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I met this girl in 2014. We immediately clicked. She was amazing. Beautiful, smart and was so easy to talk to. We became best friends. We said I love you to each other a lot , even when she was dating other dudes. I found out a lot about her. She's cheated, but at least on retards who give her constant shit so I didn't really pay much attention to it.
Soon Summer 2015 happens. She breaks up with shitty boyfriend, I comfort her. We get intimate. We soon, like a week or 2 after last bf start sexting. Kinda date, more sexual than anything but we still act cute and lovey dovey.
Call her my love. She doesn't see it as official dating. She breaks it off and gives me every reason under the sun. Says we never dated. Still wants to sext afterwards I get sad, she tells me we didn't break up because we didn't date so I should just get over it. Leave her for a bit so I can get myself together
Find out shes dating one of my friends 2 weeks later
Vent to friends, they tell me I got screwed over.
I sorta agree , they shit talk.
Soon our entire friends circle knows. She loses people, Says I fucked her over.
I beg for her friendship back.
She finally agrees to let me back in.
Then Endless cycle of her manipulating me and making me feel like shit.
Being passive agressive and yelling at me constantly.
I take it because her life isn't easy and I loved her.
We go off and on for months, I try to get over her while shes dating and sexting other dudes.
Spend 6 months getting over her. She seems to care less and less while I'm still sad and wanting her so badly. Blame myself instead of her, Think I bother too much and want too much attention. Soon she gets tired of how needy I was. Leaves, says shes tired of me apologizing and fucking her over. Will continue in a bit.
Another month of moping. Then I find out just how many people she sexted whilst dating me,cheated on all my friends and left them all.
Realize I loved a whore. Realized I wasted almost 2 years of my life on someone who only wanted me for quick sex.
I get angry and call her out. Make sure everyone knows shes a thot. She always denied that. And when I'd ask about it she'd get angry and tell me to fuck off.
But I call her out and she denies it. Loses more friends. Loses almost everyone. Still tells people I'm only salty because She wouldn't date me which is a load of horse shit. People say I'm the piece of shit and sometimes I feel like I am. But she was a total piece of shit.
Who's in the wrong though?
You know, this isn't a story but, when my ex told me she was bi it fucked things up. It made things weird and made me doubt her so much. Ahe had a friend thst she'd hang out with and they'd always play around, but up until that point it didn't bother me.
If you're bi just be open about it.
Your fault for falling for her trucks, but her fault for being a conniving whore in the first place.
GF of 5 years mother has been diagnosed with cancer. Survival rate less than 3% Her mother is young. I am usually pretty good with emotional/moral support etc but feel really out of my depth here.
Anyone been through a similar situation have any advice for me? Want to do all I can to help, but pretty worried about saying the wrong thing..
This is a really shit situation, I feel sorry for you guys
If you've been together for 5 years, I don't think you'd be in risk of saying the wrong thing. Just tell her you're there for her, and for her to feel free to talk to you anytime. Otherwise, don't bring it up.
It'll be tough, but you'll grow stronger together. Good luck
>>17354357
just be able/available to listen to her, don't say anything to comfort/console her unless she explicitly asks for it. she might become distant, let her have space if she needs, and take any hurtful/rude comments to heart
>>17354368
Thanks. Seems to be along the lines of the advice Ive found online. Just tricky to know the times she needs space vs when I need to be there. She's quite emotional at the best of times, and when she's emotional she can be prone to poking for arguments to blow off steam. There'll be a bit of eggshell walking/punchbag simulation coming up I think. Obviously nothing compared to what she's going through with such an ill mother but just something I thought of when trying to gauge the situation in general.
I guess plenty of people have gone through similar situations, just never really expect it to happen to you/someone that close to you. I'm quite close to her family and am pretty scared about what it might mean for everyone.
lets start by saying im slightly overweight. like 190lbs 6'1. but im currently on a diet and its going slow and steady.
i noticed that some days, especially when its hot outside. i barely have enough energy to do some activities.
for example if i workout, eat, and do bunch of other stuff my energy is almost depleted and i must sleep/rest.
this is not the same issue in the winter, but similar.
Drink more water. Get one of those liter bottles at a convenience store, fill it up before you go to work and drink the whole thing before your shift ends.
>>17354355
You're probably not eating enough food and you're not getting enough water. Whats your BMR, what kind of exercise are you engaging in, whats your actual daily caloric intake, and what do your macros look like?
>>17354372
i suspect that's the issue. i usually sweat more than usual and its constantly moist here
>>17354398
i don't have all the stats to update you on this. but generally i exercise 10 mins a day and eat about 2.5k calories
23 year old virgin here, might be losing it soon to a girl who is crazy about me.
Any tips/advice?
Going to some drinks where she'll be there and I will be able to make my move.
I'll make sure no spaghetti escapes along with conventional protection of course.
>>17354350
>girl who is crazy about me
I wish I knew this feel
Don't drink too much. Whisky dick is real.
Sex isn't that hard. Just make sure you know where the clitoris is.
Eat her out. To orgasm, if you can, because it lowers her threshold for orgasming on your dick by a lot. If you can't bring her to orgasm with your tongue (sometimes mood / pressure of the first time with a new person gets to them), it will at least make her hornier and more likely to orgasm when you put it in her.
Watch some videos that explain how best to do it. Remember that rhythm is more important than pressure - if she starts breathing fast, it doesn't mean don't go faster or harder, it means that what you're doing is working. Gently play with her nipples or finger her too while you're at it, whatever she prefers.
If you do it right, you won't even need to last that long. A lot of guys don't like doing it and just go for a hard pounding. If you eat her out well and act as though you enjoy it, she will want to marry you, because that shit makes you a keeper.
Most of all, have fun. Your first time with a new person and your first time period is something that people put a lot of pressure on. That pressure can get in your head and make the experience less than what it should be.
>>17354350
If you death grip your dick when you jerk off stop that shit right now or you are never going to be able to cum and it'll be embarrassing as fuck.
So I am in a situation where me and my girl friend love each other (known each other for 12 years been together 4 years) and we are basically only on the planet for each other at this point. She wants to mess around with her friends, like intimately, like sexually, and I am uncomfortable with it. I know she is mine and isn't leaving me but seeing her holding another guy and them groping each other really just struck me the wrong way. She told me I was controlling (just for saying I wasn't happy with it) and I will not tell her she cannot do the things she wants, but I am left unhappy. Is there a better way to look at things? I feel like me getting over it is the only solution but I feel like I am doing it alone with no support from her, she just wants to do what she wants.
I don't know who has been spoonfeeding you bullshit, but you sure as hell need to stop eating.
>seeing her holding another guy and them groping each other really just struck me the wrong way
It should do way more than that
>She told me I was controllin
Don't control her
>I will not tell her she cannot do the things she wants
She can do whatever she wants
Wake up man. Your girl doesn't seem to give a fuck about you.
You can't control what she does, but you sure as hell can control what YOU do. And you absolutely should tell her that if she pulls any shit like that again, you're dumping her ass.
In fact, you should probably dump her anyway, it would be better for you. But you've been together for 4 years, so you might as well give her a chance
>>17354353
This anon is right. What is wrong with you? I would break up with her immediately if she was trying to fuck other guys. That should make you feel a little more than felling "wrong".
>>17354419
>>17354353
These anons are right! Your Blind dude. She must know you think your only on this planet for each other. Cuz thats the only way a bitch would pull some crazy talk like that out of the bag!
So me and some friends are starting up an animation studio and releasing videos on YouTube pretty soon. We'd like to do this as our careers in life, but I know it won't be too easy. Is there any advice on how to help our channel grow, get ourselves out there, and make this thing profitable? We know it will take time to get the ball rolling, but any advice on this topic would be much appreciated!
>>17354313
Search engine optimization and consistancy
>>17354313
first and foremost, dont refer to yourself as a 'studio'. you are two people doing animated shorts on youtube.
dont be afraid to be cheap wiht the framerate. while its great to have a lot of frames, it takes time. use as many frames as needed and feel free to go overboard for scenes that will be worth it, but you're two dudes. dont bother trying to make every shot motion, especially in a more dramatic series.
before oyu make anything official, LLCd or any of that nonsense, make a few FAN ANIMATIONS.
fan animation is a REALLY easy way to bring in viewers.
I created six new episodes of sailor moon using stock fotoage rotoscoping and some new animation, and we have over 1 million views. fresh animated could bring in a lot more
this guy got famous for just making a trailer of dragonball vs sialor moon. he had follow up videos.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GUsGLNOyjz4
but yeah, that was before sm and dbz had been revived.
try and build up a stock pile of videos to release before you start releasing. it can be very tempting to post as soon as you are done, but in hte beginning you'll hook more people if you have a few videos ready to go.
are you guys interestedi n comedy, drama, what? give examples of hte kind of wokr you want to do
Unless you're creating cartoons as quality as studio ghilbi, you're not going to do so well, unless you painstakingly create an amazing idea that doesn't -look- incredible (adventure time)
Unless you want to create a flash cartoon that looks like utter shit (aqua teen hunger force), it's going to be a ton of work.
3D animation is key in the industry right now, so I'd get started on learning that too. Even the Simpsons uses this each episode.
Good luck anon!!
>transfer to 4 year university
>they tell me I need to register for at least 2 classes at the uni
>all the classes I need are already full
>cant even register until next month
>already took all the classes I need at my local CC
so what am I supposed to do now
Talk to your counsellor. There are always drops in the first week. They can override the class size, especially if it's major relevant.
>>17354312
Register fo shit so you don't get dropped.
Wait until fees are due for enrolled students then vulture in on those classes.
>>17354312
Universitys are normally very accommodating of stuff like this. Get in touch with a staff member, or your course administrator, and they'll probably work something out for you.
Recently started acting classes. Finding it difficult to integrate into the group I'm in. Any tips?
Well aren't you meant to fake it? Thats kinda what acting is about. Put on a believable act until you hit your stride. It will be good practice, and will help you not alienate yourself.
>>17354316
Well yeah, I get what you're saying, but we have to develop stuff in down time. We have to make scenes with each other and something is really alienating me from the group when we do this.
>>17354303
You can stop method acting. You don't need to impersonate a faggot anymore. Although you did such a good job that people can't tell the difference between when you're acting and when you're not! Good job!
Hey adv,
The apple charging cable I got originally with my iphone 5c is about to break. I've had it for about 3 years, and now I'm wanting to buy another.
I've read that the apple replacement cables break frequently. Do you know any that wont break, and will preferably last for a year minimum?
Buy a new one
Wrap gaffa tape around the cord
Invincible cable
>>17354268
Have you tried not abusing your cables?
>>17354275
I'll keep this in mind. Thanks man.
>>17354276
That's what I was suspicious about too. Are all the people saying that their cables break, being rough with them? (pulling from the wire, instead of the tab, etc)
Is it still possible to live in LA as a waiter while you write scripts?
>>17354254
I dont live there.
But of any career/industry ever, its seems like Hollywood is the most 'who do you know' of any career.
>>17354254
Potentially. Do you have a trust fund or parents who'll give you a monthly allowance?
>>17354254
I'll piggyback on OP. Is it possible to live in ANY city as a waiter?
I desperately want to escape my parents, but it seems like it's impossible to live anywhere on min. wage these days unless you have roommates.
If you can't beat them, join them. I'm on a work camp, and almost everyone here smokes. At first I didn't participate, but now I'm have dreams about going on smoke breaks and enjoying cigarettes.
I just want to experiment really. Would 2-3 cigarettes a day over 11 days leave me addicted? I've just bought a pack of 25, and I plan to finish it.
>>17354221
Don't do it anon. I smoked for 10 years and eventually was a pack a day man. Looking back I consider how many hundreds of dollars I wasted on cigarettes as well as the damage to my health.
As far as addiction alot of it is stress based- if you're smoking due to stress or using it as a means to relax you will become more addicted than say smoking casually at a bar.
Either way it is addicting, so my advice would be never start. Go work out or find another means to burn your stress.
How about you resist peer pressure and not get cancer
>>17354228
That's like saying heroin's OK just as long as you're not doing it to relax
I get where you're coming from, but the addictiveness of cigarettes has nothing to do with WHY you're smoking. Anyone with a genetic predisposition for addiction can become addicted from one cigarette at a party.
So OP, yes, one pack can easily addict you if your body is predisposed to addictive tendencies. Which means if it is, after that one pack is gonna be fucking miserable for you for awhile.
Unless you buy more smokes :^)
Hey, I'm a police officer full time and only have a limited amount of extra time but at the same time I'm looking on to take on an extra income venture (meaning I can't do both). So from a business perspective, out of the two options, what is the better investment in terms of time, money and return.
Option A) Working as a logistic and training manager for a small HVAC (Heating & AC) Company. A friend of mine who is a team leader there, offered me the job to work under him. My duties are primarily booking hotels, booking rental cars, recruiting and training new personnel, inventory etc. Pretty much all the logistics needed for field operations. The agents at the company do door to door sales for new furnaces and AC across the region. The company also offers government rebates and clean energy. My paycheck within this position will depend on the commission of the agents under us. If the agents don't sell very well, then not a lot of commission is made which affects my monthly paycheck. But if sales are consistent and good, then my paycheck will be great. In addition, the more people we recruit under the company and that actually sell, the more possible commission management makes. Lastly, another thing I am hesitant about taking this job is that my friend is immature for our age group (25) but has good business skills. Estimation of paycheck every month would be 1k minimum starting.
Option B) Start up local food delivery app. There is a demand in my area for delivered goods. Obviously an app would have to be created and drivers would have to be hired. I crunched some rough numbers and lets say we did 2 deliveries per hour for 12 hours of the day, we approximately made $255 in profit for 12 hours of the day. Yes, I would have to put money into this app but the return doesn't sound bad either.
Both options aren't a 100% guaranteed for a super great return but which option would be the better investment? Any business advice?
>>17354208
Fuck cops fuck cops
>>17354227
Grow up, don't get mad because a cop took your DUDE WEED LMAO
Option A, for sure. Attempting to start a successful business in your spare time while working full time at a day job would be a nightmare.
GF forgot birthday. Should I tell her and risk making her feel guilty or not say anything?
Joke about it. Say something like, "Well you know today's my birthday." She'll probably be a little upset she forgot but will try to make it up to your tomorrow and the rest of today. Good luck
>>17354211
This.
Just remember, birthday's aren't really a big deal. At least you have a girlfriend to forget yours.
>>17354189
She'll feel even guiltier if she doesn't realize until way later that you guys never celebrated your birthday this year. Like a piece of shit for not acknowledging you the whole day. Tell her and let her make it up to you, she'll feel bad but desu that is pretty shitty, forgetting your bf or gf's birthday (unless it's very out of character).
/adv/
I just turned 24 and I'm still a virgin.
I never had a bf, never kissed a guy, never seen a penis.
Next year I will reach Christmas cake status.
Why is it so hard for me to get a bf? I'm not fat or deformed.
I feel like I will die a virgin.
Probably confidence. You'll get laid super quickly if you flirt with the guy first hand and make it obvious that you're interested. Don't say it outright though, traditionally he will make the first move.
>>17354186
>I'm not fat or deformed.
lol ok
>>17354186
Judging by your picture and the use of the term Christmas Cake, I take it you're a weeaboo.
What was your high school life like? What about post high school?
What are phrases you have said that immediatly made a girl know you wanted to have sex with them that they responded positively to i.e. you had sex?
No such thing OP. Work on your social skills.
>>17354176
If she already wants to have sex, you can say almost anything and get her in bed. If you're not to that point yet, there's no magic words to make a girl lustful for cock.
Stop boiling down typically complex social interactions to "what button do I press to win?"
>>17354183
>>17354184
Maybe I should re-phrase. How do you bring up the fact that you arent on a date with a girl because you want to be in a committed relationship, but just want to full around? I'm a literal person and I dont want to put my foot in my mouth by saying that sentence exactly, unless that is what you say. I'm not asking for a one liner that makes girls jump your bones, just what is the common courtesy? I already mentioned I'm going into the military soon so hopefully she knew I meant I cant be in a serious relationship, but I just wanted to make it clear.