How does /adv/ make masturbation feel better?
Besides using toys and different lubes and what not, what do you do to make your orgasm amazing?
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>>18642737
Main hand (right in my case) lube ring, middle and index finger, stick up butt and massage prostate. Left hand, lubed up as well, grabs dick "upside down" (thumb down and facing away).
During vigorous prostate massage use thumb to stimulate frenulum. When close start yanking hard on glans squeezing hard and thrust three fingers in and out hard and fast.
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>>18642737
Edge. Simply put, just keep building up until you're close to orgasm, and then stop. It starts to feel amazing after awhile.
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>>18642737
You're male, eh?
Rub the crown of your cock with a bit of lube
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Need a schedule for tomorrow 2017-08-21 04:25:06 Post No.18642724
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Need a schedule for tomorrow
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Can someone schedule tomorrow for me? I'm a complete mess and don't do anything productive and I want to change that but I've never actually created or followed a real schedule so I want to see how one looks like and follow it.
Things I wanna do
>Shower
>Clean room
>Take a walk
>Meditate
>Play DOOM
>Browse 4chan
>Critique a poem
>Eat 3 meals
>Read
>Sleep
Probably going to wake up at ~10 AM.
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>>18642724
Just put the longer term stuff first and then handle the short term stuff after.
That's what I do. Cleaning first usually means the area stays clean. Then I would shower and then maybe take a walk and then eat. Meditate, critique the poem, play doom, read and then browse 4chan before sleeping.
No reason to block it out until you know how much time it takes you.
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>>18642750
>shower and then maybe take a walk
You['re a madman but I still love and appreciate ya, thanks.
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>>18642724
Looks like you already got your schedule laid out anon. It'll get easier everyday and soon you'll be a master at shaping it to your preferences.
If you have an iPhone, the calendar app is pretty damn handy. You can even put alerts on that will pop up to remind you which I use all the time.
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So im having sex with my first gf(im 19 shes 18) this week. We are both virgins and she's on birth control, do i still need to use a condom? If so, why?
I didn't pay attention in health class.
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>>18642710
Don't bother unless you really are sure you don't want a pregnancy.
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Just pull out like humanity has been doing since time immemorial
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>>18642710
I would still use a condom, to be on the safe side. First of all, you cannot be 100% sure that this girl is a virgin. I'm not saying she would lie to you, and odds are, she's being honest. But I've met plenty of girls who have claimed they were virgins, only to find out that it probably isn't the case.
Not to mention, birth control is not fool-proof. While it's by far the most effective form of contraceptive, there is still a small chance she could get pregnant, especially if she isn't taking the pill regularly, etc.
In general, I'd say if it's the first time and all, use a condom. I haven't had sex a bunch, but it was easier not to have to worry about anything during my first time.
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Sleeping related issue 2017-08-21 04:15:40 Post No.18642696
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What is that feeling of dread and fear I get just before getting up into bed. I've always had it, but it comes and goes. Just as I get to my bed, I start having this sinking terror that feels as if in endangered by something physical. The feeling of running, that I'm not safe. It climaxes as I start to get into bed itself. And it subsides as soon as I'm actually in bed, as if it's a safe place.
It makes getting into bed awkward around others. As it usually causes a panicked sort of hurry, and when it's really bad. I end up literally jumping into bed to get to "safety".
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nvm i figured it out guys
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>Be me
>Senior
>School starts next week
>Made a promise to get over crush I had since 10th grade
>This Summer worst than other miss her a lot
What do /adv/? Ok hear me out. My friends told her Ive liked her, but shes never give them a actual answer she just ignores it. Obviously is her nice way of saying no. I still like this girl. a lot. its my final year of hs and i cant get over her. Ive told her
shes beautiful n stuff. she just says
>"I dont know what to say to that but thanks"
but yet had a bf who im sure said all that shit. I cant get over here. I know she dont like me and never will but i cant get that through my mind. I still stay with that girl. What the fuck do i do /adv/.
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>>18642692
She isn't into you. Wait until after you graduated and see what is up. If you both end up staying in your hometown for whatever reason then maybe there is a shot. If you both end up leaving then maybe keep tabs and see where she is in a few years. Otherwise, I would just put it to the back of my head and do whatever you are planning to do with your last year. I know I spent a ton of time failing but I ended up not completely screwing things up.
JK I made a series of bad choices but I am very happy today so it worked out.
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>>18642692
I was in your exact same situation, only it was during my senior year, and I had a mad crush on this girl who obviously didn't share those feelings. I can tell you from personal experience, that if you let these feelings stay, you will continue to be hurt, and it will only get worse. It got so bad for me that I was cutting myself and contemplating suicide, while I had previosly criticized people who cut themselves pretty much my entire life.
You need to start talking to other girls. That's the best advice I can give you. Look on Facebook, Twitter, etc. Find a girl you think is cute, and message her. Even if you just talk to a girl as a friend, it helps. I just got over my girl problems a month ago, and that is the only thing that helped me. Talk to people, because then she isn't the only girl on your mind. Eventually, your feelings will lessen. Good luck with everything, anon. I feel for you.
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>>18642692
you're too obsessed. focus on something else that'll easy your mind. like the rest anons, i became obsessed with one coworker. never said anything too rash or immature but ate me up inside knowing that she'd never want me. it all came down to me telling her my feelings before she quit.
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Hey guys how do I tell my parents that I don't want a girlfriend I'm 20 and was never interested in having a partner.
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>>18642690
Just say, "I'm not gay, I just really don't want a girlfriend right now."
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So, I'm making the biggest decision of my life in two days : Do I move to America to study with my gf who already chose that path, or leave her to stay here in England.
Background, I'm not well liked here, due to past events,had a few friends but cut everyone off except her to get better grades, so have no people I'd miss. I am a big fan of Donald Trump, and believe he is a great leader. I fully reject the ideas of the left, as I see them as hilariously awful. I'm not alt-right, definitely more r/The_Donald than /pol/ but my ideals and beliefs have got me in trouble here before.
The problem is that if I leave I will be completely broke as all my money would go to the necessities, so should I just hide what I believe in, and stay here to save money or is getting a fresh start with people who share my ideas and staying with her worth living on the bare minimum?
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>>18642673
By the sound of it you are already poor, you'll just be a tad more poor, but in a country with less taxation and bureaucratic bullshit when it comes to making money so you should be able to earn it back.
Moving simply because of Donald is retarded though, for all you know Trump will not get reflected and there will be a reactively elected democrat as next president who'll make Trudeau look like Hitler.
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>>18642673
Move. If you have an opportunity and a way to make it happen then you should take the chance. You only live once and going to the United States is definitely going to be a change of pace from England but unlike your motherland, the United States has more regional job variety and a gigantic market for labor which gives you more to look at.
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Hey, left-leaning americunt here
If you do decide to come to America, it's best to hide your political views for a few years and just act like you don't have any. You're going to be seen as the foreigner who doesn't know what they're talking about and is wrong, no matter what your political beliefs. Secondly, make sure you establish a career of some sort before leaving your country. If you're gonna come just to be a homeless Britfag with no way home is stupid, to put it nicely.
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Hello, First time in this thread.
Long story short I need to early terminate a lease of a rental that I started in Chicago due to a new job.
Story: I got this job in Chicago on March this year, moved there on June, started a rent, furnished the place and everything. now my company wants me to move to Dallas, but they arent willing to pay for the buyout fees, I been looking to sublease it but I cant find a new tenant, I started a new rent in Dallas, and I could barely pay September but nothing after that anymore cause Im paying for another rent in Dallas.
I tried asking the Landlord for any other options, and they arent willing to do anything, I said Im willing to leave the studio furnished so it can be rented for a higher price or pay September so they can look for a new tenant, I been trying to do this 2 months ago, with no answer or anything from the Landlord. finally I find a possible tenant he applies and everything but gets rejected, I went to the HQ asked if I can do anything else and they say no, pay buyout or find someone else.
What can I do?
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>>18642660
If the Dallas job pays more, write off the Chicao expense as an investment in the future.
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There's a boy I've been talking to for a few months. I recently told him that his advances on me (he would tell me how badly he wanted to fuck me and ignores me when I said I was gay) made me very uncomfortable.
He replied with "ok" and has barely talked to me since. I try making conversation but his replies are very uninterested and he told me that he was busy. When I asked him "busy with what" he's ignored me. I know he's online because I follow him on twitter and he tweets a lot.
What should I do? I'm feeling kind of stupid..
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>>18642656
He wanted pussy, you didn't give him any, so he peaced out. How is this hard to understand?
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>>18642664
Yeah, you're right. It was just at first he was really nice to me but I guess he just wanted to use me.
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>>18642656
Unfortunately, he isn't into you. He wanted to get into your pants, and nothing more. If he acted interested in your life, it was because he wanted sex. Unfortunately, men do this (as do women); the best thing you can do is find someone else to fill his place. Don't feel stupid. He was simply trying to use you. Don't dwell on it. Just move on. Best of luck, anon.
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Hi guys, I feel like this is right place to ask about my situation.
Anyway I'll make it short, I recently moved and found a gf, we've been together around a year now, in the tine we dated, I was 18 now 19, same for her.
When we first met she was still in school and I was working due to different state education systems, so within this time I have now hadmultiple jobs and onlooking into another currently, however she doesn't one bit seem to be interested in doing anything for herself.
All she does is fucking sit around all day, on her phone looking at instagram, sleeping and eating, and I'm the one to provide the money all the time.
Is this just whats wrong with my generation? Or it's just my girlfriend, it's so fucking depressing, she has no ambition or goals and the question is, how long is this going to continue?
tl;dr
Why is my girlfriend a so unambitious and thinks that she can leech off me forever? She's got a year gap on her resume ever since she left school and I don't see her applying for any jobs soon.
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To clarify, we have a great relationship, but I just want her to pursue something otherwise I feel like she will stop me from success.
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My nose has been broken 3 times. I now have difficulty breathing through one nostril, and there is a bump on my nose.
I live in Canada, so the operation to fix my breathing will be covered by insurance, but would it be effeminate if I had the bump removed? I don't want to do anything crazy with it, I just want to have the nose I would have had had it not been broken several times.
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>>18642642
Do what you want.
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Need help finding a radio station. It was 104.1 FM in the San jose/ Santa clara area. I listened to the songs for an hour while driving but couldn't get the song names or the station name. Is it possible to get it now? I tried googling but got confused. Too many stations in CA with 104.1 Freq
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>>18642616
Literally 30 seconds on Google led to
Radio Online KVCH 104.1 FM San Jose Live Streaming from USA
www.streamingthe.net › … › CA › San Jose › Alternative
KVCH 104.1 FM San Jose Listen Live Online, USA.
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Why is everyone so fake, and why can't I do it like they do?
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Because you've been cursed/blessed with more self-awareness and conscientiousness than they have. It's not a happy life by nature, but being more aware of the reality of social interactions will help you guide your own into something more advantageous (so long as you don't sperg out and go full retard).
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A daily reminder that ghosting is the worse way to break up with someone 2017-08-21 03:33:55 Post No.18642573
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A daily reminder that ghosting is the worse way to break up with someone
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This is less asking for advice and just getting some shit off my mind. The experience I went through now makes me really regret when I ghosted someone a few years ago.
Pretty much I dated a girl for about 3 months, so nothing super serious but I did love her. One morning I wake up find a two sentence text from her saying that she didn't want to be in a relationship anymore and that it wasn't my fault and that she just realized she didn't want to date anybody because she felt confined. Of course I was broken up, especially because I was still super confused because I hadn't noticed any signs. This was the first of many bad things to come since that happened. She said that she wanted to stay friends and I was fine with that, considering I still really appreciated her company because I kind-of don't have that many friends that I hang out with after school. A few months go by and I'm not really surprised that we don't hang out because it was summer and we're both pretty busy. Then school starts and shit got a lot worse. I tried meeting up with her during passing periods and stuff just to say hi because I hadn't seen her in a while but she kept avoiding me. I noticed that she didn't have lunch in the same area anymore because I ate near there. I felt pretty shitty that she was avoiding me especially because she was the one that said she still wanted to be friends. Everything got a lot worse just a few days ago. It was Friday evening and she was out with another person she had met at some summer program over the summer. I had asked some question (I can't really remember what it was) when I start getting weird texts from her. Apparently the guy she was with had her phone and was telling me "not to talk to his girl". I ofc thought this was some sort of joke, and he was just being an ass. Essentially I just blew it off. The next day at about 11 pm I'm lying in bed when I start to get a bunch of texts from some number I don't have added. I ask and it turns out it's the kid.
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He keeps saying to stay away from his girl. I tell him to chill and that she's just my friend and that she doesn't even want to date. He keeps bothering me saying that I'll see. I then try to snap the girl and ask her to talk to her friend. This is when I found out that she blocked me on everything. Snap, insta, twitter, and she wasn't responding to any texts. I was generally scared that this guy was some creep who stole her phone or something. I have two of my friends who are friends with her what the deal is. I then find out from both of them that she is actually dating this guy, and that she told him to bother me to stop talking to her. So essentially I realized in one sc of a chat that not only did she lie about not wanting to date, she started dating somebody else and didn't tell me and hid behind him so that I couldn't confront her
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>>18642589
Damn. That horrible dude.
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So this is kind of where I am at now. I sent her a text telling her I knew everything and that she was a horrible person for what she did. I told her that if she wants to talk it has to be irl but I doubt she's gonna even look at me anymore. It's just the shittiest feeling to have the last memory of somebody be 2 months ago when you where happy, and to know that now they that they lied to you and don't even want to talk. After talking with some other friends i've found out that I'm not the first. She has done this with friends, boyfriends, and all kinds of people. That brings me to the worst part of ghosting, you don't realize the feelings you've crushed because you never see that person again. It made me realize that the girl I did it to a few years ago must have felt the same way, and now I feel horrible because nobody should have that done to them. Now all I have is bad thoughts towards her, that she was a leech, that she never cared, even though they might not be true.
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What's a good antidepressant that won't give me heart palpitations or give me erectile dysfunction?
Every antidepressant I've taken so far
>celexa
>Zoloft
>Prozac
>remeron/mirtazapine
>lexapro
have all given me both issues at the same time. I need an antidepressant that won't ruin my quality of life whilst trying to improve my quality of life.
Thanks
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>>18642562
you wont find a perfect medication otherwise the others wouldn't exist.
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>>18642562
How do you get them? Do you just buy them or medical prescription?
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>>18642629
Prescription
>>18642602
I know there isn't, but I'm looking for ones that give low odds to both those specific side effects.