getting together declines even more, she just has no time. I passive aggressively tell her that I'm the only one making an effort and we should just stop.
>2 mo later, apologized over FB (I already graduated at this point) that I was sorry for being passive aggressive prick about it, told her I just thought she was blowing me off, etc. She didn't respond, but my "I'm not saying any of this to try to fix things, but just to apologize" warranted that.
I honest to god think I fell, and am still in love with her. I don't plan on telling her this, but would it be fucking crazy if I just messaged her after about 8 months of not talking, and started with "Hey, can we talk?" or something? I don't know what I want, closure, reunion, or what, but everything in my body is telling me to give it one last go. I don't think I'll be able to fully move on until I do.
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>>17352547
Fuck another grill. That'll solve it all
Or better, bounce to someone else in a similar position as you (not someone who's looking for a relationship - that's disrespectful)
Best thing I did after breaking off a two year relationship was find someone else in a similar position and fuck each other to sleep every other night until we'd got over our respective ex's. Texting and phoning etc helps that side of the withdrawal, but somewhat blurs boundaries
Jesus Anon, you were only together 8 months
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Bumping for any other opinions?
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>>17352547
it might be better to just get it off of your chest with her, but accept that she isn't going to be your only GF and that ultimately you shouldn't worry about her and move on.
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I am about to go out with this 18 years old girl . She is into me and i like her to but iam 26 year's old and iam kinda scared that is to much age difference for dating someone. Iam talking abouth social accaptance . is it socially acceptable to date someone at this age and with this difference?
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>>17352540
Socially acceptable? To some people it is, to others it's not.
But the real question is: why would you want to date an 18 year old? If you have enough in common to have a relationship right now, it probably means that either she's had to grow up super quickly, which comes with baggage, or that you're super immature for your age, which doesn't bode well for the relationship, or both.
Not to mention you're probably at completely different points in your life, which may not seem a big deal now, but will be later. She'll mature and change, like you did when you were in your late teens/early 20s. You'll begin to want to settle down, when she just wants to enjoy being in her 20s. There are far too many issues with an age gap like this at this time in your lives
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>>17352540
Haters gonna hate, and you'll get all that hate.
In some cases, it's socially acceptable (eg: you're a rich politician), so just have fun.
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>>17352545
I wasnt searching for 18 years old it just happened for me and her to get along and to like each other . I can seam to some people like predator or something that is my bigest social issue .And like you sead our paths will differ over next few years . I dont is there future in relationship like thath but without tryingi would never know ...
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>pull into my apt. complex late every night (2:00-3:00, 11:00-1:00 recently)
>live on the outskirts of town
>omw home I like to stop by ~1/4 mile out into the forest and smoke
>be pretty paranoid person
>live by this "cat daycare"
It's pretty dope cause I can see it out the window and it's got all these cool ramps and catwalks everywhere.
The thing is one of the cats recently got hurt or really misses its owner or something cause it makes this atrocious screaming noise like it's in pain every night and it wakes me up.
I keep my window open sleeping and I don't mind just closing the window, but I can't help to wonder sometimes if I wake some of the cats up when I park.
The complex is mostly ~50yr olds and I'm 19; there's only smoking in the driveway. Walking by, one of them told me "better put some sunscreen on" so they be under the impression I'm a really active night-person or rich-to-vapidity post-teen. I'm pretty pale and she's one of Very few black people in my city so it could have just been a joke.
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What type of scream is it? Because there is actually a chance it is just in heat.
I have no idea what the rules would be for a place like that, but if they do accept unfixed animals at any time then it is entirely possible they have one in heat trying to get attention.
And you very well might be waking some of them up if they are already skittish/nervous, but generally a relaxed cat sleeps like a log.
If you have any more specific questions I might be able to help more, but this is about the best I can do with what you have said here.
Also, try /an/, they may know more about the cat situation.
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That pic kek.
Had me laughing good. In currently sitting in a waiting room for a psychiatry. Thinking about ending myself. Casual stuff.
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Can't stop masturbating and watching porn, even though it is bad for me. How can I stop?
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learn to jerk off in bed to your fantasies or in the shower or some shit
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>>17352476
Why is it bad for you, OP?
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>>17352535
w/e OP not gonna stay up all night waiting for you to answer that so:
>beating it has no correlation with acne
Acne will go away eventually because i was wrong when I thought there was correlation. Just wash your hands often and especially afterwards.
>dont want to be addicted when I get a gf
Honestly a lot of girls don't even care about their bf's jerking off as long as you don't neglect them.
>parents keep catching you
Lock your fucking door
>I keep building tolerance to increasingly fucked up shit
Dont beat off for a while and you won't mind vanilla
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I've edited this picture to show where I feel irritation. It's been occurring for around a year and it makes me cough. Anyone know what this is?
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Do you cough more when you lie down? Maybe it's Post Nasal Drip...
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Or quite possibly the cock that you have been sucking is too long for your mouth
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>>17352498
I had post nasal to begin with but it did go away. It feels dry and irritated
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hi all, I need some advice.
I'm very unhappy in my current relationship. The problem is, she's completely crazy. Every time I've suggested we split, she threatens to kill herself.
What the hell do I do?
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>>17352420
Call her bluff and learn your lesson
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Contact her friends and family. Tell them what she told you. Tell them that she is threatening to kill herself. Advice them to keep a close eye on her, to listen to her, to be there for her 24/7 if necessary and to send her to a psych ward if all things fail. Then break up with her.
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>>17352420
Everyone in /adv/ is dating a psychopath these days?
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my girlfriend is broken and has been treated like garbage her whole life. She doesn't like being treated like a princess. I have been raised only to treat girls like goddesses and put other people before me. She wants someone to push her around.
Aside from these issues, we love everything about each other. What can I do? She is distancing herself because I'm too nice and I'm depressed because she treats me somewhat poorly.
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>>17352390
Tldr: you're a pussy doormat and she wants someone dominant
Either step up and be the man she needs or accept that she is going to cheat/leave at some point. You won't change her, and she doesn't need/want saving
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>>17352390
I've had similar problems, it was mainly misunderstandings for me. While i wanted to worship my gf she seeked out something where we treat each other equally. That's because she didn't fully know how i felt about her. One night we talked for an hour without any shame or being shy. After all this time she liked where this was going and is the one leading the relationship while i partly make decisions.
>>17352404
This.
You are submissive and she is not, there is no way you both will ever be happy without making sacrifices on one side.
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>>17352404
You don't get it. I'm not a pussy doormat. I just don't push her around. I avoid arguments. I apologize when I've done something wrong. I don't HIT her. Shit like this.
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I was told super likes are the best thing for tinder. I.e. thats what they most respond to. So i got tinder plus which gives me 5 super likes every 12 hours.
I've downloaded happn, I used OKC.
And nothing. No likes, no matches, no conversations at all.
In real life I've asked out like 6 girls and all have said no.
I'm president of my universities music club, i play guitar, I'm studying ecology and I've managed to fake myself into becoming outgoing when before I wouldn't talk at all.
What am I doing wrong?
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>>17352364
>I'm president of my universities music club, i play guitar, I'm studying ecology and I've managed to fake myself into becoming outgoing when before I wouldn't talk at all.
kek
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>>17352364
Damn that's the easiest I've ever seen someone get let down. Stay friends with her at the very least, she's chill.
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>>17352374
When i messaged back with "Thats fine, worth a shot, do you still wanna hang out though"
I've yet to receive a message back. That was in May
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>2016
>not having free community college
literally why not?
Student Loans don't give me enough to survive on, as a Full Time Student.
After tuition costs, my student loan spending money for the year is $4,750...Even though my total bills for the year is $14928.
WHAT THE FUCK! If college money was free I'd at least have the full $9,500 that I was given for the year..Still short, but I'd find a way to come up with the extra $5,000.
In a perfect world, full time students should have free college, free housing, and free fucking food, with free public transportation. Do these fucking retarded politicians not understand the immense MONEY BACK that would be given back to the economy, when we get our good jobs with this education?
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>>17352363
the dumber you or most people are, the better for them since they can just talk bullshit and get your vote
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Have you considered getting a job?
>inb4 excuses as to why you can't
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>>17352381
I'm already taking a full 12 credit course load with three classes.
It's possible to have a part time job, but it'd be a complete nightmare - trying to balance that, while doing homework and studying for exams etc.
In other words, it shouldn't fucking be like this.
Dude I wouldn't even be in this dire situation if those cock suckers GAVE ME ENOUGH FUCKING MONEY TO SURVIVE ON FUCK!
I don't even give a fuck about student debt since RN salary will pay that back in no time
I met this girl online. We've known each other for over 6 years (we even dated when we were dumb high schoolers). Right now I am overseas at her house, staying with her family for 3 weeks. A week has gone by and she's still super shy. Is there a way to help her with this or do I have to wait it out and hope she starts a conversation at some point before I have to leave? I really like spending time with her and I don't want this time to go to waste.
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I should add that she's always bright and cheerful when talking to me online and has no problem with anything there, and we've also gone on "dates" where we just get ice cream together but our walks and "dates" are full of silence unless I say something, to which she just responds with a word or two and then it's quiet again.
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>>17352350
Not that much to say but just keep initiating conversations.When you start hitting stuff she knows more about she will probably start talking more.
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>>17352396
I do do that, we're into the same stuff and she's pretty much a female version of me. But she still only responds with a few words.
Does making her laugh help? I'm pretty good at that
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So I just caught my girlfriend cheating on me with a man.. After she claimed she was fully gay. (Im a bi woman). I saw her with him.
But it doesnt stop there. I later got ahold of her phone, she was also having shit going on with more people. 3 men and another girl. Pretty sure the girl is underage.
She doesnt know that I know. I also have no idea how to tell her that i know..
How do i tell her and all of that stuffs. I think you people might know more about twisted revenge.
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>>17352343
>twisted revenge
Why not place superglue on dildo? I don't know, I havent even touched a vagina in real life and I'm 23.
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Next time you give it to her with a strapon, smear some culture for a fucked up disease, preferably an STD. Stop engaging in sexual activity after that (or just break up with her) and enjoy watching her with a disease she's likely bound to get anyway.
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>>17352343
If you want good revenge ideas go to /b/, it's more active and they are better at being assholes. You'll need to deliver though for sure