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OCD
I'm pretty lost with my OCD, I think this only goes downhill from here.
My OCD is related to body functions, in my case peeing.
I've read a lot about it online and consulted many psychologist/psychiatrists to no avail.
I wonder if anyone here in 4chan also has this kind of problem with longass drives or sitting in a lecture or something would make u to feel like you need to pee really bad although you don't need to/just went 5 minutes ago.
Seriously I doubt if I can have normal life with this shit, I barely finished highschool because of this cuz I couldn't sit in class.
I can be at work or at home without this constant thought running in my head but as soon as I am in a place where I know I might not be able to go to the bathroom I get stressed and feel like I'm gonna pee my pants even though this hasn't even happened to me once.
What are the odds someone else over here has this same thing going? How do I cope with this knowing it limits me to almost anything in this world?! What the fuck do I do? I feel so hopeless
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Sounds like anxiety. Idk man go see a doctor.
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I spend months trying to find a psychologist that takes my insurance. I finally find one, and they tell me there is a waiting list of 3 months, AND they won't put me on it because I told them I have alcohol problems. They referred me to some addiction recovery place and I'm worried I won't get adequate mental help there. It's not like alcohol is my only problem so why would they treat it that way?
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>have to wake up at 4am to get to work tomorrow
>its 12:30, can't fucking sleep
In situations like this, is it better to try and get sleep or should I just wait it out?
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>>18464104
Try to sleep. Even if You don;t actually fall asleep you will keep your body inactive.
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>>18464104
Any sleep is better than no sleep.
If anything, you will find it easier to fall asleep the next night, given you aren't up all night browsing the internet.
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>32, f, NJ, on SSI, section 8, and food stamps for past ten years because disabilities
>Gov looking to kick me off in 2.5 yr; never had a real job--probably won't get hired anywhere
>in a relationship for 3.5 yrs.
>second yr of relationship, bf moved to Japan to teach esl
>was miserable w/out me and came back after a yr.
>thanks to rich father, I was able to spend 3 months out of the year w/ him in Japan (normally he never gives me money, thus my poor and benefitted ass)
>Landed an under the table job in Japan during the time doing illustration work for a company
>company couldn't actually hire me with a work visa bc I don't have a college education/degree
>currently bf proposed marriage and me getting a dependent visa and going with him back to Japan
>would obviously lose all Gov assistance and housing
>completely sick of this life, but have no self confidence and afraid he will get sick of me after a while. Would be totally screwed and homeless then if a divorce happened and I had to come back to the US... But may just be screwed and homeless anyway in 2.5 yrs if gov decides to kick me off "benefits"
Do I leave everything, or stay in my somewhat safety net? No friends either btw, because I have a pattern of people leaving me in my life.
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>all this shit life
>still have boyfriend who wants to marry her
Anybody who claims girls dont have life on easy mode (at least in dating scene) is idiot.
My advice for you is to cling to your bf, marry him and keep him happy husband no matter what so you dont end up homeless. Tips for happy husband
>inflate his ego directly
You have such big cock.
>indirectly
Praise him for whatever he does. Make him feel proud.
>have sex or at least handjob each day before sleep/work
>learn to cook
Marry him. Have babies so he cant run away.
>get sick of me after a while
Do what i told you and get rid of this insecure mindset. Support him, never question his love to you and with a bit of luck you will at least have provider.
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>>18464096
Jesus Christ bitch do you not have any motivation? If, if, if. Ya what if, who gives a fuck. Get off your lazy ass and do something for once in your worthless life. Holy shit if you didn't have the government wiping your ass. Would you just lay down and die. Your fucking pathetic. Is that what you want to be? Or do you want to be something. Decide!
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>>18464357
This is a bad idea, depending on the govt. or another person for support is always a bad choice. You want to invest something in yourself OP because your benefits can get fucked up over something as simple as a minor clerical error. You're lucky enough to have had an under the table job in Japan but it's not guaranteed, stable income. Maybe for the next 2 years you should get an under the table job in the US, until you get kicked off, THEN go there with the money you saved and you've got somewhat of a safety net until you find something on the books. Put off marriage until your finances are secure.
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I need a burner phone to give to my married GF. Her SO has a habit of rummaging through her phone when she's asleep. What's /adv/'s suggestions? It need only send and receive texts, and make calls.
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>>18464040
new nokia 3310
But the sole fact that she needs to keep secrets from her husband and cheat on him with you means you both deserved to be round at wall and shot.
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>>18464040
Just go to one of the small turk shops and ask for the cheapest one, that's there's to it
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friend has a crush on me 2017-06-28 06:20:27 Post No.18463998
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so ive been in a relationship with my bf for several years and we couldnt be closer. a few months ago i met this girl and became friends, but she told me a month or two ago that she loves me. the problem is that i still want to be friends with her, but i wont let anyone come between my bf and i. i havent talked to her since she told me because i didnt want to lead her on, and she has a different major, so we don't share any classes, but im starting to feel a little guilty. should i just keep ghosting her, or do something else?
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You should never ghost anyone in my opinion. You should instead give her the option to be friends with you or to ghost herself out. Tell her it's not mutual instead of being a bitch and ghosting her.
fucking people who ghost people S M H. It hurts more than being rejected.
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>>18463998
As someone who has been on the other side of this, my advice is this: be firm and honest, and tell her the truth about your situation and your bf. Don't be mean or rude, but make it crystal clear that it can't happen. Tell her that you'd like to remain friends, but romance isn't an option. If she decides not to talk with you for a few weeks, don't blame her, she's probably just trying to get through rejection. She'll return and talk with you again later with a clear head.
I was romantically rejected by someone a long while ago, and yet we're still close friends.
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Dykes are bad news, woman. But you already knew that.
I'd like to tell you to politely reject her; but being a lesbian, the bitch may or may not leave you alone if you're not stern.
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How do you act nice to people without thinking you're flirting with them?
Pic related. I very frequently get compared to Chris Pratt. I had a bad phase where I got out of shape, like he did, too. But when I'm just talking to girls and being friendly, they assume I'm interested, and then start messaging me later.. I just want to make friends. Same thing happens for attractive girls I know, like any that like comics or games.
What am I doing wrong? How do I show that I just want to be friends? I don't want to give the wrong signal, and I keep doing it.
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Message them back, anon. Just try to shy away from any "Do you love me?" style texts. Avoid any romantic conversation. Make it look like you're not interested without being an asshole.
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When attractive people are nice, it always seems as if they are interested. There is no helping it.
Boys and girls alike.
The only advice I can give is give less compliments.
"Hey anon, I feel ugly"
instead of replying "No you're not, you look great", reply with "If you do, work on what you feel that doesn't look good." encourage self improvement with a vibe of 'yeah you're not my type, and you should improve yourself' but in a nice friendly way that shows you want to help, but only in a friendly way.
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I think I'm being ghosted/forgotten or something... should I just cut to the chase and unadd them from my friendslists?
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Yes.
The sooner you move on and forget them, the better.
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greentext for brevity
> fuck being a waiter
> go back to college
> graduate 2 year
> transfer to college A
> college A doesn't accept all the 2 year's transfers
> extra semester, woo!
> fuck being a graphic designer
> change majors
> college A would basically restart me for 6-8 semesters for new major
> fuck that
> transfer to college B
> college B swears I can graduate in 2 semesters
> cut to two semesters later
> artificially extended bc A: adviser didn't sign me up for online courses semester 1 even though they would've been necessary, and B: the college only lets you take two online courses per term.
> can now, maybe, graduate in two more semesters
> I've taken online courses at this college
> I suck at online courses
> college is a reset college so my gpa is now a 2.0 thanks to those online courses
> all 7 courses I have left are online
> college B kicks you out if you go below 2.0
> talk to college C
> some of the 2-year may not transfer
> they're only offering night courses for the next year for this course because of some weird alternating schedule thing they do
> may have some night courses; would still include several online courses
> I'm running out of savings and will deffinatley need a job by at least the end of the year (when I understood I was going to be graduating, but silly me, right?)
Option A: Basically have 9am - 9pm days for eight months, working and doing night courses at college C, which will probably include more online
Option B: Get a job and do two online courses/term(which I sucked at w/out a job tiring me out/eating my time) and graduate in May
Option C: Get a job and do one online course/term and graduate in May of 2019.
Option D: Drop out and just get a job.
I'm thinking D, and then just come back and start rounding it out after I'm stable; get a real, full-time job like at a bank or a library or something.
I'll have to start paying off the loans with C or D regardless.
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MTFU and do option A time is your most precious resource
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Asking about a job that doesn't exist 2017-06-28 05:13:55 Post No.18463876
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Asking about a job that doesn't exist
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I am halfway through my graduate studies and I'm currently starting to put feelers out for places to settle. Part of this involves job searching, but since it will be at least a year until I finish schooling, I don't want to just spam out applications for jobs right now.
I would like to contact the offices of organizations in my field basically introducing myself and putting my name out there for possible employment once I graduate. Kinda get a sense of what their office does specifically to see how well my own skills would match up and if I would be an asset.
However, I don't really have a clue as to how to do this. Any suggestions?
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Are there networking events for the industry of your interest on campus? You should look into those since cold-calling can be kind of awkward.
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It's been like ten months since I had sex and that was with my girlfriend who was pretty serious at the time. The breakup was bad and I'm not looking for another relationship because I throw myself into them too much. However I also feel empty and sad and long for human affection. I just got into a situation where I could possibly be fucking but this girl's trouble and I don't want to get attached and whipped because of it.
Basically two questions, what are some methods to not feel so empty and hopeless all the time, and how do I approach this so that I don't get attached to this girl?
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>How do I not get attached to girls?
You just don't.
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>>18463825
>I just got into a situation where I could possibly be fucking but this girl's trouble and I don't want to get attached and whipped because of it.
>attached and whipped
you were me up until this point. here's your problem, when a woman won't act right you kick the bitch out, compartmentalize the feels and quash them. ain't nobody got time for all that shit. I have too much I need to get done.
being attached is fine. not being able to detach yourself when it ends is a problem. me, I've got it down to a 3 day grieving process and then a few months of being uncomfortable with the changes in day to day life while not
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>three day grieving process
could you give a rough outline?
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Damn /adv/, I got lucky, met a girl on Okcupid. Took her out and had food, and even though she told me not to make any moves, we ended up back at my house with my fingers in her pussy and her begging me to fuck her after cuddling and making out for hours. We didn't because I want to work up to it, and she said she appreciated that.
Like, I can't believe it, this shit doesn't happen to me. I bought some condoms, she's coming over tomorrow. I really like this girl, she's super cute, sweet, and I'd love to be with her. We're looking for the same things in a relationship.
How do I keep this awesome shit going? Just keep having fun and fuck her like crazy tomorrow?
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Shoulda boned her when she was beggin for it
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>>18463810
Hey July.
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>>18463835
Um?
>>18463833
Hopefully gonna fuck her tomorrow
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My cat is dying. Granted, he's only about 11 years old, but that seems to be enough. I want his last days here to be nice...we've been feeding his canned wet food, and I let him sleep on my bed at night (even though he's picked up the habit of pissing on my laundry). We pet him a lot, but he still wheezes and cough all the time. He's due for one last shot soon, but does anyone have any ideas on how to distract him from all the pain he must be going through until then?
Pic very related.
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Here's another picture of Spaz.
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Beautiful cat OP. Put on some of your favourite movies and just sit with him while you both relax and watch TV. He'll find it warm and comfortable to be by his owner with some background noise on.
God speed Spaz.
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Poor thing :(
I'm a 25-year-old virgin, and there's a fat girl that wants to fuck, but I'm not really attracted to her.
I've gotten sucked and jacked before but never penetrated vaj.
I've been improving myself a lot lately, and I think I might be modestly decent looking after losing like 100 pounds, and I've been talking to some actual cuties on bumble/tinder/okc but haven't really bedded any of them.
Should I fuck the fat and get it over with?
Something in me wants to wait, but I don't know why.
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>>18463760
Well, I've never seen someone say "Gee I wish I'd lost my virginity sooner!" so there's that. Also, for some people, sex is just sex, but for lots of people, there's other stuff going on besides the sex, even if they aren't consciously aware of it
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>>18463760
Obviously you should fuck her. What are you waiting for?
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So I Just may Be Manic..or.. 2017-06-28 03:49:09 Post No.18463742
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So I Just may Be Manic..or..
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So i here messages in music?
It's been going on for a while.
Comes and goes.
They, the bands seem to have distinct messages, tell me what im doing wrong, how i need to hold on, devil trying to steal my soul.
>That kinda stuff
I feel up lifted alot of times, they say im on my way upwards, basically.
Other times, its that satan guy only looking for me to sell my soul.
Telling me of the things i'll receive if i only give that up.
Not every message is directed at me, just like not every convo you hear is directed at you.
>I try to logically think about it through.
i know it doesnt make sense, but the music makes sense to me??!?
Im honestly pretty lost at this point.
Cant stop drinking, getting pretty damn parinoid.
I dont wanna even post this is fear of it not being anon, and being linked back to me.
This is the fourth time ive seeked help, so please offer any advice?
Im growing weary of all this.
I havent even begun to explain whats going on in this noggin of mine,
>Help, Please?
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>>18463742
"most" of the time from my experience when people are truly going under mentally they cannot even recognize it. The fact that you are worried about it is a good sign
a lot of the time I just get the urge to really, really awful shit to people. like throwing water in there face or just hitting them. I can recognize that I have the intrusive thoughts but there nothing more than that. its just very frustrating
but like you've heard a thousand times on /adv/ don't take advice from us as absolute truth. if it gets really bad talk to a psychologist.
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>>18463742
So you think the bands are singing about you?
That's some top tier narcissism anon
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>>18463748
Well, havent reaaly explained it correctly, but i believe it mostly, with some little contempt.
Some doubt.
Im really seeing if someone could prove me wrong?
There is something off, i know that 100%.
Whether its me or the outside world?
>Fuck if i know
>>18463749
If what i feel is even remotely real, that would make you not real. Take them apples, HA!
But really, if im mentally not all there, you proud of yourself for kicking me while im down?
I'm scared anon, and youre not helping but confirming some facts.