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>>17352339
>This girl I'm orbiting used to grace me with attention when her boyfriend wasn't paying attention to her, but now she's no longer including me in her attention whoring. How do I become her orbiter again?

She was keeping you as an option until she fixed her relationship or something better came along. If that's your fetish then ask her if she can again pretend to like you but not really.

Wow blunt but I guess it's true hah. Just need another perspective sometimes it seems.

your gf is a cuck lmao

>>17352304
If you're seeing other people, it's a break up not a break. Breaks do not exist. You're either with someone or you're not.

>>17352304
1 and 3 you don't

2 try to do that because your relationship is obviously over once your "gf" is done getting spitroasted.

Alright so here's the deal anon: nobody else in your freshman class has any friends either. They want to meet people too. AND, everyone likes it if someone else does the work for them. SO here's your mission from me: if there's a freshman weekend or whatever, whatever you do, WHATEVER IT IS, you ALWAYS invite people to come with you. Second part of your mission is to try to explore as much of campus as possible. So: "Hey, I was going to go check out the library, want to come?" "Hey, do you want to go try to find the gym?" "Who wants to get something at the cafe?" "Did you see this building on the campus map way out in this corner? I don't know what the hell it is but let's go try to get in there!" You say this stuff to anybody. Doesn't matter if you've even been talking to them. They're shy and alone too. It's super flattering to get invited to things. Grab them, get them to join your party.

Trust me. Just make that effort and people will be really glad you did, because that means they don't have to. Then when you're going wherever you ask questions and talk to people. Soon you've got friends.

aids, hara-kiri, singularity

>>17352287
Be not awkward but relaxed and just kind of....even tempered.

You're thirsty. Drink some water. Pro-ana has spoken

>>17352275
a-anon sama , y-your p-p-pregnant!

>>17352275
>any logical reasons
>for no reason

What exactly do you expect us to tell you.

>>17352272
Its you.

>>17352274
What makes one unworthy of manipulation?

>>17352272
You seem to be the common denominator here

>>17352254
maybe. i started dating a punk guy and i'm pretty normal looking/have a slightly alternative fashion sense. the more time i spend with him the more our styles match up though, he's been wearing less ripped up shit and i've been wearing more plaid. if your personalities match you should be good to go, unless she's really shallow.

>>17352268

How did you guys meet?

I feel like this girl is 25% less grumpy and surly with me than with other people but that might be my imagination. She's just my type personality-wise but who knows if that's true the other way round. I guess I feel like "beauty and the beast" is a thing but not the other way around?

>>17352254
dont do it. those girls are trouble anon. you have been warned.
source: experience

You tell her that's karma for being a bitch, don't be a cuck.

>>17352246
>I am feeling extraordinarily conflicted and I need advice.
You should be dancing because the whore got what was coming to her.

>>17352246
>I am feeling extraordinarily conflicted and I need advice.
If he hit her, then she needs to talk to the Police and go to close family/friends. It's not your business anymore, which leads me to believe that she's trying to weasel her way back into your life. Or maybe she's just trying to see if you're still wrapped around her finger.

>>17352233
If you're actually all of these things then it shouldn't be much of an issue for you. You should know how to get into a girl's pants. The only issue I see here is a matter of having a social circle and putting yourself out there.

Go to a place where a decent number of slutty girls are. Parties, clubs, tinder, etc. The rest should come naturally.

>>17352248
That's the thing

I took a year off from uni due to medical problems and so now I am back and my social circle is super small (also cause it's summer courses rn)

And I have bad social anxiety.
Getting started is my issue. Once I get going though I'm pretty damn good, but I also ain't good on when and how to move in

>>17352270
Just start talking to them. Getting girls is easy as fuck if you make the first move. I usually just start conversations with girls that check me out first, and things just start from there.

Once fall semester hits you should be good when it comes to having friends. Just find one or two to hit parties with (preferably one that is less attractive than you) and try your luck.

Being fit/tall/well-dressed helps, but all you really need is to be confident. In uni you can get away with being really cocky and arrogant.

You go and thank god or who ever the fuck you believe in for the way things turned out, senpai.

Your current situation just showed you what kind of people you are dealing with and be thankful for them to openly show you who they really are. I mean, would you still want to be friends with such a traitor fuck or that bitch, after all? Go out, forget about them and literally just live your life. And look back in a few weeks/months how both of them kill eachother with their own toxic behavior. Rule of thumb always was that one who does this to a person, will repeat it as many times as possible because it's just their nature. It's like you expected a snake not to bite you, because you fed it rats. Now both snakes gonna bite eachother.

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>>17352259
So just leave it yeah?
I called him to see what was going on, left a message no response. Two days ago.
So now its just about actually liking myself I suppose?

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>>17352278
Exactly, Prince of all Saiyans.
Do it like Vegeta and show some pride, either go fuck him up or just don't mind it. Tbh, if I were you I would have beat the living shit out of him, which I have already done in kind of the same situation. But I suppose you're not that kind of person and just leave it be. Work on yourself, love yourself, lift a bit and good shall come your way.

>>17352217
It's possible that he lied to both of you, if he's scamming on your squirrel. Women are more interested in taken men, generally. If you jump to the conclusion that she lied, and turn this into an issue, then you're playing into his hands. I'd still bring this up in such a way that you're not letting on that you know he's been single. Start asking her questions about the girlfriend, and the guy in general, just to seem like you want to get to know more about him (as a friendly gesture).

>>17352217
>why the hell would she lie about that
Maybe because you're a jealous motherfucker and she knew you'd be dying inside if you knew she had a single male friend?

>>17352227
As clearly stated in my post, i understand she is gonna have guy friends, being a guy myself i know most of their intentions, i can handle that though, what bugged me was she lied m8, makes me think she is cheating

>>17352185
your only gay if you are worried about it being gay

>>17352185
No.
If you're an adult, telling someone you trust and love that you love is not gay.
Every man should trust another implicitly.

See how Sam loves Frodo.
A man and his good friend should be both Sam and Frodo.
They both carry each other when they need it.

>>17352185
do you want to have sexual relations with this person? does this person arouse you in a sexual manner? is this person the same gender as you? if so, then congratulations! you are homosex!

You did good op

>>17352177
Would've been shit anyways

You're a bitch. The truth comes out when one drinks and this bitch wanted you to fuck her. Instead you had to pull this white knight fagshit. Fucking neck beard sub beta piss poor excuse for a dude.

If you don't like it, move out. You're 22 years old, more than capable of looking after yourself
>inb4 a million excuses why you can't move out

Sounds like a mom

consider yourself lucky, I accidentally left my porn collection open when I went to show (full of lots of hardcore, rape, etc) and my mom saw it. She freaked the hell out and kicked me out of the house and has refused to even speak to me since then, that was over a month ago now.

"Hey, wanna fuck? I'm serious."

If you've got a pair of testicles between your legs, you have no reason to prance around the issue.

From your cousin?...hmm.

>>17352115
It's not like we're alone in the house, there are other people.

Easily. But since you describe a ghetto as a place where you have to have roommates and pay $600, I'm assuming that you're white-bread white and have absolutely no idea what you're talking about.

In Chicago $600 will get you an apartment with a roommate in a pretty decent neighborhood. Hell my friend paid $400 in rent in Lincoln Park because she had 2 roommates and took the smallest room.

>>17352220
How does looking for roommates make me sound white

>>17352229
>>17352229
It's not roommates, it's that you think ghettos are that expensive that makes you sound white. $400 a month with roommates is not ghetto prices. Ghetto prices is like $20 with roommates in the midwest. In St. Louis, I pay less than $400 a month with one roommate in one of the nice, safe areas.