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Hey /adv/ so i've got some logic conflicts n my head.
im a 21 year old male so i have the urge to masturbate on a daily basis.
I know there's a ton of benefits to not fapping, but I know one of the effects of nofap is you're more likely to get a girl and fuck her. However I'd prefer to save myself for someone I care about. I've had hookups and meaningless sex before in the past and have come to regret it.
As well, when I don't fap I don't have much of a clear head. I love having a more logical brain after I fap, but I don't want to wear my dick out and bring on all the harmful effects that can be brought down by masturbating.
That being said I'm trying to not fap at all but I just kinda get carried away, still fapping once or sometimes twice a day. What do? Also what are some of the facts about masturbation habits and what is the most healthy rate of fap?
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I don't think it's a problem until you start preferring to fap over anything else.
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Am I on the right track? 2017-08-21 06:11:03 Post No.18642932
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It's been about 2 months since my ex cheated on me followed by slandering about me on social media.
I've cut contact, lost over 10 lbs, gained muscle mass, got back in touch with friends and even started talking to a nice girl.
I thought I forgot about the ex but just today I randomly thought about the times I should have seen the obvious red flag that she was fucking someone else behind my back at the time. I was angered to the core and felt humiliated.
Is there anything else I can do to forget?
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>>18642932
Nah, you're doing good
What's your gym routine?
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>>18642935
Everyday it's a mile jog. Got it down to 9m 30s
Day 1 and 2 are arms and legs
Day 3 is chest and shoulders
I just make sure to do mostly compound workouts
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>>18642941
Looking good
Especially since you recognize the primacy of compounds
Where are your dead lifts though?
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Toxic in relationships 2017-08-21 05:52:47 Post No.18642915
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Today I ended my second serious relationship in 2 years for the same reason the last one happened; the girl did (or didn't do) stuff that really annoyed me, I'd always calmly try to discuss the issue and inevitably it always leads to lots of fighting, arguing and demands that cause us to split up.
In the case of the most recent girl, she went to the USA for 4 months for university. We barely spoke during this time aside from occasional 'I love yous' until she came back.
The first day she returned she visits me, then says she has to leave in an hour to have dinner with her girl friend. This really pissed me off and we fought about it for 4 days. Today she had enough of it and ended it with me.
When I ask my friends and family it's all the same shit;
>You were in the right
>She was probably cheating
>She treated you like shit
But none of this stuff helps me or makes me feel better. I genuinely don't know if the shit I get mad at is reasonable or if I need to learn to shut up. Just other examples of stuff we fought about:
>We had to reschedule my birthday party and she said she wouldn't go that day because she arranged to meet friends
>She took a new part-time job and said we could only meet once a week without telling me beforehand; I had to argue with her to make it 2 times
>She was originally going to the USA for 2 months then suddenly changed it to 4 without telling me
>She wouldn't tell her family she had a boyfriend because it's her 'personal business'
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So to elaborate on my questions;
Am I just being a little bitch or is it rational to complain about this stuff?
Is it stupid to try and get back with this girl? She was genuinely really sweet and innocent to me and I really feel like I fucked up.
If so, how can I do that? She just keeps saying she's scared of me every time I ask to meet and doesn't reply when I text her.
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its not supposed to make you feel better, dipshit, just less bad than you would have.
you made a good faith attempt at communication and closeness and were basically dismissed in bad faith. its normal to feel hurt after that, even the most shallow of relationships, let alone a semi-serious one.
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>>18642915
My ex would do the same type of shit.
Would always go hiking or kayaking with her friend but literally never with me. Would always be some kind of excuse.
I brought it up and I get called controlling.
That's literlly how women are. If you have a problem they turn it around and you end up having to apologize.
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My 20 yo girlfriend was kicked out by her parents recently and has nowhere to go. She can't stay with me because I live with my own parents. I've told her I'll get an apartment soon and she can stay there, look for a job, get her life together, but the truth is I can't deal with her anymore. She's manipulative, impulsive, and extremely emotionally abusive. She was cussing me out today before begging me to save her from her parents.
How do I dump her while simultaneously helping her, or at least not leaving her to fend for herself as a homeless person?
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>>18642903
Good on you for recognizing the signs of a bad person and wanting to get out of the relationship instead of sticking with something that would drain your soul!
careful if you pay for a hotel room. one of my friends did that and the girl called the front desk and charged an extra week to the room.
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>>18642903
why did her parents kick her out?
shit, if someone did that to me theyd be gone the first day. youre being too nice.
will just a quick split second glance at the eclipse still fuck up my eyes? like a quarter of a second?
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>>18642890
No dummy
There is no special "eclipse radiation"
It's just like looking at the sun, but proportionally less so
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>>18642902
Why do they make it out to be such a big deal then? Everyone acts like it's more dangerous to look at the eclipse than the full sun.
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>>18642908
Because you have a reason to
The sun will fuck up your eyes every day of the week
Except you don't have any reason to
The eclipse gives you a reason to look at the sun. So you will try. Just treat it like the full sun and don't stare at it.
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My best friend is head over heels for a guy she’s started talking to recently.
I introduced them to each other and ever since then she hasn’t shut up about him. They’ve only gone out once and it wasn’t even an official date but she’s crazy about him.
It’s been two weeks since her infatuation began and there hasn’t been a single day that i havent gotten a text about it and it’s just non stop.
She endlessly sends me screenshots of their snapchat and texts.
At first it was cute and nice but now I’m so over it it’s making me bitter and resentful. I want to tell her to lay off the texts and updates but she's just so happy and excited i don't want to crush her mood and make her feel rejected. she's sensitive and im her best friend so i feel bad about being bitter but i just want it to stop. i feel even worse because this is the first time ive ever seen her genuinely fall for someone in the 9 years ive known her and im the one who introduced them. ( i never thought theyd like each other though.)
tl;dr: how do i get my friend to stop gushing to me about a boy without hurting her feelings?
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Oh nvm, i figured it out
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>>18642875
Not op
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>>18642885
Not real OP
I can't find the strength to let my relationship end with my girlfriend. Im 19, and this is my first. It's been rather great, but also hell at the same time. She's almost broken up with me at least three times. I understand the error of my ways, but the person I was before her, feels like he was twisted and contorted by the stupid shit she does. That the reason I act out in spite and I resent her, is because of the bullshit she's done. I can give details on our arguments, to clear things up. I know I'm not perfect, and I can admit to my mistakes. I just love her so much, and it just hurts when she tries to leave. She always comes back, and it seems she's playing a game with mind. I don't know how much more I can take, but I don't want her to leave. I can't see myself moving on.
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>>18642867
If you want to save your relationship, then get your ads off of 4chan and go to a relationship councler.
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>>18642893
Ass*
My girlfriend of 2 years just had a schizophrenic "episode" or whatever you want to call it. We were just sitting and talking and all of a sudden she started mumbling that she was dizzy and felt like she was going to pass out. I picked her up, brought her to our bed, and laid her down thinking she just needed to rest for a bit.
Then, out of nowhere, she starts talking about "him". Saying shit like: "he's gonna kill me" "he's at the end of the bed" "he wants me to kill myself" "please anon help me".
This, naturally, freaked the fuck out of me and i just kept talking to her and tried calming her down. Saying that everything is fine and I'm the only one there.
After about 5 or 10 minutes of this, she calms down and starts to cry fucking heavily. She said that this happened when she was little and was sent away for a while. She never told me because she thought it would scare me away. I told her I understood and just kept trying to calm her down.
It fucking scared the shit out of me and I want to know how or if I can prevent this shit from happening.
She's such a wonderful girl and makes me so happy and i wanna help her as much as possible. Any advice or whatever would be great.
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Psychologist
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Don't put her on the anti psychotics or injections, they cause permanent neurological damage. There really isn't much you can do, this is her war to fight.
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Am I the only one turned on by this?
I get of on a savior complex, nothing gets me as hard as someone 100% relying on me, having complete trust and confidence in me. Only one thing gets me harder actually, and that is delivering in that expectation of me.
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Only dumbasses sleep on this couch 2017-08-21 05:14:33 Post No.18642840
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Only dumbasses sleep on this couch
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hi /adv/
My girlfriend moved in with me about a year ago now, and things have been going okay aside from one thing. I like to sleep on the couch for some reason, so she is often sleeping alone in the bedroom behind the living room (small apartment). Am I a dick, and should I just starting sleeping in the bed, or is there nothing wrong with me sleeping on the couch?
>why
I don't know I just prefer sleeping on couches
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Try to figure out why you prefer it. Are couches softer than your bed? Maybe you need a different mattress
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>>18642840
Has she said anything about it, or hinted that it upset her?
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>>18642840
It probably isn't a problem as long as your relationship is otherwise fine. Some couples do sleep apart and it's fine a along as you're both fine with it. However, sleeping in the same bed does provide a platform for more intimate conversation and physical intimacy. By sleeping on the couch you've removed this from your relationship, so you need to make up for it in order to maintain emotional and physical closeness in the relationship. But your gf is really the one you should be asking about this, not a bunch of online strangers.
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what theme should my new case be? I thought Titanfall maybe?
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Wrong board Anon, >>>/g/pcbg
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Gf is desperate to get out of her house, but she expects me to leave my parent's house (I'm still 20, she's 21) and join her at her new house.
That new house doesn't even exists yet, but nothing I say convinces her more that taking decitions so abruptly, just because she finally found some happiness, is going to lead her into a downward spiral of regrets. At least, that's how I feel about.
Am I supposed to just drop my irregular passions (pokemon, music, internet culture) to go with her? Am I supposed to leave my mother, whose struggling to hang in there with my dad being an asshole to her everyday?
How am I supposed to deal with this /adv/? I want to just drop out from everything, and become a neet for a while, but gf wouldn't forgive me if I did.... is this what love is? giving everything up just to keep somebody else happy?
What should I do /adv/? I'm on the edge here, I won't kill myself, but I don't know what to do anymore.
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>giving everything up just to keep somebody else happy
You already do that, it sounds like, with this:
>Am I supposed to leave my mother, whose struggling to hang in there with my dad being an asshole to her everyday?
Why would leaving your house make you drop your 'irregular passions'? Does your GF not want you to do those things, or something?
How long have you two been in a relationship?
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>>18642809
I know it would. Going from not having a Jon and doing fine, to having to play Rent, being with my gf, who couldn't Care less for experimental music. I take music as a Personal thing, and I can barely do it anymore, because I has a Jon for the past 3 months. I'm barely enjoying things like I used to, and I feel that, if I can have time for myself periodically, I'm going to loose it.
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>>18642818
Fuck, all Jon's are job's. We've been together for 10 months. She also had problems, but most of those problems are mostly gone, yet, she still feels out of place everywhere.
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So I've only slept with 2 girls, and the 2nd girl is currently a fuck buddy. I fucked her raw yesterday and came inside her, and she has an arm implant so I trust she's legit, but everyone I know is telling me I'm a retard for cumming inside her raw, but it felt so good guys. Like it was so satisfying to cum deep inside her.
I don't know if I can go back. At least with her. It feels so much better raw and I know she's on bc, but everyone is telling me not to risk it. Thoughts?
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>>18642791
Just scoop it out afterwards with a spoon or fork or something.
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>>18642791
serious answer: find a better condom. I use skyn brand condoms, the large ones in particular (I do need them bigger). And hot damn do they feel so close to raw, a very willing trade.
Find the right condom and lube combo and you'll never think about going bareback again. A little trade off for that piece of mind is so with it.
trying different condoms with a partner can be hot too.
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>>18642859
I got the large skyn condoms too. I can't buy other condoms because I've got a thick dick and it physically hurts, so that doesn't help.
>>18642842
Noted
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How do I seduce a male counselor person from a text crisis line?
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nvm I figured it out
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>>18642817
No I'm op and didn't say that. Advice please I'm lonely.
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more details are required
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Some mexinigger just plugged in his phone to my laptop and walked away. What can I do to fuck up his phone? (i.e. brick it or put it into a boot loop)
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Unplug it and just leave it there. That'll fuck with him.
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>>18642748
I don't think you can open it unless it's unlocked, but you can see if you can access the internal storage. I'm not a big tech-nerd, but if you can access his internal storage, you can definitely fuck it up by intentionally planting a virus or other unscrupulous things on it.
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Take a dick pick and send it to everyone in his contacts
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Motivation to get bf back- Creepy or not? 2017-08-21 04:30:22 Post No.18642739
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Motivation to get bf back- Creepy or not?
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It is creepy that I want to (without him knowing) improve my life for the sole purpose of attempting winning back my ex-boyfriend? My logic being that even if I failed, I'd be ready for a new boyfriend?
Awhile back I had a fallout with my boyfriend due to my mistakes w/ alcoholism. He said I wasn't the man he once loved. We're still friends though. Still, my feelings haven't changed. I wish to have him back and feel that I have a chance if I got my shit together.
Now by chance I don't mean I'd ask him out. I'd just naturally see if he'd come forward and ask me again. But part of it feels creepy that I'd used my desire to get back with him...kinda like "Is it creepy to hyperfocus on him as a goal? Or is it a worthy motivation?
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nvm i figured it out
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>>18642759
Hello imposter OP, this is OP.
I still need help. :(
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>>18642759
Just curious as to what you worked out.
My own answer would be that it isn't creepy at all. It might be misjudged to do it because you could be setting unattainable goals if he doesn't budge but better yourself for any reason that gets you to do it is a good reason I'd say. I'm currently trying to be better in order to be a more independent person for my future potential gf. But I work out and try to be more interesting with the memory of my ex always there in order to keep me motivated because I still don't really know what part of me she didn't like.