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>>17350889
t. Black woman

>>17350889
Why is this a question? White men have been dominating, conquering and impregnating non-white women for literally centuries with much success. Carry on.

>>17350889

White guy here. Work in manual labour, so I tend to work with alot of immigrants, including women.

Can confirm they are much nicer and friendlier than white women. Plus, they tend to work the harder jobs, like men, so they get hazard pay and stuff so they never complain about some mythical wage gap.

Literally our women are just the worst. They hate men, spread propaganda and lies about us, falsify statistics to demonise us.
They claim to fight for equality (But don't want to be drafted, work in quarries, factories or warehouses, give up alimony and child support, let fathers actually be goddamn fathers to their kids, talk big on consent then get baby boys dicks chopped up before they can even say "yes" or "no" - Before you refute this, I'd like to point out that the feminism capital of the world, Canada, actually has a law passed preventing academics from publishing any study that presents negative consequences of circumcision).

Hateful, toxic hypocrites.

And you might say NAWALT, or more appropriately NAWWALT (Not all white women are like that) - but how the fuck are we supposed to know.
Ever hear a white bitch call this bullshit out?
Ever hear a white girl say "not all men are like that"?
The fact is, a girl who is LIKE THAT, will act like she isn't, when she's found the right target, too.
So how the fuck are we supposed to know?

They got 'Schrodinger's rapist" as an excuse to treat all men like sex pests.
Well we got 'Schrodinger's feminazi men hating, alimony-collecting marriage for cash white bitch".

>>17350878
Any not negative sign is a positive sign, especially given females

I have high hopes

>>17350878
>It just so happens that I'm going on a six week journey starting next week so her response to my admission was 'wait until you get back.'
>Should be noted that I'm moving out next week, hence my decision to lay it down.
So she told you to wait until you get back, but you're never coming back?

That's... that's fuckin brilliant, is what that is. Keeping that one in mind for future reference.

>>17350960
Believe it or not people can still meet after you've moved out of a place. We've already planned to have a movie night each Sunday night.

It's central London so it's not as if it's that far.

Talk to everybody on your dorm floor
Then talk to everybody on the floors above and below you
Talk to literally anybody who sits near you in class
Talk
To
Everyone

Everybody comes into Uni knowing nobody. At most they might know one or two friends that happened to go to the same place. Literally all you have to do to make friends is talk to anybody about anything.

>>17350868
Listen to what this anon said

Additionally find a way to get involved on campus. I was a pretty shy guy in high school, but I got involved in my school's mock trial team, not only did it teach me confidence, poise, and public speaking ability; but I met a ton of people. It also made me pursue a career in law

>>17350868
Thanks for the advice. So I just go out of my way to talk to everyone? Isn't that a little weird?

>Fastest way to learn to swim?
Swim more.

>go to pool
>jump into deep end
>learn to swim or die, ridding the gene pool of your inferior genes

>>17350818
common frustration, feeling like you're not moving. It's cause you're not, sometimes. Better motion and strokes fixes it, only way to get better is practice. I swam every day for an hour for a month, and even though at first I felt like garbage, by the end you feel amazing.


practice, don't worry about getting tired, your body will improve itself over time. You can even measure your times if you want for confidence boosting

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>>17350803
>my mom says i should have a degree because x,y and z

Talk to a counselor or somebody else that knows their shit and try to find out if your schooling will put you into a large amount of debt before you can get a job, and if the job you are looking for will pay off and is easy enough to get into, and if the degree is really necessary, or if getting the job is more about networking. If you're from a country that pays for your education then maybe none of this will apply to you. But I know a couple of people now that have massive debt from college they couldn't even manage to finish getting the degrees they needed for the jobs they were going for, and are seriously struggling just to pay it off with jobs they could've gotten without school alongside employees that didn't go to college, and they're gonna have a hard time for years to come. I find nearly all baby boomers or basically most people born in or before the 1970s just do not understand what kind of crippling debt college can land someone in nowadays and try to sell college as an easy and necessary life step without knowing what they're talking about. I almost fell into that trap myself listening to my own mom's advice, but left college before I could amass too much debt and payed it off quickly before it could grow. And after I started living on my own I realized that my mom didn't understand fuckall about my personal wants or needs in my career path and I was a naive child for listening to her try to live her life over through me.

If you've got a solid plan you're confident with hammered out with backups in case shit doesn't work out, then consider going for it. But if you're thinking of taking loans and assistance and just diving right without fully understanding, hoping everything will work out for the best, just because this is what someone over 40 told you it's what you're "supposed to do," then sit back and think things over.

>despite my lack of motivation ive managed to get average to good grades all my life
>i failed accounting
ok
> i wanna quit to become a used car salesman
that's you, that's what you want

>>17350872
oh haha, im good at maths, economics, enlgish, spanish, politics... im not kidding, my grades are not an issue, and i already mentioned the problem is that my mom wants me to study something i dont like, i bet you dont even go to college...

Anyone?

You dunm goofed now.
You shouldn't have initiated so much contact in the first place. Instead of being there for you'r bro, you chase after his girl.
There is no advice, you might as well go with the flow and have some good times before shit hits the fan.

>>17350852
Oh yeah some more detail: she initiated the flirting

>>17350724
Is he also gay?

>>17350724

move on man. ur clearly obsessed. gotta end it.

>>17350734
He's not gay as far as I know. Whenever we used to talk a lot he would hint that there is nothing wrong with it and he would be offended when people made fun of people for it, so I suspect he is, though. He's also super cute and effeminate so I think he is.

>>17350711
>minimum age of 27

I've got some bad news for you chief, unless you luck into some girl that's never been in many relationships, there's a pretty good chance at that age that she's a single-milf whether you want her to be or not. Older women don't stay single because they're attractive, available, and without baggage.

>>17350769
>single-milf
is that a problem?

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>>17350769
How old are you anon?

That's a tiny fucking bubble bruh.

>>17350689
It'll be faster with a fucking hammer if you're too stupid to give us any details.

>>17350773
What do you want

>>17350794
Any information at all?

You know there's not just a magic box you can dump any phone into and it'll just be rooted because of pixies fucking a new OS into it, right?

Sounds like you tried too hard. Also, you shouldn't have to ask for a kiss. You should clearly notice if she wants to be kissed or not

>>17350647
I know I fucked up and tried really hard now I regret it... Is there any way to come back from this?

>>17350654
Take it slow and be conscious about her level of comfort if you make a move

Yeah that sounds pretty suspicious.

>>17350614
>Notification content is always hidden
>Long complex passwords
>Pin locks on the gallery etc etc
Sounds normal. It's what I do at least, with the exception of locks on images.

I do all that to. I do it because i have an online friend that's over the line. We sext sometimes

It definitely doesn't hurt. It's another way to connect with people professionally. Add it to your resume.

However I feel that LinkdIn is going downhill. I've always described it as "facebook for professionals" and unfortunately it's turning into stupid motivational image spam.

>>17350554

i dont think i know of anyone who has gotten a job through it. dont get me wrong im sure it exists, but its not a thing. im not on linkedin and get a job just fine.

the social entworking aspect isnt that a job expects you to have a linkdin, its that by networking with people in a professional way who are in your industry, other people can recommend jobs to you and give you an in.

>>17350554
It's not required, but it's good to have whenever opportunites arise you aren't aware of. Employers can easily search for potential hires based on the credentials on your profile.

Sorry to be impatient but I've been helping people left and right here today and I'd really appreciate if somebody could pay it forward.

>>17350524
Honestly I think the two of you need to spend time apart. Being around her and talking to her regularly is doing you no favors.

I think you just need to spend time apart. By being around her, you're just enforcing the feelings you've developed which as you've said, aren't likely to develop into anything.

It seems odd how you're fooling around together but she's pretty much brickwalling you when it comes to anything more serious. Any idea why she might be doing this?

Be honest. Tell her you aren't looking for something serious. She probably isn't either

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>>17350533
Is this a bot

>>17350574
Might be. Go on and post screenshots

Honestly I'm dead inside. Nothing I could try? Psychotherapist did nothing for me

>>17350475
You could try getting rid of all the drugs and stop pretending you are some kind of physician with all of this self-medicating. Hopefully you get to a point where you at least consider that, but I imagine you're here for tips and tricks with dosages.

Go be a drug addict in another forum.

I've tried that till a few months ago, like I said for years.