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I just left a job that was very hard work and didn't pay well.
It was 6 hours, and i was only paid 20+tips which was 5 dollars a day. i don't want to say exactly the work, it was very repetitive and fast, a lot of cleaning. I don't have a problem with hard work it was just the pay was below minimum wage.
But feel bad now because i the people were so nice, but i think they were nice because the job was so bad lol. When i left they gave a lot of money, more than what was owed for once that they forgot to pay me.
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So what do you need help with? Do you still have a connection to this place that you're trying to get rid of? Do you need help finding a new job?
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>>18462868
Don't feel bad, don't work for below min. wage.
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What count as a suicide attempt?
I will have an appointment with a therapist in a few weeks and I'm of sure if I should talk about the fact that I stopped eating for a couple of days hoping to die by means of vsed. I stopped when I realized is not painless as some people say, and those who do it are high on morphine. I wouldn't know what to say if the therapist asks about this.
I find it hard to talk about this kind of things in person, even if it is with a professional
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Well that sounds like an attempt to me. A halfassed, hardly thought trough, if at all, one, but still - an attempt. That was honestly some of the dumbest shit I've heard in a while, but I've done my fair share of dumb under the influence of depression, so who am I to judge.
Yeah, tell your therapist. He/she'll be way more gentle than me and will probably not mention your utter idiocy, but will be able to provide better help with more info.
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>>18462826
>suicide. 1: the act or an instance of taking one's own life voluntarily and intentionally.
>attempt. 1.make an effort to achieve or complete (something, typically a difficult task or action).
>I stopped eating for a couple of days hoping to die
hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
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>>18462893
>That was honestly some of the dumbest shit I've heard in a while
according to some books it was a fine method
I read Final Exit and the author recommended it. My reason was that it would look like death from eating disorder, thus it wouldn't hurt my relatives as an obvious suicide (gunshot for example)
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How to be assertive? (aggressive too) 2017-06-27 09:01:51 Post No.18462750
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How to be assertive? (aggressive too)
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Long story short my parents are very passive and naturally so am I.
I want to learn to be assertive, I know it is very different from being aggressive but either way I just don't want to be passive because I can see how it is negatively affecting my life.
Any tools for me to learn Assertion skills? I was thinking of joining a fight club to work on being aggressive but I want like assertive communication skills mainly.
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Coincidentally, I was in a job interview where one of the requirements was to be assertive as fuck. I'm not assertive (nor am I passive), and in that interview the interviewer was assertive as fuck. And I mean, AS FUCK.
Here is what I learned from the guy -
Be sharp. Don't sum it up to "Yes" or "No", but be definitive and don't beat around the bush.
Less mumbling and stuttering. It shows you're not calm and collected.
Don't let other step on you.
EYE CONTACT. Don't look sideways, you gotta look them in the eye.
Oh, and don't be a jerk. Assertiveness =\= being a douche
A girl is playing 21 questions with me after we've been talking for about a week now.
We're like on 16 questions now, I'm not looking for a hookup I really like this girl and she's told me she likes me too.
So is she just trying to get to know me better or?
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Keep going, that game is precisely to know each other better.
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Question: I'm in my mid 30s, I've been married and divorced, and I'm kinda done with the dating game. I think I'd like to try out the sugar daddy thing, have a hot young girl to have some fun with and throw her a little money, take her out, buy her nice things every now and then.
How do I go about finding this? I know about sites like seekingarrangements, but I don't want to have to post a picture of myself because if the wrong people saw it, it could be bad for me. Also, according to reviews I've read, it runs into a lot of the same issues as dating sites, where 90% of girls are messaging 10% of guys.
How do I got about meeting a girl in the 18-24 or so range and proposing setting up a sugar daddy sort of relationship? I'm really not sure how to go about this.
Pic unrelated.
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>>18462728
Go to /soc/ on here and look in one of the sugar daddy threads
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I will try to start quiting porn and reduce masturbation, anything i should know or /adv/ices?
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Occupy your time with something that doesn't involve your computer or phone.
Reading, biking, hiking, etc.
The busier you keep yourself, the easier it is to forget about the porn.
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i feel like it's so easy to forget about porn if you don't run into some kinda thing that entices you to wanna fap, i can usually just turn on nsfw filters and not go on nsfw boards and i don't even think about it
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The difference between these books? 2017-06-27 08:33:10 Post No.18462685
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The difference between these books?
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I asked this originally on /sci/ but they seem uninterested in answering it.
CGP GCSE Maths Edexcel Complete Revision & Practice - for the Grade 9-1 Course: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Maths-Edexcel-Complete-Revision-Practice/dp/1782944052/ref=sr_1_3?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1498592009&sr=1-3&keywords=gcse+edexcel+maths+9-1+higher
CGP GCSE Maths Edexcel Revision Guide - for the Grade 9-1 Course: https://www.amazon.co.uk/GCSE-Maths-Edexcel-Revision-Guide/dp/1782944044/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1498591836&sr=8-2&keywords=gcse+edexcel+maths+9-1+higher
Do they cut anything out in the complete version or is it exactly the same as the revision book but with extra stuff in?
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If you're a GCSE student you shouldn't be on 4chan. Also, use something like MyMaths to revise, these books won't do much help.
The best way to learn Maths is to do tonnes of questions, do past papers etc. Anyway, what are you asking for? I swear GCSEs are now finished?
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>>18462720
Retaking GCSE as an adult, trying to get into higher tier in September. I'll use the book and look at MyMaths as well, I prefer studying books than online.
Yes I know this, I want to get the Complete Revision & Practice one but I was asking if there is anything cut out from it? Or does it have every subject covered like the Revision Guide?
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>>18462771
My bad chum, I'm not sure because I did GCSEs a while ago now, I do know CGP are good books, it seems like one has questions the other is just explanation.
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I just messed around with my small toenail a bit and it partly detached.
There is blood everywhere.
What the fuck do I do now
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>>18462663
bandaid it. it'll likely grow back.
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>>18462683
thanks for the advice!
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What's wrong with scene girls like pic related?
They have thousands of followers on instagram and like minded friends (irl too), pretend to be nerdy by liking edgy twitter memes and get alot of attention in general.
Yet they behave like they are the biggest losers and the loneliest people.
Is it daddy issues? How does it develope like that and what does bipoler disorder have to do with them?
I feel like they are only pretending to be mentally ill.
Lastly, what am I in for if I would get into a relationship with one?
I've talking to one for a few days and she's being really weird when talking about personal issues. I'm pretty much a loser by r9k's standard so I thought she could relate to me but it's weird
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>>18462658
You answered your own question rather well, so trust those ideas.
As for this chick in particular,
maybe she doesn't want you to be a relatable 'loser' but instead a strong male character.
beware the deceptive side
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How do you make friends, as a typical 4chan autistic with no interest other than anime and vidya? pic unrelated
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by going to game stores, conventions, meetups, the manga section of the book store, etc.
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Assuming you don't have a job, find a place to work and socialize with the people there. Be yourself, don't mention video games and anime when first talking to them of course, but bring it up once you're acquainted and you will have like-minded friends in no time.
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get better interests, the universe and life is bigger than that, at least look around.
or hang out with people who are just interested in that and never change.
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Hey guys, I'm just working on a new let's play series for oblivion and wanted to know what I can improve on. It's been a while since I've uploaded anything and I just want to output higher quality content for people than the shit I was peddling out before, any constructive criticism is well appreciated, thanks. ep 1 - https://youtu.be/vyI0z0jftHc
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>lets play
What the point? I can understand watching something like speed running or pro gamers because then it cool to see a skilled play but just watching others play the game seems like a waste of time to me.
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>>18462580
Yeah I can understand that, my most popular content was covering lore in TES rather than just letsplays. I am still finding out what people would like to watch and want to stick to a variety channel rather than a let's play channel.
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>>18462601
then make lore content instead? Lets plays are the most boring and zero effort gaming content unless you act like an idiot to amuse childern(pewdiepie)
So i got till about end august to do whatever, nothing to do, open to git smath. Any suggestions?
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>>18462554
Similar situation. I got a part time job, and a few one off jobs just helping people out for some cash. Also hoping to do a few drugs (acid but might just have to be weed) and catching up with some old friends. Probably depends on your situation
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>>18462554
study for your next semester.
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Looks like I'm about to get my first job. I'm graduating uni in 2 weeks and the job is a decently paid financial analyst. I'm excited but also a bit unprepared.
I was about to take a driving exam so that I can buy myself a car... it would definitely be more comfortable to drive there, but I'm not sure whether I'll have enough free time to hone my driving skills and pass that exam (it's actually hard in my country) while working full time.
I also hope I'll be able to switch my time schedule so that I'm able to wake up early every day (I haven't had any uni classes in quite some time beside 1 once a week)
What do ?
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Sometimes life comes at you fast with multiple things at once. Its a bitch but you should be able to work through it. If you fail the driving exam just try again later. And as for the waking up early thing, nigger please.
Be happy that you have a decent paying job in your field right out of uni. I mean damn, thats hitting all the right notes.
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>>18462410
it's actually not quite in my field, only kinda related, but it still looks promising :D
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Learning with Depression 2017-06-27 06:14:47 Post No.18462390
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Whenever I mention that I built my own PC or I help someone do some very basic troubleshooting, people seem to look at me as if I'm a fucking genius. I hate it. Knowing the absolute basics of these excruciatingly simple "nerdy" things makes some people see me as smart. Except I can't even do high school algebra. I shouldn't have graduated. I am, by all means, a fucking idiot. I may have some potential but I can't do anything with it. Doesn't help that poor as shit.
I've taken a little Python course through a state-sponsored virtual school but I really didn't learn much through it. The teacher also just didn't give two fucks of a shit.
I'm 19 now and I STILL haven't learned much about programming. I know a little bit about web design as I took a course in high school but it really didn't help much. I have rudimentary Photoshop skills and that's it.
I've been interested in learning this stuff for years and years, since twelve years old. At that point I was probably a bit too young, but now I SHOULD be fully capable. I just don't want to fucking do anything. I don't even want to play vidya anymore, I don't even want to watch anime. I've started to hate porn and masturbating due to the harmful culture it seems to create. I would rather just die. I don't want to bother.
How can I stop this? I'm so sick of feeling dumb. I want to be smarter, I want to know all there is to know. I want to get further into programming and create things for my communities, I want to get further into graphic design except I can't draw. It's just so hard to find it within myself to actually start doing anything. I believe depression has legitimately wreaked havoc upon my cognitive abilities.
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just ignore those people. there are plenty of people who would consider me clever... i just smoke. llove smoking the herb
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You know, I started programming Ruby when I was 25. It was the best choice in my whole life. I'm not very good at math even though I have proper education. Web programming is waiting for you!
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>>18462390
There's a guy who does hilarious videos called You Suck At Photoshop. Keeps things interesting as you learn.
As for programming, I'd just lookup tutorial projects on YouTube.
Ya know how when you're bored you sit on your phone? Make learning your new bored time.
Also get some discipline by going to the gym every other day and forcing yourself to do shit regardless of how you feel. Make sure you're eating enough healthy foods, staying hydrated and getting sleep.
Elon Musk wrote his first videogame when he was 12 and sold it. The only difference between the two of you is you think he's a genius. If a 12 year old can make a videogame in the age of no internet then for sure you can.
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I am looking into ways of breaking up with a partner you are living up with without destroying their self-estem.
I am tired of a pointless relation, but I don't want to hurt her(as in I don't want her to get depressive but I don't love her)
Any suggestions? Specially from ladies, how would you consider a breakup to be fair and in good terms.
Some details.
26 yo, no kids, no common house/bank/car, no sex due to lack of real love, different mindsets completelly
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>>18462370
Just do it
There's no way to avoid it being ugly so just do it and get it over with, there's no point in hanging on
Most likely if she was in the same situation she wouldn't give a second of thought to how it would harm you before breaking up, so just do it
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my brother was in a relationship like that for like 3 years he just got out of. he just told her straight up he didn't think it was working. then she begged and cried for a second chance (like on his front lawn bawling) so he gave her a second chance and things were good for like 3 days but when he was at work one day she went to his house, took all the furniture and even stuff like paper towels and toilet paper, gave all his shit away on facebook, and accused him of cheating on her with his ex from over 4 years ago who doesn't even live in this state anymore.
I would tell her its not working and be sure to help her move her things.
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>>18462371
I am gonna do it. But it would be nicer to soften it rather than telling her, I just don't like you anymore. If you know what I mean.
>>18462372
that is my plan more or less, help her move so we end up good. she isn't a psycho like your brother's