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I'm losing my mind here. I need to move towns and go somewhere new.

I have to be able to drive there.

There has to be G/W/S

There has to be some form of work.

where do I
>go

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>3 months unemployed
>no fucking luck what so ever getting interviews
>Suddenly get interviews
>In one week I get a an in-person interview at place A, Place B which I thought wouldn't call back asks for a second interview, and a place C emails and asks for a phone interview a week after.

This is my first chance at a BIG BOY job. Each job has various pros and cons, but place B is the one I really want. I had a quick interview with 4 different people last week. I thought they all went really well.

I have a feeling that the holiday weekend will slow things down.

How do you handle if you have multiple offers? I'd really like to hold out for one of the places as it's a good fit, more stable, and located near family and gf.

If I get an offer that isn't for the one I really want, is it okay to tell another potential employer that you have an offer and ask what kind of time frame they can make a decision in?

I would take any of the jobs if it was my only choice as they would all drastically improve my life. I don't want to lose a job offer though.

I've never had a stroke of luck like this before and I don't want to fuck up what will determine basically my future for at least the next 2-3 years.

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I don't always post here but I need some advise.
I tried to ask around but I guess this is the only place left.

So my mom all of a sudden wants to watch all the episodes of Evangelion.

She also told me to put this song as her ringtong when I am calling her.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oIscL-Bjsq4

what to do

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Hey adv,
So I'm 18 and just moved out on my own. I got a job offer and it paid well so i took it, only problem is it is pretty far from home. I miss my parents and just having friends so much, and the town I now live on is on the small side so its super groupy and everyone is in their own world. I'm not asking how to meet people or anything, but just hoping for some tips to make things a little less depressing. I am really lonely.

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Hey /adv/, don't really pass by here too often so I'm not too sure if this goes here but I got some questions.
I'm looking to join the Navy as a Damage Controlman to have the experience/training for when I get out, to get a job, hopefully, as a fireman. I'm just looking to avoid college, in all honesty, I want to get to work now.
Has anybody in the navy? What was your experience like and what can you tell me about what you did after your experience?

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So, my mom's boyfriend went to the department of state and basically said that my mom took my little sister without consent, is she fucked?

Here's a little info
>He knew they were leaving the country, and even dropped them off at the airport
>Mom said that they were going on a vacation, but did not say how long of a vacation
>He has pulled a gun on a previous gf

Any answers?

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>female friend
>ex relationship
>still very close friends
>interested in some guy she met online too far away to ever happen realistically
>downright in the deepest throes of love for him
>but not together
>I know she has feelings for me still too
>wanted to spend the day with me and stay the night at my house while I'm at work (night shifts)
>agree, but wanna try and impress her
>look good, smell good, clean everything
>we spend the day together having fun and she's impressed with how I look, keeps shit testing me trying to make me jealous
>I either laugh about it or reveal her attempts to get me jealous in a humorous, physical way.
>stay confident, teasing and flirt when I feel like she's earned it

>We end up back home later in the evening, we end up chilling in my bed and doing some goofy question thing
>She says she wants us to get back together probably as much as I do, then anxiousky verifies I do.
>But can't because she is at the peak of love for this other guy, it wouldn't feel right to her no matter how unrealistic she knows it is
>We end up playing some mobile games together, she asks me to read to her and cuddles against me
>She asks if I want to make out and see where it goes
>I think we should
>Long pause
>"No we can't"
>It gets late and I get ready for work, I have a few minutes left over and she says we should cuddle
>we get very close and end up just looking each other straight in the eyes
>Tell her we really should kiss, long pause, she goes for cheek I go for mouth
>She shakes her head no but still smiles, I kiss her on the cheek as she snuggles in closer
>alarm goes off, time for me to go

So wtf is going on here with my ex?

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Who would be able to help me find a way to transport an $85,000 piece of art? Like, where do I go? It's what it was last appraised at.

I'm not planning on selling it... I inherited it. I just don't know who can help maintain it and put it in a safe place. Pic not related.

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Any industrial engineerings ? I just went to orientation last week and noticed that the interest in industrial engineering was very low in comparison to the more flashier mechanical and civil engineering. Please tell me there's some hope in my field

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So I've had a lot of shitty relationships and have finally found a girl who I really get along well with. She is beautiful, intelligent, funny and into all the same things as me. The only catch is she has agoraphobia (fear of leaving her house). I want to build a life with this person but her condition will no doubt result in a lot of problems down the line, things I can't even think of right now. What would you guys (or gals) do in this situation?

Pic related, she looks kind of like Moon Bloodgood (possible vampire).

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long story short, I have been with this girl for a year now. She cheated on me when we first got together but I stayed with her because I wasn't super attached and I didn't think it would hurt me later on (I was also just an 17 year old who wanted pu$$y). It was going good for a while, and I was in love with her but I was never sure if it was right. As time went on, we started fighting a lot and I started to miss the feels I used to have around her but they were gone. One night, I was hanging out with a good friend of mine and we decided to get high. We were sitting in her car and I felt the most tremendous feeling and tried to kiss her. It was a stupid idea. I immediately regretted it and told my girlfriend and after a couple of months we are okay again.

The weird part of all of this is that I cant stop thinking about my friend (we arent really friends anymore). We were really good friends, we had a lot in common, and that night when I looked into her eyes when I almost kissed her I had never felt more in love..

I don't know what do to

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Whenever I think about my spectacular failure in life and in uni and my deteriorating mental health I get massive panick attacks and sometimes psychosis lasting 40 minutes-2 hours, severely impacting my will to seek help. To stay stable I delude myself into believing everything is fine and all my problems will just dissappear, so long as I don't accept any evidence that would contradict the fantasy I've created. How do I escape this vicious cycle?

Just know I was arguing with my mother over the phone about not seeking help and it triggered massive anxiety combined with feeling a hand on my shoulder, the presence of people surrounding me, incoherent thoughts, and voices coming from the ceiling fan.

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Hello everyone

I'm about to do some important exams and stuff to actually get a job later on.

I'll probably have to study all day long and I have 2 options:

1) Stay at home and do nothing but read

2) Go to school and read at the library

I don't want to go to my school's library because its full of people I don't really like (long story)

So I don't know what to do, I feel I'm going to go crazy in the next few months or so if I stay home.

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So I somehow fell in love with a girl at first sight. I don't know why but it's the second time that this happened to me. I don't fall in love that often, the last time was like 7 years ago, so it's a big deal to me. The problem is that I became friends with her and I don't want to have feelings for her. I just can't imagine being in a relationship with her. This shit is bothering me for two months now.

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I'm trying to get to sleep as soon as possible. I have an interview tomorrow and I need to wake up at 6 am. I have been going to sleep at around 2 am for the last few nights and now when I need to go to bed early I can't sleep. Do you have any advice for me, this interview is really important?
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